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saurile · 7 months

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Oooh my fucking god dont you just love it when your brain does the most absolute fucking shit ever

#i had trouble falling asleep this night :)#and just woke up for some fucking reason in the middle of the night #and my eyeballs hurt when i tried to open them #but i had to open them because my room is cold so i had to close the window #and then i check the time #and then i see the notification of ''professor is in the class everyone'' message:)#from my old university student group chat :))))#like yes buddy i know you are in pain of leaving everything behind but hoooly fuck why are you so upset by school starting again without u #why am i so upset by this #why is it fucking 6am and ehy the fuck i had to have work tomorrow #fuck #i need to pee and the bathroom is not available #life is cruel sometimes #not because the bathroom is not free for other reasons #ah hm #fuck you old university friends #i do not wish at all i was with you instead of working for that piece of shit #i do not wish at all i was back home #'' oh of course auntie im doing just great i got adapted here very easily im doing just great everythings fine''#i say #but holy fuck #holy fuck the fuck am i doinfg here #the fuck is happening #stop this i dont want to have all the responsibilities of my life yet #im not ready yet #im scared #and others have school tomorrow #and i have work #and its 6am #i just want my dad

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am-i-the-asshole-official · 1 month

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Am I the asshole for using the only accessible restroom at the office, when I don't technically need to?

I am a trans person in my twenties who is neurologically & physically disabled. My disabilities are (mostly) invisible and I do not have any mobility aids or bulky access devices, nor do I have any toileting-related disabilities. This is relevant.

In the large office building where I work, each storey has: A women's room with no large accessible stall; a men's room with no large accessible stall; and a single-occupancy all-genders large accessible restroom.

I am visibly trans, regardless of how I dress or whether I wear a mask. I have been verbally harassed in both the women's room and the men's room, and security has been called on me once. HR told me to use the single-occupancy restroom to avoid further "conflicts." However, two of my coworkers on this floor have bulky mobility aids, so they cannot fit into the stalls of the men's room or women's room. Yesterday, one of them ("Pat") was in the lobby waiting for me to exit the single-occupancy restroom so they could use it. When Pat saw that I exited, not our other coworker with a mobility aid, they started to berate me for making them wait on someone who is not disabled. They insisted I use the women's room, and I was too upset to respond, I just walked away.

I don't want to go to HR again, who I think see me as the problem, rather than the bathroom layout being the problem. I don't want to be harassed in a gendered restroom again, but I feel terrible for making Pat wait on the only restroom they can physically access. I don't want to tell Pat and my other coworker with a mobility aid why I use that restroom, because I am afraid they will not be sympathetic to my reasons, since they cannot physically use the other restrooms and I physically can (just at significant risk of harassment and HR complaint).

I already try not to use any restroom at work, since it is causing so many problems with my coworkers. I work on an upper floor, and my badge only lets me into the floor where I work and the ground floor lobby, so I can't get to a different block of restrooms in a reasonable amount of time. My job has good benefits and is not too difficult, so quitting my job over the restroom situation feels extreme. I am trying to be considerate of all of my coworkers, but I am afraid that I am in the wrong anyway.

Would I be the asshole if I keep using the single-occupancy accessible restroom when I need to go?

I'm sorry if this sounds like bait. I am afraid of giving too much detail about where I work. If the mod wants more information I might be able to provide floor plans for my office without compromising my privacy?

What are these acronyms?

#aita #am i the asshole #yeah so this is a good example of why i cannot stand when y'all call things bait #this is a perfectly reasonable and believable case of conflicting access needs at work #and the fact that the submitter had to pre-justify their story as not being bait #and offer to share personal info to prove it #is really fucking upsetting actually!

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sergle · 4 months

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FOREWARNING FOR GROSS-OUT SKIN CLOSEUP SHIT DON'T YELL AT ME FOR SHOWING YOU has anyone else gotten this really weird phenomenon on youtube. I swear every algorithm on every website is actively and purposely worse now. Where you'll be scrolling through vids after searching for something (I was looking at crochet stuff) and SANDWICHED IN THE MIDDLE OF ACTUAL SEARCH RESULTS... YOU KNOW. LIKE THINGS RELEVANT TO THE KEYWORDS I TYPED

are a couple of completely out of left field SHOCK VALUE VIDS. like to intentionally be alarming. drama vids and things you're enticed to click on bc they're upsetting, and deep deep closeups on zits. what the fuck is going on. Sandwiched between videos about GRANNY SQUARES. crack? is it crack we're smoking????

