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#unwritten letter
Dear you (& me),
Conflict is not an excuse to be rude. Disagreeing doesn't give you the right to be mean or cruel. Motives still matter in a fight. When you're angry, you must learn to recognize if your intent is to hurt or is it to heal (if you want to keep your "opponents" in your life, that is).
Allow me to make this perfectly clear. If you wait until mid-argument to bring up personality flaws, perceived slights, or past wrongdoings... your motive is to hurt, not heal. If you toss in tidbits about old fights, faded scars, or fresh wounds... your motive is to hurt, not heal.
Please, for the love of the person you're battling through life with, learn how to navigate conflict without intentionally making it more painful or clouding the air with all the junk floating around in your own head and heart. Try going in to combat with yourself first, rather than taking it out on other people who love you enough to stick around and fight with you.
Learn to love yourself. Try to cultivate the beauty there, and purge the ugly on your own time. Then you will be capable of seeing it's possible to love others even when things get tough. That you can have a fight and it really just is about the current issues. Maybe then you'll finally realize that it's possible to communicate hard truths or state your unpopular opinion without tearing everyone else down in the process...
Healthy conflict is an act of growth, motivated by love. The way you do it is an act of war, motivated by winning... Be careful, or you may win all the fights just to find yourself all alone with no one but your trophies to blame.
All my heart,
the collector
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gh0stlymoth · 10 months
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Hermann and Newt were onto something when they decided to write each other letters, even though email and phones were available to them.
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stergeon · 2 months
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Rating: Mature (horny)
Fandom: Fire Emblem: Three Houses
Relationship(s): Edelgard von Hresvelg/Byleth Eisner
Words: 11.5k (2 chapters out of, theoretically, 3)
There's a new professor of the Black Eagles house, but it's not the one Edelgard and Hubert had planned to take on the role—and to make matters worse, Edelgard knows her. She could never forget her, or a single moment of that hot summer night when they met in Enbarr.
Worst of all, the professor doesn't seem to remember Edelgard.
AU in which Byleth and Edelgard meet by chance a few months before the start of White Clouds.
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divinekangaroo · 2 months
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Tommy has to have wondered long and hard if Alfie betrayed him in S5E6 failed Mosley assassination, even if it didn’t make *sense*, Alfie is the one with the endless history of small personal betrayals accidentally become something so much larger
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mufrad · 5 months
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Assalamualaikum!!  Bss yehi maan rha hu..  Aap theek ho.. 👀
Toh phir... Khyaal rkh rhe ho apnaa?!  Khaaana sahi se chlrha hai k nhii..  Padhna shuru kiya? Ek hi baar mein nikaalna hainaa Waada yaad haii k nhii?  Yaad rkhna... Waada poora krna haii...  Yaad aati hogi.. Nii?!  Nhi aati hogii..👍
Inshallah... Sab haq mein hogaa...  Sahi rehna zroori haii...  Dua karte rahoo...  Khyaal rkhiyega apnaa... Sahi se zaraa Fi Amanillah ✨
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Yay thanks!
You know, I got this and was immediately embarrassed by the first daydream fic which came to mind. So we'll go with the other one which maybe someday I will write...
It's not complicated, it wouldn't even be very long, but during the birdhouse thing Philza is asleep. And Rose - the Rose the god-like-entity from his current hardcore world - slips in and sings him sweeter dreams as she also sings into being vines and flowers, causing the metal of the security door to decay under the stress and leave it open, and the birdhouse covered in flowers.
She is of course gone by the time he wakes, her power to project herself into this world limited by both the Federation and the fact this isn't her world - her power over it is also limited. He does, however, wake to feeling something is strange, and a petal falling from his cheek into his lap.
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faerileee · 11 months
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Hi.
I wanted to let you know that I have been living in this moment for so, so long.
I wish you strength for you to get or continually get treatment for whatever kicked in those days when you sent those messages. I hope you're dismantling the horrible cycle of torture you made for yourself. I hope you are making friends your own age who are able to show you continuous comfort while you fight against the rage of the universe.
