#we spoke about how we would do it

[deliciousnecks]

Go on, Guillermo. I bonked this one on the head just for you.

#what we do in the shadows #wwdits #wwditsedit #wwdits spoilers #wwditsdaily #wwdits fx #kayvan novak #harvey guillen #listen! maybe it's just me #but i have so much to say about nandor in this scene #like it almost seemed that the way he spoke and acted #was on purpose #as to make guillermo see what his life would be now #how little care vampires have for human life #to make him realize that this is not what he wants #because he's not the kind of person that they are #and besides that #the blood on his face #this is the first time we have seen nandor feed on screen #i had been waiting for this moment for years

[snekdood]

bitches be like. i hate vegans so much that i’ve decided i like killing animals and its fine and i dont feel bad and animals dont have feelings and its fine and im cool subversive and different and edgy and like to post fucked up stuff to make vegans uncomfortable bc im just so cool

#you sound like every cishet republican man to me #you're not a Cool Subversive Leftist you're literally regressing by seeing animals as just objects of your pleasure and thats it lmao #im sorry but you dont just get to throw out all of veganism. it does infact have some roots in leftism. #you can sit there and cope with the fact you agree w some vegan talking point by calling it 'animal welfare' all you want #doesnt change the fact that a lot of those ideas in those circles were formed by vegans. #damn woooah vegans arent a monolith and dont all agree on the same shit woooahhh who knew #literally i have no idea how we even got to this point or how this would be surprising. #when i was on vegan twitter bitches were arguing all the fucking time within it. ur really gonna sit ther en tell me they're all secret #eco fash that hates native ppl and people who have to eat meat? ya sure??? #you would think the individuals on tumblr- of all places- would understand how frustrating it would be to be grouped in with the worst #members of their community as if you represent them and are the sole spokesperson #you'd think they'd hate when someone jumps to conclusions about them based on their lifestyle #but naur. i think yall take it too personally. as if a vegan just being in a room is somehow trying to force you to be vegan. #literally grow tf up. #if a vegan being in the same room with you triggers feelings in you that you Have to stop eating meat- i really think thats a you problem #bud. homeboy hasnt even spoke to you leta lone look at you and apparently you feel this weird pressure now #idk man dont you think that pressure might be coming within?? maybe.... you do infact feel things and feel a lil guilty abt eating meat? #not telling you to stop... i still eat meat here n there. but at least im honest with myself about how it makes me feel to do it. #its infact normal to take a second to think about the loss someone made in exploitation to provide you with whatever. #if you can let yourself feel a lil guilt about buying a fast fashion thing you can sure as fuck finally extend your fuckin empathy to #animals and stop treating them like objects or toys.

[unawakening-float07]

talking to gay men on dating apps makes me feel like i’m losing my mind and not human or something

#i list that i’m a side on every profile i have for compatible purposes and literally #no one fucking reads it #was talking to this super nice dude that matched with me on tinder and we spoke on grindr #so he messages me on grindr and after a few minutes he says #‘we should meee up’ and i’m like… oh bro we just started talking to do you just wanna smash? #and this dick is like #‘oh i just wanted to talk and chill but you can make the first move’ and i’m like trying to explain #i’d like to know someone a bit first before i meet them unless all they want is sex #then it’s like whatever we don’t have to talk #then he goes on about how im complicated and have too many expectations about men and that nothing would ever work between us because im #a side #like buddy you literally had every opportunity to see this and tell me all you wanted was my cock #im not driving 16 miles so some old queen and drain me when literally like 8 of my straight neighbors will do it on call

