#tw: abuse mentioned

[bunny-is-cute]

Valentino always abused Angel because he could (or some contract bs) so why did he go after Husk?

Husk: I was dumb enough to fall into his trap…

Angel: It’s complicated and talking about only upsets us.

#ask husk #ask angel dust #hazbin hotel #fanfiction #fanfic #hazbits #husk #angel dust #HuskerDust #TW: Abuse mentioned #TW: Valentino

[maryshelleysbigdickenergy]

Like OK we all love saving astarion and being his emotional support for when he has Big Feelings and it's relatable and whatever but also

Where is my fic where 50 years later, people are like "oh my God I'm so sorry you had to use your body like that" and astarions like "lmao sharess wishes she had my body count"

Where is "wow you must struggle with the guilt of having done all those terrible things" "Well yes I used to, but then I realized it's not Evil if it's Sexy"

Where is "how can you ever escape your past" "actually me and my past are friends with benefits, I love fucking myself over"

Where's the part of healing where everyone else is more traumatized by your baggage than you are, because you've already unpacked it a thousand times, and it's pretty light these days?

Where's the part of healing where you joke about your dark past and the audience is aghast but you're like "no its cool, we already processed it" ?

Because trauma isn't fixed, it's managed, it's permanent, which means at some point it's just part of your body. It becomes a unique facet, not a dominating feature. It's a fun inside joke, even, with the right personality. And I want that representation.

I want to be represented in that I'm NOT ashamed, I'm NOT scared, and I'm NOT somber when it comes to my history of abuse. It's just part of the story, and I broke the cycle, and now I get to laugh at my life experiences because I choose that. I choose to enjoy my life, and as my past is part of my life, I choose to enjoy that, too.

I'd like to see that for Astarion. He'd have some great lines.

#tw: abuse mentions #tw: abuse mentioned #tw: abuse #astarion ancunin #bg3 #character development

[legendaryl0stpieces]

closed starter for: @wingsandahalo​​​ pairing: Riley Thompson & ?? plot: Just dealing with Riley’s messed up past. <33

Riley sat back at her desk, looking at her laptop in front of her. Taking off her glasses, she rubbed her eyes for a moment after setting them down. There was a small escaped that came from her lips. “The parole committee just emailed me, he’s going up for parole.” Her ex husband, the one that beat the shit out of her and fucked her up so badly that she could only have sex one way for awhile at least until them. Once they broke down her walls, and changed everything well Riley changed. That included how she felt about marriage which was why there was a ring on her finger now. “They want me to appear but I don’t know if I can. What do I do?” Usually she was more of the strong one, more of the cold hearted one. But right now she felt like that submissive that she had been and that was hard for her.

#threads;riley thompson #op:?? #totally secretly hoping that that cordy comes out of retirement #buttt i'll take whoever #<3333 #wingsandahalo #tw: abuse mentioned

[kyojin-daelko]

{+}// Fun Fact: Kyojin is very much touch starved and can be an affectionate guy, however-- he is also uncomfortable with being touched due to past abuse. Given his status as a personal knight to the queen of Paix Haven, he has somewhat become a little bit more tolerable to physical contact. The passing of a hand on/around his shoulder from comrades is a normality for him now; the same can't be said when it comes to other people-- especially if their touch lingers for too long and/or he is caught off guard. He has since learned to expect it when in a social gathering.

When in such a situation he does very well to hide the fact that he has tensed up and at times is clenching his jaw. Those that know him, even if they do not know his past, are quick to intervein.

So what does this mean between our muses encountering each other? He will be upfront about his dislike of being touched if it comes into play and more often than not won't elaborate any further on the matter.

