#tw: accusations

[puppyboygf]

a trans woman gets wrongfully deleted, falsely accused of making threats and is harassed by automattic's ceo, after years of trans women talking about how they are constantly having to deal with things like this, and days later, someone pedojackets another trans woman because they failed to read her website rules in their entirety, and less that a month after that, someone pedojackets yet another trans woman because of a months-old comment replying to a stranger, which she has already addressed repeatedly. not a fucking thing has been learned.

respect trans women. support trans women. actually treat them like human beings deserving of compassion and reflect on how public accusations of wrongdoings do not accomplish anything good, and are especially harmful to trans women, whether they're true or not (and most of the time, they're not true). and yes, love trans women too, but that goal cannot be reached without everything else.

#i'm sorry you're all having to deal with this. you deserve the world and so much more. i love you and you will always be my sisters #transmisogyny tw #and this isn't to mention all of the other shit like trans women still being deleted for criticizing staff/photomatt's treatment of avery #like there is just so much. #(this is also oversimplifying the accusations. like the website rules thing was obviously bad faith not just 'you missed a spot.' #and the thing with the comment was also obviously malicious.)

[loverofmirage]

While I've been searching up conversations on the way callout culture is weaponized as an instrument of transmisogynistic I've come across a sentiment repeated multiple times by non-transfems, that trans women speaking out against this phenomena are themselves abusers, or speaking against callout culture to "protect abusers in our midst". They hold that the current usage of callouts is justified by implying that our community is filled with sexual deviants. They could barely be any more mask off with how they view trans women. They are not holding other group to this standard. They don't seem to advocate for witch-hunts to root out the sexual deviants among other groups. You can just say you view all trans women as sexual predators that need rooting out at this point.

#transmisogyny #tw transmisogyny #Starting the clock on how long before someone with terrible reading comprehension accuses me of defending abusers

[angelboybreakdowns]

ppl will say “i hate being seen with you in public because you stand funny and wear your headphones all the time and talk too loud” and then get all defensive when you say thats ableist

#ppl being my sister #like explain to me again how thinking my visible autistic traits are inherently embarrassing is not ableist? #she also said that autistic people in general are annoying #again while getting upset when i said that was ableist #i even word it really carefully so she cant accuse me of saying that she is ableist #but no the girl is just aggressively against admitting she has any kind of bias at all ever #autism #actually autistic #autistic #neurodivergent #actually neurodivergent #adhd #autism/adhd #actuallyautistic #actually adhd #neurodivergence #autistic experiences #tw ableism

[mayfriend]

this is fucking genius

#tiktok #seriously the amount of terfs ive seen 'accuse' cis women of being trans like. they would all fall for it #and the prize money should actually go to a trans charity #tw transphobes #tw terfs

[latenightsinpemberley]

today in jk rowling shutting down sanctimonious wankers lying through their teeth

#jk rowling #tw antisemitism #every day i tell myself there's no way gendies can come up with more ridiculous accusations to jkr and every day they prove me wrong! #modern equivalent of peasant mob screaming witch atp

[jaybybyby]

So anybody gonna talk about how Aiden Hale's pronouns are he/him, and how every article I've read on the shooting says this, and then proceeds to use she/her and his deadname, Audrey? I don't care what a person does, using their correct pronouns is not just a privilege you take away. Use his correct pronouns.

Also hey before you make any comments or send me any asks about this, please read this ask I responded to since I'm tired of clarifying myself

Since this post ended up in radfem spaces no more reblogs ❤️

#tw shooting #shooting #audrey hale #if investigators and news anchors are gonna make it about his gender identity then god damn it so am fucking i #also so more people don't get on my ass about it: there are so many people talking about the shooting itself that i don't think me talking #about the gender identity aspect of it will take away from it. i'm just focusing on how this will potentially negatively affect the trans #community during a time in the us where trans people are near constantly under attack #later edit: interesting how almost everyone making shitty comments on this post has radfem in their bio 🤔 it's almost as if when aiden hale' #transgenderism is talked about from a place of concern instead of a place of accusation they get up in arms.. interesting #tw transphobia #transphobia #discourse #tw discourse

[cloudcountry]

sometimes i wonder why cheating and infidelity became a joke in fandom spaces. like maybe i take it too seriously but i really don't think the idea of breaking someone's heart into a million pieces and betraying their trust is something to be laughed at. i don't even know how it started but it doesn't seem fair to just make it comedic relief when its so hurtful.

#auburn's rambles <3 #also as someone who has jokingly been accused of cheating on a fictional man i can say for certain i did not laugh. #or when people joked about said fictional man cheating on me. Not Funny. Did Not Laugh. why are You laughing. #its probably a personal thing. but if nothing else i know rubia is gonna agree with me LMAO #tw cheating mention

[theelast-straw]

incredibly meaningful discussions were being had in the discord and this is where it led us. idk what this is either but I fully blame @lukaherehelp and @sparklyeyedhimbo

+ Bonus:

Phaya's not gonna stop (escaping the hospital to get that d-) you can bet on it

#did i spend entirely too much time on a bad joke again? you can bet on it (pun intended) #you can accuse me of anything but don't you dare ever say i'm not committed to the bit #the sign #the sign the series #thesignedit #mygifs #rae tries to gif shit #tw flashing

[spop-romanticizes-abuse]

“entrapta joined the horde so she deserved—”

no. no one deserves to be dehumanized. no one deserves to be put on a leash and dragged around. no one deserves to be mistreated just because they happen to function differently from people around them.

i bet y'all wouldn't be saying the same thing if catra was the one treated this way.

