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mxmspeedster · 10 months
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sfw alphabet with oscar piastri
mentions of male reader and toxic relationships but nothing graphic. and swearing, but your here so thats on you. fair warning, i'm mildly dyslectic but i had grammarly to help me this time so i should be better than the last one lmao.
auto correct saved my life on this one, i wrote in two hours listening to viva la vida but lofi on repeat.
a- affection (how affectionate are they? how do they show affection?)
hugs !! my god does this boy love to hug you. his driver room? hugs. middle of a flight? he will hug you. cooking? back hugs. he will do anything for a hug. he also loves to give you small, everyday things that remind him of you. he sees a flower shop with your favorites in the window, he’ll by them for you. soft toy of your favorite animal? he’ll get one, put a little bow on it and gift it to you. he would so give you a little ring with ‘81’ on the inside, if you played a sport/raced he would have a matching one with your number in it. and if you didn’t, he would put your initials. vv sweet baby.
b- best friend (what would they be like as a best friend? how would the friendship start?)
he would drag you to his house to watch every single race when you were kids. you’d be forced to sit next to each other in the seating plan and became fast friends, especially if you’re good at math, (why do you think i have so many friends?) he would miss a lot for racing so you’d take extra notes for him so he would buy you a little trinket at every race, and you’d put them all on a shelf. (your parents had to take you to IKEA and get new shelves, just for the trinkets.)
c- cuddles (do they like to cuddle? how would they cuddle?)
little spoon. even better if you’re taller than him. if you disagree, you can talk to the rock wall as i climb it. (i’m a rock climber btw, this isn’t meant to be a joke)
d- domestic (do they want to settle down? how are they at cooking and cleaning?)
he cooks and bakes a lot. (in Australia, you have a class (i had to take if for two years but that varies) on cooking, he would thrive there). he would do all the cooking because he loves it so much, so you would always clean up to share the work load. he would so want to by a little cozy house, maybe on a hobby farm, and adopt kids with you. you would take in sibling sets so they wouldn’t get separated in the system. i can see him doing that later in his career (after he wins a WDC maybe), and he would be a stay at home (working form home) dad for your little family (of like 10 kids across four adoptions and a surrogacy) while you worked full time.
e- ending (if they break up with their partner, how do they do it?)
he would let them down gently. he wouldn’t break up with someone for no reason, so if it was out of his control, he would by flowers and do it somewhere privet but with no real sentimental value to anyone. he’d cry doing it too. but like i said, unless they cheated of him, bby wouldn’t break up with anyone, ever. it probably meant he had a toxic high school relationship that one of his sisters had to get him out of because he didn’t want to make anyone upset :(
f- fiance(e) (how do they feel about commitment? how quick would they be to get married?)
if he won an aus gp he would so take you out to dinner at his favorite place (he looks like the kinda guy to take you grilld at any and every opportunity) and propose to you at a park with ice cream afterwards. i think he would have no problem settling down. it’d give him some peace of mind that he always had someone in his corner to go home to after a bad race or stressful day.
g- gentle (how gentle are they, both physically and emotionally?)
he would treat you like glass, even if you could kill him with your bare hands, he’d still be so so so gentle with you. he’d always ask you how you’re feeling, and would tilt his head while listen to you talk about your emotions. the king of communication. 100%.
h- hugs (do they like hugs? what are their hugs like?)
he loves hugs. i will not be elaborating. (especially if you lay on top of him, he loves it, it makes him feel so safe.)
i- i love you (how fast do they say the l-word?)
depends on how long he’s known you. if you met as kids, he’d probably say it to you before you got together (in a platonic way.) but otherwise he’d wait until you said it to him.
j- jealousy (how jealous do they get? what do they do when they’re jealous?)
he gets jelous so easlity, but he wouldn’t show it. if someone was flirting with you, he’d go all quite and moody as he holds your hand tighter or hugs your waist. he won’t outwardly do anything to anyone because he trusts you so much, he knows you would never do anything.
k- kisses (what are their kisses like? where do they like to kiss you? where do they like to be kissed?)
he loves to kiss you. he would kiss your cheek then blush and run away. if you had tattoos, he would so kiss them. if you kissed him, anywhere, he would melt into a pile of goo and mark would have to stop him spacing out every five minutes for the rest of the day.
l- little ones (how are they around children?)
he loves children. did you see him with the grid kids at the aus gp? he didn’t look like he stepped on lego for once. if you had to baby sit a small child (between 4yo and 10yo) he is so coming with you. he’d probably enjoy the toys/shows you give to the kid than the actual kid.
m- morning (how are mornings spent with them?)
if you had a whole day off, you would just never leave the bed. he’s be so cuddly and soft. if you try moving before 10 am he would complain that it’s too cold without you. then you’d make breakfast and eat on the balcony/porch together. until lando or logan comes over unannounced and insist that you all play a video game.
n- night (how are nights spent with them?)
so so so soft. he goes to bed a 7 pm on the dot every day. the golden light from the setting sun would be so cute. he’d look like a teddy bear. he’d also insist that he childhood toy would sleep with you guys.
o- open (when would they start revealing things about themselves? do they say everything at one or wait a white to reveal things slowly? )
he’d be so mysterious and would suddenly drop lore like he’s a dad or something. you wouldn’t know anything for months, then you suddenly know his favorite flower is a daisy and he once had to go the hospital because he ate a dandelion. then you have to wait months for any new information.
p- patience (how easily angered are they?)
he is a saint. unless your lando, logan or fredrik, then he is perpetually annoyed at you. if you had a disability (both visible or invisible) he’d be so so patient with you if you were slower to get somewhere/do something/understand him. and if you spoke a different language, he’d learn it in secret so you could talk. he’d probably be more comfortable talking in your native language than in english, he gives me the vibes of “i don’t like speaking English to people i’m close to, it doesn’t feel special enough for them.”
q- quizzes (how much would they remember about you? do they remember every detail you mention in passing, or do they kind of forget everything?)
he would remember every little detail you ever tell him ever. your favorite pen brand you mentioned as you walked though officeworks or your Favorite teacher from when you were 5. he will remember everything. until you ask him, then he forgets his own name.
r- remember (what is their favorite moment in your relationship?)
when you brought him flowers for the first time when he was still in f3. you brought them for him when you went on your first in person date since covid started and he took them home and pressed them so he could put them in a frame and keep them forever. he’d set the photo of you two from that date as his wallpaper and would always show it to people like “look at my man :D”
s- security (how protective are they? how would they protect you?)
he would wrap himself around you entirely when he wants to protect you but he also cried when he almost killed a spider so i don’t think he’d be capable of anything else.
t- try (how much effort would they put into dates, anniversaries, gifts everyday tasks?)
he puts so much effort it making things special for you were ever he can but it’s all or nothing. it’s either pizza on the living room floor with a shitty film, or the most expensive wine he could find with a home cooked, three course meal on a balcony in Paris. he’d always make is special for you, but it depends on his mood and what he can do.
u- ugly (what would be some bad habits of theirs?)
he’d bite your fingers if you put them too close to his mouth. he’d get the overwhelming sense of love and would bite your fingers to keep your hands on him or at least close to him because he would cry otherwise. this wouldn’t be a problem for you if it weren't for the fact he has sharp teeth and a strong jaw.
v- vanity (how concerned are they with their looks?)
he does not care. he does not give two fucks about how he looks. until it’s a fancy date, then he cares. he’d learn how to do eyeliner so he’d look extra good for you. (him in eyeliner, i’d pay money to see that)
w- whole (would they feel incomplete without you?)
absolutely. he would cry every night he couldn’t be with you or call/talk to/see you. he would take your clothes so he could feel even just a little but closer to you.
x- xtra (a random headcanon for them)
he’d call you ducky. no reason for it. he just called you that one day and never stopped.
y- yuck (what are somethings they wouldn’t like, either in general or in a partner?)
he wouldn’t want someone who would always one up him or treat him like a baby. he also wouldn’t want someone who always did all the cooking and cleaning while he just did nothing. he’d probably cry if the work load wasn’t split evenly.
z- zzz (what is a sleep habit of theirs)
he’d take all the blankets. even in an aussie summer, he insists on sleeping with three blankets and you’ll always wake up at 3am with no blankets and again at 6am with him (and all the blankets) on top of you.
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soul-of-rei · 2 years
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1, 5, 6, 15, 31, 38, aaaand 40 for the loz asks ! info dump to ur heart’s content 🖤
hi frend !!!!!! i hope youre having a good day and yes i. will not be shutting up here AJSKAKAKA <3
1. Is there a Zelda game(s) that you associate with each season or time of year?
i mean,,,,, the obvious answer here would be Oracle of Seasons for everything AHSHSSH but in reality i never thought about this ?? where i live we really don’t have the four seasons (it’s just either hot or rain) so it’s not a thing that crossed my mind until the ask game. that being said tho, TP does seem like a vv cozy game for fall and WW has the perfect setting and vibe for a summer playthrough. other than that, idk !! interesting question tho <33
5. Favorite LOZ soundtrack?
already answered! WW <33
6. Is there a Zelda game that intimidates you/looks too hard?
i will. never be playing the original LoZ and Adventure of Link </3 i have heard nothing but stories on how stupidly hard AoL is and tbh i don’t wanna stress myself out on that. i’ve also discovered that i get progressively worse with zelda games ?? if the game’s release date is close to or back in the 90′s AJSJAJAJ i noticed it with LA, then it became obvious with ALttP. so overall if it was published before the 2000′s i probably won’t be playing it </3 (with the exception of OoT bc its 3D and iconic SHSHSHS)
putting the rest under a cut bc this post is obnoxiously long otherwise
15. Favorite location within Hyrule?
THIS IS HARD IT DEPENDS </3 if i had to narrow down a specific place above all else, it would be Akkala in BoTW <33 it’s just. a really pretty spot especially with all the multi colored trees <33 i would unironically love to visit a spot like that irl if it does exist. but if we’re talking about areas that consistently appear throughout multiple games it might either be Faron Woods or Zora’s Domain. Lake Hylia also wouldn’t be a bad place to visit if it existed irl :00
31. Hardest dungeon played?
OH GOD HI VAH NABORIS WAS??? UNBELIEVABLY HARD AHSHAAHAH i remember i spent an hour in total on just the terminals, so roughly 10 mins each just. trying to figure out how the fuck to do one terminal. by the time i was ready to fight thunderblight i legitimately had a really bad headache but i still pushed through bc i wanted to do all the divine beasts in one go without leaving for anything. the fight came and i beat it first try but??? the fucking second phase with the metal rods that you’re supposed to magnesis was so hard bc Thunderblight was a headache by itself to reach in time before the rods went off SJSJSJSJS shoutout to Revali’s Gale when i first played through it, i swear some of the areas are literally unreachable unless you already completed Medoh </3
38. Creepiest enemy?
i hate skulltulas. i hate spiders, i hate webs, i hate giant spiders ON webs. they’re only reason why i’m not ok with the Skyview Temple and Ancient Cistern in SkSw. i pretend to not see that one sidequest in OoT with the skulltula family, and if ever i get TP i’m making somebody else do the boss fight in the Temple of Time for me. just. fuck spiders AJSJAJJAJA
40. Most out-of-place thing in the series?
this is kinda like the first question in the sense that i’ve never thought about this?? i think Nintendo does a really good job in tying things together and making everything make sense as to why at happens, at least within the game itself. but imo, i never really liked Astor in Age of Calamity for this kind of reason,,,,, he just seemed like an antagonist that was made without warning, just plopped down in the game bc we already know how the events pre-calamity play out and Nintendo needed to spice things up a bit. imo, they still could have told a compelling story (and arguably, a better one) without him having to exist to antagonize the characters. idk, i just really don’t like him as a character </3
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mrshcloset · 4 months
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God at the Crossroads
Stand at the crossroads and look; . . . ask where the good way is, and walk in it. Jeremiah 6:16
READ Deuteronomy 30:15–20
LISTEN ONLINE
After days of illness and then spiking a high temperature, it was clear my husband needed emergency care. The hospital admitted him immediately. One day folded into the next. He improved, but not enough to be released. I faced the difficult choice to stay with my husband or fulfil an important work trip where many people and projects were involved. My husband assured me he’d be fine. But my heart was torn between him and my work.
