#was it in real life or online

[werewolf-transgenderism]

rude of my mutuals to be little gay people who live in my phone and not little gay people from real life. I want to make you little trinkets and thingies

#how am I supposed to show you that I love and appreciate you if I can't make you little thingies #with my words???? couldn't be me I can't talk in real life OR online #my love language is making little handmade things for people! drawing things and knitting things and crafting things and handwriting things #I am like a crow or perhaps a raven I will bring you shiny things to show my appreciation

[kiwi]

Please don't do performative activism. It does more harm than good. :(

do you have any actionable suggestions or are you pretending that sending anons telling people to stop posting is activism? or are you just trying to get people to stop talking about palestine? im busy doing real life fundraisers and info campaigns, politely go fuck yourself and get offline. go do something real in your community.

#i fuckin hate being online anymore. tumblr activists are so myopic #if you dont say anything you get dipshits in your inbox. if you say anything you get dipshits in your inbox #idc. we're making real life changes. be miserable and sanctimonious online all you want

[detransed]

When people describe misogyny as the hatred of femininity and not the hated of women… literally a spit in the face to so many

#tbh if someone said this to me in real life i would slap them #they feel bold only but wouldn’t say it to the face of a butch #online*

[modelsof-color]

from a non English speaker : I don't feel heard when I speak in English , I am convinced that I can't express my essence in a cultural aspect , wich makes me feel like I'm keeping others in a fake comfort zone while getting nothing in return , I weirdly feel it's my responsibility keeping Tumblr and any social media a recognizable and familiar place ( especially for Americans )

#sometimes I feel frustrated about it #definitely ain't going to blame myself when I know damn well my blog got followers bc it's in English full time #In a certain way it's a violation against my REAL mindset and experiences .something that should be protected online and in real life #text

[ohsalome]

"why don't we hate israelis as much as we hated russians when they invaded ukraine" - first of all, who is "we". It was (primarily) Eastern Europeans who carried the russophobia on their backs, I'm not letting you appropriate their contribution. And second of all, when were you stabbing russian immigrants abroad for the sin of being russian and vandalising their neighbourhoods with swasticas? Because all I remember is russian men harrassing & beating up ukrainian refugee women and children, and setting their houses on fire, while westerners were observing this with "omg brotherly nation forced into war by politicians. make peace not war #deep"

#ukraine #russia #war in ukraine #russian invasion of ukraine #russo ukrainian war #i swear to god the audacity of some people #you really show your chronically online ass when equating being blocked on instagram to real-life hate crimes

[hoaxghost]

Do you really want fucked up girl monsters? Read dungeonmeshi

alright alright I'll go read dungeon meshi-

#I have gotten. many asks and reccs for it #from online people to real life folks #i tried a while ago but didnt vibe with it initially but maybe I will when I get past the first few chapters #also my tablet. broke. i think. Im too scared to turn it on so I have free time

[good-advice-ganondorf]

For a friend because they're too shy to send in the ask themselves — what should you do if you get a crush on an online friend?

#this one is a bit tricky with the format but tldr is that online communication is very different compared to communicating in real life #so try to be understanding if you misread a message or dont assume you're being ignored if they haven't responded #wish your friend luck ^^ #loz #the legend of zelda #tloz #ganondorf #good advice ganondorf #good advice

[crabussy]

IS ANYONE ELSE FEELING KIND TODAY!!! IS ANYONE ELSE FEELING GENEROUS TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLE!!! IS ANYBODY ELSE BEING KIND AND TRYING TO UNDERSTAND EVEN WHEN ITS HARD!!! IS ANYONE ELSE ASSUMING THE BEST OF OTHERS INTENTIONS AND RESPONDING IN KIND!!!! CAN ANYONE HEAR ME

#having a day ^_^ #I love being kind I just wish other people loved being kind more #people on the internet are SO FUCKING MEAN TO EACH OTHER???? its a terrible phenomenon #I have never seen people in real life treat others badly with the horrifying proportion of hate I see online #please. try to be kinder try to be more patient even when its frustrating #I have changed minds and deescalated arguments SO many times by being kind. #if someone is spouting misinfo in a furious rage and they're saying hurtful things? try responding with patience and kindness #even when you don't feel they deserve it. because one of 2 things usually happens #EITHER. they immediately shift their tone because you're talking to them like an equal and not an idiot #OR they continue to be horrible and it makes them look really nasty. its not a good look!! most people won't do the second thing!! #hateful online arguments has turned my mental health into a disgusting stew in the past #since I started being kind out of sheer frustration my mental health has improved a thousandfold #listen. sometimes its okay to be mean. if someone tells you to kill yourself I dont think its appropriate to give them patience and kindnes #BUT. if you treat someone like they're stupid. even if you're right!!! they won't listen to you or consider your words!! #because admitting you're right means admitting that they're stupid like you think they are. that feels bad so people won't do it #my wisdom. today I am so tired

[juniepops]

This post wasn’t supposed to get notes and the main focus was on the tags so I’m leaving those intact in case anyone clicks through to the original