#;From a PEBBLE to a MOUNTAIN // Musings; #a lil #psa #tw: abuse mentioned

[transcowgirlslut]

it's kind of bullshit that people will react with horror to me discussing my fantasies/kinks until i clarify I'm the sub in them. like even my therapist was all like "ohhh it's ok to want to hold power so long as it's consensual" and then clearly relaxed when I clarified I wanted to be the sub.

i love you everyone and with rape kinks, those who want to roleplay kidnapping and abusing someone, i love you i love you i love you. this ain't me fishing for a dom/me to be clear---you are VALUED as a person, outside of your sexual fantasies. I care about you and appreciate you, and there is nothing wrong or bad about you!!!!

#tw kidnapping #tw abuse mention #tw r@pe mention #i love you all

[teaboot]

When I was a kid, I regularly lost reading privileges for "having an attitude" and "acting out".

It wasn't as simple as being told not to read during other activities- one of the first times it happened, I remember being six years old, watching my stepfather pull fistfuls of books off my bookshelf and throw them to the floor in a heaping mess while I cried and asked him to stop.

It was weird. Every other adult I knew described me as exceptionally well-behaved, but at home, it was the opposite, and it was blamed on "learning bad habits from that shit you're reading".

Because I couldn't read at home, I spent all my free time at school in the library, reading with my friends.

When I grew up and moved away, I realized that my family life was toxic and abusive, and the "attitudes" I was being punished for were standing up for myself, standing up for my younger siblings, and resisting actual, real-life psychological abuse. Because I'd learned from what I'd read that my family wasn't normal, not like my parents said it was, and in my stories, the heroes were the people who spoke out when it was hard to.

It is insane to me that there are students right now who can't access books. It is insane that books are being outlawed. It is perverse that we are stealing away an entire generation's ability to contextualize their lives, to learn about the world around them, to develop critical thinking skills and express themselves and feel connected to the world or escape from it, whatever and whenever and however they need.

That is not how you raise a compassionate, thoughtful, powerful society.

That's how you process cattle.

It's fucking disgusting.

#I know this is old news but Jesus #Every day I hear more about school book bans and I feels less real #Restriction of information is restriction of freedom #People need stories #Even bad stories #Even tragic or problematic ones #We need to set purity culture on fire I'm not kidding #Abuse mention #Abuse tw

[sin-esthezia]

the thing that gets me the most about ableism against pd’s is that ppl will be like “these disorders make you an ASSHOLE!!!!” and then turn around and pretend that other disorders can’t and don’t make you act shitty.

depression and anxiety can make you irritable and snappy. they can cause you to refuse to listen to people and to be distant and withdrawn. they can cause you to seem angry, bitchy, rude, uncaring, etc.

ptsd causes an array of difficulties in forming meaningful relationships. it pretty much shakes up your entire worldview and sense of self a lot of the time. ptsd can cause you to get angry often. it can cause you to yell and scream. it can cause you to withdraw from others, run away, or cut them out. it can cause general changes in demeanor and more cynical worldviews. it can make you seem grouchy, negative, explosive, impolite, difficult, needy, controlling, etc.

and yet when people with personality disorders have symptoms of that nature, suddenly we are irredeemable monsters. when it’s npd, bpd, hpd, or aspd instead of ptsd or depression and anxiety, people suddenly and magically lose the ability to be understanding.

mental illness is an explanation, not an excuse. i firmly believe that. hurting others is never justified simply because you have any disorder.

but if you can be patient with people who have depression, anxiety, ptsd, ocd, or any other more well understood mental illness, you can be patient with us.

#ableism #ableism mention #ableism tw #cluster b #cluster b positivity #npd #bpd #hpd #aspd #npd positivity #bpd positivity #hpd positivity #aspd positivity #narcissistic abuse #narcissistic abuse awareness #actually cluster b #actually bpd #actually npd #actually borderline #actually narcissistic

[uncanny-tranny]

"Treatment" for addiction that requires you to lock up, confine, coerce, or otherwise strip addicts of their autonomy, it isn't treatment. It is a revenge fantasy that prioritizes your desire for subjugation over the actual betterment of addicts.