God’s people needed His help at the crossroads of life’s decisions. Far too often, they hadn’t adhered to His revealed instructions. So Moses implored the people to “choose life” by following His commands (Deuteronomy 30:19). Later, the prophet Jeremiah offered words of direction to God’s wayward people, wooing them to follow His ways: “Stand at the crossroads and look; ask for the ancient paths, ask where the good way is, and walk in it” (Jeremiah 6:16). The ancient paths of Scripture and God’s past provision can direct us.
I imagined myself at a physical crossroads and applied Jeremiah’s template of wisdom. My husband needed me. So did my work. Just then, my supervisor called and encouraged me to remain home. I drew a breath and thanked God for His provision at the crossroads. God’s direction doesn’t always come so clearly, but it does come. When we stand at the crossroads, let’s make sure to look for Him.
By Elisa Morgan
REFLECT & PRAY
Where do you need direction today? How might God be revealing Himself to you?
Dear God, when I’m uncertain, help me to stand at the crossroads and look for Your provision.
SCRIPTURE INSIGHT
After God delivered the Israelites from Egypt, that generation (except for Caleb and Joshua) disqualified themselves from being permitted to enter the promised land because they failed to trust God (Deuteronomy 1:32-37). The book of Deuteronomy (the name comes from a Greek word meaning “second law”) addresses the younger generation about to enter the land. In it, Moses teaches them God’s law and stresses the importance of fully obeying it.
In chapter 30, Moses urged them to enter into a covenant, or binding commitment, to be wholly devoted to God (vv. 15-20). Through this covenant, the new generation would pledge anew their devotion to God and His law. In the ancient Near East, covenant ceremonies would typically include calling on deities as witness to the promises made. Since God is the only true God, in this covenant, His creation—heaven and earth—is called as a witness (v. 19).
Monica La Rose
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feelslikeacruelsummer · 9 months
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my oc headcanons
!! this is an exercise i’m doing with OC’s i’ve created for fics i’m writing, I do this to get to know my characters better and to help develop them into deeper and more complex characters. !!
(highly recommend doing if you’re any type of a creative writer its vv fun)
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James O’Connell from Just a Summer Thing
17
hikes with his dog, sasha every weekend.
a bit of a homie-hopper
LOVES to fish
lacrosse boy (ick)
loves boating, swimming, and fishing in the lake in his town.
very popular
skateboards everywhere
takes sasha on her walks but skating with her running by his side
obsessed with dogs
his obsession with his pup and how good he is with little kids makes him pull hella bitches
has a little sister that he loves more than anything, he spoils her
works at the small business, local-run home depot type store in his town
has two moms
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Augusta (August) Taylor from Just a Summer Thing
17
moved to the town from manhattan, nyc with her dad and dog
severe anxiety
bakes to forget her feelings
her mom died of cancer when august was 3
wants to be a baker when she grows up
has a wiener dog named weenie whom she loves very much
bikes everywhere
reads reads reads and reads more
stresses to get good grades
very close with her dad and is an only child
bisexual with a female preference. even tho her dad is accepting she’s not out.
iced latte addict
moved to the town after her dad got a new job working at a real estate firm
her dad started seeing this lady named Claire who worked at the same firm and August HATES claire.
claire hates weenie which only makes august hate her more and august tries to be a good sport but her dad and her fight about claire a lot.
suffers with disordered eating when she’s anxious, and tends to accidentally go days without eating when life is hectic
is a super helpless romantic
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Bettilyn (Betty) Hugo from Just a Summer Thing
17
divorced parents but her dad lives in chicago so she lives with her mom and three little sisters
has lived in this town her whole life
natural redhead and hates it
bisexual and demigirl
she / they
lives on a farm with ducks, cows, alpacas, barn cats, horses, goats, sheep, a couple dogs and lots of chickens—though her family doesn’t profit off of it
loves animals more than people
when she’s anxious she’ll go out on the cow pasture and just sit.
used to get in trouble because she’d go missing for hours just for her parents to find her in the fields talking to the animals
refuses to see a therapist and claims that cows are great listeners thank you very much
has a special bond with a certain alpaca named willow
works at the coffee shop slash cat cafe slash book store chaos that her mom runs, and she hates it when the popular girls from her school come in
is a firm believer that skinny dipping is good for the soul
hates the party + drug + alcohol scene with a passion
has only 2 close friends, Ivy and Dorothea; and that’s all she needs.
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Emmeria (Emma) Cohen from When Emma Falls In Love
23
speaks hebrew with her family
very successful actress
always cusses out the paparazzi in hebrew and finds it hilarious when they don’t understand what she’s saying
lives part time in LA and part time in New York, though her parents live in Tennessee
grew up in Memphis tennesee, since thats where her parents moved when they immigrated from israel
has naturally super curly hair but hardly anyone knows since she always keeps it straightened
emmy winning actress for her lead role in ‘The Last Star Of Endor’
lesbian but not out publicly
throws herself into her work unhealthily when everything else is spiraling
always goes and celebrates hanukkah with her sister (and her wife) and their parents to see their extended family in Haifa (Israel)
is gluten free
goes by emma because she gets less questions then if she goes by Emmeria
has a dog back home named cracker, who she named when she was six because “cracker” is the first word she learned in english
she always mixes up english and hebrew in her sentances
hates nepotism babies with a passion because her parents had to work so hard to even survive here in the us and provide for emma and her sister, and then emma had to work 3 times as hard to earn her spot in the industry and some people were just handed everything on a plate
chronically late and her publicist hates her for it
cannot follow interview training whatsoever so she always says random shit and leaves a mess for her publicist vera to help fix, but vera just finds it funny
thinks coffee is a sin to the mortal world
best friends with her costar, Star and very close with her sister and parents.
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Elliara (Ellie) Cohen from When Emma Falls In Love
26
Emma’s older sister
works for the idf (israeli defense forces)
works as a K9-unit with her K9 Luna
loves her sister but is secretly scared that she wont be able to handle the pressure from the media
bisexual but hides it from her parents even if they are accepting of Emma, Ellie just can’t let go of that oldest sibling perfectionism
secretly has a girlfriend who she met working in Israel, they’ve been dating for three years and no one in Ellie’s family knows
Ellie and her girlfriend Miriam have talked about marriage but Ellie’s scared as shit of telling her parents that she not only dated a girl in secret for three years but also found the one she wants to be with forever and the one she wants to start a family with.
while working, Ellie’s sector was bombed and in the bombing while helping civilians to the bomb shelter, she injured her leg to the point of amputation. in the hospital there, Miriam went face to face with Emma and Ellie’s parents
after recovering from the surgery, Ellie trained Luna to be her Ptsd service dog, and ellie, luna, and miriam moved to the us to be closer to ellie’s family and to start their own.
is very content working at the israeli comfort meets american comfort food diner she and miriam started while miriam is pregnant with their first child.
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ka1rosnan · 2 years
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--Revolotea sobre nosotros--
5 de octubre
Lee por favor: Dt. 32:7-12
La Biblia en un año: Isaías 23–25; Filipenses 1
… Lo guardó como […] el águila que […] revolotea sobre sus pollos… (vv. 10-11).
La hija de Beatriz llegó de un viaje al exterior y se sentía mal. Cuando el dolor se hizo insoportable, ella y su esposo la llevaron a una sala de emergencias. Los médicos y las enfermeras pusieron manos a la obra, y horas después, las enfermeras le dijeron a Betty: «¡Va a estar bien! La atenderemos y se sanará». En ese momento, un sentimiento de paz y amor brotó de su interior. Se dio cuenta de que, mientras revoloteaba ansiosamente sobre su hija, el Señor es el padre perfecto que alimenta a sus hijos y los consuela en los momentos difíciles.
En Deuteronomio, el Señor le recuerda a su pueblo la forma en que, mientras peregrinaban por el desierto, se había ocupado de él como un padre amoroso que revolotea sobre su cría. Nunca los abandonó, sino que fue como un águila que «extiende sus alas» para reunir a sus hijos y «los lleva sobre sus plumas» (32:11). Quería que recordaran que, aunque experimentaran dificultades y luchas en el desierto, no los abandonaría.
Nosotros también enfrentamos toda clase de desafíos, pero podemos experimentar consuelo y valor al recordar que nuestro Dios nunca nos abandona. Cuando sintamos que estamos cayendo, el Señor, como un águila, extenderá sus alas para tomarnos y darnos su paz.
— Amy Boucher Pye
Hoy en día, pareciera que no hay ninguna diferencia entre las situaciones que prevalecen en la vida de los cristianos y los no creyentes, sufrimos igual, nos enfermamos, tenemos situaciones complicadas en la familia, con nuestros hijos, en lo laboral y las crisis financieras están haciendo del ser humano un manojo de nervios y stress, la desesperanza aumenta y la fe a veces disminuye, pero sí, hay una diferencia muy grande entre unos y otros, que Dios nos escogió y nos cuida y guarda, hoy no sé qué tan grande es tu fe, no sé qué situaciones están pasando en tu vida, Dios te está diciendo :”te amo, ven a mi…” y muchas cosas más musita a tu alma, oído y espíritu, Que tengas un gran día y que la bendición de Cristo sea y permanezca en ti y en los que amas…¡Shalom!