[misspickman]

transfem kon proposal could have been good if was good

#it was not. good #and i know theres a lot of transphobic assholes happy we didnt get it bc of that #but pretending that everyone who criticizes it is doing so only bc they cant handle kon being a trans woman. is just. #you cant see past the blind want for representation #again i would kill for canon transfem kon but everything about that idea was bad #and her characterization of kon was horrid and so clearly based on yj tv show #remember how when her first bit of kon writing came out and everyone was mad about it bc it was Bad and put him in a relationship with mgan #who he. never spoke to in comics before but suddenly theyre in an established relationship #and it was all around not good kon writing. but then the proposal came out and suddenly everyone is oh we were robbed.. #as if anything about it was good except for the general idea of making kon a trans woman #also im sorry but i saw her replies on twt where she was saying being trans is about burning your past and leaving everything behind #or whatever. as if being trans is the same for all of us. and as if it makes sense for kon who isnt in a bad situation re family? #but of course it would seem that way if youre coming from yj tv show. where most of the clark and kon misconception comes from afaik #and her whole issue with conner and kon as his names? bc they were given to him by another person?? #i know that we like. if we were to get trans woman kon. it would have to go with changing her name and everything #bc u know dc cant conceptualize any more complex trans person than someone who instantly changes their name and fully transitions in a sec #but the way she talked about the name issue as if its bad that clark named kon. as if he wasnt so overjoyed at getting that name. #'he said not to call him superboy and we kept calling him superboy!' girl he said that bc he wanted to be superman. of all the many ways #u can find trans allegory in kons story. that single line aint it #so sorry but every time im reminded of this i get so sad and disappointed u took the best concept and fucked it up so bad #and now all people think of when trans kon is mentioned is fucking sk******* #its so over (its not bc im about to forget about it again and ignore its existence) #txt #im sorry for being a bitch again but did u read that. thats not the kon we know. dont tell me thats the point bc its about transitioning bc #u do not become a whole other person when u realize youre trans #and sorry but i do think itd be nice to have trans kon without just turning him into a (new) oc

[chloelouygo]

Trying hard in therapy so I can fix myself to make my therapist proud 🫡

#he's the absolute SWEETEST #gutted i can only get a course of 6 sessions with him :( #but I'll try super hard over these few months to get better!! #i told him i did cross stitch and he went🥹 i love needlepoint!! and i was like ooh i have needlepoint horses on my wall!! and he was like😍 #entirely too precious ;o; #i don't tend to babble when i talk unless i connect with the person or subject I'm talking with or about #and i find myself rambling when i talk to him #which honestly im often really awkward and quiet to speak with #so he must be good if he can get me rambling lmao #it's really weird to have therapy over the phone though because like #aside from being a pasty irishman in his early 30s-ish #i have no idea what he looks like?? #and like it's odd to spend a while talking but to not see tuem #i used to do weekly phone calls to lonely older people #and i spoke to 4 people over my years volunteering #i spoke to lesley for nearly 3 years #do i know whqt she looks like? #not a clue #we weren't allowed to email or know last names or anything so i have no idea what amy of my lovely old friends looked like #and it's so weird how some really important people in my life (you reading this included most likely) #are people who ive not actually seen #idk how whimsical is that #people in old times would not have understood having great friends who you can connect with really well but have never been in a room with #i be monologuing sorryyyy #ily

[ctl-yuejie]

I adore WinTeam but P’Pruek is the true delight.

His face when Win told him and Dean that he had already slept with Team.

Truely the expression of a man who is well-meaning but about to smile very widely at the kind of psychological damage that has been suddenly unleashed on him

#between us the series #between us #happy we got at long last more manow - i love her #this episode was kind of filler but hopefully they got most of the sponsorships out of the way like this #the teamwin scenes in the beginning felt a bit disconnected because of it but i adored the last bit where they each spoke to their friends #abotu their feelings #much to dean's honest concern and breaking p'preuk's mind #i was ready for standard drama and probably would have liked it but i also like the implicit angst of both of them thinking they're one-side #ly in love (my kind of idiots) #and how jarring it must be to hear your crush talk about having had sex with you to his friends while you yourself haven't even mentioned be #ing interested in the guy before your own friends #just tastiness all around #happy we got win and his brothers but i couldn't care less about bumblebee and prince #again: cannot wait until next week #maybe it is the red herring for this week with last week's preview but why do i feel like team's night time practice will be far more dramat #ic than the preview suggests? #to be fair to p'pruek: i didn't expect win to tell them that he had slept with team already #also respect dean being a friend but still watching out for no juniors getting hurt

