i need to talk this out okay i need your thoughts.
oliver not killing farleigh. respect because of recognition of their similarities, farleigh's hustle, and potential to get farleigh back for more catton-adjacent fun (whatever it is we don't judge) OR complete disregard because farleigh can't actually harm oliver in any way hence he's not a real threat and not even worthy of as high consideration as to kill him.
my two cents: i think the interpretation of this depends on how you see oliver. i think it boils down to oliver's core traits. if he has some semblance of empathy (which i think he does) it's the former. because he did try to get at farleigh but farleigh is the only one he ever misjudged to the point of offering him sex/power/sympathy by mistake, when farleigh actually didn't need any of that from oliver. but i mean, if oliver lacks empathy on a fundamental level and really only thinks in logical categories its the latter. he just got pissed, i guess, and kicked him out.
edit: to me also the big thing is like, pettiness. i think oliver kept him alive BECAUSE of respect, like, i see what you're doing with the cattons living on their money and i see that you see me, AND because of the petty desire to see farleigh witness oliver's victory, like, now look at me succeeding in what you could never achieve. so it's like, both. but.
thoughts. (and prayers)
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Jam, have you read the new Time article about Ze and the war?! I'm so fucking angry about it!!!!!!!!!!! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬 Never thought Simon Shuster, of all people, would become a traitor! 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
I have and it is, indeed, a bullshit article.
If anyone had planned to read the new TIME article - don't. Use your time for something more useful (it has one, maybe two good parts but not really anything new or what I would say is worth a read). The article is full of bullshit, pro-Russian propaganda (to a point were you could play bingo and actually get one - think of any Russian Propaganda point and you'll most likely find it in the article) and basically a backstab from Simon Shuster.
Very sad to see that Shuster is now a pro-Russian Propaganda mouthpiece (again).
The article is awful in so many ways and he throws Ze under the bus, portraying him in an unfair, unjustified and very wrong light. Truly despictable article, not worth anyone's time.
The article is actually in fact so awful, I'm going to cancel my pre-order of Shuster's book about Ze. Because now I assume the book (who's title and summary changed in the past, btw) will now be written in the same style and I'm certainly not going to throw money into an awful Russian Propaganda mouth. I'll wait for reviews, maybe I'll get my hands on a copy in book store and I can glimpse into it.
Very sad to see that Shuster had this change in attitude and support regarding Ukraine (especially after his pro-Ukraine stance last year and his insightful and good reports about Ze), but given his history maybe it shouldn't be such a surprise (he wrote several pro-Russian and Propaganda articles in the past, mainly 2014 - I always assumed last year his case is one of the typical "didn't know it better, fell for Propaganda, learnt my lesson, now I support" ... well, looks like a "no").
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So what do you think Sasha and Marcy’s parents are like?
the thing is, despite the fact that we never actually see either sets of parents in the show (and only ever hear mr. wu's voice – although his american accent is telling...) there's a lot we can extrapolate from sasha and marcy's behaviors as well as the tidbits we do get in the journal. i've given this matter way too much thought, so here goes:
we know from marcy’s journal that sasha’s parents divorced when she was 4 and that her father remarried and her mother is dating a guy who has kids. it’s pretty clear that this divorce wasn’t “clean” (for divorce standards) either, and that going through that at such a young age scarred sasha. based on her feeling the need to prove herself worthy of love and/or attention, I think it’s clear that sasha’s parents are neglectful, too busy with their own respective families to give her the attention she deserves. this neglect also explains why she has much better survival skills than anne or marcy, who grew up in far more comfortable, loving homes.
based on her control issues due to feelings of abject powerlessness and the way she seems to assume that any family unit or authority figure in general is inherently untrustworthy and even villanous (which is not only how she justifies her hatred of hop pop and dismissal of the boonchuy parents, but also why she acts out and sees no problems with being a delinquent despite wanting to be a hero), I definitely do think that sasha is abused by her family members to an extent. the “end of discussion” line is most certainly learned from (at least) one of her parental figures. the fact that grime is also clearly the healthiest father figure sasha has ever had does not bode well either, considering that he’s horribly exploiting her for the first two seasons and yet she still genuinely values him as a friend.
I honestly don’t think it’s out of the realm of possibility that she was sexually abused either, (possibly by her mother’s boyfriend?), since her deep-seated self-loathing that manifests in the way she seems to embrace being “evil” as if it’s always been a secret fantasy of hers, the way she feels fundamentally unworthy of unconditional love and fears being “discovered,” that her only role is to protect others but does not deserve protection herself (to the point where she is actively suicidal), and the way she so quickly oscillates between entertaining delusions of grandeur and believing that she’s disgusting “trash” do strongly suggest this possibility to me.
at her core, sasha wants to protect the vulnerable, but considers herself unworthy of saving. based on the little we know about her home life, this is what i can extrapolate from that.
as for marcy, I do actually think her parents mean well. her journal adds a fuller picture, and the fact that they didn’t move away when she disappeared, coupled with the fact that she immediately went to therapy after the events of amphibia make me think that they want to connect with their daughter, but like most parents of teenagers, simply don’t know how. (parenting teenagers is basically impossible, frankly, and we should definitely be cutting well-meaning parents more slack on that front. I say this from experience.)
I do think they’re somewhat strict with her, because she’s always been a prodigy so they expect a level of maintained excellence (a standard to which she also naturally holds herself), but not the extent that it appears in “true colors” from marcy’s perspective. I think when her father texts her saying “we need to talk,” she gasps because already knows what’s coming, and she’s been trying to sabotage their plans to move across the country to no avail.
when her father tells her that he’s taking the job, she clearly flies off the handle, which is why I think that by the time she runs out the door in tears, he sounds stern with her, because parents do often make decisions that upset their children, and get frustrated when said children act as if they could possibly overrule their parents’ decision. you can’t always make your kids happy, no matter how much you try to. two of my best friends moved to other countries when we were in middle school because their fathers got job offers elsewhere, and even though we were heartbroken, this wasn’t a malicious act on the part of their parents, it’s just how life works sometimes. we find ways to adapt.
marcy’s fundamental fear is that she won’t be able to adapt, and her loneliness causes her to lash out. I don’t think her parents are aware of her internal pain and fear, because she keeps it bottled up, but that if she had been more communicative of her anxieties they might have considered therapy before her return from amphibia.
on the outside, marcy seems like the perfect child any parent would want, and I think she’s more afraid of what the consequences of not maintaining perfection would look like than how severe said consequences actually are in reality, only because she’s never actually failed, so she simply doesn’t know. when she does fail, for the first time in her life, the results are, of course, catastrophic, but based on the fact that she clearly received a lot of therapy and grew up to pursue her passion for art and writing, I think that learning that lesson (that even the most catastrophic failure is survivable) sooner rather than later was probably for the best, and she turned out all right in the end.
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