--Padre celestial, gracias porque tu amor supera todo lo imaginable--.
--Nuestro Dios revolotea sobre nosotros con amor.--
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tempestainmare · 2 years
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Pare.o
14 luglio 2022, estate inoltrata e... ci vediamo il 10 settembre 2022. Noi è ufficialmente iniziata l'estate 2022.
Venerdì di partenze (domani) e... the family man. Auto stracolme di valigie, pochi effetti personali e kili di cibo e detersivo. Non è una vacanza, uno stress GENERATO. Chissà se lo rivedrò! Ci penso, mi manca l'aria.
7 giorni? Macchè, NOI non meno di 14 e più di 15. Viaggi in treno? Ovvio che no! SOLO AUTO personale.
Come preparare la valigia?
Abbinamento perfetto.
Carta e penna, perchè diciamocela tutta, solo la carta fa fede.
I pasti scandiscono il tempo. Ogni pasto un cambio d'abito. Ne scriveremo uno e basta, comando io ok!
Colazione niente pigiama se siete in hotel, la perfezione è nel make-up, mai sobrio.
Cornetto BASE con latte bianco e... outfit da camera, come se TUTA.
Cara VV, tu sei sempre gentile e disponibile. NOI siamo chiuse in casa, maxi scorta carta igienica. Non vogliamo più vivere ma solo "shekerando".
Care NOI, vita NOI, scelte NOI.
Nessun abito a caso.
Ogni outfit richiede la scarpa adatta con la relativa borsetta co-o-rdinata.
BASE: Abitino corto nero
scarpa rossa+ borsetta mini rossa+ collana di perle grandi rossa+ frontino nero tra i capelli sciolti.
L'AMORE è anche questo, ALGORITMO.
Venerdì è sempre family mood. Che sia vacanza estiva o vacanza invernale, sempre resta sempre e mai per sempre.
Domani molti di voi saranno alle prese con le valigie da riempire. Per le DIVINE, i dettagli fanno la differenza SEMPRE.
Gli abbinamenti, la scarpa giusta, la borsa giusta, l'anello che fa tendenza.
Il marocchino in spiaggia da torturare e il baretto da frequentare.
VV, NOI siamo nascoste in casa.
L'AMORE è anche questo, ti aspetto al tramonto. IO e TETETE.
LUI è a Sharm, è rientrato nel tardo pomeriggio con la moglie Linett.
Cosa ricordare:
surgelati;
spesa fine settimana con il marito;
serata inlove;
pannolini e babysitter;
4evere and ever;
uscita serale;
VACANZEEEEEEEE!!!!
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dearsukuna · 3 years
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𝐌𝐄𝐆𝐔𝐌𝐈, 𝐒𝐀𝐓𝐎𝐑𝐔, 𝐓𝐎𝐆𝐄, 𝐘𝐔𝐔𝐉𝐈 𝐖𝐈𝐓𝐇 𝐀 𝐏𝐎𝐖𝐄𝐑𝐅𝐔𝐋 𝐒/𝐎
INTRODUCING: ❝ can you do megumi, satoru, toge and yuji where the reader is more powerful than them, or really power, please ❞ (REQUESTED)
STARRING: FUSHIGURO MEGUMI, GOJO SATORU, INUMAKI TOGE, ITADORI YUUJI.
TAGS: GN READER! HEADCANON FORMAT ENJOY ><
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—FUSHIGURO MEGUMI
my love <3
you are his drive for him to strive to be better
wait omg that rhymed #poetic or wtv 😈🤟
gets you to train him a lot
megumi also feels very honoured
that you’re his, like man <3
you try to push him a lot too
not like in a bad way but
he has sm potential
so you just wanna draw it out
omg he secretly hopes to be paired with you for missions
so that he can just be w u<3<3
but since you’re really strong
you get sent to a lot of missions too
so he just waits for you to come back a lot :((
like man.. he misses you sm
— GOJO SATORU
cocky mf
very competitive 🙄😪
lit makes it a competition to see who can exorcise more curses
but he feels assured everytime you go on missions,, cause like.. you’re strong
ALWAYS WANTS TO SPAR W U
like 😐😐 go train itadori or smth
ALSO HE BRAGS A LOT??
okay in a case where you are stronger than him
he would be so pouty
BUT AT THE SAME TIME
HE WLD STILL ACT LIKE HE’S ‘IT’
“no babe they just haven’t seen us fight”
“im just letting you take the title of strongest babe don’t get so full of yourself”
like okay mr. gojo satoru 😐
— INUMAKI TOGE
ngl toge would sometimes get a little insecure
but he knows how hard you trained to come here
so he’s super proud!!
he watches you train a lot
just stands there like 🧍‍♂️
like ok toge just be there ig 😫
sometimes gets you to spar with him too
omg but like cursed speech user…
cant rlly give praise using food
so he gives you A LOT of thumbs up
like u wld do smth and he would just ‘ding’ his thumbs
vv supportive
so cute la honestly
— ITADORI YUJI
gets you to train him alot!!
he lit ADORES u
before u n him started dating
he has SO MUCH respect for u
even sukuna thought he was kookoo 😐😐
treats you like 🧎‍♂️🧎‍♂️
you > gojo 😫😫
omg but not u becoming his role model??
like man… you’re his age but you’re so much better??
he wants to be like you <3
also unlike SOMEONE he doesn’t brag at all <3
sukuna isn’t impressed 😐
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author’s note: OMFG?? ITS FINALLY DECEMBER!! XMAS PLAYLIST PLAYING 24/7 RN!! ALSO THANK U FOR REQUESTING NONNIE!! ENJOY UR XMAS SEASON AND I HOPE YOU ENJOYED THIS <3 WAIT ACTUALLY SORRY THIS WAS RLLY MESSY AND I FINISHED THIS IN A DAY SORRY
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Just Little Malkavian Things ~
Malkavians these days can do nothing but de-conceptualize, Dement, eat hot chip, and lie.
Since people seemed to enjoy the #JustLittleVentrueThings VTMB adventure, here's a matching Malkavian one. Though I'm gonna be real with ya here, I had less fun D:
I finally figured out why I have such trouble wrapping my head around depictions of Malkavians in VTM media. Books, Storytellers, and fans say it's like having a mental illness and being linked to a massive group chat. But, listen, I've lived around and with mental illness all my life. I've been in massive group chats. Being Malkavian ain't like that.
It IS like being an early-twenties English major in the midst of an existential crisis, over-worked and cross-faded outta your skull and watching horror movies to Cope(TM)
So it's like drugs. It's like you had too much weed and too much wine and are let loose on Los Angeles. Which. My friends and I have and we, coincidentally, also "fought" a stop sign. The Malkavian PC never really seemed like a character to me: she's like a collection of cliches and dude-bros doing blunts while watching slasher movies. I named her Liotta after the Psychic Shop owner, and I'm sad Liotta didn't really get to be a person.
I wasn't surprised by any of the dialog. It's a pattern. Alliteration, allusion, animal joke. Alliteration, allusion, animal joke. It lost its charm.
Often, I didn't know what the FUCK I was saying. Which is the Malkavian Experience(TM), according to Rosa.
Anyway
Nonsense time
Most characters have an extra paragraph of dialog to Acknowledge That You Are A Malkavian. Some get an extra conversation branch. For example, there's lots of new Bertie dialog and he was all impressed Liotta knows about Gehenna and Thin-bloods <3. The Anarchs characters, especially Skelter, get a lot more. Skelter, Ash, and Liotta totally vibe.
If you sneak around the Santa Monica drug house, they talk about Mercurio?? Hello?? Mercurio, you bent Masquerade by not getting beat up real good.
Zero pretense about Voerman. Yes, I have DID; yes, I am making it your problem.
When Liotta talked to Beckett, he said the DID was "something to look forward to." Goddamnit, Beckett. That's not how the Bane or mental illness works! >:-(
I've never sneaked before!!! Did you know that the Tong AND the American gang downtown have fakes in their suitcases??? Like, Full On, "it's just stuffed with newspapers, brah." They were going to kill each other over newspapers. For some reason the Tong brought the REAL suitcase along too, but I'm so past having VTM make any sort of sense. It's fine.
Accidentally pissed off Nines. I meant farmer (affectionate) and Nines thought I meant farmer (derogatory). :(
The Dementation powers are (a) pretty purple loop-de-loops, (b) not as effective as Dominate (reaaaallyyy missed a good AOE attack), and (c) oddly enough, gave more compassionate dialog choices. I mean. In the pen-and-paper version, Dementation isn't conflict-focused, so the devs had to jigger it to use as attacks. But I was touched when Liotta made Hannah believe she was Paul, so Hannah got to say goodbye. Making Samantha believe Liotta was a pet turtle was funny and spared her the pain of her friend vanishing a second time. Heather thinks her entire experience was a dream and returns to her life, more or less unscathed.
Boris?? Asked Liotta to kill Venus for him???? DUDE, WHAT. I didn't know he could counter-offer!! What happens if you take up his offer? Who controls Confession? Does it close down??
Pro Tip: don't trust the pale woman in a cowboy stripper outfit who comes out of your vent and tells you everything's fine.
I went through an ENTIRE Ventrue playthrough without puking and Liotta ate one (1) unhoused person and blew chunks. I didn't realize Diseased Blood was a threat. What happens if you skip the Plague-bearer quest? Should you just never chomp on the Downtown unhoused community?
Strauss called Liotta "young one" and I was like, sir. You're not Beckett, you can't trick me.
A rat dances in the Downtown sewers and tells Liotta that the grass is greener in someone else's asshole.
And also will take you places.
Do you know what it's like for a Capri Sun to suddenly start speaking and offer taxi services.
LaCroix: how did Bach find me??? also LaCroix: [names his company after himself] [lives in Ventrue Tower]
Liotta told Beckett that Kindred are a joke and I got extra EXP for being so sneaky.
DMP produced snuff films even before Andrei???!!!! I thought all the blood was from the lil geo-dudes.
Liotta agreed with Andrei that Caine is here and boot-scooting around in his lil Angst Mobile. :D
As bad as Liotta was in group fights, she repeatedly made bosses cower and stand quietly while she beat them to death. Andrei had a full on lay-on-the-floor temper tantrum in his war form and Liotta just. Smacked him until he exploded. She didn't even take damage!
Imalia's computer password is ALSO "cleopatra." Just like Tawni's! Dual reference to the Embrace type
IDK why I never asked this before, but, um, who does Mitnick share the bunk bed with? Barabus..?
I went back to the Empire Hotel Penthouse suite to fetch the educational book and the Russian mob dudes were still there?? Hello, sirs, your leader is dead. You can leave now.