#anyway. going to start blocking people who throw around the term fed like that. we need to put it on the high shelf #y'all heard about feds funding infighting in the black panthers and you think that of your blogging platform considered dead by non-users? #tumblr arguments are not equivalent to disrupting real life protesting and community organizing! they just aren't! #sometimes people who start stupid arguments online are just assholes. you just have to accept that there are assholes in the lgbt community

[sergle]

(re: sssniperwolf and jacksfilms) It's laughable that she escalated it that hard. Don't get me wrong, I'm pretty sure stalking him like that is illegal and it's terrifying regardless, but Jack said in a stream (can't remember which one) that he wasn't about bringing up past controversies of hers or cancelling. And now she shows up outside his house (wtf!!!). Like he was willing to only call her out for stealing and freebooting but she's gone and stalked him and Jack doesn't seem like the type of guy to take that shit. Actual WTF moment from her part. wild

omg long post below bc apparently I have opinions: YES!! THAT'S WHAT'S SO INCREDIBLE ABOUT THIS... Jack has been genuinely diligent about keeping things on-topic in his streams, and hasn't brought up any of her other Stuff, or anything Personal. Despite the fact that she kickstarted the whole thing by making it INCREDIBLY personal and attacking his physical appearance... His goal has been to call out and bring attention to content theft, and he's stuck with it. Dude's also cared about this for years, and she's not the first content thief he's criticized. He just hates the way that freebooting has become so accepted-- to the point where youtube praised her for "coming up with such creative video ideas"? Hey! Ew! Dude wasn't trying to get her cancelled though, there was no smear campaign of her character. He's been rallying to get her to CREDIT the creators that she relies on for all of her content. It would set a precedent for all other "react" channels on the platform for one of the biggest channels on youtube to actually give credit where credit is due. Or, god forbid, get permission first? It's not hard. It's already done the job of making some other people who do "react content" self-analyze whether or not their content is transformative, and to maybe care about crediting the creators they rely on for their genre to work. There is a way to make this kind of video that isn't so slimy. And making fun of her lackluster-at-best reactions is so far from even being a big deal. Bc she literally does just sit there and say nothing. Plus, his goal has a clear End built into it: if she started shouting out the creators she takes content from, and put links directly to their pages in her video descriptions, the job would be done! That's what he's asking her to do. Real bare minimum stuff. It legit would have been easy to steer away from the content theft and to also talk about her history of lying to her audience! her ghosting a dying kid with cancer who was a big fan of hers! the fact that she's been arrested for armed robbery! her history of transphobia! He would also get more clicks that way, which is what she claims is his sole goal- to get more clicks. I'll bring it up though! She's been a terrible person the whole time, and has kept a steady course of manipulating her audience of young children and/or, let's be completely honest, simps- into thinking that she's a Wholesome creator. (And now, into thinking she's an innocent victim.) All of the actual effort put in by her has gone toward optics, not the content she puts out. A carefully constructed online persona, for one, but also literal appearances. Jack totally can't say this, bc she already went off the handle and said the only reason he doesn't like her is bc he Hates To See A Woman Be Successful. But I can! That was a cheap shot for her to use that argument when, for once, it's not applicable! Much the opposite, even! Dudes online wouldn't go to bat for her if she didn't look the way she does. And it weakens any case she'd have against him by making baseless claims like that. She banks hugely on being an attractive woman to get her clicks/following. A massive amount of effort is put into her appearance. The makeup, the lip fillers, putting her hair in little pigtails, the chokers and tube tops, the big non-prescription Nerd Glasses, the thumbnails where she has her mouth open in That Expression?

I don't even have to say anything. But making a weird facial expression and putting your hair in pigtails aren't moral failings. Showing up at someone's real life home (whose address you shouldn't even have access to), filming the front of their house at night, doxxing them to your audience of millions of people? Because you were mad at them online? That is fully scary! Yeah girl I'm pretty sure that Jack can press charges! There is absolutely no way to take the moral highground now that she's literally stalked him, and doxxed his home. She tried to goad him and Erin (Jack's wife) out of the house, also, which creeps me out even more-- because what was she planning to do? The fact that she's been arrested for violent crime before does pop into my mind! lmao! Jack was streaming a game at the time that she was outside his home, and these clips of him, his friends, and Erin reacting in real time to what is genuinely a scary situation have been taken down in case he needs to use them in legal action. Shit is legitimately serious!

#sergle answers #long post #LONGEST POST ON EARTH I'M SO SORRY #saying all this out loud only takes a few minutes but typing it... girl this is a BOOK #clearly I have thoughts on this Online Drama but also this isn't online! #these are people who exist in real life. and compromising a person's safety bc he criticized you for stealing tiktoks #is a real life thing. this isn't confined to online spaces! you can turn off your computer to get away from An Argument #but someone going to your house?? that's absolutely terrifying #and all of this is just because he's been telling her to credit the creators. it could have been resolved so simply. #I hope he takes legal action against her bc he genuinely has grounds to do so. #and I can't imagine how terrified and upset I would be if someone was outside my door. filming my house for their audience. #also the 'what if the roles were reversed' argument is rarely made in good faith... but she's already brought up the topic. #this would be getting even more coverage and the optics would be Even Creepier if a strange man with millions of followers showed up #at the home of a woman- just bc she criticized his videos- filming her home address for all to see and trying to get her to come outside. #It's just as creepy that sssniperwolf did this as it would be coming from ANYONE else #it's been downplayed bc her being a little skinny woman means that A Man shouldn't be threatened by her #which. even if she wasn't going to Do anything. any one of her rabidly loyal online followers MIGHT. she's not the only one who could go to #his house now! anyone could show up. #sergle.txt #Jacksfilms #Sssniperwolf