#politics #addiction #addiction tw #addiction mention tw #and like i understand the desire for revenge when you feel wronged. but addiction isn't one of those circumstances #i hold a deep hatred for my abuser but i was celebrating when they weren't being criminalized for their addiction #because if that had happened that would have destroyed so many lives in such a brutal and unnecessary way #and yes they held responsibility for their actions. but that doesn't mean you can go from 0 to 1000 because of it

[lostmf]

I’m not sure I deserve it ..

#sadnees #tw depressing thoughts #depressing shit #i'm sad #depressing life #tw depressing stuff #childhood trauma #quotes #poetic #childhood #tw self destruction #tw selfhate #wound tw #tw: sucidal thoughts #tw abuse #tw ptsd #self h@rm #self h@te #truamacore #truama mention #childhood ptsd #childhood truama #this is a cry for help #i hate everything #kill my thoughts #kill my feelings #kill my life #mentally fucked #mentally drained #mentally exhausted

[nerdpoe]

Young Justice is always a little...concerned. With Phantom's living situation. Now they're outright afraid for him, and Bart has decided it's time to Ask An Adult.

It was the little quips. The tiny little things. Stuff that didn't seem to matter to Phantom at all, or appeared to be normal for him, that he didn't realize weren't normal at all.

"Oh, better not hope my mom catches me." "Doing what, staying out past bedtime?" "Nah, using my powers; she'd vivisect me!"

"Another stab wound. Great." "Don't worry Phantom, I've got the med kit-" "Oh, I'm not a baby or anything, I can handle it just fine. Just gimme a sec to take it out."

"My dad has better aim than that." "...Like, when he's hunting, right?" "...At what other times would he be shooting at me?"

"Huh. Not as bad as my parents place. Look; they have a decontamination shower!" "Phantom, this lab has been vandalized to the point of needing a hazmat suit." "Did I stutter?"

Finding out each others identities did nothing to soothe the worry. Tim quietly told the others that every time he tried to run facial recognition, he kept hitting a government firewall he couldn't breach. Phantom never told them his last name, just his first, and 'Danny' is super common.

The thing that really did it though, the thing that made Bart snap and run off to ask Max, was when Danny had a nightmare.

He was talking in his sleep.

"No. Don't-stop. Stoooop. I need...my skin. Mom, no. You can't...peel off...my skin..."