Liotta heard the real thoughts of the Red Dragon hostess...and also some debate about the Dark Father's presence in LA, heehee.
I thought it was fun that one of the "take me away, Cabbie!" taxi replies mentioned riding in a car like father and child. :D
"Why is the Mandarin giggling at me" is a sentence that came out of my face.
With the different dialog options, sometimes it's impossible to be polite to NPCs. For example: Liotta could only call VV "dolly/doll/toy doll" instead of her preferred names; the Chinatown gun seller felt frightened, thinking we were Police or Immigration.
Some great fourth wall breaks in the dialog: "I don't want to get involved either, but tell that to whoever is playing me!" to Beckett after the Giovanni Mansion.
"You can't spell success without whatever the hell my name is."
"If I cannot win with effort, I will cheat my way to victory. I am gone." Funnily enough, this was my first run where I didn't hack in to boost stats.
"I just want it to end. I feel like I've been playing forever."
Some nice wider lore references: "I devour knowledge like the great worm devours the corpse of society" could refer to how Salout, in tapeworm form, is devouring Tremere's body and destabilizing the Clan and/or Kindred night society.
"They should have a channel devoted to you in my head" to Beckett. In his Diary, Beckett witnesses Malkavians devouring Malkav and may or may not join the Cobweb (PS check out this great fanfic where he does).
This made me stare into space for a minute and question my life choices. During the Sabbat massacre, Liotta didn't snack on any of the blood doll ghouls (ya know, the ones with the eyes gouged out). She had such high Inspection + Finance that she had $4k in her wallet and could buy blood. I wanted to test a rumor that if you don't feed on the blood dolls, you get extra EXP. You do. BUT anywAY, right before the Tremere miniboss, Liotta was sword-fighting some goons and the blood doll...attacked him for her? Like. He moved on his own. When the goon was dead, the blood doll asked if Liotta was all right. This might have been a glitch but...the horrific implications that those men are still conscious, still willful, still feeling. ACK. I hope they got out the next morning.
RIP Ming Xiao. Flamethrower right to the tiddies.
I stole @ryttu3k's idea and noclipped through the werewolf section. Liotta still killed the Garou, but I didn't want the stress.
Caine is very Caine. "Don't you get it? We've already been judged!"
Liotta went Anarch because what little backstory I came up for her was she considered Smiling Jack her sire. Nines complimented her ability to murder.
Sheriff got sooooo dizzy that he fell over right onto Liotta's sword 27 times.
Dancing werewolf ending! Seemed fitting. :D
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need some hcs on arlo playing piano. i hc him as having piano player hands like long elegant fingers vv nice
i was watching my awesome piano major buddy play-
and just hit me ✨imagine arlo playing the piano✨
and i started giggling to myself kinda maniacally and my friend asked if their la campanella was making me insane.
- popcorn anon 🍿🥤
Piano suits him so well!!!🍿🥤🍭🍬🍫🧋
*He started playing piano when he was a kid
*His skill just got better and better and playing became more natural to him
*One of his ways of fidgeting is to play out songs on his arm or his leg
*He’d enjoy playing classical songs most, but he does know how to play a few modern songs.
*Whenever he hears music, like in the grocery store or something, he’s automatically planning out how he’d play it on piano
*He plays a lot when he’s stressed bc it helps him relax
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moidse · 3 years
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Just found out i didnt get into the sundance thing that i stayed up all night writing a script for last week 🙃 i truly feel so defeated right now. Like ahhhhhh, i was nominated to apply for this and STILL got rejected. I dont even apply to anything anymore because I don't have any hope. Nobody likes my shit anymore... it sucks. I dont even like my shit anymore... idk if i ever did i was just in school before and had a lot of positive feedback.
I just feel lost creatively. Like fully. I don't feel confident in my music. I dont feel confident in my writing. I just feel like I can't make anything that good nor do i have the funds to even if i had a good idea.
I just don't want to apply to any of these things anymore because I know they aren't looking for stuff like my work. Idk i just am tired and feel like i didnt take advantage of my first films success because i didnt know how and was still in school. Whatever, it doesnt matter how i could rewrite the past now... i just need to think about the future ... which is also depressing..
Like i cant afford to live on my own out here and i dont feel 100 about our relationship but i cant afford to live on my own so i feel trapped like i gotta still live in the same house which i do not want. I just feel stuck and depressed and i was really hoping i was going to get into this sundance thing and it could lead to more opportunities for me. Idk what to do... i feel like a has been.
In an ideal world, I'd like to live in a different apartment, possibly in LA. I'd like to start producing and making music for fun, making video ideas I have for fun and not stressing about how the world will perceive my art. I want to have a job that isn't super stressful and ideally works with my degree. I need a car.
---- few days later vv
I just want to be financially independent but its so hard because this world sux. I have been feeling like im in this relationship as a means of survival and i hate it!!! This has gone on too far and is just toxic and bad for everyone. I just need to break up with them like fr... and talk out me moving out soon and figure it out. I can't keep this up much longer im TIRED. And i hate how im jusy hurting them more and more like i just need to go and be like yo I'm sorry my feelings have just gone away and i honestly have felt like i cant talk about this because i rely on you so much for housing and transportation and so ive felt stuck.
Its fucked up that im with someone i dont think is hot... but like what do you do if you arent as into your partner... you break up so they can find someone who will be a good partner to them.
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Being best friends with Billy the Kid
Ask: Headcanons for being Billy the Kid’s best friend? Like what you’d do or how he’d help if you’re upset? I just really like this gunslinger boy. Keep up the good work on this blog, by the way! Been loving it so far.
Sent by: Anon
A/N: wahhh i remember this request ;;v;; i remember really liking this when i wrote it aaaa billy rly is a nice dude and i’m so happy he got more spotlight in lb1! i’ve attended an all-girls high school and i only have one guy friend who i wasn’t that close to (with college, i’ve made more guy friends but it’s still kind of awkward haha,,,) so i apologize if any of these may,,, look a bit weird??? in a sense??? hfksjh anyways this was a vv fun rewrite for me haha sorry for my ramblings ;v;
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He’s extremely chaotic and by every definition of chaotic you can possibly think of. Billy is already a quite out-going person as he is, so it doesn’t take long for the two of you to become close friends. He’s quite mindful of where your boundaries are and respects them, given the fact that you are his Master. After spending a few weeks with him in battle in Singularities and in the training simulations, you find yourself growing more comfortable with him.
He enjoys rock music after you’ve introduced it to him, especially Panic! At The Disco or other heavy metal bands like ACDC. He also finds himself enjoying music in foreign languages such as music by Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas, ONE OK ROCK, FLOW, BACK-ON and much more. Day6 and ATEEZ are also some of his favourites. You both enjoy adding in your own input and discuss how each song is in your opinions. He’s quite open and likes to listen to you ramble on. You both enjoy dancing your hearts out when feeling the beat to loosen up from the stress culminating on your shoulder.
If you’re upset, the first thing he’ll do, surprisingly, is sit you down and let you talk about it. He can be very awkward when speaking out for himself with his feelings. He’ll stumble a lot on his words because he isn’t good with these kinds of situations, but he’ll always talk about it with you. While he’s not the best at it, he’ll nevertheless attempt to offer some advice regarding the situation and try to cheer you up.
Due to his rowdy lifestyle, he often results in physical means and violence to often get conflicts resolved. If someone has physically or emotionally harmed you in any way, he won’t hesitate to hunt them down and give them a proper beating to not mess with you again.
If he’s upset, you do the same. You sit him down and ask him what is wrong and then proceed to ask if you can help in any way possible. You try and offer your best advice to him depending on what is troubling him. You frequently give him a glass of water to help him calm his nerves down, allowing him to take a deep breath and possibly sort out his feelings.
Talking out his feelings isn’t the first thing that comes into mind when he comes across a problem, but he knows how to control how he acts when emotions take over. He tends to bottle up and have a few shots by himself, trying to laugh the situation off. Rarely, he would decide to face off his problems and do something about it but it was only with you talking through many of his situations as his best friend that he found himself more and more comfortable voicing out his thoughts. You try to cheer him up by playfully teasing him and offering some freshly made food and snacks as well.
You both love to tease and make fun of each other’s tastes out of good heart. You like to tease him for his rather short height of 158cm and his youthful appearance that he prides himself in. In response, he enjoys teasing you about your likes and potential crushes you might have. He likes ruffling and messing with your hair, watching your reaction as you scold him and rearrange your hair with a huffed air.
Being a Servant summoned in the late 2010s, it was bound for him to somehow discover anime and Japanese media, especially when Osakabehime is here as well. He enjoys watching shounen and seinen series most of them, watching the action fights sends him adrenaline through his body and it’s like a small boost of energy for him. He frequently watches some of his favourite fight scenes from some anime if he were to be sent off to rayshift to make him feel more energized.
As a joke just to bug everyone off, he enjoys Naruto-running around with you, stopping occasionally as you slow down to take a rest and laugh at each other about how you consciously both looked absolutely ridiculous doing that. He also enjoys ‘dabbing’ and doing other memes that come from the Internet. It’s always fun to do Fortnite dances with you on the cold nights of Singularities to attempt and cheer you up from what is happening around you.
His favourite song is Cotton Eyed Joe.
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Com-Myu-nity survey!
I was tagged by @missemperor to do this hella long survey so here are my answers!! I tag anyone who wants to do this!
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1. What is your hobby? 
I draw and do cosplay! And I guess making Myu reviews counts too?
2. What is your special skill? 
I don’t really think I have any special skills?? Unless you consider my (most of the time) fast reflexes and how my left index finger makes a little click when I bend it :0 .
3. What are your strengths and weaknesses?
I guess my strengths are in my artistic abilities and my way of speaking?? Like the way I handle words and such. And I think giving advice is also one of my strengths. My weaknesses I guess are my wavering faith/belief in myself and how self deprecating I can be at times. Yeah I think that’s all :0 .
4. What is your favorite color?
I actually don’t have one favorite color so I’ll just list colors/color combos I like:
-Red, blue and white -Pink, blue/teal and purple (with either gold or silver accents) (and maybe white)
-Midnight blue
5. What is your favorite animal? 
I really like birds but sometimes dolphins are pretty neat :^ .
6. Which food are you into lately? 
Ice cream and cup noodles (not together) I think...I’m not really sure, I eat too much R.I.P .
7. What is a thing you never lose to anyone?
I think it’s my pride/dignity. I know, it’s a pretty bold answer but I honestly can’t think of anything else? And I can’t really think of a time where I crashed and burned so hard that I lost either one of those things. 
8. What is your most treasured item? 
I have too many treasured items but I’d think letters I received from friends and my parents are my most treasured.
