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munegirl · 4 months
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I hope in 2024 lots of women leave their shitty husbands
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civanticism · 8 months
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Converting Your Suffering into Strength: Exiting Survival Mode and Entering into The Soft Life .
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Remember, transitioning from survival mode to your strong nurturing feminine energy is a process that takes time and patience. Each step you take towards healing and self-empowerment is a step towards living a more fulfilling and balanced life. It's important to note that healing trauma and embracing your feminine, nurturing energy is a deeply personal and diverse process. Each individual's journey may look different, and it's important to honor and respect their unique experiences and perspectives.
Let’s start with the HOW:
1. Acknowledge and Validate Your Experiences: Recognize the impact of generational trauma, personal trauma and fears on your life. Find safe ways to validate your experiences and emotions without judgement.
2. Seek Support and Healing: Engage in therapy or counseling, to address and heal past traumas. Find support groups or communities where you can connect with other women who have experienced similar challenges. Surrounding yourself with supportive and uplifting individuals is crucial for your growth and healing journey. Seek out mentors or even community leaders who embody the strong nurturing feminine energy you want to cultivate. 3. Embrace Self-Expression: It’s time to cut out the toxic patterns ladies! Find creative ways outlets to express your emotions. Create new hobbies to get your feelings out (journaling, painting, exercising, dancing etc.) This will help you connect with your inner voice and nurture your feminine energy.
4. Practice Self-Compassion: Accountability is a part of this process but please give yourself grace. Be gentle and kind with yourself. If mistakes were made handle yourself the way you would handle a loved one. Practice self-care activities that nourish your mind, body and spirit. Create a self-care routine that can help you feel strong, safe and soft.
5. Cultivate A Positive Aura: (The LUXURY Mindset/Becoming HER) Develop a list of positive affirmations that counter the negative beliefs and fear that are keeping you bounded. Write your affirmations, favorite bible verses and loved ones on sticky notes and put them on your mirror. Remind yourself everyday. Download an affirmation / Bible verses app on your phone and turn on the notifications for daily motivation. Visualize yourself at your highest, honorable, healthiest and successful level. Surround yourself with HER support system, ideas, body and etiquette. Make a vision board both physical and virtual (we recommend using pinterest!) and post it everywhere you can see it (bedroom, locker, screensaver etc)
We have a free EGuide that explains our concept on how to adopt “The Luxury Mindset” HERE … Ladies it only takes 66 days to form a habit! Meditating on this concept and follow us on our socials for guidance, support and community 🫶🏽
6. Practice Balancing Self-Empowerment & Purpose: It's time for you to only engage in activities that will EMPOWER you, not just in education and achieving goals but all aspects of life, Balance is key and you will develop a yearning for resting in your feminine energy. What impressions do you want to leave on your loved ones hearts? What path do you want to carve out for your future bloodline? What’s the standard? What is your purpose? (God. Family. Love) Pour into those areas and let them give you purpose outside of all the accolades of being independent. Tap Into what you wanted/needed from your environment as a young girl.. what healthy things can you give / show to her now?
Now Let’s Address Why ?
The importance of black women healing their trauma and finding empowerment in their feminine energy :
Breaking The Cycle: Healing trauma, both personal and generational, is a key part of your journey to becoming the best versions of yourself you can be. (friend, love, mother, grandmother etc.) It's essential for breaking the cycle of pain and creating a healthier future for yourself and those around you.
Reclaiming Femininity: For many black women, societal pressures, lack of representation, and stereotypes can contribute to why we do not fully embrace our femininity. By healing trauma we can explore and reclaim our unique expression of femininity such as compassion, nurturing, healthy communication, and strength.
Empowerment and Resilience: Healing trauma is empowering as it allows black women to regain control over their lives and emotions. By acknowledging and processing their experiences, individuals can develop resilience that enables them to navigate challenges more effectively and with a greater sense of self-assurance.