#are you telling me I can search for crochet patterns and be fed videos of pimple popping and news about anorexic influencers?#THESE ARE NOT ADS!!!! they're just IN THERE. I have ublock I've got all that stuff. these are just completely irrelevant videos #in the search results after I typed like. granny square patterns. or something really basic like that #NASTY shit #and I know it's not the algorithm clocking me bc I can tell when they do that. but I hate hate hate pimple popping videos #so that's not gonna be it.#when mr. algorithm gets me I can smell it. because guess what. nail polish. it's always nail polish.#and I don't watch upsetting shit abt the starvation girl or anything either. and I don't follow drama clickbait channels #WHAT IS THIS. WHERE AM I.#why did they make me look at this!!!!#sergle.txt #you're not allowed to yell at me btw I gave you a warning. which was more than I got. we're in this together now.#i'm not sure what to tag this as bc if i tag it as body horror then ppl will bark at me bc zits are natural. is it natural to get #a camera this close to big irritated holes and boils on your face. lesions. cysts. is that natural. are we friends #do i need to be close enough to smell you. put my eyes directly into the holes in your face

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mishapen-dear · 5 months

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no but its so crazy to me that “intense character driven plotlines were interrupted by intense insane event the admins put on” is even a complaint we can HAVE. like. god. We have it so good. invested creators AND invested admins AND sickass storylines AND fucking incredible storytellers everywhere we look??! we have it so good we have it so so good

#qsmp #neg #<- mentioned but idont care honestly every time theres a bad thing i dont like about the server i just go wait #why am i upset aboutt the fly in the creme brûlée IVE GOT CREME BRÛLÉE #i remember yesteryear when all there was to sustain us was three peas a slice of bread and an entire cake that rotted slow #theyre all so invested theyre all godtier actors and storytellers and are addicted to the same server i am like #hot diggity damn!!#i cannot wait to see where this event goes and how its gonna effect the characters #these motherfuckers are all so creative they are GONNA get silly with it

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castielspelvis · 30 days

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Watching the 4 part docuseries on Nickelodeon called Quiet on Set… and it’s upsetting being a kid who grew up on this shit.

#quiet on set #nickelodeon #Dan Schneider is a garbage human and it’s not said enough #why did this never get questioned more #and so much just grossness went over our heads #it makes me ill honestly #i am so upset for these people who were staff and children on these sets

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brothersonahotelbed · 4 months

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angel with beetle wings. nico ricciardi

#divina #guys i am so embarrassed by how blurry these screenshots are i don't know why tumblr hates me so bad but #it ruins the quality of the pic and it's so upsetting please forgive me #um. anyway! poetry be upon ye i guess

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sarah-cam · 9 days

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some of y'all are truly wild... this level of drama is so unnecessary. calling for the show to be canceled, somehow blaming the ACTORS, calling them "liars" and saying eric deserves to lose his job??

please get a FUCKING grip.

#chenford #the rookie #anti fandom #text #some of y'all need to go outside i am BEGGING #be sad be upset that's perfectly fine whatever but this is ridiculous #i'm so sick of this bullshit in fandoms #that's why i don't even get involved anymore because sooner or later they all turn into crazy weirdos #trust me i've been burned before but IT'S A TV SHOW #IT IS QUITE LITERALLY NOT REAL

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senselessalchemist · 2 months

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Bow problems (+ other nonsense)

#saroart #dead cells #the beheaded #the collector #they just wanted a nice bow #the collector can do a lot of stuff but i don't think he's good at bows #i was drawing a lot of antagonistic beheaded/collector content so i wanted to do some more cute junk #okay a lot is an exaggeration. still #need some guys being buds content sometimes #weird monster guys doing domestic shit is my favorite genre #i got a bonus at holiday time and im tempted to buy a tablet i can use portably #esp because holy fuck i don't know how to draw anymore #but also i just spent stupid money on tickets to live podcasts so i probably shouldn't #unrelated im very upset today because fucking UPS didn't ring my goddamn doorbell and so “”missed me“” and couldnt deliver my specialty meds #why must i get my meds through ups #because the us is a hellscape and i am beholden to my health insurance company #ups who has literally never managed to get a package to this apartment #tbh im stressed as fuck about having to go through this every goddamn month

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hawnks · 2 months

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Gojo lowkey seems like the type to return to the same shop time and again because one of the employees took a little extra time out of their day to make small talk with him, so much to the point that if he stops in on a day they aren’t working he gets visibly upset.