Bart didn't even wait for them to wake Danny up before he was standing in front of Max, talking a mile a minute as he tried to figure out what to do, with Wally staring in horror over a plate of waffles as he computed everything that Bart was saying.

~~~~~~

Danny had a dream about his mom and Skulker arguing about how to skin him. He wouldn't really call it a nightmare, because it was just Skulker, but the scariest thing was Skulker insisting to his mom that it was possible to skin him with a potato peeler. Dream mom was arguing that it was not, and that from a scientific standpoint that was a really piss poor way to preserve a specimen.

He hadn't been begging them to stop hurting him, he'd been whining at them to knock it off.

But when he wakes up, it's to a room full of worried friends and an old man who calls himself Max.

"Kid, I think we need to talk."

#dpxdc #dcxdp #dp x dc #dc x dp #phanfic #story prompt #first convo was with cassie #second was with bart #third was with kon #fourth was with tim #max is fully prepared to take in another kid #bart is fully prepared to share #wally went to dick to ask him to put his detective training to work and find phantom's parents #wally was just visiting max #catching up #shooting the shit #when suddenly bart comes in and just trauma dumps about one of the other young justice heroes #who is apparently in a super abusive situation #and probably needs help #body horror tw #skinning tw #but only mentioned in the context of a super weird dream #danny's living situation COULD use some improvements #but it's not as bad as everyone thinks #anti ecto acts are still a thing #but as long as danny is with young justice the GIW leave him alone so #eh #not like they're good at their jobs anyways #max is about to blow his mind with the following information #“you are not okay. it's okay to not be okay. but kid. you need help and we're offering.”

[cccat-in-a-meat-sack]

me, with both:...

#borderline personality disorder #bpd splitting #actually bpd #bpd thoughts #bpd problems #bpd #bpd vent #actually borderline #borderline pd #ptsd #complex ptsd #actually ptsd #ptsd recovery #tw ptsd #tw abuse #tw abuse mention #calico hisses

[intersectionalpraxis]

Links that OP also provided: Campaign for Uyghurs Speak Up For The Uyghurs (Carrd) Save Uyghur (Companies Linked to Uyghur Forced Labour) The Coalition to End Forced Labour in the Uyghur Region

There is mass systematic sexual violence being committed against Ugyhur women in these concentration camps as a 'torture tactic'-I have read horrifying reports and details about their many experiences -being violated over and over again and it's just horrifying -these accounts are something I will never forget reading about because it is truly despicable what has been done to them. And the fact that the Chinese government STILL refuses to acknowledge what they have done -and deny these 'allegations,' I hope more people learn about what has been happening in these camps where a genocide is occurring against Uyghur people.

Here are some more links to some articles for folks to look into this and with some more information about what has been happening:

“Break Their Lineage, Break Their Roots”- China’s Crimes against Humanity Targeting Uyghurs and Other Turkic Muslims

China Uses Rape as Torture Tactic Against Uighur Detainees, Victims Say

Abortions, IUDs and sexual humiliation: Muslim women who fled China for Kazakhstan recount ordeals

#feminist #feminism #social justice #uyghurs #uyghur #violence against women #sa mention #tw sex abuse #china #xinjiang #boycotting #crimes against humanity #human rights violations #united nations #torture tw

[thunderc1an]

red fur.

#warrior cats #warriors #thunderclan #alderheart #squirrelflight #bramblestar #tw mentioned domestic abuse #tw domestic abuse #i decided to redraw/rewrite a comic i made last summer! #i have a sparkpelt and jayfeather comic that will come next #that one is going to hit harder

[waywardsunlight]

The Owl House is the journey of a neurodivergent girl dealing with grief and the guilt that society has placed on her, finding people who accept and understand her for who she is through exploring a fantasy world like the one in the book her dad left her before he died, and conversely, it’s a story about a child abuser getting wrecked because he wants the approval of a messed up, extinct society so much that he’d rather live in a fantasy where he won than try to understand somebody he loved.

#the owl house #toh #toh spoilers #they’re literally. opposites #and I think about that so much #tw child abuse #I gotta repeatedly mention he’s a serial killer and child abuser bc I feel like people are trying to forget that

[cupcakeshakesnake]

Fake screenshots and character designs for aforementioned school project.

I'm still thinking about the title, but the plot is basically "Monster gets pissed at rude man who also happens to be a terrible father and adopts his abused kid by force".

#original art #schoolwork #oc #character design #monster design #creature design #fake screenshot #abuse tw #child abuse mention #snake's art

[scrimbly-mc-scrombly-iii]

Since it’s disability pride month, let’s all remember that people with NPD, BPD, ASPD, and any other cluster B disorders are NOT inherently bad people, are NOT destined to be abusers or serial killers, and should NOT be stigmatized for their disorders. Also, the term “Narcissistic abuse” is ableist and also complete bullshit. Yes you can be abused by a narcissist, you can be abused by any type of person. But your abuser having NPD doesn’t make what you experienced a whole different type of abuse. I was emotionally abused by someone with brown hair, but that doesn’t make me a victim of “brunette abuse”. So stop fucking using that term. There is nothing you can go through that makes it ok to further stigmatize a disorder.

If you have ASPD, NPD, BPD, HPD, you are not destined to be a bad person. Having a personality disorder is not your fault in any way. You deserve love and acceptance.

Happy July.

#disability pride month #npd #aspd #bpd #hpd #cluster b #tw abuse mention #narcissistic abuse is bullshit