Building Healthy Relationships, Families & Communities: Healing trauma can positively impact interpersonal relationships. By understanding and healing past wounds, black women can develop healthier patterns of communication, establish boundaries, and foster deeper connections. Nurturing energy can contribute to creating a safe and supportive environment for both self and others in our homes and our communities.
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malkahpariyz · 2 months
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A word for all sisters in faith (if you follow Abrahamic religions we are sisters) 💕 One Love.
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ohnoitsjetster · 2 months
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A lot of people talk about women’s empowerment who clearly don’t know what it means, and it’s getting really annoying tbh, so i came on here to explain a little. “Women’s empowerment” as the name suggests, is about giving women powers. It’s about striking them with lightning, dunking them in the green goo. Women’s empowerment is about getting them bitten. By the creature. And infected. Studies show fewer than 1 in 5 women have dark black ichor flowing through their veins and leaking out their eyes, EVEN FEWER have other fun colors of ichor, like blue and orange. Not enough is being said about this, and we, as men, and other non-women, are simply not building enough contraptions and inators to facilitate change. By “change” of course I mean The Change where her claws grow long and sharp and she howls a deep, haunting sound that brings the forest to a dead silence. I don’t know how to spell this out for you guys ANY more clearly but please just try and do your part, which for many of you, is pulling that big ominous lever.
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edianilki · 2 months
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laddess-865 · 21 days
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It's always gotta be the men in the comments section of a women's empowerment tiktok
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laimabynight · 2 months
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I wish everyone a great International Women's Day, where the roses must be red and the claws need to be sharp.
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teenage-stress-100 · 6 months
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(Small reference to The Last Unicorn.)
The last Unicorn reminds me of how it feels to mature into womanhood when you lose your purity, youth, and self love. Everything becomes hard. Everything pressures you. You can be betrayed by those you thought you could trust. I have always related to the movie because of this. I have felt scared of myself lately and of the world. Why does the world have so much hate? Why must I grow so fast? Can't I go back to when I was pure and innocent. When I didn't have to worry about my makeup, or if boys cared for me. I don't even really like boys, why do I care what they think? I want to go back to when I could just read and play with my toys... I can genuinely feel my body dying around me everyday.
The hand prints in the image represent everywhere a man has touched/tried to touch me (without permission) because they feel entitled to my body. Why do they feel entitled to something they don't own?
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brokenglasscastles · 1 year
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Black Widow
She knew how to spin a good web. Biding her time until she had him dead to rights. She couldn’t afford to be wrong when it came to putting down a violent dog. Her hunting ground was made up of the very same privileges that had only moments before made him certain he could face anything life threw at him. She existed to exploit the social safety net he thought he was owed. she stalked the unspoken social systems that had allowed him to exist as a predator in the first place
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malkahpariyz · 5 months
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I don’t know how else to say this:
the characteristic of leadership is not attached to one single gender and it is not meant to be exercised by one single gender
“This is for my girls with their backs against the walls. Claw your way out of there sis.” - Paris Dior
My ladies, please don’t be fooled into accepting the toxic masculinity, misogyny, and sexism. Being a leader and being a man are two different things. They are not mutually exclusive.
Being a leader is not attached to one gender…
Trying to be a leader is not you trying to be a man & your femininity is not attached to your leadership skills. You being a leader does not mean you are not feminine and you being a leader does not attack or diminish your modesty or femininity.
It is just you trying to be a leader or being a leader
and never a follower…
I will use relationships as the subject of observation here:
You can’t say “I try not to be the man (leader) in my relationship” as if a man is the only person on earth that can be a leader. Just say that you try not to be the man in a relationship, as you shouldn’t. You’re a woman. Not a man. A man has his duties, and a woman has hers, in a relationship but being a leader is not attached to a man or a woman. All people can be leaders and should be leaders. That is what a modeled citizen is! An outstanding leadership award is not reserved for men only, there is a reason for that.
