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sielunroskaa · 1 year
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Wonky biromantic heterosexual flag I made in Ibis Paint X, go!
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I dont want to come of as rude here, this is a genuine question - but how can someone be homoromantic and bisexual and so on..? Like, I know asexual people can be homoromantic and aromantic people can be bisexual but i'm not familiar with homoromantic bi? Once again I really dont want to seem rude, I am genuinely confused
hey! first off, thank you for genuinely trying to understand :D I can't be 100% sure where the communication breaks down lol but I hope this helps you. I'm trying to go into a lot of detail, as I'd like to direct people to this answer for future questions, should they come up.
So you understand how someone can be aro or ace and still experience sexual or romantic attraction respectively, right? These two types of attraction, though people often group them together, are not necessarily going to be the same. They're not always targeted at the same people: a heteroromantic asexual man, for example, is sexually attracted to nobody, but romantically attracted to women.
From there you can understand that a homoromantic bisexual man would be romantically attracted only to men, and sexually attracted to multiple genders; he would have the desire for romantic relationships with specific men, and desire for sex with specific people of multiple genders.
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varioriented-pride · 5 months
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Would a homoflexiable( romantically), bisexual count as vari orientation??
of course yes. unless one is both bisexual anisosexual and biromantic anisoromantic (aniso- = homoflexible).
variorientation of anisoromantic (homoflexibleromantic) and bisexual would mean that, even though you may be attracted to the same number of genders both romantically and sexually, it may work differently.
homoflexible has different interpretations. you could prefer people of your own gender, you could be mostly attracted to the same gender (predominant same-gender/sex attraction), you could pursue or feel more intense attraction when you're partnering or in relationship with folks of similar genders, that you choose only to date your own gender, you're bicurious or have a fluid orientation.
so, for example, you're mostly attracted to the same gender romantically but in sexuality you don't have a preference or it's regardless of gender (some bisexuals define it that way), it would mean that you can be attracted sexually to someone but not romantically, usually because they are differently gendered/sexed. so in that way you'd be varioriented, because you can be sexually attracted to people you're not romantically into.
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myfandomgarbage · 1 year
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Task Force 141 (+ Alejandro) queer headcanons
Here are some of my COD Modern Warfare queer headcanons! /pos
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[Image ID: A screenshot of Price from Modern Warfare (2022), with the 9 stripped queer flag, and aroflux flag on his left, and the words “Price” and “he/him” on his left. The background is white.]
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[Image ID: A screenshot of Ghost from Modern Warfare (2022), with the trans masculine, non-binary man, genderfuck and mascflux flags on his left, and the variorientated, acefluxm gay and lesboy flags and words “Ghost” and “he/it” on his left. The background is white.]
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[Image ID: A screenshot of Soap from Modern Warfare (2022), with the trans masculine and abrosexual flags on his left, and the words “Soap” and “primarily he/him, but doesn’t particularly care, just not she/her” on his left. The background is white.]
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[Image ID: A screenshot of Gaz from Modern Warfare (2022), with the intersex, bisexual and graysexual flags on his left, and the words “Gaz” and “he/him” on his right. The background is white.]
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[Image ID: A screenshot of Alejandro from Modern Warfare (2022), with the bisexual, heteroromantic and homoalterous flags on his left, and the words “Alejandro” and “he/him” on his left. The background is white.]
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varioriented culture is not liking the term "split attraction model" because
1. "split" makes it sound like each of my orientations are just parts of one bigger orientation rather than their own full orientations. there's already an attitude that varioriented people's orientations aren't real, that one is more real than the other or that we are really this or that. our orientations aren't seen as their own orientations and this term kind of reinforces this idea.
2. "attraction" is equated with orientation here, even though there are many people who experience different kinds of attraction but aren't varioriented/don't label multiple orientations, like many people labelling themselves as "just ace" or "just aro", despite acknowledging that they do experience other kinds of attraction they don't find worth labelling. the term "split attraction model" is often used to describe variorientation/multi-orientation labelling, even though they are not always the same thing.
3. "model" makes it sounds like this is something that only exist in theory rather than a real thing or like something that is applied to other people to analyse them.
4. the term came directly from ace exclusionists who claimed that aces and aros "forced the split attraction model" onto other queer people simply by using labels such as aromantic lesbian or pan asexual. before that, ace and aro communities didn't have a name for this, people just used multiple labels without having a word for that. later people came up with the terms varioriented and multi-orientation labelling which are both older than the term split attraction model and were created by varioriented people themselves rather than by people harassing us.
