It's pretty hypocritical of you to condemn so called "panphobia" when people share easily proven information about pansexualities origins as a disturbing Fruedian term involving sex with animals, plants, kids, and the dead. Yet you accept and even spread biphobia, misinformation, and bi-erasure on your blog that bisexual activists have been debunking and fighting against for like sixty years now. What an ignorant, privileged asshole you are to do so yet call other bisexuals named for not being cool with terms that have been proven to harmful to the bisexual community.
Funny how you come into the asks of someone who has probably identified as bisexual longer than you have babe
I have been out as bi since 2012. I only have a handful of friends who aren't bisexual. BOTH my partners are bisexual. My mother's bisexual too. You might think I'm joking or exaggerating, but I'm not. I was like 8 when I realized bisexual wasn't the "default" sexuality and that my dad wasn't "the weird one" for being straight.
I have been there, done that, with the highschool pan exclusion phase. You must be so angry at the world and desperate for an outlet, because that's what I hear when I read this ask. Anger, barely contained. Anger at yourself for being how you are, anger at the world for trwating you how it does, anger at the LGBTQ+ community because you likely feel bisexuals are excluded and erased from gay pride (and you're right about that, but only that.)
Taking it out on another marginalized group of people isn't the answer love. Pushing away other mspec people isn't going to bring you a safe space, inclusion, peace or respect from monosexuals. Like, do you not realize you're railing against one of the only groups of people who would understand our struggles as bisexuals?
I also think it's quite hilarious and, frankly, fucking offensive that you want to tell me I'm contributing to bisexual erasure when I purposefully make a point to center my blog around bisexuals, transmascs, cripples and indigenous issues... Because I am those things. I am a part of those demographics. How's the inside of your ass smell, anon? Since you like sticking your head right up there so much.
Bisexual used to have different meaning too, in fact! Occasionally, you still see people using it this way, even. Bisexual USED to mean something that exhibits both male and female characteristics... Meaning, it was a term originally used to describe people we now know as intersex. However, most people don't use it this way since in the later 1800s and early 1900s we began to see it in reference to a person's sexuality.
I'm not here for this pan exclusion shit and I'm not here for u acting like because a word had a different meaning over two hundred years ago it's justification to abuse queer people. Because it's abuse, bullying people online isn't any less abusive just because you aren't doing it to their face and can't clearly see the emotional effect you are having on someone.
Fuck off, go away, really ask yourself if you want this hate and anger to consume you like this or if there's a more constructive outlet for that anger, like linking arms with your fellow queers and shouting down all the cishets and bigots who don't want us to exist. Maybe throw a brick or two, as a treat!🥰
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Am I the problem?
I have been meaning to post about this for a while, but i havent had a way to articulate it properly. My main questions is; does anyone else in the lgbtqia+ community use sexuality/gender labels as their own interpretations?
You see I identify as a pansexual non binary person, as I feel, that personally my interpretation of pansexuality fits into my gender identity ie pansexual = attraction void of gender and non binary = personally void of gender. Though this is not exactly the correct description of the sexuality, it is how i identify with it. And i fully understand how pansexual and bisexual are the same yet different to each community.
I'm talking about this as i have been in an argument (if you could call it that), with another lgbtqia+ person in my life over my identity. Essentially they told me i couldn't identify with pansexual as it is and i quote "a biphobic identify and promotes the exclusion of bisexual and trans and non binary people". After this i told them that, even though i am pan, i mainly say i am queer to people i don't know well, and they replied with "thats a slur not an identity". Even after explaining my way of thinking about gender/sexuality, they proceeded to say that "people like me are the reason the rest of the community are ridiculed".
This is when i stopped replying. Although their last statement is certainly laughable, I can't help but feel insecure about my sexuality again. I know i shouldn't have to explain my identity to anyone but it just makes me feel shitty. I have talked to my close lgbtqia friends about this and they told me not to worry about it. They understand how i identify and its not as if i don't know how "problematic" the term pansexual has been in the past. This isnt the firts time i have come across a person who wants to argue over my identity but usually they are not part of the lgbtqia community. I just feel shitty over this and want to know what others think.
TL;DR : I was discussing my interpretation of my sexuality (nonbinary pansexual-queer) with another member of the community and was called biphobic, transphobic, and the reason why lgbtqia people are ridiculed.
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