HE GETS SO ATTACHED SO QUICKLY!!! He goes out of his way to make sure he’s in that part of town a lot. He always tips 400% when he orders. He knows your hours (he’d never say that to you though at risk of being a creep). He sees a keychain on your bag and goes home and watches the entire series so he can mention it to you next time.

#HE GETS UPSET!!!#RUINS HIS DAY. he has to come back tomorrow just to make up for it #why am I getting so emotional over Gojo being excited about being friends with people 😭#gojo posting #mint talks #also I know tipping isn’t really a thing in Japan but he does it anyway becuase he loves attention

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slaygentford · 1 year

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Sorry but when Louis finally comes back to New Orleans after everything and Lestat is half insane and barely alive and wracked with grief and one of the vampires caring for him brings him a BABY TO EAT and the baby is CRYING and Louis PICKS IT UP AND ROCKS IT and for a moment it’s just the two of them, lestat watching Louis rock this stranger’s baby before the fire. in a horrible, horrible, horrible heartbreaking awful pastiche of the family they once WERE and will never BE AGAIN. DID YOU. EAT. THE BABY. LOUIS.

#BRO I AM STRAIGHT UP NOT HAVING A GOOD TIME RIGHT NOW #RNIS IS SO UPSETTING FOR REAL #me when known vibe killer ldpdl kills the vibe: wtf why did you kill the vibe

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reigningmax · 15 days

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Japanese Grand Prix 2024 | Media day | By Mark Thompson

#my post #max verstappen #japan24 #im.#what #WHY DID HE DO THISSSSSS #I AM SO UPSET #WHERE IS HIS BEAUTIFUL LUSCIOUS HAIR

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smhalltheurlsaretaken · 1 month

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to that anon I got about my last posts: if you're hurt that I'm talking about antisemitism on tumblr rather than the Israel/Palestine conflict itself then you're going to have to make your peace with a star wars blog not being an effective platform for activism.

This is the point I've been trying to hammer home perfectly illustrated. I deviated ever so slightly from what's allowed on the subject to say that I can't participate in this website's idea of 'raising awareness' (distributing real facts and misinfo alike without a care and being a bunch of fanatic Jew haters in the process) and that I don't think I'm able to critically and accurately examine every piece of news that gets passed around here, and you're taking this to assume I don't care. So no, I'm not going to spend my time trying to prove that I do care to that particular crowd.

You're upset with me for not treating this like I did fandom and assuming I value fictional characters more than real people because of it, but it's precisely because this is infinitely more important that I'm not going to be doing real people the disrespect of giving my two cents on their suffering and deaths on the same platform I did STAR WARS.

#You don't know how I feel about the conflict and you can't claim to know #Because I made a point of not getting into it #I have tons of things I'd say and that I'm not saying #precisely because a bunch of sheltered western young adults (which I am) thinking they HAVE to speak out #about things they're primarily exposed to on social media #is how we ended up where we're at on this website #and by the way 'antisemitism is wrong' stands on its own and i don't need to say more no matter the context #and I won't be lectured about how I need to care about innocent people suffering and dying by a website full of raging antisemites #you were never upset about me shutting up on the war for months until I mentioned antisemitism and suddenly my not speaking out is wrong #why do you only care about my silence now and not before?#and why do you take me so seriously that my stepping away is matter of great disappointment to you?

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feelingtheaster99 · 2 months

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Percy: “Hold fast, mom”

Me, who knew that call back was coming: 😭😭😭

#I AM UPSET #I mean he still needed to fail to save what matters most in the end #but why must it ouch me so #percy jackson spoilers #Percy Jackson #percy jackson episode 7 #sally jackson #pjo #pjo ep 7 #pjo tv show #pjo tv spoilers #percy jackon and the olympians #percy jackson and the olympians #we find out the truth sort of spoilers #we find out the truth sort of #live reaction

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kxowledge · 2 months

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