9. What is your cooking specialty? 
I don’t really cook so I’m not really sure :^( .
10. What is the thing you want the most at the moment? 
To de-stress and to be happy/enjoy myself.
11. What is the thing you are most scared of? 
Death...
12. What is the thing you were happy about this year? 
I’m happy that I got to become closer to some people and I was able to make new friends!! I’m also happy that I got to step out of my comfort zone at times and I got to experience a whole lot of stuff this year.
13. What is the thing you were sad about this year? 
Oh there’s a lot but, I don’t wanna mention that on here.
14. What is the thing you regretted this year? 
I guess I had some missed opportunities but there are just too many things to mention.
15. What is the thing you were angry about this year? 
Too many to mention.
16. What is the job that gave you a sense of fulfillment this year? 
I’m still a student so I don’t have a job but, I joined my school’s diplomatic services so I guess that’s it!
17. What has changed about you since you entered the com-myu-nity? 
I think my confidence has gone up, especially with making new friends. I think my writing and observational abilities got a bit better too since I started making Myu reviews.
18. Which character would you play in myu? 
For an Inner Senshi, I’d love to play Jupiter or Venus. For an Outer Senshi, I’d love to play Pluto or Saturn. As for villains, I’d love to play Zoisite or Black Lady. But to be honest if I were given any role I didn’t mention, it would be pretty interesting!!
19. If you were to form a collab now, who would it be with? 
Uhhhhh I’m not sure if this is meant for the com-myu-nity or not but if it is then I’m still not sure because I’d love to collab with anyone!!
20. What do you love about Sera Myu nowadays? 
I love how it’s still ongoing and how it never fails to charm people. Sure some people prefer the older Myus than new or it’s the other way around but, I think most people get a certain charm from both sides which makes the world of Myu so fun to be in.
21. Which cast member catches your attention the most at the moment? 
A cast member that always catches my attention is Hikari of course but at the moment it’s any of the actresses I follow on Instagram. I don’t really have one in particular because every time they post, it definitely catches my attention.
22. Which cast member would you want as your significant other? 
AW GEE I WONDER WHO. My forever love Hikari of course ;v; .
23. If you were to marry a cast member, who would it be? 
Same answer as mentioned above :^) .
24. If you would go to a deserted island, which cast member would you like to go with you? 
Wow these questions are so specific. I honestly don’t know?? I mean, I would say Hikari but I feel like I’m putting her in too many random situations with myself lmao so maybe I’d bring Momoko (Okuyama). She’d be super fun to be with!!
25. If you were born again, which cast member would you like to be? 
Hmm, I’m not really sure. Maybe Anza?? I wanna see how it feels to have a nice voice and to do all sorts of dance moves and of course, how it feels to be Sailor Moon!!
26. Which Sera Myu production would you want to be a part of? 
Maybe Saturn Fukkatsu? Because of all the circus stuff?? But maybe a Stars Myu like StarsK or Le Mouvment Final because Stars is such a fun and emotional arc I just, aaaaaaaaaaaaaa. If you haven’t noticed by now, I’m very indecisive on most of the questions.
27. If you were to create your own kingdom, what kind of country would you want it to be? 
A peaceful one where all people get along and see each others as equals. One where people can enjoy their lives to the fullest.
28. What is an interesting book or manga you read recently? 
The Promised Neverland!! Still not done reading it though.
29. What is an interesting movie you watched recently? 
I haven’t watched any movies recently :^( .
30. What is your favorite Sera Myu song at the moment? 
I haven’t listened to much Myu music as of recent but I always love listening to La Soldier. :>
31. What is your favorite Sera Myu song choreography at the moment? 
I never really had a favorite choreography but the one I keep thinking of now is the one for Honoo no Messenger because of that one TLC clip lmao.
32. What is your favorite Sera Myu costume at the moment? 
Eternal Sailor Moon (both Bandai and Nelke).
33. What is your favorite Myu at the moment? 
I’ve only seen the First Stage so far (and I still have to watch EienK aaaaaa) but my favorite is Stars Kaiteiban/StarsK!!
34. What is your favorite Myu cast? 
Stuck between Saturn Fukkatsu and StarsK...
35. Is there something you say a lot recently? 
Frick, yeehaw, o and heck.
36. What would you do if you could plan a Fan Kansha? 
I’m really not sure of this since I’ve never planned events except for birthdays. I think I’d just keep it as it is?? Well in terms of what’s in the event at least. But maybe I would add in some stuff for engagement with foreign fans? So at least they’ll be able to participate/enjoy the event somehow.
37. What do you hope to see Sera Myu doing in the future?
I hope to see them branching out more to their international audience. They’re beginning to do that with the Super Live but hopefully they do the same with other productions. And I hope they have more audience engagement like Bandai Myu’s Fan Kanshas.
38. What kind of person do you want to be in 5 years? 
I want to be a person that I’d be satisfied with. I hope that I’ll be happy where I am and I have some kind of fulfillment. 
39. What has been a memorable concert or event this year? 
I’ve only been to one concert in my entire life but I think the most memorable event I’ve had so far this year was my very first sleepover with my friends!!
40. What do you want to do in your private life this year? 
Relax I guess?? I don’t know, I haven’t thought about it especially since I hardly get to do anything because of school.
41. What kind of job would you like to do in the future? 
I’d wanna be an animator or a psychologist! And if those don’t work out then I just wanna be a freelance artist :^) .
42. Do you have a hairstyle you would like to try in the future? 
I’d really wanna try and get an undercut.
43. What Sera Myu merchandise would you love to have?
Hm, maybe the Bandai Myu box sets? Or maybe just DVDs in general. Oh and posters too!! I also wanna get a light stick :0 . A.K.A I want too much ;v; .
44. Where would you want Sera Myu to come to? 
It would be really nice if Sera Myu was a global thing but, I really hope they come here to the Philippines!! Whether it’s at a con or an actual stage performance, I just really wanna see one/see the cast ;v; .
45. If you could have a holiday with any cast member, what do you want to do? 
Same answer as questions 22 and 23. (A.K.A Hikari) ((this is edited because I realized I didn’t even answer the question properly but hanging out is just fine!!))
46. Please say something to your favorite cast member.
Oh gosh uh this is very sudden but!! Keep doing what you’re doing!! I love reading your posts even though I can’t understand majority of them and some really do concern me :’^) . I’m lov u vv much pls remember that and I only hope for the best for u!! 
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lebronjamesuit1508 · 3 years
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Khi cong la gi
Tôi là người nghiên cứu và thực hành một bộ môn của Đông Y là Châm cứu, bấm huyệt. Tôi đã đọc nhiều sách kinh điển của Đông Y, trong đó có Hoàng Đế Nội Kinh. Ở đó nói rất rõ rằng, khí công là một phương pháp trị bệnh và nâng cao sức khỏe. Điều này cũng nói rằng, trong Đông Y có liệu pháp khí công.
Như vậy, khí công khẳng định vốn là phương pháp chăm sóc sức khỏe cổ xưa. Cũng giống những liệu pháp khác trong Đông Y, nó thường được truyền thừa theo các cách khác nhau. Có những bộ phận là truyền thừa đơn độc, truyền thừa rất hạn chế. Có những bộ phận được phổ biến rộng rãi. Dù thế nào, thì tác động trị liệu của nó với cơ thể người là không thể phủ nhận. Thậm chí, tại các vùng Ấn Độ, Trung Quốc, Việt Nam..., khí công (mà Yoga được xem là một dạng khí công) còn được thực hành rất nhiều.
Khí công chủ yếu liên quan tới hơi thở, cách thức điều khiển hơi thở, từ đó mà tạo ra các chuyển biến về khí và chất trong cơ thể. Điều này khá phức tạp. Nhưng môn châm cứu, bấm huyệt, và Đông dược nói chung đều trình bày và thực hiện trị liệu dựa trên sự vận hành của kinh khí huyệt. Những môn võ thuật cũng sử dụng khí để rèn luyện khiến cho da thịt, xương trở nên cứng chắc hơn. Thực tế, da, xương, cơ của những người luyện võ thuật có thể cứng chắc hơn người bình thường nhiều lần. Điều đó cho thấy tác dụng xây dựng cơ thể của khí, và khí công chính là phương pháp dùng khí để xây dựng cơ thể.
Pháp Luân Công khác hẳn với các môn khí công trước nay. Điều khác biệt là ở chỗ: nó không đòi hỏi luyện khí, tức là không có yêu cầu nào về luyện hơi thở. Điều duy nhất cần làm là thực hiện căn bản đúng các động tác. Qua quan sát, khi thực hiện đúng các tư thế, thì hệ hô hấp được điều chỉnh một cách tự động theo tư thế cơ thể khiến hơi thở trở nên ổn định hệt như các môn dùng ý luyện khí vậy. Đấy chính là chỗ độc đáo. Do đó, tác dụng đối với sức khỏe đương nhiên là rất lớn. Không phải ngẫu nhiên mà chỉ sau 7 năm truyền rộng ra tại Trung Quốc, giữa một rừng các môn khí công đã có thời gian truyền ở xã hội rất lâu, lại được chính phủ ủng hộ, Pháp Luân Công đã nhận được lượng người theo tập luyện tới cả trăm triệu. Nếu chẳng có tác dụng độc đáo gì, thì không thể có được sức hấp dẫn như thế.
Đó cũng mới chỉ là một mặt.
Xét theo lý luận Đông Y, tác động tới sức khỏe con người có hai thứ: Môi trường vật chất và điều kiện tình chí. Môi trường vật chất gồm những thứ thuộc về thời tiết (gió, nóng, nắng, ẩm, khô, lạnh) và thức ăn, những thứ hít phải... Chúng góp phần rất lớn tạo ra các loại bệnh tật. Điều kiện tình chí chính là đời sống tinh thần, trạng thái tinh thần. Chúng tạo ra những nhân tố bên trong, thậm chí còn mạnh hơn cả những nhân tố bên ngoài. Ví như, trạng thái stress, sợ hãi, thức giận, bi thương... đều làm cho người ta thật sự bệnh tật. Khoa học ngày nay cũng chứng minh, trong trạng thái hưng phấn tích cực, cơ thể tự sản sinh ra những chất nội sinh có sức mạnh gấp trăm lần các chất ngoại sinh. Hiện tượng tạo endorphine (thuốc giảm đau nội sinh) từ tuyến yên là một ví dụ điển hình. Endorphine này mạnh gấp cả trăm lần so với morphine thông thường. Và trong trạng thái kích thích tiêu cực, đương nhiên sẽ có những chất nội sinh được sinh ra, và tác dụng cũng mạnh hơn những chất độc thông thường cả trăm lần. Điều này để nói rằng, trạng thái tinh thần (tình chí) vô cùng quan trọng trong y học. Đông Y xem nó là thứ có thể trực tiếp tổn thương tạng phủ.
