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kmjxngins · 6 years

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dating | jongdae

dating series minseok | jongdae | chanyeol | kyungsoo | jongin

q: hi! could you do a dating jongdae headcanon like your one for kyungsoo? i really loved it!

a: hello! thank you for liking the kyungsoo headcanon ;; tbh i hadn’t expected this headcanon for jongdae to be that long but i guess bcs bias!! it got longer and longer and i kept adding things to it HAHA anyway! i hope you like it and tysm for requesting c: honestly i might have more why i have no chill when it comes to jongdae, i have no idea

♡ jongdae’s a really chill and easygoing guy ♡ so when he meets you at the company ♡ as his vocal trainer ♡ you both click immediately ♡ he makes your job easy ♡ because even though he’s just entered the company ♡ his voice is just to die for ♡ his vocal range is wide ♡ he doesn’t sing with a strained voice ♡ his voice is always supported and he’s using his head voice ♡ something not everyone can do consistently ♡ but he can and you’re like wow ♡ you don’t really have anything to fix ♡ so you just do the basics and help him improve on his adlibs ♡ which also don’t really need changing

♡ you like that even though he’s good, he also wants to improve ♡ which is a really admirable trait ♡ he constantly sends you voice memos of him singing for your feedback ♡ and when you reply to him with tips ♡ on hindsight, maybe he was just trying to flirt ♡ he always gets it right away and he improves more ♡ even though you thought it was impossible

♡ other than sending you audios tho ♡ he also converses with you on a regular basis ♡ although he’s busy with practice ♡ especially when he’s about to debut ♡ he somehow always finds time ♡ and even though your current r/s with him is purely trainer-trainee ♡ you’re touched that he’s treating you as a close friend ♡ so easily ♡ it hasn’t even been a month ever since his entry into the company ♡ but he does anyway ♡ and while it usually takes you a while to warm up to the people you train ♡ you fall into conversation with him easily ♡ he’s so comfortable to be around ♡ you laugh a lot during practice ♡ when you play the piano, he suddenly cracks a joke ♡ it’s not the kind junmyeon and minseok tell you ♡ not the lame kind ♡ but the witty kind ♡ y/n ♡ mhm? ♡ doesn’t expecting the unexpected make the unexpected expected? ♡ jongdae... ♡ don’t deny that you like it y/n, i see you smiling ♡ i smile in embarrassment ♡ sure sure keep telling yourself that

♡ when he does debut with the other exo members ♡ you’re so proud ♡ of the whole team but mainly jongdae ♡ don’t tell junmyeon, minseok, jongin and baekhyun ♡ especially baek because he’d whine at you ♡ you can take jongdae’s whining ♡ ah wae !! ♡ bcs it’s lowkey cute ♡ but you can’t take baek’s, you don’t know why ♡ maybe it’s a jongdae effect

♡ or maybe you’re starting to like jongdae more than a friend ♡ you’re not sure ♡ because you’re technically not supposed to fall in love with jongdae ♡ not when he’s part of an internationally known boy band ♡ not when he’s famous ♡ not when you’re supposed to only be his vocal trainer ♡ you’re kind of conflicted when you think about jongdae now ♡ you don’t know whether or not to say something ♡ because you want to share your feelings with him ♡ but at the same time ♡ you don’t want to burden him ♡ nor make things awkward between the two of you ♡ especially since you’re still the vocal trainer of almost half of exo

♡ you trust minseok ♡ so the next time you’re teaching him how to keep those high notes ♡ he sees your troubled face and asks why ♡ which gets you talking ♡ you guess that you’ve been keeping it in for a long while ♡ or at least, more than you can handle ♡ you’re kind of pouring your heart out to minseok ♡ which is slightly awkward ♡ even though you both are friends ♡ you’re technically not supposed to mix personal and work together ♡ but minseok gives you sound advice ♡ perhaps because he’s older ♡ and the mature one in the group ♡ he tells you that it’s okay to have those feelings ♡ especially since jongdae had started all of this ♡ and that you should wait for the time to be right ♡ you heed his advice ♡ and are very very grateful for having a confidant in minseok ♡ a new one

♡ tbh tho minseok must’ve done something after you told him that day ♡ he would’ve ♡ because he also knew jongdae inside, out ♡ and pieced together that it was a mutual feeling