#it's crazy how people excuse ableism in entrapta's case #someone who built weapons for the horde but was never directly involved in the war #then accuse us for being ableist when we criticize catra #someone who attempted mass genocide and killed at least one person in her lifetime #makes total sense #spop critical #spop salt #spop criticism #spop discourse #spop #she ra #anti spop #entrapta #anti perfuma #ableism tw

[hollowslantern]

(doubled for size) well I guess I'll be the one to say it I think if you think this is funny you need to log off for a while and do some serious reflection on what goes on in that thing you call a skull

#9/11 tw #islamophobia #<- tagged as such due to the increase in islamophobic hate crimes directly caused by 9/11 before anyone asks or accuses me of idek

[vyeoh]

Something about ballister (an adult) talking nimona (a trans teen) down from suicide, projected to the kingdom with the text overlay "monster attack"

#vio.txt #tw suicide #nimona #i watched it for the 6th time #because thats how it is isnt it #the adults that are allies to trans youth that are being accused of letting the monster into our society #all they're doing is trying to help trans kids see that theyre able to fucking live a life #its just a visual that. hit me especially hard

[uncanny-tranny]

Love (sarcasm) when people go, "we should normalize fatphobia LOL 🥺". Fatphobia is the norm, you just don't like that fatphobia has the possibility of people realizing that you aren't as decent or well-rounded of a person as others might have thought before. If it's such a problem that people don't like you for your disgust and hatred of others, then your only options are to either accept that or, better, work on your biases. That isn't the fault of others, and it's certainly not other people's responsibility to coddle your hang-ups with other people's existences.

#politics #fatphobia #fatphobia tw #'we should normalize thinness and fatphobia 🥺🥺' babygirl thinness and fatphobia are SO normalized it's KILLED people before... #...so i'm really not buying that these people's problems are that SOME PEOPLE don't like fatphobia #how long will it take for this post to inevitably get fatphobia because OBVIOUSLY fat people are so inhuman... #...that you can ONLY care about fat people if you're also fat. y'all truly tell on yourselves. perchance. #like every single time i talk about these issues i'm ~accused~ of being fat and... #...quite frankly i think it's because y'all genuinely do /not/ see fat people as human. lol. lmao. it's actually sickening honestly #you aren't special for being fatphobic. you're just another fatphobe. like the rest of 'em

[compassionatereminders]

"But what do I do if I think I have spotted a faker?" Literally nothing beyond unfollowing, blocking and moving on with your day. Because once you start trying to police the experiences of strangers online YOU are objectively doing more harm to the community than this alleged faker. The culture of distrust, accusations and invalidation which these witch hunts result in are far more harmful than some teenager maybe being wrong about a diagnosis. Like if you go to them and you attack them and throw accusations at them based on your intuition or whatever YOU are the one exhibiting harmful behavior. Like at that point you're the asshole even if they ARE wrong about their label on some level

#doktor speaks #accusations of faking tw #faking tw

[pinkeoni]

Will Byers, Coming of Age, Transformations, Predators, Queerness & Teen Wolf

There’s one part of the “leaks” that sappicjopper put out that really caught my attention—

And as to not look naïve, yes I am highly aware that these “leaks” are likely fake. However, disregarding the legitimacy of this as a “leak,” it is in itself a compelling idea that does have some legs to stand on as a theory.

So awhile ago I made a post about Will’s coming of age story and how that fits into the horror genre, and how exploring coming of age and sexual awakening through the supernatural is a popular trope.

I wanna point out three films I use in my analysis, Ginger Snaps, Jennifer’s Body, and Black Swan. These films have a lot of things in common, but one aspect I want to point out is there use of physical transformation.

These transformations covers an umbrella of different themes depending on the character, but something that all three of them have in common is sexuality. As all of these women become more sexually liberated, and thereby seen as dangerous by those around them, they fall deeper into these physical transformations. (IE Jennifer and Ginger both eating men after they have sex with them)

In my original post I also discuss how this fear of sexuality, or view of sexuality as something monstrous and predatory, is related to queerness. Both Jennifer Check and Nina Sayers are visibly queer characters in both their respective films.

So what? All of this is very speculative, how do I know that Will is going to go through a similar arc, just because I can relate him to a few movies that I like personally? How do I know that the Duffer’s are going to do something similar? Is there reference to a movie within in the show, that features transformation as an allegory for coming of age and queerness?

Actually, there is.

All credits goes to @chirpsythismorning for their deep dive post into the shows use of the film Teen Wolf, which appears in the show as one of Rick Conroy’s recent rentals as well as the poster in the background of a few shots.