Rất ít các môn rèn luyện sức khỏe chú ý tới điểm này. Cũng là bởi vì các nhà cầm quyền đều muốn độc chiếm việc giáo dục tinh thần, ý thức cho dân chúng của họ. Họ muốn dân chúng của họ có được trạng thái tinh thần, ý thức như là họ mong muốn. Ví như, đôi khi họ cần làm cho dân chúng phát triển trạng thái căm hận kẻ thù, hay vui mừng về những thành quả của họ, nghe theo họ, vv. Nếu có một môn nào đó nằm ngoài hệ thống của họ có thể điều khiển trạng thái tinh thần, ý thức của người dân, thế thì họ sẽ không chịu. Có thể xảy ra một vài điều khó chịu cho chính quyền như: họ sẽ khó kiểm soát trạng thái tinh thần của những người dân này.
Pháp Luân Công lại đặc biệt chú ý tới khía cạnh tinh thần, ý thức. Thật ra, những môn cao thâm đều liên quan tới tu dưỡng tinh thần cả. Họ đều biết rằng, yếu tố vật chất luôn hữu hạn. Nhưng yếu tố tinh thần thì vô hạn, hoặc không thể đo đếm. Nếu lấy vật chất để thay đổi vật chất, thì tính hữu hạn của nó khiến cho trong rất nhiều trường hợp là không khả thi. Còn nếu lấy tinh thần để thay đổi vật chất, thì tính chất vô hạn của nó có thể khiến dễ dàng làm thân thể thay đổi thật sự. Vì vậy, Pháp Luân Công nhấn mạnh bậc nhất vào tu luyện tâm tính, đạt trạng thái xả bỏ hoàn toàn những dính mắc trong tâm, khiến người luyện đạt được trạng thái luôn an hòa. Tức là, trạng thái tinh thần luôn ở chỗ "Khoan hòa", tối ưu nhất về mặt y học. Thậm chí, còn thăng hoa tới mức cao hơn, luôn luôn cảm giác một sự hạnh phúc vô cùng.
Rốt cuộc, thì những điều mà Pháp Luân Công dạy đều là Chân, Thiện, Nhẫn. Xét theo khía cạnh đạo đức, xã hội, thì không thể tính là lệch lạc (tà vạy) được. Cho dù ông Lý Hồng Chí có thổi phồng mình như thế nào, nói gì đi nữa, thì rốt cuộc, ông cũng chỉ có thể khiến cho những người theo ông thực hành thật tốt việc tu dưỡng tinh thần. Niềm tin sâu sắc vào những điều ông giảng về Chân Thiện Nhẫn là rất cần thiết. Nếu như người ta vừa luyện, vừa nghĩ rằng: Thầy ta thật cao thượng..., thì động lực bên trong sẽ khiến người ta làm tốt hơn. Nếu lại nghĩ: ông này ba hoa chích chòe, làm gì có thật, chỉ là mấy động tác vớ vẩn... thế thì động lực tiêu cực sẽ cản trở người ta rèn luyện, cản trở sự phát triển của tinh thần, cản trở niềm tin vào những điều tốt đẹp... lập tức trạng thái tinh thần ấy sẽ khiến hủy đi mọi tác dụng. Tập luyện như vậy cũng bằng thừa.
Kết lại, Pháp Luân Công đã dùng được lý: "lấy cái vô hạn để điều chỉnh cái hữu hạn, lấy cái vô hình để điều chỉnh cái hữu hình", cho nên tác dụng là chân thực và khoa học. Còn ông Lý nói điều gì, đúng hay sai thì rất khó nhận định. Nhưng chắc chắn, nếu chẳng tin ông ấy, thì rất khó thực hành các điều Chân Thiện Nhẫn mà ông ấy giảng.
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Conseils pour prendre en charge les difficultés sexuelles des patients après un AVC
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Conseils pour prendre en charge les difficultés sexuelles des patients après un AVC
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L’Accident Vasculaire Cérébral (AVC) est actuellement la 2e cause de mortalité au niveau mondial[ref]Geoffrey A. Donnan et al., « Stroke », The Lancet 371, n° 9624 (10 mai 2008): 1612‑23, https://doi.org/10.1016/S0140-6736(08)60694-7[/ref], et la première cause d’invalidité.
Sa prévalence augmente alors quel âge des patients qui en sont atteints diminue de plus en plus. D’ici 2030, on estime que le nombre de victimes atteindra 7,8 millions[ref]A. Grenier Genest et F. Courtois, « Les accidents vasculaires cérébraux et leur impact sur la sexualité », Sexologies 26, n° 3 (juillet 2017): 115‑35, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sexol.2016.11.001[/ref].
On distingue plusieurs types d’AVC dont les conséquences peuvent varier[ref]Stroke: A Practical Approach (Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2009)[/ref] :
Les AVC ischémiques sont les plus fréquents,
Les AVC hémorragiques sont ceux qui ont le plus mauvais pronostic,
Les AVC lacunaires et les accidents ischémiques transitoires (AIT) sont moins prononcés et ont des conséquences moins sévères.
Retentissement des AVC sur la sexualité
Les AVC peuvent entraîner :
Chez les hommes, des troubles de érection et de l’éjaculation[ref]Jea-Hun Jung et al., « Sexual Dysfunction in Male Stroke Patients: Correlation Between Brain Lesions and Sexual Function », Urology 71, n°1 (1 janvier 2008): 99‑103, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.urology.2007.08.045[/ref]
Chez les femmes : une baisse de la lubrification[ref]Tamam Y et al., « Post-Stroke Sexual Functioning in First Stroke Patients », European Journal of Neurology 15, n°7 (juillet 2008), https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1468-1331.2008.02184.x[/ref] et une diminution la capacité orgasmique[ref]X. Chambon, « Testimony on the Sexuality of Post-Stroke Hemiplegic Patients », Sexologies 20, n°2 (1 avril 2011): 102‑5, https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sexol.2010.10.005[/ref]
Chez les deux sexes, une baisse du désir, une diminution de la fréquence des rapports sexuels et une baisse générale de la satisfaction sexuelle[ref]Korpelainen Jt, Nieminen P, et Myllylä Vv, « Sexual Functioning among Stroke Patients and Their Spouses », Stroke 30, n°4 (avril 1999), https://doi.org/10.1161/01.str.30.4.715[/ref].
Facteurs associés aux difficultés sexuelles
Suite à un AVC, plusieurs facteurs peuvent altérer la sexualité comme l’impact direct de la lésion neurologique sur le fonctionnement sexuel, mais également ses impacts indirects bio-, psycho- ou social qui interfèrent avec la sexualité.
Les impacts neurologiques directs de l’AVC comprennent les troubles liés à la latéralité de la lésion, les régions touchées et la sévérité de l’AVC qui sont associés ou corrélés aux troubles sexuels[ref]J.-M. Bugnicourt et al., « Impaired Sexual Activity in Young Ischaemic Stroke Patients: An Observational Study », European Journal of Neurology 21, n°1 (2014): 140‑46, https://doi.org/10.1111/ene.12277[/ref].
Les facteurs indirects peuvent naître d’impacts physiologiques de l’AVC touchant d’autres fonctions corporelles impliquées dans la sexualité, comme l’incontinence urinaire qui peut interférer avec la vie sexuelle en créant du stress durant les rapports, des changements de l’image corporelle parfois associés à l’incontinence urinaire et qui peuvent soulever des questions sur l’hygiène personnelle et altérer la perception de désirabilité, et les limites physiques qui nuisent aux relations sexuelles[ref]Nilsson M et al., « How Do Urinary Incontinence and Urgency Affect Women’s Sexual Life? », Acta Obstetricia et Gynecologica Scandinavica 90, n°6 (juin 2011), https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1600-0412.2011.01120.x[/ref].
Les facteurs psychologiques peuvent également nuire à la fonction sexuelle en agissant sur la labilité émotionnelle, fréquente dans les suites d’un AVC, la dépression, l’anxiété et la diminution du bien- être général.
Réadaptation sexuelle à la suite d’un AVC
Réticences et besoins concernant la sexualité
Les professionnels de la santé décrivent plusieurs réticences à aborder la sexualité avec leur patient post-AVC :
Le manque de formation, qui semble être un facteur déploré par la majorité des professionnels de la santé. Ce facteur, ajouté au manque de confiance en soi, réduit les chances d’assurer un suivi adéquat[ref]Elaine E. Steinke et al., « Sexual Counselling for Individuals with Cardiovascular Disease and Their PartnersA Consensus Document From the American Heart Association and the ESC Council on Cardiovascular Nursing and Allied Professions (CCNAP) », European Heart Journal 34, n°41 (1 novembre 2013): 3217‑35, https://doi.org/10.1093/eurheartj/eht270[/ref].
Leur manque d’expérience sur la question, la crainte de froisser ou d’offenser le patient, et la gêne personnelle à discuter de sexualité.
D’autres se questionnent sur le moment idéal pour adresser les questions de sexualité avec leurs patients[ref]Guo M et al., « Let’s Talk About Sex! – Improving Sexual Health for Patients in Stroke Rehabilitation. », BMJ Quality Improvement Reports 4, n°1 (19 novembre 2015), https://doi.org/10.1136/bmjquality.u207288.w2926[/ref],
Alors que certains sont d’avis que le psychiatre est le professionnel le mieux outillé pour aborder ces questions[ref]John McLaughlin et Alison Cregan, « Sexuality in Stroke Care: A Neglected Quality of Life Issue in Stroke Rehabilitation? A Pilot Study », Sexuality and Disability 23, n°4 (1 décembre 2005): 213‑26, https://doi.org/10.1007/s11195-005-8929-9[/ref].
Certains professionnels pensent que les patients ne désirent pas recevoir de l’information sur leur sexualité, ou attendent que le patient décrive lui-même ses préoccupations.
La barrière culturelle et langagière est un autre facteur de réticence, tout comme les contraintes d’horaire et de temps et la présence d’autres responsabilités professionnelles qui limitent la disponibilité.
Outre les professionnels, les patients mentionnent des réticences à aborder le sujet de la sexualité post-AVC.
Plusieurs décrivent une gêne, particulièrement lorsqu’ils sont d’orientation homosexuelle, une crainte d’être jugé, et une peur liée aux stéréotypes sociaux (ex. les personnes âgées n’ont plus de vie sexuelle).
À ceci s’ajoute les patients aphasiques qui ne peuvent s’exprimer aisément pour aborder les questions de sexualité.
Durant l’hospitalisation et la réadaptation, les patients mentionnent côtoyer un grand nombre de professionnels, mais se questionnent sur le professionnel le mieux adapté pour adresser leurs préoccupations sexuelles.