We are meant to pour into each other equally, give a mutual attribute to our marriage and help lead each other, in a marriage or relationship. It is meant to be where we can lead each other together both giving equal input into the leadership of the direction of our marriage. We are to be a team. There’s no “I” in team. And there ain’t no “L” either. That is why you would be called a “couple” and not a “slave and it’s master” or a “subordinate and their commander”. Even the captain (leader) of the basketball team, PASSES THE BALL. There is no “I” in the team that marriage is supposed to be.
Man and leader is not the same word, the same thing, or do not hold the same definition. Being a leader is not a quality only suitable for a man. Every single person, man or woman, should learn to be a leader and never a follower. A man is meant to be a leader, but that does not mean a woman is meant to blindly follow that man, and it doesn’t mean a woman cannot be a leader as well.
You are meant to be a follower of God, not a follower mankind. So be careful with the idea of man being the leader. Man and woman alike. Must be careful with that idea….
I digress to address the women once more.
Ladies… You can preserve, exude, and envelope your femininity while still remaining a leader.
A woman is required to be a leader as well. If you do not realize this:
you will fail at raising your children; because you will not know how to lead them… if a woman (who is the main person raising the children in early age) was raised to be nothing but a follower herself, she will end up raising her kids to be followers, the boys included.. early childhood is the most influential part of life, you’re habits truly form right then, and the mother is who raises the boys until it’s time for them to learn man things… if that mother was nothing but a follower and never raised to be a leader, she will raise followers and the man’s job will be made much harder when it comes time to teach the son how to be a man… so you see a woman is ALSO meant to LEAD and be a LEADER herself as well or the family will ultimately fail.
you will fail at counseling your husband; because you won’t know how to lead when he actually cannot lead properly in a given moment (no man is perfect and these moments will come) and you will need to be able to take over and lead if need be or lead him in the right direction of continuing his leadership…. It takes two to make a thing go right. A woman’s input IS ALWAYS NEEDED.
you will fail at being single (of which God wants you to be until courtship and marriage); because you won’t know how to lead your own self properly and will always needs someone else to direct you and you will continue to seek that direction and leadership of someone else, especially if you don’t know how to follow God or lead yourself (which following God is apart of leading yourself, because you had to make that decision BY YOURSELF, God may have helped, but NO HUMAN but YOU was involved in that) and if you cannot lead yourself you fail at being single (and many other things) and you will fail at utilizing that moment in time exactly how God wants you to.
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you will fail at being a truly Godly woman; as you should know, long before we follow a man, we follow God, we let God lead us first and foremost, & long before we strive to preserve femininity, we strive to preserve our dignity and Godliness.. so you must know who it is you are TRULY meant to follow. The leader that goes beyond this life is God and He is who you truly must follow. Not a human.
When you seek a man, remember that a REAL leader, knows when it’s time for others to lead as well. A dictatorship, IS NOT leadership.
Strong women, asserting yourself is not inducting a challenge, you’re input or participation is not an overstep, being independent is not an insult to the male gender, exuding your intelligence and capabilities is not a threat to a man, and no, your femininity is NOT in jeopardy or compromised by you being a leader.
Don’t glorify being a woman who has no say in her marriage.
Don’t glorify being a man who is a dictator in his marriage.
Don’t shame a woman for being strong and an outstanding leader. (And don’t make her out to be someone she is not, just because she is a leader, either)
Don’t shame a man for being a humble, inclusive, kind, and lenient leader.
GOD DID NOT INTEND IT TO BE THE WAY THAT MANY HAVE MADE IT.
NOT AT ALL.
YAH (GOD) BLESSES THE WOMEN THAT KEEPS THIS WORLD TURNING FOR THE GOOD, EVEN WHEN ITS TRYING TO TURN ON US.
My ladies, keep leading & make sure you lead others to the light 🩷
- The Modest Blog
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beardedmrbean · 2 years
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dee-slay · 1 year
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I'm so damned proud of my beloved @sockmonkeys-babygirl for staying strapped with the help of her Flashbang titty holster! Wish I could trade places with that Ruger LCR, Babygirl...😏🖤🥰😍🔫
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