(screenshot credits to @chirpsythismorning)

The Freddy Krueger standee, the character who kills people in their dreams whose actor makes a cameo in the show, positioned right over Max’s shoulder should be enough to say that the film references in the background are a lot more than just meaningless references.

Teen Wolf is a 1985 supernatural coming of age movie about a teen named Scott who learns that he is a werewolf.

Within s4 we actually get some parallels between the film and Lucas’ arc— Scott is a basketball player who seeks popularity before embracing who he is and what he really wants. However, I think it’s possible that the film could also be a piece of foreshadowing for Will’s arc in s5.

While Scott is not an explicitly queer character, there is some coding within the film that correlates his lycanthropy with queerness. Remember this is a mainstream teen movie from the 1980’s, if there’s going to be any queerness it’s gonna have to come from subtext, although it is pretty unsubtle.

There’s this very heavy handed scene where Scott confesses to Stiles that he’s a werewolf, and Stiles believes that Scott is coming out to him initially.

There’s also this conversation Scott has with his father that can be read as queer coded.

Or essentially saying, being queer isn’t easy, but it’s not bad either. And then Scott equating his queerness with being a predator, and expects to be hunted as such.

When Scott goes through his first full transformation, it’s right after he played a game of two minutes in heaven with his childhood friend Boof, equating sexuality with his beastlihood.

In s4, there’s a big emphasis on the word predator.

Will’s queerness is an open secret in a town that believed he was “killed by some other queer” and that a group of satanic sodomizers are responsible for murder. I’m willing to bet that that predator label is going to be put onto Will, especially as he begins to come more into his own sexuality.

What would be a literal way to portray this predator title? By having him transform into a predatory creature, just as everyone sees him.

Am I saying Will is going to become a werewolf? Well no, that wouldn’t really make sense with the show. But there is something that may have even been foreshadowed in the show.

How would this transformation even happen? Well, as our “leaker,” or rather, enthusiastic theorist suggests, it has something to do with his connection to the Upside Down, which is progressively leaking more and more into Hawkins. So not a literal zombie, but maybe a zombie like creature that could survive in the Upside Down.

When Vecna was sent through the gate to the UD we saw him go through a physical transformation as he adapted to his environment. This would he a like a speedrun version of that amplified by Will’s own personal connection to the UD (which I believe predates his kidnapping)

It would also serve as a way to highlight the parallels between Vecna and Will, what by having Will physically become similar to him. What better way to show the Vecna/Will mirrors by having Will look in the mirror and see the spitting image of Vecna staring back at him.

Bonus: Scott in Teen Wolf in played by Michael J. Fox, and which character was dressed similarly to a popular Michael J. Fox character in season one?

#will byers #byler #<- target audience #stranger things #will byers has powers #i left out the cannabalism bit because thats more of wishful thinking on my part #…but it does conveniently tie in with the idea of being a predator #and is common with these transformation trope films #maybe he should eat people!! #tw cannibalism #just for those tags lol #also just so i dont get accused #im not trying to steal aspects of lucas’ story just to slap onto will #just saying that the teen wolf parallels can apply to both characters #lucas has more of his overall arc and will has the transformation queer allegory arc #stranger things theory #my theory

[werewolf-cuddles]

Boy, this Willy's Chocolate Experience fiasco has sure been amusing to look at, hasn't it? This trainwreck has given us nothing but pure wholesome fu-

>Paul Connell, the most well known of the "Willy McDuff" actors, got outed for dating a 16 year old student while he was a 22 year old drama teacher

Oh for fucks sake

#willy's chocolate experience #willy wonka experience #glasgow willy wonka #grooming tw #glasgow willy got milkshake duck'd #i'm not even going to say allegedly in this case #the accuser showed photos of them together #dating as far back as 2015 #he absolutely did it #also before anyone points out that 16 is the age of consent in scotland #just because something's legal doesn't mean it's right #but even in this case that doesn't apply because he was in a position of authority #which makes the relationship illegal regardless because she was under 18

[snowe-zolynn-rogers]

C’mon Moon and Solar, you wanted this. Wear your King Douche crowns with pride!

Moon, you wanted to be the over-paranoid asshole and blame Ruin just because he’s the outlier of the family. And Solar, you went right along with Moon’s stupid ass idea to blame Ruin and not just look for the obvious answer of Ruin does not have magic for Eclipse’s magic to be tied to.

Now you get live with your choices and any and all lost trust you receive from Ruin! Isn’t it fun to ruin your trust with others for absolutely no reason?

#sun and moon show #sams #five nights at freddy's #fnaf #fnaf moon #fnaf solar #fnaf ruin eclipse #ruin is named ruin but moon and solar are the ones ruining things #kinda ironic #yes i’m being mean to moon and solar again #yes i’m angry at them #i know ​i’m biased #because i’ve had ex-friends accuse me of shit like they were accusing ruin #snoweytrashposts #snoweytalks #snoweyrambles #snoweyrants #tw cursing #sun and moon show spoilers #sams spoilers