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#usually i dont care about ships but the fact that this is the most prevalent one is so disgusting
timothylawrence · 3 years
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lexa-kom-skaikru · 5 years
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So i know its been like a week but the more i think about what Harlots did the more pissed of i get. Not so much because of them killing Charlotte but because of how they destroyed her character and the show (if the stuff i saw the producer say on interviews is true). This entire show was about women prevaling in a society that wants them to be nothing more than props, about women fighting for what they want, it was a show about WOMEN. From the very begining Charlotte was the character (1/?)
that representedthat. She fought againts the Man Child and refused to let him be her keeper,manipulated him even when she had to. In season 2 she fought again against themost powerfull man of society, created a friendship with a Lady, pretended tobe on Lydia's side all for that porpose of fighting. Season 3 all of thatdisapears, sudenly she is not that person anymore, the old Charlotte would havenever envolved herself with a man like Pimp Guy, especially after what he did.
He represents everything that she has allwaysfought againts and yet they want us to believe that his dick is just so great(as if she has never had a good dick in her life she is a fucking Harlot forfucks sake) that she couldn't stay away from him. Also Charlotte has allwaysbeen a loyal person so what she did to Isabella was also really OOC, were it tohappen right after season 2 sure i would believe but not on Season 3 when theyshowed the 2 of them cool with each other.
So to concludeeverything about Charlotte this season made no sense unless to bring her to hervery last moments, and thats what i'm salty and mad about. They wanted to killher sure, its their show, dont like dont watch, but at the very least theycould have done it in a way that beffited her and everything the show used tostand for. This was a show about Women, Familly and Living in spite ofeverything, now its a show about Men and the women they destroy.
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First, I would like to apologize for taking so long to answer. 
Secondly, this is about to be really long.
And thirdly, I completely agree.
I remember that even before this season started that I was concerned but I was keeping hopeful, because it’s Harlots! Come on!!! You know? This is the show that gave us EVERYTHING and more in the second season, not only in terms of representation but the writing was just amazing. It was too good to be true but I made the mistake of believing that a show this good was actually going to keep up the good work they were doing, not just for our community but for women in general.
But then, I started getting this feeling in the pit of my stomach and I tried to ignore it, but as my friends can vouch for me, I am a pessimist at heart and the feeling didn’t go away: new interviews kept coming in, the trailer and the fact that I “knew” that Jessica Brown-Findlay is an actress who doesn’t like to stay too long with her characters (Downton Abbey) because she usually gets her contracts to estipulate a 2/3 year commitment and nothing more.
Then all the info we got just kept being disappointing:
No Amelia a2nd Violet in the trailer;
No word on their presence in the season;
The actor who played Prince Rasselas confirming he wouldn’t be in this season;
The interviews that kept refering to Charlotte and Lady Isabella as “friends” and demeanishing their relationship last season;
The insistent promotion of Alfie Allen being in the new season;
The hints that showed that Pincher Dick and Charlotte would be romantically involved;
and finally, all the reviews coming in for episode 3 and revealing a “major” cliffhanger that would change everything that is “Harlots”.
Everything was leading me to be on the look out but I tried to ignore that feeling, and then the premiere happened. Dissapointment. Which was a weird feeling to have on a show that I loved so much. The weirdest part was that I saw that the show was still being well written and it still kept my attention but every character interaction was off. The plot was there but the heart wasn’t.
The weird pairing of Nancy and Isabella was my first sign of worry, specially since Charlotte and Isabella barely had any scenes together that episode - and then obviously, Pincher Dick. Episode 2 was when I started to lose hope of this show getting better and episode 3... well, let’s say I was lucky that I looked for spoilers before watching the episode and I was semi-ready for what was about to happen.
Charlotte’s arc this season was not only short but a freaking waste. Let’s not even mention the fact that her death was for man pain, but the man pain was for a freaking douchebag that we barely know, nor care about. It’s not like she dies to cause “man pain” to her pa and give him an arc for the season (which would still be fucking awful but at least it would be for a character that made fucking sense!).
Her death was the quickest and most disrespectful way to let her go! She not only died by being a bystander. She died due to a plotline that was not related to her own. She died by freaking accident. She died because she went to fuck some dude in Lady Isabella’s house aka the woman she loved last season and somehow this season is just gal pals with? 
The whole thing was disrespectful to Charlotte and to the fans. 
I just keep thinking... a bunch of people just sat down in this room to talk about the best way to write Jessica off the show and the best thing they came up with was “Charlotte dies by the hands of a man who goes to fight the guy she is screwing in the house of the character that she loved last season and who friends grew attached to” yes, that about sounds like the best way to kill off your lead feminist bisexual character who is basically everyone’s favorite.
I honestly struggle to even believe that they did that because how the fuck can they be that stupid? This show was barely noticeable until they got Charlotte and Lady Isabella together in season 2. That ship made this show take off! Charlotte made this show take off! 
