if you OBSESS over your appearance, READ THIS
(this post was inspired by @/luvlainey11 on tik tok)
you are not going to be happy no matter what changes. if you lose weight, get plastic surgery, listen to thousands of subliminals, etc, it won't matter, because if you are someone who is constantly thinking about the way you look and constantly obsessing over it, you can change all the points on your original list of complaints about your appearance. and once you do that, you will just conjure up a new list of complaints that you want to change. the cycle will literally be never-ending. no matter how much time you put into trying to look like your dream self, you will never look like your dream self to yourself because the problem isn't how you look, its how you think.
why do we obsess over the way that we look?: (I've done some research ya'll) because some people believe that how they look is who they are inside, social media has made it normal for people to mask their natural beauty with filters and makeup etc, and we are so used to seeing this false idea of natural beauty, so we compare ourselves to those people we see online claiming to be "natural" yet they use makeup and filters to fool us. if you actually walk outside, you will see that NOBODY looks like how they do on instagram or tik tok. there are just average, normal people outside.
obviously, i am not saying to never worry about the way you look but if you are obsessed over it, please learn to let that go because that will only get worse from here. trust me now babe, you are enough, and you are worthy. you need to let this go. you need to be able to live the rest of your life happily and do not let this consume you and depress you. there is so much more to your life than the way that you look. your reason for being on this earth, your value as a human being is so so much more than what you look like. stop having a list of things that you want to "fix" and change about yourself. start to embrace yourself and your natural beauty. end the cycle.
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breaking negative cycles
a lot of you have been in this habit of always thinking negative thoughts and have this "cup half empty" view on life. the issue with these kinds of thoughts is that they believe that bad things will happen, then bad things happen because they keep thinking bad thoughts and the cycle continues. then you guys find these manifestation pages where people talk about changing there lives and you think its hard because you have made things hard for yourself your whole life, then you try to manifest things and as soon as you don't see it in the 3D reality right away, you give up and continue your bad negative thoughts. then you go onto think that manifestation is some very hard practice that only a few can do.
wake up and realize that since you are in complete control of your life and everything about it, (when i say everything, i mean literally everything that you see 24/7...like literally every single little part of your life) you are the one to bring upon bad things in your life. manifesting is an ability that we all share, nothing is "coincidence" or "luck" you are behind everything that happens to you. its time to only think thoughts that are favorable to you. start closely monitoring your thoughts and only think positively.
don't waste your time leaving a hate comment, i will simply delete it.
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