When things don’t go as planned, do you laugh or do you feel sad, angry or worried?
While there are no magical solutions to the problems we face in our daily life, having the right mindset can make it all much more bearable. When you understand that no state is permanent, life stops being so serious and you get to enjoy it more.
Every day I try to think in this way, and it’s surprisingly easy once it becomes a habit. You stop clinging to your ideas of perfection and you can finally have some peace. Try it!
i worry much less now that i know all the answers are already here.
now that the river’s told me, “Spring is coming and it will be good, dear.”
i worry much less now. i spend my time living now as much as i can.
i still slip and fall and need to pick myself up again,
but i worry much less now. you’d barely recognise me, my man.
So re the blood test, it’s going ahead. I waited for about 2 hours on the phone but eventually I got them to put it on my file. I just have to book it and then it’s going to happen. Then it’ll be fine when the gic contacts me. I just don’t want to give them any reason to discharge me.
People have been coming to the wise man, complaining about the same problems every time. One day he told them a joke, and everyone roared in laughter.
After a couple of minutes, he told them the same joke and only a few of them smiled. When he told the same joke for a third time no one laughed anymore.
The wise man smiled and said:“You can’t laugh at the same joke over and over. So why are…
How do you get those constant same thoughts out of your mind, when the same thought goes around and around and it doesn’t get any better, any easier, it just sticks and ruins your day.
Fun thing about interior design masters is that it’s a terrible advertisement if the contestants actually want to break into the industry
a small amount of worry is good&healthy. a small amount of worry keeps us alive &away from danger. a small amount reminds us certain things in life are important &worth putting effort into. no one has zero worry. but that small amount of worry can grow, like an un-pulled weed in the garden, eventually taking over all the beautiful flowers &yummy veggies. now healthy worry prevents us from living. too much worry stops us from experiencing those important things in our life.
check in with yourself. check in on your worry today&often.
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Another new coronavirus variant seen in the UK
me: sends a meme line starter into someones askbox
also me: Did I send it from the right ACC?
Okay, so a little while ago i decided to draw something around the situation where Rem finds out that Agave is actually killing people and, well, it doesn’t go well. I wanted to try and do a piece a bit like a comic page, so i drew this.
I don’t partically like this piece. I don’t hate it, in fact i’m very proud of some parts, for example the left corner, or the general background. But, there are also parts i don’t like, i think it’s to dark, or to blue, however, if i continue to work on this, i will never finish it. I’m proud of it, but i don’t like it.
Agave belongs to @help-im-a-gay-fish Rem belongs to me
Some zoom in cuts and version without the people are below the cut.
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for someone who spends every waking second of their life worrying i sure do say ‘don’t worry’ a lot
Honestly, at this rate my intestines could rupture and I’d just let it happen. The extent of abdominal pain my body has deeming okay is quite worrying.
We talk about a past company trip. I’m new and sitting in the middle of everyone. The guys start talking about women. I get uncomfortable and leave.
Walking in bad shoes.
Photo of shoes from series of photographing personal items in college dorm (2004/5)
I stop by two women at a bench. I’m next to a huge tv in a retail window display. They agree I should walk barefooted. It feel better and…
What id also like to say is…(I apologize for any grammatical errors, I’ll fix any errors later)
What I absolutely HATE, with a BURNING PASSION is when someone tells me to “sToP wORrYiNg”, “sTop bEInG sO paRANOID” about certain things.
I get they might not know what else to say but BUT BRO TELLING ME TO STOP BEING PARANOID IS NOT GONNA HELP. How can I stop being paranoid or worry about how I may die one day and no one will care-life will go on? (If I’m being watched 24/7 and I don’t know WHO IS WATCHING? If something bad may happen to me or my public image by someone who spreads false info or rumours? My health??? If ppl are constantly judging me or maybe someone secretly hates me???)
If you want to at least say something but you don’t know anything appropriate to say, you can at least say “I don’t exactly know how to respond to this, but just know that everything will be okay, I might not understand how you feel but I’ll be here for you…” yk, say reassuring words. Dont tell me to stop worrying or stop being paranoid or DISMISSING MY FEELINGS like I’m acting crazy or being delusional (or maybe i am delusional?????idek)
Especially when I’m sometimes emotional support for someone and I try to at least reassure them and listen to them (yk you gotta be there for them because we gotta support each other in each other’s time of need) and definitely NOT tell them to “Stop BeInG dEpResSed”, because I know the wouldnt want to hear that, and I KNOW, they can’t just “stop being depressed”. But I hate that when it’s my time to disclose certain feelings I have inside to someone when they ask about me-or it’s because of a certain topic and I just so happen to say how much a worry over this one thing-they say “stOP WorRYING” when I know for a fact that if I were the one telling them the same thing, THEY would have a problem.
I get that everyone struggles with certain mental issues, and the person who I talk to (I’m pretty sure they’re depressed? They at least say that and They go to a councilor for sessions, that’s all I know) struggles with their issues, but all I want is that….even if you don’t mean it, even if you DONT CARE….just reassure or at least say something that isn’t as dismissive as “STOP BEING THIS” STOP BEING THAT”, “STOP WORRYING OVER THIS”, “YOURE BEING DRAMATIC”. Anxiety (or just worrying overall) isn’t something that can be turned off with the flip of a switch. Just like how depression can’t be turned off with a flip of the switch either…or ANY mental illness at all
(Idk if I phrased this all well because im just going off on how I feel atm, but hopefully you can at least get the gist. I don’t mean to sound selfish, but I just hate when ppl say these certain things.)