💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful 💌 Some aspects about people we can’t control: 1] While we can’t control people’s decisions and we can’t force everyone to agree with our beliefs, opinions and perceptions, we can control our reactions to their wrong choices, misinterpretation and mistakes by having patience. Someone’s incorrect way of seeing something shouldn’t influence us to be like them. 2] While we can’t control their behavior and enforce everybody to maintain good character, we have the ability to control how we react when they demonstrate bad manners. A person’s rudeness and disrespectful conduct towards us should train us to be more patient, not hatefully bitter. 3] While we can’t control how some people make us feel, whether they’ve triggered feelings of sadness, hurt, jealousy, anger or attraction, we have the freewill Alhamdulillah to control our actions, refusing to act wrongly on any intense emotion. We can’t control people, but we can control how we deal with them. Don’t let something that you can’t control stress you out or distract you from your life goals. When certain circumstances get out of hand or become unmanageable, always seek guidance and help from Allah Subhaanahu wa Ta'aala Who has full control over everyone and everything. ~*~ 📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu ‘alaihi wa sallam said, “The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: “Allah has decreed what He wills.” Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan.“ Source: Sahih Muslim 2664 Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

“In the past, nothing is irretrievably lost, but rather, on the contrary, everything is irrevocably stored and treasured.“ ~ V. Frankl

💐 In The Name Of Allah The Most Gracious The Most Merciful

💌 You can stay in bed throughout the morning feeling sad,

Recalling your past and recounting things you don’t have,

Or you can pray Salat Ad-Duha and say Du'as,

And do your best to serve Allah with the means you’ve got.

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You can browse the web and stalk users whom you envy,

Watching daily vlogs that cause self-doubt and jealousy,

Or listen to lectures that enhance your piety,

And read quotes or writings that breed positivity.

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You can disturb your heart by fighting with your haters,

Arguing offline and online with keyboard warriors,

Or you can improve yourself by practicing Sabr,

And forgive for Allah’s sake and leave troublemakers.

~•~

You can spend your free time listening to songs and beats,

Dancing with shaytan as your faith gradually gets weak,

Or you can recite from the Qur'an regularly,

And study Islam so your Imaan levels increase.

~•~

You can feel bad inside and keep comparing yourself

To others’ lives, wishing you had their homes, looks and wealth,

Or you can thank Allah, dispel bad feelings you’ve felt

By focusing on your gifts and blessings without guilt.

~•~

You can stress yourself out by desiring perfection,

Complaining whenever you confront disappointments,

Or you can take it easy, rest often, be patient,

As you strive for Allah and accept what He destines.

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Keep in mind that Allah gave you freewill to decide.

Your deliberate choices can impact your lifestyle.

So try your best to make decisions you think are right.

When you fall, rise. Get back up till you reach Paradise.

~•~

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu ‘anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “If one of you looks at those blessed over him in wealth and appearance, let him look at those below him.”

In another narration, the Prophet Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “Do not look to those above you, lest you view the favors of Allah as trivial.”

Source: Sahih Al-Bukhari 6125

Sahih Muslim 2963

Grade: Muttafaqun Alayhi (Authenticity agreed upon) according to Al-Bukhari and Muslim

📖 Abu Huraira RadhiAllahu 'anhu narrated: Allah’s noble Messenger Muhammad SallAllahu 'alaihi wa sallam said, “The strong believer is more beloved to Allah than the weak believer, but there is goodness in both of them. Be eager for what benefits you, seek help from Allah, and do not be frustrated. If something befalls you, then do not say: 'If only I had done something else.’ Rather say: 'Allah has decreed what He wills.’ Verily, the phrase ‘if only’ opens the way for the work of shaytan.”

Source: Sahih Muslim 2664

Grade: Sahih (Authentic) according to Muslim

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