They knew that Jessica would be leaving in season 3 the latest and they decided to make her the bawd at the end of season 2 making everyone believe that she would be undoubtetly the lead in season 3.
They could have given Charlotte the hanging story line and it would have made more sense. Had Charlotte taken the fault for Lucy’s actions last season, her being the one to be arrested and then hanged for that crime to save her sister would have made more sense!!!! At least she would have died by her own choices and defending the one person she loves most!
Or even better, they would have given her the same out as Maggie and just have gone off to America, except she wouldn’t come back.
I just don’t understand the choices they made. They could have written her off with either a proper death or no death at all but they chose to do it in that very specific way... that very. disrespectful. specific way.
I will be honest, right after that episode aired I somehow still thought I could keep watching this show. I guess it hadnt sunk in yet but now? I am honestly not planning on it.
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Hello! I just stumbled on this blog by complete accident, and it's interesting to read your posts about akechi! I'm sorry if this actually comes of rude or ignorant or whatever, but i'm genuinely curious about life in orphanages in japan. Your akechi seems to be awfully not fond of it, and i guess the same with go with canon akechi actually. What are you thoughts?
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OH MY GOSH? im really flattered that you found them interesting, and im more flattered that you actually want to hear my thoughts on such a delicate subject. youre not being rude or anything!!
i very well cant give proper opinions on a subject without laying down the facts first, though, and surprisingly, other than passing mentions and links to an article or two, no one really talked about just how awful the system is in japan, and in turn how it affected goro, so let me talk about the system while adding in my own commentary
WARNING: WERE GOING TO SPOILER TOWN HERE.
spoilers and very, very, very, VERY heavy text under the cut. im so sorry mobile users
these are all articles i have bookmarked lolol i suggest yall read them but tldrs aint that bad too
What’s it like to be raised in a Japanese orphanage?
many kids that wind up in orphanages were neglected by their parents or suffered some kind of abuse from their parents. its also not uncommon for parents to leave their kids there simply because theyre too overwhelmed by the job
but even then, some (read: a whole fucking lot) of these parents refuse to let their children be adopted bc of a social stigma involving it. they cant support/cant take care/dont give a fuck for their children but theyre too scared of the shame that comes from getting their kids adopted to let them live in a family that can care for and love them. think about that for a minute.
these kids are sometimes called throw away children by society. goro is a throw away child, you can say.
the kids tend to form a hierarchical society where the oldest or the biggest kid orders all the other kids around. refuse to listen to them, and you get beat up. abuse and bullying is rampant because of this
a child leaves their orphanage at around 15 to 18. once they leave, any kind of support from the government is cut off. gone. nada. youre on your goddamn own. 
japan is a country thats held together by connections. you get a job if you have a good network to back up your credibility. basically, without any kind of networks, youre already ruined before you even got outside of that goddamn orphanage you live in
to add: its not uncommon to hear about orphans released from orphanages becoming homeless or unemployed, and without a support network, more often than not they also suffer from mental illnesses such as depression. or theyre also manipulated into committing murder. you know.
im gonna throw my assumption out here that goro most likely was released from whatever orphanage he was in when he was 15. not too long after, he had awaken to his persona, and thats when he approached shido. probably. if that were the case, then it would align with when the mental shutdown cases started: two years before the main game. goro died at 17 years old.
with these facts, we can assume that HE WAS LITERALLY A HOMELESS KID WHEN HE WENT TO SHIDO, AND HE WAS BARELY LEGAL WHEN HE DIED, YOU FUCKING MONKEYS
“When I was growing up in orphanages I sensed the staff was fulfilling their responsibilities but I didn’t feel protected or loved. When I had to leave the orphanage I was all alone. I had no one to turn to.” — Sayuri Watai, 27, founder of a support organization run by and for ‘graduates’ of childhood welfare facilities.
Japan: Children in Institutions Denied Family Life
basically, the foster care system and the alternative care system (aka orphanages) in japan are a fucking trainwreck, but thats the whole point of this post, so its not that surprising.
orphanages are just really fucking bad, theres not enough space, bad facilities, abuses from both staff and fellow children, that kind of shit
its also mentioned here how those who leave the orphanages have no support to help them ease back into society and again brings up the importance of having connections in japan
adoption is rare. by 2011, only 303 kids (out of like, roughly, 30,000) were formally adopted out of the alternative care system. more on Why later
childrens’ best interests are often set aside in favour of letting the parents or family, who put them there in the first place, decide what happens to the kid, which basically means if the parents/family of the kid doesnt want the kid to get adopted, then no, the kid wont be adopted.
basically, the system favours the stupid adults’ opinions over the kids’ wellbeing. as quoted from one of the careworkers mentioned in the article, “In Japan, the interest of the parents is seen as more important than the interests of the child.”