[ereborne]

Song of the Day: March 26

"Songs About Rain" by Gary Allan

#song of the day #you might think that this is the opposite of 'Groovy Little Summer Song' but nope! closer to same because (drumroll) #they are one of the very best categories of thing: Country Songs About Country Songs #I love them. I adore them #'Songs About Rain' is one of the strongest and best examples of type I have (also 'Cheatin Songs' by Midland. impeccable) #'and it sure ain't easin my pain / all these songs like / Rainy Night in Georgia / Kentucky Rain #Here Comes That Rainy Day Feelin Again / Blues Eyes Cryin in the Early Mornin Rain #they go on and on and there's no two the same / oh it would be easy to blame / all these songs about rain' #what a gift. what a delight. legitimately hard to sing this song in a mournful voice because it makes me so damn happy #anyway as you might glean from how this is posting at 3 pm my time: my sleep schedule is /fucked/ #I did have part of the bad conversation with my boss on Monday (immediately followed by garden times #which so overtook me that I spoke only about the garden and good spring feeling in my song post. what a blessing the garden is) #but mostly what happened is I said 'hey it is technically possible for me to make this but it will not help it will not do anything useful' #and my boss said 'but you can make it' and I said 'yes but we shouldn't. it will be a waste of time' and she said 'make it by Thursday' #and I said 'I absolutely cannot make it by Thursday. if I finish instead this better thing I've already been working on--' #and she said 'no we don't care about that thing. make part of the useless thing. by Thursday morning' #and I said 'if I bring you part of the useless thing and part of the good thing and I directly compare them in front of you--' #and she said 'we'll look at whatever you have Thursday morning but it's the useless thing we care about' #so the meeting is scheduled and I'm going to plead for the life of my better thing and probably the best I'll get is permission to do both #which is. I mean the useless thing is going to be a time-waster for sure but at least it won't be actively detrimental to anything? #it'll be fine I'll make it be fine. the inherent problems of when your boss doesn't actually know what you do for them I guess :/ #(also maybe. maybe if it comes down to it. maybe I'll just make the good thing for myself and use it to make my own life better #and someday maybe they'll ask for a project that works and then I'll be able to dramatically unveil it but either way I'll benefit from it #hmm maybe yeah)

[reachexceedinggrasp]

Oh also, here's an extra (somewhat incendiary) ask you can answer if you feel like it: is there anything about Reylo, or Rey, or Kylo, or the Sequel Trilogy overall that you avoided getting into just for the sake of a peaceful fandom when it was a warzone? I'll go first: I didn't care about any of the storyline outside of Rey and Kylo and TFA!Rey only became interesting to me because of TLJ. I can still appreciate the characters somewhat and how they were done dirty by TROS and racism though.

Oh sure. I didn't totally avoid anything, I don't think, but there were certainly things I went as light as possible on because it just wasn't worth bringing up more than necessary. And I didn't argue about things I didn't care about, because who has the energy.

Although, possibly I never mentioned that I hate F/nn/P0e and it being a constant background pairing in reylo fic is a significant source of annoyance to me. It's one of those irritating ships that gets a default assumption everyone ships it and that really gets on my tits, but I don't remember it ever coming up in a way that I had to say anything about it.

#sw #there were a number of things that preoccupied the fandom that I just did not give a shit about #but anything that actually mattered I would say my piece about it #even if I mostly tried to avoid arguing about it #I deliberately did not bring up that the prequels were terrible though I don't think it was ever a secret #and we spoke a long time ago about how much I hate the whole 'it was never Luke's story it's Anakin's story' nonsense #I tried to be diplomatic about both of those #the prequels do suck but AT LEAST THEY TOLD A STORY #NOT WELL BUT IT WAS A FUCKING NARRATIVE and MADE THEMATIC SENSE #ugh

[lostlovepunk]

