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craycraybluejay · 6 months

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You know how a pretty obvious majority of kinksters are submissives? You want to know a big part of the reason why it's hard to find a dom that's into the same hard kink you are?

Ask a hardcore masochist what they think of being whipped.

Then ask a hard sadist what they think of whipping someone.

Do you notice that the sadist/dom will often either dance around an answer or try to use soothing language/euphemism not unlike the way how in many places people are still expected to discuss sex if at all. Gentle, calculated language.

The issue is, especially with a new surge of purity culture overtaking so-called "leftist" online circles, is that fantasy becomes a moral judgement.

Sub with a noncon kink: "I want to be raped" (cnc but like. People can talk ab it how they want don't cancel me fr.)

Response from Normies: "well that's weird and kinda dark but ok"

Dom with a noncon kink: "I want to rape"

Response from Normies: "I'm calling the police and you should kys and you're also a sexual abuser and even though you haven't said anything about kids you're also also a pedophile :)"

Not only does the attitude of murderous hatred against doms/tops with hard kinks/fetishes/paraphilias make it difficult for them to practice those kinks (safely and ethically) out of fear of social backlash if it's ever found out even if both they and their partner[s] had a great time and are fine-- but, it actively puts innocent people in danger by equating thoughts and attractions of ANY KIND to the act of hurting others against their will. It equates fantasy, which can oftentimes be played out safely if in a modified way with real harmful actions.

Also, kink is still illegal in many places, so don't "its illegal" me about harder kinks. Law is not morality, none of us are free until all of us are free, etc. You get the gist.

You want to see more doms? Meet someone who can indulge your "scary badwrong" sexy feelings? Then maybe don't actively promote a culture where you put ANY kind of attraction or kink under fire. It doesn't matter if it'd be unethical to act out in real life. Some of the most common kinks worldwide are unethical as fuck to act out irl, including rape. That's why we have cnc, come on, guys.

You know what? In fact, you SHOULD actively shun people who shame others for their sexual feelings. EVEN if you think it's gross. EVEN if it wouldn't be ethical to act on irl. Let these types know that their puritan ideals are NOT accepted here. Let them know that if they want to go to church they can do that but not in your space, not forcing other (non consenting!) people to listen to their hateful and repressive ideology.

Like, hey, I'm not into ABDL, for example. But I will defend to the death other people's right to be into that. To think and feel whatever they think and feel. You think diapers are sexy? Great! I don't personally see the appeal, but you do you boo. There is no Correct Way to be sex/kink negative. Either you believe in thought crime or you don't.

And yes, this post includes "harmful" paraphilias (I put it in quotes because they're only harmful if acted on), sadomasochism, mutilation fetishism, etc etc. Every "gross" or "evil" kink, fetish, para you can possibly imagine. The stuff that makes you horny is just stuff that makes you horny, and being horny is normal. Being "weird horny" is also normal. No one deserves to experience shame, let alone public harassment or hate over feelings they most of the time don't Choose to have. Be mindful of puritan rhetoric and strike it down when you see it.

#important #psa #hard kink #nsft topic #pro para #pro kink #the 'dom shortage'#obv there are other factors but this is just a connection I'm pointing out #purity culture #purity wank #puritans #sex and sexuality #tw r@pe mention #p3d0 panic/the trend of calling everyone you don't like a p43d0phi13 despite that that's as i said before #NOT the same thing as csa or ANYTHING like that and simply an experienced attraction #attraction is not r@pe; foot fetishists r not going to randomly hump ur foot and same w ever other kink #thought crime #puritanism #the purity culture wave #discourse #except if you disagree pls block me this is a pro kink blog forever and ever #thoughts are thoughts #anti para people scare me bc if u think someone cant help but have sex with someone/something theyre attracted to...#what EXACTLY are you going to do if someone romantically rejects you????????????#turning the argument around here. if this is your belief then i do not trust you around me and my loved ones #because if attraction is action then i am scared for the people you are attracted to #because it isn't. and the fact that you think it is says more about you than anyone you hate for their attractions

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impotesmentis · 3 months

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eating her out!! (gnawing on her guts and snarling)

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dead-air-radio · 1 month

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Cutting all by yourself sweetheart?

#gore lover #cnc somno #cnc sub #cnc pet #cnc stalking #knife k!nk #erotophonophilia #murder kink #pro para #violence kink #gorewhore #tw blood #cw blood #blood kink #knifeplay #knife kink #autassasin #autassassinophilia

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para-normalcanine · 2 months

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Why are so many proshippers anti-para LMAO. "thought crimes dont exist unless you're a paraphile then your thoughts are disgusting and you're a freak" bro you aren't proship if thats your mentality 😭

#paraphiles please interact #pro paraphile #pro para #proshippers please interact #proship #comship #profic #profiction #tw ableist language #🥩#🍐#✅🚢#🐜👕

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astralnexus · 6 months

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"What freedom waits for you? A few dying ships in a sea of dead stars." | IRON LUNG - OFFICIAL TRAILER.

#iron lung #markiplier #paradox.gif #tw blood #flashing warning #para? making gifs? who am I?!#(in all seriousness though i am fucking HYPED)

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rqplushie · 2 months

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🐾 pettoism !! 🐾

🐶;; a fult/neoreligion based on living like an animal/pet!! (using things like food bowls, chew toys, dog beds, faux ears and tails, edible animal food and treats, etc!!)

🦴 ~ coined by me!

🧸 - requested by anon <3

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scrunkl3bunk1e · 3 months

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rb if your blog is not at all a safe space for these red flags

(image: dreamsexual, zoophilia, p3d0philia/maps, alt map)

#anti radqueer #anti para #paras fuck off #maps #dreamsexual #anti zoophile #tw zoophile mention #tw pedophila mention #pedophillia mention #radqueer unsafe #paraphile unsafe #(whoever the fuck is attracted to minors or animals; please note it's fucking illegal and terribly disgusting. fuck you; please change.)

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foxxfuxkerr · 3 months

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You're the prettiest corpse in all the morgue (romantic)

#pro para #pro paraphile #pro paraphilia #18+ only #minors dni #minors do not interact #not safe for minors #18+ account #18+ blog #tw necrophillia #necrophilism #nsft #actually necro

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animal-creature · 12 days

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"DNI: paraphiles" ah yes, excluding literally more than half of the population. If you do this you have no idea how common paraphilias are. And you probably think that the only paraphilias to exist are the big three. (Reminder that any kinks and fetishes are paraphilias too) No knowledge of the topic whatsoever

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dead-air-radio · 17 days

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Men who are cut up <33

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teratophillia · 2 months

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I feel like fucking a corpse today. Anyone volunteers?

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artemisasilvestre · 11 months

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#diario de una gorda #gorda #quiero ser flaca #tw ana diary #ana y mía #no comer #dietas para bajar de peso #bad vibes #calorias #tc4

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preachereater · 21 days

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i will be forever immortal once you upload that snuff video onto the dark web

#pro para #autoassassinophilia #snvff #tw necrophillia #dark web

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mil4nes4dzapll0 · 1 year

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alguien mas siente esa sensación de incomodidad con su cuerpo? tipo, es como si te asfixiara o que ocupas mucho espacio, y aparece en cualquier momento del diaaaa.

es una sensación muy rara y asquerosa a decir verdad

#ana y mia #anaymia #diario de una gorda #quiero ser flaca #no quiero ser gorda #bulim14 #bulimima #ed but not sheeran #tc4 #estoy para el tuje #tw ana shit #disordered eating #estoy gorda #tw disordered eating #tcaa

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