“The Convention on the Rights of the Child states that for the full development of a child’s personality, they ‘should grow up in a family environment, in an atmosphere of happiness, love and understanding.’” 
hey so guess which persona 5 character never grew up in a family and ended up screwed up in the personality department and got so lost and confused with what he really wanted so he desperately clung to the flimsy fame he had and the idea of revenge and fake praises from a certain shido masayoshi? yeah i thought so
japan likes to cram all these kids into orphanages that, even though there are caretakers who do want to take very good care of these sad kids, there isnt enough staff to deal with them, and thats when what looks like neglect from the staffs part arises
the article lists testimonies from children and adults who are and were from these institutions. one of them, a one sentence testimony, stood out to me in particular: “I don’t have any dreams for the future.” it sounded so jaded and tired to me, and it makes me think of the last time we saw goro in the game. that really tired smile really hit it home for me. goro had goals, but what about dreams?
lets speak in hypotheticals: if goro managed to inflict his revenge on shido, and he won, what comes after? what will he do? he spoke in the ship about being heralded as the hero who took down shido, sure, but do yalls really think, after everything, he actually plans to get out of that goddamn mess alive? goro made it his life mission to ruin shido. nothing matters but that, not even himself. after all is said and done, it doesnt seem very plausible for goro to keep on wanting to live. theres nothing to live for, after that
Witness: Lack of Support in Japanese Orphanages
“Masashi cared about his appearance – he wore fashionable [ … ] clothes and had styled his hair – but a sense of isolation clung to him.” that sounds familiar but maybe thats just me
studies show that children younger than 3 who grow up in orphanages have the risk of delayed mental, emotional, and even physical development because of the lack of bonds with a proper adult or family. orphanages are also a really poor environment for older children, who most likely already experienced abuse in the hands of their families or severe trauma after losing their parents. either way, orphanages are just a really bad idea for children
the first two articles have mentioned this, and now this article mentions this again: kids who grow up in orphanages are often poorly equipped for the real world because of the lack of support after their release, and yeah yall know how they end up homeless and jobless bc of it
as continuation, sometimes, education for these kids are so poor that they get out of the system barely able to read or solve simple math problems. 
children get subsidies now (bc back then they didnt wtf). its around 55,000 yen, or 550 usd. they cant even get a drivers license with it, which also happens to be really good extra points for when applying for a job. another opportunity lost for them
Adoption in Japan Part 1: Why are there so many kids in orphanages?
this article focuses more on why adoption is so rare in japan and also reinstates some things that have been mentioned earlier, namely, childrens’ well being getting set aside in favour of what shitty parents have to say
majority of kids in orphanages have living parents who retain legal custody but are not raising them. because of this, they are not allowed to be adopted, even if the parents dont come back for them
for some reason, japan is really insistent on giving the parents full control on their kids life even though they already abandoned them. this idea is so strictly followed that even a baby found in trash cans or some shit are usually ruled by court as not allowed to be adopted in case the biological parents come looking for them. i know. its full of bullshit.
with that and the stigma of a family letting their kid adopted, it makes me think that maybe its why goro ended up stuck in orphanages and never lasted in foster homes. because despite being a good kid (which i actually think he was), he was never adopted bc his mothers family refused to let him be adopted. its really messed up
apparently, people think orphanages are “the right place for nobody’s children to be raised.” add in the “throwaway children” nickname from one of the earlier articles, i get where goros coming from with his whole “unwanted, cursed child” mentality, and why hes so desperate for anyones attention. spend your entire childhood having the idea that youre a throwaway child, that youre a nobody’s child, that your mother killed herself because youre unwanted planted in your vulnerable mind, and then taste praise for the first time despite it coming from the one person you want to ruin the most, no wonder goro was intoxicated by it.