[icarrymany]

the mh comics open up such an interesting narrative for our few surviving characters. to them, what happened in the videos was real, but to everyone else its a cool creative web series. when all of that is viewed as fiction, fans have a freedom to speculate about and invade the lives and privacy of real people. and that would be so uncomfortable and terrifying. imagine someone irl having headcanons about YOU. writing fan fiction about you and your real friends. assuming things about you PUBLICLY ! IN MASS!

wouldnt it be so cool to see a character grapple with that in like a self-reflective way? fans asking questions the muse is too afraid to ask themselves. of course, theyre the only person the answer matters to.

#like wouldnt it be so strange not only to see the terrible things that happened to u have a FANBASE #but also people wondering about the intricacies of your personal life (they view you as a character and have no idea it was real) #and youre disgusted and afraid of prying eyes #but at the same time #you never think about yourself much anyways (too painful) and realize you might HAVE TO if ur gonna be okay with what happened #spoilers um this is about. jam. #tim never took the time to deconstruct how he felt in the moment because he was trying not to die #even if he concludes he harbored some feelings (like people online suspect) what would he even do with that? #he can never go back and change it. but he can say it to himself. its something for him that nobody else NEEDS to know #but now he can understand himself a little better n form new connections #its like a culmination of my hatred for some fans NEED for things to be canon when its much more fun to leave stuff open-ended #and also my love for media adressing this in a way that actually says something abt the way we consume it #yall seen the craig and tweek episode of south park? yeah.

[gatzbright]

Dream and George | Franz Kafka, Letters to Milena

#distance buh. n the fact that after all the timebthey finaly found each other #the translation of online to real life imgonna Cry they wandered around their mc worlds together for Years n now they can wander the earth #together. #my dnfies …… n mybest frend kafka<3 #dnf #compilations #my webs

[sortagolddigger]

You can do it.

It’s ok if you feel ugly or not good enough. Do it anyway.

Fake it till you make it. Nothing in this world was created without someone’s imagination

#manifesation #manifesting #dating #real life #black sugar dating #hypergamy #black girl magic #rich black women #rich black girl #hypergamous #spoiled black girl #spoiled heaux #black women in luxury #black girls in luxury #black sugar baby #online only #sugar dating #motivation

[maudiemoods]

Aight I feel like I should go ahead and officially say this! I probably won't be drawing much of sun and moon anymore! I'll still reblog art and fics of them but I will no longer be a creator! Just a consumer!

#i thought id be obsessed till the day i die #i do still love fnaf a whole bunch #i think ive just drawn everything i want to see for sun and moon? when i try to draw them it just feel repetitive?? #guys watch me draw them as soon as i post this im gonna lose it #i just had the sudded urge to draw them #but for real thanks for everyone for following 🥹 especially the people who interact with my post #the past two years have been the online experience i had dreamed for! lots of support and interest in my art! means a lot to me #ren won't shut up #I'll probably occasionally draw them but I have new interests now ❤️ #my life is a lime green jeep (that's a metaphor)

[cadaverkeys]

I often wonder how people express themselves if they do not commit themselves in any way to the arts? Presumably most people on the planet do not produce art intentionally so what...do they do with their inner world? Does it just torture them from the inside? Genuinely curious.

#rambles #i wonder if it is how i feel about making music where there's a part of me that wants to escape #but it has nowhere to go #so i collect music and categorise it. im near obsessed with music in my real life #which i think is apparent at times in the way i express myself online #my visuals go in my art but im not rlly contented to write poetry or whatever. i wanna make MUSIC #and i feel that i know a lot of non-artists who are obsessive collectors

[mamawasatesttube]

i think bart should be allowed to cyberbully people sometimes. as a treat!! enrichment in his enclosure!!! i think sometimes someone says something shitty about superboy online and impulse shows up in their mentions calling them a string of really ugly swears in interlac. HE'S allowed to call kon's ttk a stupid and useless superpower but twitter user randomdude6875385 you shut the fuck your mouth right now,

#rimi talks #do not take this post seriously i just want to let bart commit cartoonish acts of violence in the online sphere #AND in real life like some wile e coyote and the roadrunner shit #but my god. i need him to ratio people so badly. #and then ofc kon's like awwww were you defending my honor??? awww #and bart is like. no i wasn't. shut up. i don't know what you mean. i'll kill you #(<- said while he's actively in kon's lap btw) #their dynamic is loving bickering while cuddling #well that's one of their dynamics. they contain multitudes. #anyways. bluhghgh. mr electric (impulse)... KILL THEM!!!!!!!! #bart