So often, I watched you touch entropy, and so often, it broke you. You took the broken pieces and embedded them first into yourself. Then, when there was no more room in your body, pierced it into the people who couldn't give you enough concrete love to fill the holes the universe cracked so violently into you.
And how can I even blame you? Aren't we all filling holes whether through fantasy, throwing tantrums, or torturing each other?
In the infinity I have been in this place, I could not see and mend my own because I was so distracted with trying to see through pitch black shadows of anger that contoured your face at the table. But now, the sunlight illuminates it all: you back then with all of your emptiness.
I see you so clearly, and for the sake of peace, I want nothing to do with it ever again. For the sake of peace, your infinitum line in my mind ends with this segment:
Much Love.
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malaisequotes · 6 months
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“You gave me truth, I chose illusion. Now, we are used to this confusion, but I know, yes, I know this story has to end. Never groped for a connection, never hoped for more affection, for I know—I know I am your friend, only your friend.”
Unwritten Letter #1 by Vienna Teng
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softgrungeprophet · 10 months
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people will say things like "don't study cinematography cause it will ruin movies for you" which i wholeheartedly disagree with, it just adds another fun layer for analysis imo, but i can say if you major in language studies and/or linguistics it will make every language post you see on the internet that much more annoying cause people just Say Things with all the confidence of someone who does not know what they're talking about even a little bit lol
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bossymarmalade · 11 months
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- Letters Unwritten to Naiyer Masud (2023), dir. Shahi A.J.
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thedoorsofmyheart · 2 years
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Love of my life,
I wanna call you that.
Would that be alright?
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Unwritten Letters to You, T.B. LaBerge
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n0tl1vingth3dream · 2 months
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god, i need to be tied up and overstimulated (i have never once had sex and this would kill me)
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debtsunpaid · 3 months
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tag drop for CHERYL MASTERS from hellblazer, big sister to john constantine, mother to gemma, wife to tony, and forced to accept that a life within those roles is the closest she'll ever get to being a person in her own right! her song is '5&1/2 minute hallway' by poe.
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titlishu · 3 months
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my only wish in life is to be a fictional character
#its kinda insane but like. i already dont feel real. like i havent felt real since a long time and LISTEN#if i was a fictional character. it would make so much sense. ykwim.#like im not Sad im nust. not anything atp. im nothing BUT if i was a fictional character. it would make so much sense#also like??? imagine being percieved by people you have never met. imagine being written. imagine art being made of you.#like nit just the ego boost but ive been thinking about how like. if these characters were real it would defest the whole purpose of them#and all of this love we have for them will always be unknown to them#but like the thought of wanting to be a fictional character in someones story is so. like i#deep DEEP yearning to be a character. just not real. im not even kidding the whole of december and now january this is all#ive wanted#like at first i was like. i dont feel real then it pipelined to i wish i wasnt real to i wish i was a fictional character who's story has#been written already. ykwim?#i may sound crazy rn but i dont CARE i had to get this out#like im sick of being. an author and not the character. im sick of being the creator and not the creation. yk?#is this how god feels sometimes#man...#i also have Noticed that sometimes i talk about human beings as if I'm not one#like i think abiut how interesting humans are and i say it like im an alien that has just made contact w earth#LIKE most times i feel like im not real and it really is like. what the fuck. where am i supposed to be then. yk?#like i dont feel. misplaced but i also dont have a place here. i dont belong anywhere tbh#like. an unwritten future. author unknown. a letter without an address or purpose#this is so. like i dont know how else to say it and get it out there but i just had to cause i#cant just keep Thinking About it by myself ik noones gonna read this but atleast#like if its. written or typed out then it would be more real. more of a record of this. even though my existence (or lack thereof) is#already proif enough#sigh#titli tag#ishworry
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the-travelling-witch · 7 months
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Platonically smooching ur ocs too, attractive fellows.
oh i’m currently cooking for both of them, you guys know i can’t keep my hands away from a little or a lot of angst ^^
feel free to still smooch them though!!
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