while there are orphanages with staffs that try their best, sexual and physical abuse are still prevalent, mostly in private orphanages. though they are supposedly monitored by the government, those sent to inspect these private orphanages have little to no training for the job. most of the time, the inspector only comes for tea, then they fucking leave, and the abuses and badly maintained facilities continue to prevail
the article brings up again how children are badly prepared for the real world and are doomed to a life of hardship when they leave. it never stops
in japan, only middle school is compulsory, but most jobs require that you should be at least a high school graduate. only 10% (or lower) of kids from orphanages get to attend high school, because 1) getting into high school is like a super big deal and hard, maybe like getting into college, and normally, middle schoolers attend cram schools to prepare for their entrance tests, 2) these orphans cannot afford cram schools, 3) the government refuses to fund cram schools for these kids bc its also acknowledging that their public education fucking sucks and cant afford to get anyone into a high school
imagine goro burning his fucking eyebrows to be able to get into high school. although, truthfully, i wouldnt be surprised if shido had something to do with goro being able to get into high school, if we still go along with “goro approached shido at 15″ thing. but i stand with the whole “goro is actually smart and intelligent despite being a wack detective” thing bc lets be real, that shit he pulled in saes palace is fucking nuts. you cant deny the kids a genius in his own right
Adoption in Japan Part 2: Attitudes to Adoption
adult adoptions, the kind thats done by adults (duh) for convenience or inheritance etc etc, is a frequent thing in japan, but child adoption, the kind that we all are more familiar with, is apparently kind of a wack concept in japan. its entirely new to them. in fact they only legalised that shit in 1989
koseki likes to make everything complicated. its so fucking hard to describe, but its like a family tree of sorts, except when you (the mother) have a kid out of wedlock, youre not allowed to register your kid to your family tree for some fucking reason; you have to start your own family tree with just you and your kid. if you give up your kid for adoption and they got adopted, their name doesnt get removed from your family tree for some fucking reason, but the fact that they were adopted is noted in your family tree. and this starts the discrimination and stigma that comes from getting your kid adopted, and it makes parents who leave their child to orphanages unwilling to get their kids adopted. its also the source of stigma surrounding single mothers and children born out of wedlock. (hey guys guess whos both a kid born out of wedlock AND an orphan?????) NOTE: this is how i understand the concept of koseki so far, and i may not be 100% right bc that shit confuses the fuck out of me. idk. japan why
so yall know how obsessed goro is with being perfect—perfect grades, perfect public image, perfect everything? as it turns out, theres this stupid idea in japan thats widely accepted that “everything from your taste in food to the language you speak is biologically pre-determined” now that makes a shit ton of sense, considering the kind of person shido is. that fucking asshole. holy fuck.
Japan’s Forgotten Children
it says here that about 4,000 children were formally adopted out of the system, as opposed to an earlier article that says 303. i dont know which one is true.
this entire paragraph:
“Last month, a Chukyo Television director who was documenting this problem, asked a high government official why Japan had such a system, as opposed to promoting adoption and foster care like other developed nations. The man, whom I respect for his honesty, basically said that after the war there were many children without parents. At that time, many orphanages were built. So, that became Japan’s system to this day. Let me translate that for you…There are many jobs involved in this system. Plus, we don’t like change.”
orphanages run by the government receive funding based on how much kids they have, so more kids = more money, and that basically is also one of the reasons why no ones making an effort to get these kids out of the system. the kids are their means of getting free fucking money.
the government isnt trying to remedy this problem bc it doesnt want change, at least according to this guy named yamanta tokuji. hes an ex-child welfare worker who wants change, to put it simply.
he also says that living in orphanages for years damages a childs well being and behaviour. some who end up in family environments can develop reactive attachment disorder in which they regress to behaving like a baby.
the government wont tackle the issue “because it doesn’t want to know the truth and thus be forced to change.” yamantas opinion again
look, before anything else, i dont condone what goros done. shits fucked up, kids killed a whole lotta ppl, and he didnt fucking hesitate to pull the damn trigger on akira, but since this is fiction, context is important. if youre one of those people who simply dismissed goros character and went “eh. hes fucking evil with daddy issues” im just….. :(, bc you fucking missed the entire point of his character. its important to note hes the only teenage antagonist in a game where the adults are the Bad Guys™. i dont remember where i read this, but i (sorta) quote: hes a warning of what couldve happened to the phantom thieves, without morgana, without the support system that they had, without the positive influences that made them decide to do what they did. even yusuke acknowledges this, once they come back from shidos palace after Hell™ happened (i would have put a link to a photo, but where the fuck do i even find a pic of it).
i think that people seem to misunderstand goros character simply because of really fucking bad writing atlus COME THE FUCK ON they forget that theyre playing a game based on japan, where culture and society are very different from theirs, and in turn they dont understand the context behind goros backstory and how japans society views orphans and illegitimate children can really fuck with a kid, and okay, just because youre either of the two doesnt mean youll resort to murder, but 1) this is a modern fantasy game, where cats can become buses and fake gods can force a lonely kid who happens to be a wild card into the depths of hell, come on, 2) goro wasnt even the one who came up with the murders, it was shido. he fucking bragged about it in his boss fight you fucking monkeys!!!! i forgot to mention this, but shido also threatens goro if he ever so much expresses doubt
its also because of bad writing. its mostly because of bad writing. god. goro deserves better than this
goro was a vulnerable kid with powers, and that made him a perfect puppet for shido. imagine if he had known about changing hearts sooner, because no one ever told him about it. imagine if he was able to bring his wild card ability to its full potential, and dont even get me started with the fact that he was a wild card user. this post about wild cards and goro really makes you think, but that isnt the point of this post, so
anyway its 2 am im tired Good Night Have A Swell Night Sir
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