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animatedamerican · 1 year
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dunno if you remember the post (idk how old it is) going like "your partner is allowed to have meaningful relationships with other people". it was about polyamory awareness. you added that it goes to monogamy as well and the last sentence was: if your partner what's to be just with you, something is terribly wrong
what is the something that may be terribly wrong? i let go of my friendships after i've got into a relationship (i've noticed my mistake and i restored them) and i just wanted to spend time with him alone, also he made me feel bad about wanting to make friends. at some point i felt like i need no body but him. i do have an abandonment trauma and it made me really clingy, but oh well
I'm so sorry for how long it took me to respond. I'm assuming this is about this post (to which, I should add, I posted this codicil a while ago, but it doesn't seem applicable to your situation).
The thing is, there are probably a lot of people better equipped than I am to talk about this, but ... yeah, it's really really not good if your relationship partner makes you feel bad about wanting to make friends.
Wanting to spend time alone with your relationship partner is fine! It's wonderful and good! But wanting to spend all your time alone with them isn't good for you, and it isn't good for them either.
At the very least, sometimes each of you is going to want to talk about the other one -- what makes you happy about them, or sad, or annoyed, or worried -- and you will need somebody with whom to have those conversations. Think especially about that last one: everybody, literally everybody in the world, will inevitably at some point (probably multiple points) get sick or injured or troubled, and if you are their closest person in the world then you are likely to be helping them through those times. That help is going to put stress on you, no matter how willingly you give it, and if you need to talk about that stress, you need someone other than your partner whose sickness/injury/trouble is the source of it.
There are a lot of other good reasons, but that's the most practical and undeniable one I've ever come across. If anyone's got some experience in explaining this one, I'd appreciate any succinct advice you can add.
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I wanna talk about the Good omens playlist !!
I havent seen many people talking about this so here's my hottake:
I think the songs that are on Crowley and Aziraphell’s playlists are so interesting, in case you’ve missed it they are listed below in Aziraphell is is orange
Crowley is in green
1. WHAT A WONDERFUL WORLD-LOUIS ARMSTRONG
1.I'M IN LOVE WITH MY CAR- QUEEN
2. NON, JE NE PEA REGRETTE RIEN- ÉDITH PIAF
2. EVERY BREATH YOU TAKE- THE POLICE
3. EARTH ANGEL(WILL YOU BE MINE)- THE PENGUINS
3. TAKE ME TO CHURCH- HOZIER
4. FLY ME TO THE MOON- FRANK SINATRA
4. PURPLE HAZE- JIMI HENDRIX
5. FEELINGS- MORRIS ALBERT
5. IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD AS WE KNOW IT (AND I FEEL FINE)-R.E.M.
6. ANGEL EYES- ABBA
6. MIRROR- THE VELVET UNDERGROUND
7. FEELING GOOD- NINA SIMONE
7. DREAMS (2004 REMASTER) - FLEETWOOD MAC
8. I WILL FOLLOW YOU INTO THE DARK - DEATH CAB FOR CUTIE
8. STARMAN- DAVID BOWIE
9. SPREAD A LITTLE HAPPINESS- STING
I know a bunch of people have been pointing out that if you take the first letter of the start of each song on Aziraphells playlist it spells ineffable and Crowleys spells out tempting! After listening to both sound tracks separately and then putting them together (like I did above) I was messing around with other contexts/meanings. If you take the first letter in each song you get something like this:
W I N E E T F P F I A M F D I S S
Then if you separate them by playlist and rearrange them to sorta spell words. You can sorta make out ineffable and tempting but when you go to rearrange the letters it looks something like this
W N E F A F I S I E T P I M D S
I N E F F A W S T E M P I I M D S
Ok cool so it doesn't exactly measure up to the full words thats ok bc what happens if you take the extra and try to make another word:
I N E F F A —--- T E M P WSIIMDS
I N E F F A —-- T E M P—— W I S D M S
So if we use process of elimination and fill in the black it looks something like this:
I N E F F A b l e-T E M P t i n g- W I S D o M S
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Ineffable <=> tempting <=> wisdom
The first two words are kinda ingrained into the season one story line and book. I think it’s interesting that there only needs to be one letter added to form wisdoms. I have two theories about this word:
the first is that This could be hinting at Gabe’s role in the season 2 plot line. Maybe something to do with his lack of ‘wisdoms’ with who he is.
The second is this could be hinting at the over all plot of Crowley and Aziraphell having gained ‘wisdoms’ from surviving the apocalypse and successfully stoping it
PSA:
I’m aware that I’m digging and this most likely means NOTHING lol
Two I’d love to hear what everyone else thinks about this !!
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quadracorn · 3 months
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Please remember that the bell is called Big Ben. The tower is Big Ben's monster.
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x-heesy · 1 year
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Knowledge is learning something new every day. Wisdom is letting go of something every day.