♡ when jongdae comes into the practice room the next practice you have ♡ he’s holding a small bouquet of flowers ♡ you don’t realise until he’s placed it on the keyboard beside you ♡ you’re really surprised ♡ in a good way but you’re also kind of confused ♡ jongdae looks so so confident in front of you, smile wide ♡ eyes also crinkled up into the small crescents that you love ♡ there isn’t an ounce of nervous energy radiating from him ♡ you’re getting confidence confidence confidence ♡ and your heart is racing ♡ what’s going on ?? ♡ you lowkey are aware of what’s about to happen but you can’t really believe it ♡ y/n!! ♡ he says it in his usual playful tone which makes you smile automatically ♡ when you smile, the sun shines he sings ♡ and you smile impossibly wider ♡ and when you’re around, my world lights up he continues ♡ it’s his own rendition of baby, don’t cry ♡ you feel like crying ♡ not really, but you’re touched, to say the least ♡ do you wanna go out with me?? ♡ and you’re just like !!!! yes !! ofc i will ♡ he laughs at your excitement ♡ which makes you really embarrassed but he reaches over ♡ and messes up your hair ♡ it’s the usual thing he does ♡ and you’re glad that the atmosphere hasn’t changed

♡ jongdae’s a really sweet boyfriend ♡ he’s always looking out for you ♡ whenever he comes for practice, he gets you a drink ♡ and somehow he always knows the right drink to pick ?? ♡ he picks up your feelings from your texts ♡ and always comes at the right moments ♡ y/n you have to take care of your throat ♡ because you’re coughing incessantly ♡ role reversal !! ♡ bcs you’re always the one telling him not to strain himself too much

♡ he also walks you home ♡ or at least, to the door of sm ent bcs he can’t be caught in a scandal ♡ and he’s respecting your want to keep the r/s under wraps ♡ even tho he doesn’t mind announcing it

♡ you sometimes stay over at the dorm ♡ baek complains playfully but oh well minseok shuts him up ♡ you really like laying in jongdae’s arms ♡ while he might be smaller than the others ♡ he somehow fits your frame perfectly ♡ pillow talk !! ♡ and he’s just so, so warm ♡ you love it when he dresses comfortably ♡ sweatpants and his pair of glasses ♡ it makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside ♡ and you always snuggle into him during the night

♡ but still, you both do get your fair share of fights ♡ because you’re both headstrong and like to push through tough times ♡ your motto is ♡ tough times don’t last but tough people do ♡ which, coincidentally, is his too ♡ and two headstrong people with differing opinions don’t really go well tgt ♡ but you resolve your differences amiably ♡ or when you do get into a fight ♡ you always end up going back bcs ♡ you understand each other the most

♡ all in all tho ♡ jongdae’s really fun to be around ♡ because he’s outgoing and carefree ♡ but at the same time, he knows what he’s passionate about ♡ which inspires you a lot ♡ and keeps you on your toes ♡ he’s a keeper ♡ and you know you won’t be letting him go so easily

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ristivicena-blog · 7 years

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Enjoy While it Lasts

People might think we’ve been knowing each other for years. But then, we all know that they thought wrong. We didn’t come from the same backgrounds, or even relatives. At the first I never thought that we’ll be this close. Or, it is just me who hope so?.

Our first meeting was started after the meet up of Polyglot Indonesia (we should have said thanks, I guess). We attended the same community because we have a same passion in language. Thus, the community make us all into one. We chose (and actually devided) into different tables. Vivian was in Mandarin table, Fadhli was in French table, Garry and I were in English table. Eventhough I and Vivian had different table at the time, but actually I already had several chances to chit chat before. We even follow each other on Instagram.

Well, back to the meet up story. Eventhough I and Garry were in the same table, but we didn’t talk much at the moment. Since we focused on our own group (well, at the time the attendance of English table was almost 15 or even 18, so we divided again into two FGDs)

We had our very first dinner together. Some of us already known each other and met up for times, so I knew their names (and yeah, at the moment I didn’t know the name of the one who took French table. But I didn’t care at all. I kept eating and had some Instagram stories :p) . We talked about the grammar of Bahasa Indonesia, which we just realised that it was more difficult than other languages grammar.

I did have no attention about the one who took the French table as we kept talking and laughed together. Until we promised to meet again on the next meet up. Then, we separated into our ways to go home.

The day of the next Polyglot meet up came. And we met again in the venue (I still didn’t know the name of the boy who took the French table, and also forgot Garry’s name. Sono spiacente, Bro). Again, we separated into different tables, based on our interests and skills. But this time, I didn’t in the same table with Garry. English table is always the table with so many participants compared to other languages, so we divided into two tables (Garry was in the table Led by Tio, and I Led my own table since Fajar the coordinator had another duty to supervise the whole meet up).