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#yeah so #suicidality tw #i guess? #i would really like to be able to use trains normally without my brain just going 'oh we could use that to kill ourselves' every time #a train comes into a station #and that's like. multiple times per day and sometimes it's just a short thought and easily discarded and sometimes #it's not that easy to let go and stabd there watching the train and getting on #i feel like i shortly had some hope the last week and then lost it again but also got my feelings back somehow and now i'm drowning in then #i don't think it's supposed to work like this #to have three breakdowns in 24 hours and just feel kinda numb in between #and i just don't know how to take responsibility for me and actually do anything about this #it's just all so so much and i don't even know what is so much #spike spoke

[joons]

"[Elvis] always appreciated compliments rendered him, the gifts he received or the considerations extended to him. Only when he thought an ulterior motive was behind the act, did he withhold his feeling."

!!!

#the gears of my brain just ROARING #so! so! #elvis spoke passive-aggressiveness FLUENTLY #it's a common trait in people pleasers who feel hemmed in by obligation; they can't say no even when they need to or want to #so elvis 90% of the time could be like 'i love giving you things i will give you so much here is everything ok do you need anything else' #but when that wall hits ... and it could be because he feels particularly self-conscious or he PICKS UP ON A VIBE #any sense that he is being used or laughed at #then it's like :| ya done! #and like ... realistically he couldn't cut everyone out when he reached that point #he just had to seethe quietly forever #like the colonel or family members if they had a fight or whatever #and then! then! #think about how often he might hit this wall out of simple habit #out of fearing that a relationship would come to an end and just bailing emotionally before anything was wrong #the self-sabotage is so human and recognizable and the result of being so giving #that he had no idea how to say 'i need some space' without feeling guilty #I! Know! This! Feeling! #i just live a milder life where that anxiety doesn't interfere with many ppl #like the more i learn the more in love i am with the colonel/elvis confrontation in the film #framing it as transactional 'we have both lived from each other' #it's likeeeee that's what elvis most feared his relationships were and also what he most wanted to HEAR someone ADMIT #because then there's no doubt no need to feel guilty (much)

[gothcarmelasoprano]

maw why are these troll accounts linked through my ex best friends STILL following me

#im highly convinced at this stage she was the one that made the fake accounts #the gas thing is is that she was mainly an online friend and had she kept in touch with me at the time she wouldve known i was in the #studio in college preparing for my assignment for the semester so i dont fail like there were specific requirements we had to get done for #that week... and you think i would have that time to make fake accounts if anything itd be you and your online friends #emphasis on online because you could hardly make friends or even get a job here so you got one back home #the saddest thing is that the memes can be funny but its just what they represent in this whole situation that sours it completely #dont get me started on her friend she is honestly so polarising even from an outsider's perspective #ugh it doesnt annoy me anymore as it did because at the end of the day it has nothing to do with me but the fact that theyre STILL going on #about it makes me think that her and her online buddies have nothing else to do apart from being with themselves constantly #i had that life but no way did i want to live that way in my 20s 💀 #i fucked up before that incident but isnt it convenient when we hardly spoke for a month just for the ~fake account~ to appear to stop #being friends like as awful as it sounds but itd actually be a lot easier just to say you dont want to be friends #instead of dragging outsiders into it like you do best #the saddest thing is that she was actually quite fake even before she went down a permanent online rabbit hole #and i was aware of it but because i was emotionally vulnerable at the time i never cut her off since i really wanted friends to talk to #play that cool girl alty idgaf attitude all you like but it doesn't change the fact that you're superficial no matter how much you mask it #ugh im hormonal and i cant sleep but at the same time its nice to be able to freely bc not as many people use tumblr anymore #i block those accounts not because im offended or im precious about my image but they do spam and its annoying af so i dont want that tbh #having pictures with a school friend whilst under the same breath making jokes of their dead brother is not a good look 😬 #i did fucked up things as a result of coping with trauma and alienation as a teenager but this is actually low? #im sorry but it does it screams fake and im pretty sure that the fake treatment was given to me when we first became friends #fake people rarely ever change #i have to get ready for work in an hour this was unexpected #might vent later because i feel like i can do anything on this godforsaken website #the shocking thing to them is that they nothing on me if anything the 'proof' she showed me almost exposed her and her crowd #i have deleted my fb account but i still have the screenshots somewhere

[oveliagirlhaditright]

The fact that "One Girl In All the World" had The Gentleman, the demons that give you telepathy (and make you go crazy), the Sunnydale swim team that had gotten turned into sea monsters, and Fyral demons, though. And one other callback monster that I shan't spoil.