-Zen Proverb 🌀
𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗥𝗙𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝝠 𝗠𝗬𝗧𝗛 / 𝗜𝗧’𝗦 𝝠 𝗧𝗥𝝠𝗣 / 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝝠𝗞 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘 / 𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝝝𝗡 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚 / 𝗖𝗛𝝝𝝝𝗦𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗬 / 𝗪𝗘𝗜𝗥𝗗 𝗜𝗦 𝝠 𝗖𝝝𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 / 𝗡𝝝𝗧𝗘 𝗧𝝝 𝗠𝗬𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙 / 𝗬𝝝𝗨 𝝠𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝝝𝝠𝗗 /𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗧𝗟𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦𝝠𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗕𝗜𝗚𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦 / 𝗠𝗬 𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗗𝝝 / 𝗟𝝝𝗩𝗘 & 𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗟𝝝𝗩𝗘 / 𝗟𝗜𝗩𝗘 & 𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗟𝗜𝗩𝗘 / 𝗞𝗘𝗘𝗣 𝗜𝗧 𝗦𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗘 / 𝗞𝗘𝗘𝗣 𝗜𝗧 𝗥𝗘𝝠𝗟 / 𝗩𝗘𝗧𝝝 / 𝗥𝗜𝗦𝗘𝗥𝗘𝗕𝗘𝗟𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗜𝗦𝗧 / 𝗠𝝝𝝝𝗗 𝗕𝝝𝝠𝗥𝗗 /𝗣𝗨𝗡𝗞𝗦𝝠𝗥𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗗𝗘𝝠𝗗 ​/ 𝗡𝝝 𝗚𝝝𝗗𝗦 𝗡𝝝 𝗠𝝠𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗦 / 𝗣𝗥𝝝 𝗟𝗜𝗙𝗘 𝗠𝗙𝗭 / 𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗥𝗚𝗬𝗦𝗨𝗖𝗞𝗘𝗥𝗭 𝗡𝝝𝗧 𝗪𝗘𝗟(𝗟) 𝗖𝗨𝗠 / 𝗧𝝝 𝝠𝗟𝗟 𝗧𝗛𝝠 𝗟𝗨𝗩𝝠𝗭
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Soundtrack: Kisses For Roses by Art Department, Aquarius Heaven 💋 4 🌹 🎭
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gaysexunfortunately · 1 month
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rottweilers are like. the cockroaches of dogs. not in a bad way. i think the average rottweiler could withstand a nuclear blast
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h0ney-bee · 11 months
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mizminx-musings · 1 year
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We never know what others are carrying, even if at times you can't be kind, just don't be cruel.
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Spiral Notebook https://www.zazzle.com/z/xedot7aa?rf=238525149739361531 #ZazzleMade
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mishalogic · 9 months
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"Cuteness overload"
Nature's desire,
a bunch of "Wisdoms"
fro us Humans to admire ... Misha
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Before practicing patience, first practice generosity Why is the perfection of generosity important? Because you are always too worried about gains and losses, thus it’s difficult to overcome hatred. Your attachment is too strong, and you are unable to let go of what you are attached to. When someone hurts what you consider as yours, you will have strong hatred. We get angry, because what we like are damaged, and worldly things such as benefit and fame are hurt.
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jaggedjawjosh · 1 month
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wizrdfckr · 3 months
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me and u both ouppy
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casartsy · 3 months
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It's almost 10 am I haven't gotten a lick of sleep and I'm absolutely destroying a huge box of oat biscuits. I am the waking universe looking back at itself in awe and wonder
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x-heesy · 1 year
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Punks aren’t dead #wisdoom ☠️
I don't like the way you move
I don't like the way you smell
I don't like the way you look
I don't like the way you fuck
𝗣𝗨𝗥𝗥𝗙𝗘𝗖𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝝠 𝗠𝗬𝗧𝗛 / 𝗜𝗧’𝗦 𝝠 𝗧𝗥𝝠𝗣 / 𝗕𝗥𝗘𝝠𝗞 𝗙𝗥𝗘𝗘 / 𝗤𝗨𝗘𝗦𝗧𝗜𝝝𝗡 𝗘𝗩𝗘𝗥𝗬𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚 / 𝗖𝗛𝝝𝝝𝗦𝗘 𝗪𝗜𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗬 / 𝗪𝗘𝗜𝗥𝗗 𝗜𝗦 𝝠 𝗖𝝝𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗜𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧 / 𝗡𝝝𝗧𝗘 𝗧𝝝 𝗠𝗬𝗦𝗘𝗟𝗙 / 𝗬𝝝𝗨 𝝠𝗥𝗘 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗥𝝝𝝠𝗗 /𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗧𝗟𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦𝝠𝗥𝗘𝗧𝗛𝗘𝗕𝗜𝗚𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦 / 𝗠𝗬 𝗖𝗥𝗘𝗗𝝝 / 𝗟𝝝𝗩𝗘 & 𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗟𝝝𝗩𝗘 / 𝗟𝗜𝗩𝗘 & 𝗟𝗘𝗧 𝗟𝗜𝗩𝗘 / 𝗞𝗘𝗘𝗣 𝗜𝗧 𝗦𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗟𝗘 / 𝗞𝗘𝗘𝗣 𝗜𝗧 𝗥𝗘𝝠𝗟 / 𝗩𝗘𝗧𝝝 / 𝗥𝗜𝗦𝗘𝗥𝗘𝗕𝗘𝗟𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗜𝗦𝗧 / 𝗠𝝝𝝝𝗗 𝗕𝝝𝝠𝗥𝗗 /𝗣𝗨𝗡𝗞𝗦𝝠𝗥𝗘𝗡𝗧𝗗𝗘𝝠𝗗 ​/ 𝗡𝝝 𝗚𝝝𝗗𝗦 𝗡𝝝 𝗠𝝠𝗦𝗧𝗘𝗥𝗦 / 𝗣𝗥𝝝 𝗟𝗜𝗙𝗘 𝗠𝗙𝗭 / 𝗘𝗡𝗘𝗥𝗚𝗬𝗦𝗨𝗖𝗞𝗘𝗥𝗭 𝗡𝝝𝗧 𝗪𝗘𝗟(𝗟) 𝗖𝗨𝗠 / 𝗧𝝝 𝝠𝗟𝗟 𝗧𝗛𝝠 𝗟𝗨𝗩𝝠𝗭
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#thelittlethingsarethebigthings ❤️‍🔥
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quadracorn · 4 months
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Don't get drunk and be rude to the moon. She has a long memory. Probably from the ghosts of all those elephants standing on top of each other to reach her that time...
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