It is a common thing that we didn’t go home after the meet up. We always have time to hang around (but some people chose to go home). And once again, I would say that I still didn’t know who was the boy that took the French table (I do apologise, bro). But I didn’t care :p. Till we finally decided to have dinner together again (this time there were about 20 persons) at Grand Indonesia.

On our way to reach the food court, I still didn’t notice his name. We kept walking side by side, talked about many things and what do we do for living. Until I asked for a promo from a friend and after that asked him (the french table boy) to take the same promo for dinner. And, finally I decided to ask Vivian about his name since I need to call him to go with me to order food.

I asked Vivian, “Vivi, what’s his name? The boy who sat in front of you?”

“He is Fadhli” She Replied.

“Okay, Thanks”

After that, I called his name and asked if he would like to take the promo or not. And he said yes. We three walked together (I, Vivian and Fadhli). We talked about the interest of language while we were standing in the line” . I also asked him to pronounce the word “literature”. But then, he pronounced the word in american tongue. Well, before we had the settle place to have dinner, He asked me and other friends to hang out on August 17th. But I said sorry, I must go to Yogyakarta on that day.

And the moment of “Enjoy while it lasts” started in this time. That was the night after we hang around at Grand Indonesia. On my way home, Vivian hit me on Instagram DM. She asked me if I have line account or not. But then, I answered that I don’t have line account. I only use WhatsApp. So that she made a WhatsApp group to plan the next hang out to Bogor. The group name was Mmm at the first. Then, I changed into Random Language since we came from the different language backgrounds with our own uniqueness. From the group, we started to plan next pleasure together.

It was our very first time hang out (with no Polyglot meet up before then). We went to Bogor Botanical Garden. We spent our time together for the whole day. We talked about many things, pitched the lame jokes, had lunch and dinner together, and found the shelter to hide from the rain. The unique thing from this hang out was actually our mind to open each other. We could talk about the things that matters in our life or not. We talked about family, our daily activity, about what we’ve been hoping, and etc.

We also captured every moments we spent and shared. With them, I feel no fear at all to tell my life story. We never hide our true selves each other. We show who we are! We are not afraid to be ugly in front of others, and we try to be honest. If the thing was going wrong and bad, well we would say that it was bad. Till the time came to be apart and we took our way home.

Actually, there are five personels in our WhatsApp group. We are Fadhli, Kartika, Vivian, Garry, and I. But Kartika never joint our hang out due to her shcedule which was always collided with ours. So she decided to join our next hang out.

The second hang out we spent in Ancol. It was on August 17th (well, if you remember what I said before, I used to say on that day I can’t join them to hang out since I must prepare before going to Yogyakarta for PING 2017. But the fact was in the opposite, then! I I decided to joint them to wander around Ancol).

I could say that on the day we hang out for the second time was a not really good day, haha! I waited for about three hours before I finally met them. I was a little bit upset. But then, I told myself that this day was going to be a wonderful day. So all I need to do was taking deep breath and smile J.

We wandered around Ancol beach, captured every moments and smiles. Vivian was actually not satisfied enough at the time. She thought that Ancol was not a real beach compared to other beaches in other regions. And She also expected to see waves, but she can’t. I felt sorry about that and explained her about Ancol in the way I know. I told her that Ancol was a man made beach, so that’s why it is not as beautiful as other beaches in other parts of Indonesia.

We also took the free commuting train in Ancol, and a boat to travel around the sea. I felt so overwhelmed for this. I thanked God for sending me the guys like them. They are so Incredible. In the boat, we talked again about our dreams and hopes in the future. I also asked to Fadhli, why he chose the motto “Enjoy while it lasts” for his blog. He said, that we might not always enjoy the time together with friends everyday, So again he said by the motto he wish to enjoy every moments and captured them into memory. And that was actually the beginning of this stuff. I was inspired by his motto, borrowed it from him, and promised to write a stuff based on the tittle “enjoy while it lasts”.

I told him that I was inspired by his motto yet didn’t know how was the content gonna be at the first. And yes, I thought that writing about them and how I met them at the first was the best option, then! Well, by this writing stuff I’d like to say thanks to you guys for coming to my way. I hope, you enjoy reading this stuff and I wish for a life long friendship of ours. Despite of all the difference we have. Once again, enjoy while it lasts.

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