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arcticcirclesystem · 3 years
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What’s a straight lesbian/gays
Typically used by some multigender people who are attracted to women or men respectively and consider themselves both straight and lesbian/gay due to their multigender status, i.e. someone who is a man and a woman at various times or at the same time and is attracted to women may use this sort of label to describe themselves and I think that's pretty cool. Also theoretically it could be used to mean homoromantic heterosexual or heteroromantic homosexual (or similar terms), though we haven't seen that yet. ~Red
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tapet-wallpapers · 3 years
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Varioriented wallpapers/backgrounds
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358-2-genders · 3 years
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Varioriented/Variorientation pride flag redesign!
Variorientation is when your romantic and sexual orientations do not match. Examples of this are asexual biromantics, aromantic homosexuals, or biromantic homosexuals!
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sandutita · 4 years
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i made a few respect-drawings
hope you like them
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sielunroskaa · 1 year
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What I've learned this year (about myself, mostly):
-unlabeled queer people can face the similar problems that labeled queer people face.
-Even though i dont actually recognise myself in the word 'queer' since I am "mostly straight", i still? Kind of am? Queer? And surprisingly I've used the word in my diary cause there's not many ways to describe why I feel so bad.
-I can relate to a lot more queer people than I would've guessed. Much more many people are varioriented/part of the SAM than I would have thought.
-the word 'varioriented'♡♡♡♡♡ it's so pretty♡♡♡♡♡♡♡
-I don't have to FEEL queer to BE queer. I still feel mostly hetero, my heterosexuality is a bigger part of my identity than my biromanticism.
-aesthetic attraction does not really mean you have romantic feelings towards the person.
-it is now sure that the feelings I have for my friend are in fact romantic, since them calling me a friend made me feel a bit weird. Like, I dont see them that way? As a friend?
-maybe my feelings towards them are not much of a crush anymore, just more like an obsession.
-I don't like men cause I feel sexual attraction towards them and I don't like it when I feel like I'm not in control of my feelings and body.
-I'm very hypocritical cause im overly critical of queer couples and people and get angry for no reason when I view their posts. While still crushing on girls myself.
-Overall the way I've viewed couples and the idea of a relationship, doesn't make sense.
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crazyalien87 · 4 years
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random personal rant about being varioriented and voidpunk.
(sorry if this sounds mad or confusing. I’m in a bad mood right now. also they will probably be a lot of swear words that may or may not be censored.)
One of the reasons I’m voidpunk is because I’m varioriented. When I see discourse against varioriented people, a lot of it says sh-- like “that’s not how human sexuality works” or something like that.
Do ya’ll know how effing mean that is?
You’re basically saying (even if you didn’t mean to) that since someone is attracted to people differently than you are, that they are less human than you. Do you know how effed up that sounds? Especially when coming from another lgbt person, considering, that is how homophobes treat lgbt people. (when they say sh-- like being lgbt is “unnatural” or a “disorder”).
Look, I don’t effing care if you understand me or my sexuality. But to imply that I’m less than human because of it is messed up. If someone were to say the same thing about lesbians, people would be reporting them and calling them homophobic in the blink of an eye. Bu
The LGBT community is supposed to be for people who don’t fit society’s gender/sexuality norms. It is especially insulting when your fellow LGBT treat you like sh-- because you don’t fit THEIR gender/sexuality norms.
(And yes, saying “ohh it’s just comphet” is still insulting because, even though that might be true, that is NOT for you to figure out. Implying that a whole group of people don’t understand their own sexuality more than you, a STRANGER, is condescending as heck.)
(Also, comphet would still effing exist if the Split Attraction Model didn’t exist. People would still accidentally label themselves as something other than what they actually are.)
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variorientedcultureis · 6 months
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Varioriented culture is being allosexual alloromantic but feeling more accepted by the aspec/arospec community because of your variorientation
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Self harm is searching bi lesbian on twitter
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arcticcirclesystem · 3 years
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hey what are straight lesbians/gays? i've never heard those terms before /gen
Well, they can refer to someone who is homoromantic heterosexual or heteroromantic homosexual, though straight lesbian is most commonly used by multigender people who are both mlw and wlw, while straight gay/turian/veldian is used by multigender people who are both wlm and mlm. ~Charlie
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raspberry-vari · 3 years
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Varioriented wallpaper/background
This is from the mobile app PolyGen.
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tapet-wallpapers · 3 years
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Varioriented wallpapers/backgrounds 2
They are based off of this varioriented flag by @arondn:
link: https://arondn.tumblr.com/post/183622744901/so-i-made-a-varioriented-pride-flag-i-couldnt
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