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sparkpuplikesdrawing · 2 years

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Big Ol' Post About Proshipping, Problematic Shipping, And Antis

Being a proshipper and being a problematic shipper are in no way the same things. Antis, a message to y'all about how you guys need to chill, please. Proshippers? Thanks for being cool people.

Proship basically means "Ship and let ship". You're cool with people shipping whatever, and wait wait wait, here's the really cool part:

IT IS ALLOWED TO MAKE YOU UNCOMFORTABLE. You heard that right. You can see someone make a Madrigalcest post and it makes you feel weird as hell but you don't do anything about it. Being a proshipper just means that you are respectful of other peoples likes and interests and opinions.

Being a problematic shipper means that you, well, as the name implies, ship problematic things. This is normally what people think of when you say "Proshipper", but they are different things.

It's kinda best put in the way that saying goes;

"A square is always a rectangle, but a rectangle isn't always a square."

A problematic shipper is most always gonna turn out to be a proshipper, but not all proshippers are problematic shippers.

Antis. A message for you guys. I will say this respectfully, because I don't wanna argue and fight, please.

Y'all, you're too aggressive. Like, worse than politics aggressive. It makes a lot of us feel very uncomfortable and hurt for you to suicide bait us or insult us, because these are our opinions. Regardless of how we react, we are still probably gonna feel hurt by it.

Please remember the ✨Golden Rule✨

Treat others the way you want to be treated.

I am not telling you that you aren't allowed to hate us. I don't wanna say that I'm encouraging it, but y'all can hate us all you want. But please keep it to yourselves.

What do you think is worse: a 10-yr-old seeing a post about how it's okay to ship Warnercest, or a post where someone is saying, "Go kill yourself, you fucking disgusting piece of shit scum of the Earth 💖 You are a piece of fucking trash and the worlds better off without you"?

Dudes.

It's not okay.

I would like to offer you some non-aggressive, more peaceful options for this.

DM the proshipper/problematic shipper and ask them politely to block you so that you cannot ever see their posts.

Block blogs you know are proship positive.

Make sure you don't follow and tags like "Proship" or "Proshipper"

As far as I'm aware, there is a feature on here where you can block certain tags. Use this feature, please. Some tags I would recommend starting off with are: Proship, Proshipper, Proship Positive, Incest, Incest tw, Pedophile, Pedophilic, Pedophile tw. Feel free to do things as well like blocking the names of specific ships you don't like.

Consider what you're sending/typing before you post it or send it.

Don't actively pursue proship blogs. Don't go out of your way just to be a shitty person to someone else.

I want to say this, antis, before you think I'm out to get you:

I AGREE. INCEST AND PEDOPHILIA AND THOSE THINGS ARE HORRIBLE. THEY ARE ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTING IN REAL LIFE. IN. REAL. LIFE.

You can find them disgusting in media, too. That's your right as a human. That's fine.

And if you've ever been in a grooming situation or been raped by someone, I am so fucking sorry that happened to you. You have gone through horrible experiences that I can only imagine. You have every single fucking right to hate every single problematic shipper and ship out there. I am telling you right now: HATE US. HATE US WITH EVERY SINGLE ATOM IN YOUR BODY. DO IT IF YOU WANT. But please, why would you actively pursue someone who shows those things? Those could bring back horrible memories. Just block the tags, the people, ask them to block you so you don't have to see it.

Trying to get rid of every problematic thing on the internet is impossible. LITERALLY. IMPOSSIBLE. Because for every post you report, there's 10 more of the same sort of thing.

But please. Let me say this: Even if you got rid of every problematic thing on the web, there's still the entire world, which is a hell of a lot more difficult to control than the internet. Blocking all of those problematic posts isn't going to stop the person from liking the problematic things. Getting rid of problematic media isn't going to stop someone from grooming a child or raping someone way younger than them. Problematic media spawned from problematic stuff in real life. You guys are attacking a branch, when the root is still thriving. And maybe if the root is killed, the branch will die. Or maybe it'll still exist. But I would think I'd rather live in a world where people ship problematic things in media than a world where people deal with those things in real life.

Proshippers, thank every single one of you for being cool people and respecting other's opinions. I don't know what else to say. Just, thanks, y'all.

I hope that somebody, maybe even some anti, will see this and think about what I said.

Thanks for taking the time to read all of this, everyone. Have a good day/night.

#Sparkpup Posts #Proship #Proshipper #Proship Positivity

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thisismisogynoir · 2 years

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My Encanto Iceberg!

Top Tier:

* Isabela “Material Girl”

* Encanto books

* Isabela is gay.

* Camilo is genderfluid

* Camilo is a theatre kid!

Second Tier:

* Character name misspellings

* Bruno is Mirabel’s dad AU

* People who think that Camilo is younger than Mirabel for some reason

* Mariano the Himbo

* Generational Trauma

* Whitewashing characters in fanart

Third Tier:

* Punk-rock Isabela

* Camilo’s Interlude

* “The Madrigals Swap Powers For a Day” AUs

* Chaos twins

* Female character villainization

* Camilo plays soccer.

* What if Mirabel died when the Casita crumbled?

Fourth Tier:

* Sexualization of/simping over Camilo in the fanbase

* Camilo and Bruno overhyped when there are strong female protagonists RIGHT THERE!!!

* Dolores lied about the “five babies” line.

* Luisa’s pink unicorn room

* Dolores and Isabela’s “I’m fine”s

Fifth Tier:

* Isabela and Dolores are close.

* Original characters’ names

* (Yandere) Character x reader fics

* Madrigalcest

* Mirabel is Abuela’s successor and thus didn’t get a gift.

Sixth Tier:

* “It looks like rain.” vs “You’re very sweaty.”

* How everyone got their gifts

* Encanto modern AU

* Isabela’s Japanese VA is Aya Hirano!

Seventh Tier:

* What everyone’s rooms look like

* Camilo steals Dolores’ and Isabela’s makeup kits.

* Camilo’s vanity/trinket box

* Camilo and Dolores are Kaminari and Toga respectively.

Bottom Tier:

* Lin Manuel Miranda wants to make a sequel starring Dolores!

* Camilo’s higher register in the end of WDTAB

* Isabela and Dolores used to dress up as each other when they were kids.

Obviously some of these are my own personal headcanons. Please don’t attack me for them. I am entitled to them, just as you are entitled to yours.

If you have any other Encanto theories, fanfics, AUs and headcanons that you think I should know about, then let me know! I...probably won’t put them on the iceberg, though. I’m too lazy for that.

Take care!

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