#one girl in all the world spoilers #spoilers #also spike pointing out that giles had turned into a fyral demon once and being like 'we have to make sure it's not giles. you're not giles #are you?' and then the text after that saying. 'alas. it was not giles.' lol #and this has nothing to do with monsters. but i loved this one scene where spike stormed off and willow followed him to try and talk to him #but sensing he might not want to talk she spoke in his head verbally 'if you don't want to talk we can always do this telepathically' #and then he said aloud. 'that would be a one-way conversation. vampires' thoughts don't cast a reflection remember?' #man all the references in the in every generation series are SO good #and the fact that frankie knew the song about the gentleman from buffy's dream and started singing it when they showed up. pfft. like 'wait #i know what these are.' and how willow and frankie both started screaming the moment they got their voices back to defeat them. and were #the only ones who knew to do to. #cutemotherdaughtermoment #buffy the vampire slayer

[elytrafemme]

today might be a lyric posting on main kinda day

#nightmare.personal #GF said she was excited to see me later and sent me a heart and a smiley emoji #and it's the PINK hearts which I think in her heart rankings I learned last May that's a good thing? #but maybe purple is better but like why would she make me the worse one compared to what she made my ex #that doesn't make any sense also did i mention that my ex's first kiss i think was with my current girlfriend #i feel like this is some ruse but i was the one who pitched the date so nothing bad is going to happen but i don't think she likes me? #like i don't think my girlfriend actually likes me because i haven't seen her in forever #like i didn't see her at ALL yesterday and i mean i had to mediate an argument with her and my other friend #and that was like a week ago and we definitely spoke after that but i think she still remembers #and i HAVE to look good today but it's really cold outside so i don't know how to impress her #because I don't know what traits about me that she actually LIKES and that's like so difficult? #because I don't know what i need to play up to get her to really like me she isn't giving me ANYTHING #does she think i'm attractive? does she think i'm smart? does she think i'm kind? like WHAT IS IT. #because if i don't KNOW then i have to just be me and that's not going to work! #dating is so fucking difficult what the hell i'm going to explode #maybe I do my makeup today OOH I COULD PAINT MY NAILS #maybe that iwll make me better #no but then i have to hide the nails from my mom God dammit. #oh and i can't listen to music because my brother wants me to change my spotify username!!! #so if he sees me listening! he'll know i haven't! but i also don't think he follows me? #i don't think i like my brother very much #i keep trying to decide if there's something wrong with me and honestly i'm not so sure i think there isn't #but the fact i said that will make you think there is so there's no point anyway

[rearranging-deck-chairs]

biggest pet peeve is when they make movies in english set in other countries and make them speak english with the accent of that country???

#it doesnt make sense???? #we can use suspension of disbelief to just know theyre actually speaking their own language but we hear english #but you cant do that when it's accented #THEY wouldnt hear an accent in each other's language so why are WE? #it doesnt make SENSE #it yeets you out of the perspective of the MAIN CHARACTER #how counterproductive?? #why would you do it #it's othering #anyway im watching a short film set in germany and zey talk like dis #which im sure isnt even how an actual german accent sounds bc they always get french accents wrong in movies so im sure german too #it's not a bad film #it's just distracting really #if they just spoke english you wouldnt have to think about it but now i have to think about it #even worse when it varies per character #how does this german boy who speaks german natively have more of an accent than this german man who speaks german natively #what am i supposed to make of that? #what are they speaking? #biggest pet peeve