Une approche plus proactive semble souhaitée de la part des patients qui aimeraient être invités à discuter de leur sexualité lors des sessions régulières de traitement.
Plusieurs mentionnent souhaiter recevoir plus d’informations sur le fonctionnement sexuel post-AVC, notamment sur les questions de sécurité comme les risques de déclencher un nouvel AVC, les positions sexuelles pour réduire les risques, et l’effet iatrogène des médicaments ou l’impact de comorbidités (ex. hypertension, diabète…).
De même, les conjoints sont souvent laissés pour compte et mentionnent un besoin de suivi pour aborder les questions de sécurité durant les relations sexuelles, pour discuter de leur propre insécurité et symptômes anxieux, et pour développer des stratégies d’adaptation face à leur rôle à la fois d’aidant et de conjoint).
Prise en charge de la sexualité après un AVC
Plusieurs approches ont été suggérées dans la littérature pour aider les professionnels de la santé à aborder et évaluer les difficultés sexuelles des patients post-AVC.
Le modèle PLISSIT[ref]Jack S. Annon, Behavioural Treatment of Sexual Problems: Brief Therapy (Hagerstown, Md: Harper & Row, 1977)[/ref] offre des exemples de parcours systématisés, où le professionnel peut suivre différentes étapes en débutant par :
une permission (P) offerte au patient pour discuter de sexualité (plutôt que d’attendre ses questionnements) ;
suivie d’une offre d’informations limitées (LI) sur l’impact de la condition neurologique sur le fonctionnement sexuel, suivi si besoin ;
de suggestions spécifiques (SI) servant de trucs et conseils pour pallier certaines difficultés ;
de thérapie intensive (IT) pour les troubles sexuels plus prononcés.
Le modèle BETTER[ref]Elaine E. Steinke et al., « Sexual Counselling for Individuals with Cardiovascular Disease and Their PartnersA Consensus Document From the American Heart Association and the ESC Council on Cardiovascular Nursing and Allied Professions (CCNAP) », European Heart Journal 34, n°41 (1 novembre 2013): 3217‑35, https://doi.org/10.1093/eurheartj/eht270[/ref], basé sur les mêmes, principes suggère :
d’aborder directement le sujet de la sexualité (Bring the topic) avec les patients ;
d’aborder les préoccupations (Explain concerns) ;
en décrivant les ressources disponibles (Tell about ressources) ;
en précisant les contraintes de temps et de lieux (Timing) ;
en éduquant les patients sur les effets de leur condition sur la fonction sexuelle (Educate) ;
le programme suggère également de consigner les informations au dossier médical pour assurer un suivi adéquat (Record).
Outre ces modèles systématisés, HoSook et al.[ref]HoSook Song et al., « Effects of a sexual rehabilitation intervention program on stroke patients and their spouses », NeuroRehabilitation 28 (1 janvier 2011): 143‑50, https://doi.org/10.3233/NRE-2011-0642[/ref] ont proposé une approche en cinq étapes dispensée en une seule session. Le programme comme les précédents suggère de :
donner des informations au patient sur l’impact de sa condition neurologique sur la vie sexuelle ;
d’offrir des informations générales sur la santé sexuelle ;
d’offrir une éducation notamment sur les craintes de l’AVC associées aux activités sexuelles ;
et des conseils et stratégies pour pallier les dysfonctions sexuelles ;
Le modèle insiste sur le fait de poser fréquemment des questions et d’offrir des réponses pertinentes, notamment pour les personnes âgées et celles atteintes de troubles cognitifs.
Globalement, les programmes de rééducation sexuelle auprès de patients neurologiques, ceux notamment ayant survécu à un AVC, peuvent donc se résumer en étapes qui facilitent le parcours des intervenants spécialisés ou non en sexualité.
Toutes les approches recommandent d’initier le sujet directement avec les patients, en donnant des exemples spécifiques pour favoriser leur compréhension.
Afin de palier les réticences de certains intervenants, il est possible de suggérer de mentionner que le soignant n’est pas toujours en mesure de répondre à toutes les questions, mais qu’il est ouvert à la discussion pour traiter de l’ensemble des préoccupations.
Le programme peut ensuite inclure une évaluation de l’historique et du vécu sexuel des patients pour noter les changements imposés par la condition neurologique. Cette étape comprend une vulgarisation des faits scientifiques sur les symptômes de l’AVC (ex. déficits moteurs et sensitifs, baisse de l’estime de soi, image corporelle, problèmes de communication et aphasie, difficultés conjugales) et leur impact sur la vie sexuelle. L’étape peut également servir à dissiper certains stéréotypes liés à la fonction et à la satisfaction sexuelles.
Durant cette étape, il est recommandé de varier les modes de communication pour faciliter la compréhension des patients (lecture, brochure, vidéo, Power Point). Il est également recommandé de transmettre des informations limitées au sein de chaque rencontre et de les répéter régulièrement afin de faciliter la compréhension notamment des patients âgés ou ceux présentant des troubles cognitifs.
Le professionnel est globalement encouragé à poser des questions ouvertes sur les difficultés sexuelles pour réduire l’effet de la désirabilité sociale et les comportements d’évitement de la part de patients gênés de parler de leur sexualité.
L’éducation sexuelle qui suit les informations générales peut aborder les craintes associées à la condition neurologique. La crainte du rejet du partenaire, celle de déclencher un nouvel AVC en s’engageant dans des activités sexuelles sont des exemples à aborder, en fournissant des informations précises et pertinentes. Les patients doivent être informés que les risques de déclencher un nouvel AVC sont généralement minimes 6 mois après l’accident, et doivent être encouragés à faire de l’exercice régulièrement pour maintenir une santé physique optimale.
Les professionnels peuvent suggérer des comportements sexuels alternatifs au coït afin de réduire les craintes et offrir un nouveau répertoire d’activités sexuelles qui augmente la satisfaction sexuelle.
L’étape des stratégies spécifiques permet de redéfinir la relation sexuelle, de palier les dysfonctions sexuelles, d’initier adéquatement les rapports et d’organiser le temps pour optimiser la satisfaction sexuelle.
Cette étape aborde la question des effets iatrogènes des médicaments sur la sexualité et suggère des positions sexuelles et des techniques sécuritaires et confortables pour tenir compte des déficits sensitivomoteurs des patients. Des conseils pratiques peuvent être offerts pour des difficultés spécifiques, comme d’éviter de boire du liquide quelques heures avant le rapport pour ceux souffrant d’incontinences urinaires, de favoriser un environnement frais et un partenaire familier pour réduire les risques de tachycardie et d’hypertension artérielle associés aux relations sexuelles, de conseiller des coussins pour offrir un soutien additionnel pour minimiser la fatigue et la douleur.
Lorsque les besoins dépassent les compétences du professionnel de réadaptation, le patient peut être référé à un spécialiste (sexologue, psychologue, psychiatre) pour accéder à des thérapies plus intensives et spécifiques à la sexologie.
Le moment idéal pour aborder les questions de sexualité reste un sujet de débat dans la littérature, bien qu’un consensus à l’effet de donner un minimum d’information durant la réadaptation semble se dégager[ref]Elaine E. Steinke et al., « Sexual Counselling for Individuals with Cardiovascular Disease and Their PartnersA Consensus Document From the American Heart Association and the ESC Council on Cardiovascular Nursing and Allied Professions (CCNAP) », European Heart Journal 34, n°41 (1 novembre 2013): 3217‑35, https://doi.org/10.1093/eurheartj/eht270[/ref].
Certains patients préfèrent discuter de leurs préoccupations en début de réadaptation alors que l’anxiété et les inquiétudes sont très présentes.
D’autres patients préfèrent aborder le sujet plus tard lorsqu’ils sont plus familiers avec leurs cliniciens et que leur condition est plus stable. Certains enfin abordent la sexualité peu avant leur retour à domicile lorsque la vie quotidienne deviendra routinière et l’intimité plus accessible.
Quelle que soit l’étape de la réadaptation, la sexualité peut par ailleurs être abordée à travers des stratégies spécifiques, incluant la physiothérapie et l’ergothérapie, ou toute autre intervention apte à favoriser l’autonomie et l’indépendance. La sexualité au retour à domicile et l’adaptation de l’environnement deviennent alors essentiels à la qualité de vie et deviennent la cible principale des interventions.
L’ensemble du programme devrait inclure une équipe multidisciplinaire, ou l’équipe multidisciplinaire déjà en place en réadaptation, et constituée d’intervenants aux spécialités différentes mais complémentaires et qui permet au patient d’adresser ses préoccupations au professionnel de son choix, ou à celui jugé le mieux formé pour traiter de la problématique soulevée ou le plus apte à répondre à ses questions.
Conclusion
Les accidents vasculaires cérébraux entraînent de multiples conséquences qui peuvent avoir un impact direct (neurologique) ou indirect (psychosocial) sur la sexualité. Les patients ayant subi un AVC devraient bénéficier d’une équipe multidisciplinaire qualifiée permettant d’aborder ces divers aspects de la sexualité et d’assurer une meilleure qualité de vie et une meilleure satisfaction sexuelle.
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tempestainmare · 2 years
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Il sale guarisce le ferite
Cara VV, che ti credi che solo tu hai avuto un fidanzato verità? Io voglio la dichiarazione per questo sono ancora quì ad aspettare.
Cara Veneziana, tutta questa invidia per un solo fidanzato, UNO SOLO, 11 anni fa! Racconta tutto alla tua maga del cuore. Ormai si dice maga-saga-wow. Comprendo che spendere 160 euro per una cosa seria a settimana è dispendioso assai. Aspe, abbasso altrimenti non si capisce niente. Mi dispiace ma non credo sia un anellino il limite al compimento di un amore così grande. Certo che ti aiuto.
Noi (tu), non ti offendere, solo la verità nuda e cruenta. Che io sappia la dichiarazione d'amore è qualcosa che va ponderato, pensato, riflettuto e conteggiato. Poi c'è da aggiungere la questione "posto-sposto-viaggio". La dichiarazione ufficiale viene fatta a Parigi ai piedi della Torre. Ieri il TG attendibile per me, diceva che la torre è piena di ruggine. Troppo amore la sta corrodendo. Peggio delle rotaie della stazione di casa mia. Il copione recita il viaggio nella città dell'amore almeno 4 mesi prima della divulgazione della bella notizia nella vita reale. Il viaggio va compiuto VERITA', lo devi fare veramente. Tu pensi che lui rischi un bel NO a Parigi??? Bisogna essere certi di voler trascorrere tutta la vita con un individuo sconosciuto. Per non parlare del Tiffany. Anellino anulare sinistro. SONO SUA PER SEMPRE (ho fatto il botto). Che poi, Valeriana cara, gli anelli nel mio caso portano sfiga. Sai quanti anelli sono stati comprati per me? BEN 3 e nessuno mai al mio anulare. Sai, per NOI l'anello sancisce il legamento, il filo rosso. Gli anelli sono la fine nella mia vita. Non li accetto da nessuno, posso solo acquistarli io stessa. Orietta, hai risolto un bel problema. Se l'anello e la proposta è quello che attendi, ben venga. Principe del bosco, chi aspetti? Ti sembra il caso attendere ancora? La vita è imprevedibile. Diceva mia nonna "non rimandare a domani quello che puoi fare oggi". Per chi l'anellino già lo custodisce nel cassetto, anche l'oro fa le tarme. Se cerchi una famiglia, affrettati. Le particelle non aspettano te. I tempi, l'alimentazione, l'inquinamento, lo stress peggiorano solo la situazione. A parte Parigi, non so cosa consigliarti. L'importante è suscitare l'invidia di tutti i componenti della famiglia e non. Il messaggio è SONO STATA PIù CAPACE DI TE MAMMA. In effetti un'alternativa ci sarebbe. Opinabile no. Londra e il lavoro fuori casa. L'amore è cosi. Voglio stare con te e sono disposto a rinunciare a tutto, la famiglia, i soldi NO, il lavoro perché tu sei quella che voglio. Che storia bellissima. Quell'amore così sofferto e così voluto. Ha sfidato il tempo, lo spazio e la dimensione del suono per spaccare la logica nelle regole e la praticità nei fatti.
Gli amori veri nascono d'estate. Una sera per incontrarsi e la vita per non rivedersi mai più. Scherzo. L'estate successiva e... ho già un fidanzato cacchiarola!
Bravo Feliciano, tutti cercano l'amore. Tutto vero per te ma non per me. Non vogliamo tutti le stesse cose nella vita. La solitudine a qualcuno piace. Il mondo è bello perchè è VARIPINTO.
L'amore per sempre? Esiste se tu lo cerchi in fondo al mar. TUTTO FALSO.
L'amore esiste, dipende tu (NOI) cosa intendi per amore e cosa cerchi in una relazione di coppia.
So per certo che la tua stabilità è intesa non tanto in senso affettivo quanto più economico. Lui vuole stare con te, cosa aspettate?
Conosco una di NOI che sono anni che trascina una storia ormai terminata perché in attesa della proposta dal principe di Galles. La cosa grave, per me, è che non aspetta qualcosa di meglio. L'esistenza in vita è certa. Ti aiuto ancora una volta nonostante il male ricevuto. Siamo pari, niente fatture a casa. Al massimo ti invio io il conto. Lui non farà mai il primo passo. Ego è eco sempre. Lui aspetta te. Tu aspetti lui. Vi aspetterete in eterno avendo sprecato LA VITA.
Se l'amore finisce? Trovi un altro più bello e ricco che problemi non dà.
L'AMORE è anche questo, l'horror di Biancaneve lo conoscete tutti.
post scriptum
Non è che la Bianca se la fa con i fratelli Grimm?
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kanerichard-blog1 · 4 years
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Những dấu hiệu điển hình ở bệnh viêm hang vị dạ dày
Viêm hang vị dạ dày là một trong những bệnh đường tiêu hóa rất phổ biến hiện nay. Sớm nắm rõ các nguyên nhân và triệu chứng điển hình để có cách chữa kịp thời là lời khuyên của các chuyên gia và kinh nghiệm của nhiều bệnh nhân đi trước để lại, giúp người bệnh có thể khỏi bệnh nhanh và đề phòng những biến chứng nguy hiểm có thể xảy ra.
Dấu hiệu và triệu chứng viêm hang vị dạ dày Khó tiêu, ăn không ngon: Khi hang vị dạ dày bị viêm, khả năng đưa thức ăn xuống ruột và tiêu hóa thức ăn ở dạ dày bị giảm gây ra cảm giác đầy bụng, khó tiêu. Dạ dày hoạt động kém hiệu quả cùng tình trạng đầy bụng, khó tiêu làm bạn không thấy đối, mất cảm giác thèm ăn và ăn không ngon. Ợ hơi, ợ chua: Khi bị viêm hang vị dạ dày thức ăn trong dạ dày không được tiêu hóa hết, lượng thức ăn bị tồn dư trong dạ dày sẽ lên men sinh khí gây đầy trướng bụng và gây nên tình trạng ợ hơi, ợ chua. Đau bụng: Tình trạng đau bụng thường xảy ra khi dạ dày tiết dịch vị kích thích phần niêm mạc bị tổn thương. Do đó đau bụng thường xảy ra sau khi ăn hoặc về đêm, đau âm ỉ. Cơn đau tăng dần nếu bệnh nhân viêm hang vị dạ dày ăn uống thất thường hoặc khi sử dụng các các chất kích thích như bia rượu, trà, cà phê, đồ ăn chua, cay, nóng. Khi bị viêm hang vị ở mức độ nhẹ và vừa, phần niêm mạc của hang vị có những vết trợt loét nhỏ nên đau ở mức độ vừa phải và không thường xuyên, có thể kèm theo tức bụng, đau thượng vị. Với tình trạng viêm nặng, các cơn đau có  thể xảy ra thường xuyên cả khi no hay đói. Buồn nôn, nôn: Buồn nôn và nôn có thể gặp phải ở một số người bị viêm hang vị dạ dày, một phần do tình trạng khó tiêu và hay ợ. Tuy nhiên, buồn nôn và nôn cũng có thể xảy ra ngay cả khi dạ dày không có thức ăn. Mệt mỏi, gầy sút: Khi bị viêm hang vị dạ dày, lượng thức ăn được đẩy xuống tá tràng không đầy đủ ảnh hưởng đến quá trình hấp thu chất dinh dưỡng ở ruột non. Bên cạnh đó, việc ăn không ngon, nôn mửa và những cơn đau tức bụng cũng là nguyên nhân khiến người bệnh gầy sút, mệt mỏi.
Nguyên nhân bệnh viêm hang vị dạ dày Vi khuẩn Hp (Helicobacter pylori): Vi khuẩn Hp là một trong những nguyên nhân chủ yếu gây viêm hang vị dạ dày. Đây là một xoắn khuẩn Gram âm, sống ở lớp niêm mạc và dưới niêm mạc, làm tổn thương niêm mạc tại chỗ bằng cách gây thoái hóa lớp nhầy bảo vệ niêm mạc, sản xuất ra các men đặc biệt là urease làm tổn thương tế bào niêm mạc dạ dày. Ngoài ra, các yếu tố khác ở dạ dày như acid, pepsin tác động trực tiếp vào tế bào niêm mạc ở vùng  hang vị gây viêm loét hang vị. Nguyên nhân viêm hang vị dạ dày do stress, căng thẳng: Mọi căng thẳng thần kinh kéo dài như áp lực công việc, trầm cảm… sẽ gây co mạch và tăng tiết acid ở dạ dày. Khi dạ dày tiết quá nhiều acid thì lượng acid dư thừa sẽ là nguyên nhân gây viêm hang vị. Viêm hang vị dạ dày do ăn uống không khoa học: Một chế độ sinh hoạt, ăn uống không hợp lý: thức khuya dậy muộn, ăn uống không đúng bữa, bỏ bữa, ăn nhiều đồ ăn chiên rán, đồ ăn cay nóng, ăn uống các chất kích thích như rượu bia, vận động mạnh sau khi ăn no… đều tác động xấu đến dạ dày và thúc đẩy vùng bị viêm loét nặng hơn.
Lạm dụng một số loại thuốc: Việc sử dụng thường xuyên một số thuốc như thuốc giảm đau NSAIDs và corticoid làm ức chế tổng hợp prostaglandin – một chất kích thích bài tiết chất nhày và bicarbonate giúp bảo vệ niêm mạc dạ dày. Khi hàng rào bảo vệ này bị suy giảm, các yếu tố tấn công sẽ dễ dàng làm tổn thương niêm mạc vùng hang vị. Sử dụng chất kích thích: Thuốc lá cũng là một trong những nguyên nhân gây viêm hang vị dạ dày do ức chế quá trình tổng hợp prostaglandin làm giảm yếu tố bảo vệ tế bào niêm mạc vùng hang vị.
Giải pháp phòng ngừa viêm hang vị dạ dày Chế độ sinh hoạt hợp lý, ăn uống lành mạnh: Để ngăn ngừa tình trạng viêm loét hang vị dạ dày, trước hết bạn cần một chế độ ăn uống lành mạnh. Ăn uống đủ bữa, đúng giờ, không nên ăn đồ quá nóng hoặc quá lạnh. Hạn chế sử dụng các đồ ăn, thức uống có tính kích thích như đồ ăn chua cay, nhiều dầu mỡ, rượu, bia, cà phê… Sau khi ăn nên tránh làm việc hoặc hoạt động mạnh ngay, cần có thời gian nghỉ ngơi để dạ dày co bóp, nhào trộn, đẩy thức ăn xuống tá tràng. Ngoài ra bạn nên ngủ đủ giấc, không thức khuya, luyện tập thể dục thể thao… Giảm căng thẳng, stress: Giữ cho tinh thần thoải mái, thư giãn cũng là một cách bảo vệ bạn khỏi nguy cơ mắc viêm hang vị dạ dày. Phân bố thời gian làm việc và nghỉ ngơi phù hợp, cân bằng các mối quan hệ trong cuộc sống hoặc có thể giảm căng thẳng bằng các bài tập yoga hay ngồi thiền cũng rất hiệu quả.
Tránh lạm dụng một số thuốc: Nên tránh sử dụng một số thuốc có khả năng gây viêm hang vị dạ dày như NSAIDs, corticoid… Bạn nên thay đổi thuốc khác hoặc chỉ sử dụng thuốc đó khi thật cần thiết. Chế độ ăn uống hợp lý: Chế độ ăn uống hợp lý góp phần rất quan trọng trong việc hỗ trợ điều trị bệnh. Người bị viêm hang vị dạ dày nên sử dụng thức ăn mềm, dạng lỏng như cháo, bột… để giảm tải áp lực cho dạ dày cũng như hạn chế mức độ làm việc của bao tử, giúp tiêu hóa tốt hơn. Ngoài ra giúp dạ dày loại bỏ phần axit dịch vị dư thừa. Thực phẩm chứa tinh bột: Giúp dạ dày hoạt động hiệu quả, lợi tiêu hóa, đồng thời cung cấp thêm năng lượng cho cơ thể. Các thực phẩm nên dùng: bánh mì, cơm, bột sắn, vv…
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