#yes they're nonbinary

[uncanny-tranny]

Me in 2016: You know, saying things like "trans rights are human rights" doesn't necessarily mean that person is safe around trans people. In fact, sometimes people still have unchecked bias against trans people, and that can be clouded by them saying that trans rights are human rights. It can prevent them from fully looking into their own preconceptions about cissexism and trans people.

Me in 2023: Oh, thank gd this person said "trans rights are human rights," I was worried they also abhorred trans people

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #transphobia #transphobia tw #you know i still kind of agree with the 2016 statement but that comes with the caveat that at least they're fucking saying that... #....our rights are human rights. so long as their actions also reflect that i have way less of a problem with that statement than before #but it's crazy just how awful it's gotten in some ways #bruh i was worried a hisotry youtuber i somewhat liked was an anti-woke chud... #..and then i was proven wrong when he blatently posted support for trans people so good for him!! always happy to be proven wrong (genuine) #can statements like TRAHR be used disingenuously to put a false sense of secutity in them? yes sure... but also... #...don't immediately jump to that conclusion *unless* they have shown their ass about it #note that when i say 'anti-woke' i mean how conservatives belolieve woke means things they don't like #NOT the meaning of woke that originated in Black spaces and AA(V)E #hopefully that clears any confusion?

[crowfromfoggyforest]

Look, a random meme! Can i just post this on tumblr like that? I guess we'll see...

#i want to steal their gender #and i also just want to inhale them #some of the characters of all time #tma jon #jonathan sims #hazbin alastor #lackadaisy mordecai #mordecai heller #i feel bad for maintagging these #nonbinary #gender envy #asexual #queer memes #shitpost #is this a borderline harmful asexual stereotype? yes #am i still a sucker for this combination of charcteristics? absolutely #i mean i'm not saying they're like that BECAUSE they're asexual

[tanunigans]

So... I got distracted with life

Then managed to binge watch a whole ass goofy show with illegally good songs.

Then discovered the fandom is either dead or close to nonexistent

So ... Yea, made an oc for fun (and to get back to drawing with something simple)

#tanu art #centaurworld #cowtaur #Mylik #yes her name is (almost) Milky #more info if anyway asks about this baby #also they're nonbinary 'cause gender is just a social conduct #centaurworld oc

[heartsrevolving]

rant about gay chars(travis phelps) and fem writers

me watching ppl write travis with a female reader, knowing he's a canonically gay character.

chat that's erasing rep, not saying it's as bad as whitewashing but it's essentially the same thing

females HE'S NOT FOR YOU!!! if you like him romantically just write drafts of him n you? make fanart?

and if u dk how to write male x male, then js don't write travis? it's like cis ppl trying to write trans chars and honestly js making rep worse

but, again, my bias of being a trans mlm aside, i can't stop you. it's just, i hate watching fem ppl erase canon gay rep js bc they find the char attractive.

and yes, ik it's not actually "erasing rep", as it's still canon. it's just very frustrating and id appreciate if writers just left gay chars with their gayness

AGAIN, i CANNOT stop you from writing male(gay char) x female, this is just a rant/vent.

#travis phelps #sally face #travis phelps x reader #travis phelps x male reader #double trouble she ra #erasing rep is bad!!! #rant #trans FtM #trans masc #gay representation #travis phelps x female reader is a lil weird.. #this is just gay rep in general but trav and dt were in mind while writing this #yes ik dt is nonbinary #they're also gay tho

[just-somehuman]

The amount of times I have to explain that the Aeons use they/them pronouns because they are ABOVE gender makes me want to cry 😭

#like yes yes nonbinary but no because they're beings above the concept of gender #that's why THEY use THEY/THEM and not they/them #it's to show their authority?? divinity?? aeonhood?? idk #you cannot look me dead in the eyes and tell me that IX or Nous have genders like be fr #honkai star rail #hsr #hsr aeons #honkai star rail aeons #star rail

[smilepaint]

anyway the concept of passing is a scam. we will never be liberated until the idea that a trans person's inherent value and worth and validity is directly proportional to their resemblance to a cis person. and i say this not just to those who struggle to or do not fit into that box, but to those who very much do and are counting themselves lucky.

the same way that its unhealthy and unreasonable to expect a same gender couple to conform to notions of what a heterosexual family should be, its unhealthy and unreasonable to have to expect a transgender experience of identity and a transgender body to conform to a cisgender ideal. not only does it further the marginalisation of trans people and drive a wedge in our community, but it's an unhealthy way to see the world and relate to yourself. its not fair to expect a human being to go their whole life in states of checking the value of their body and their life against a societally imposed, often unattainable model that may not even reflect their own desires or goals.

it's tough, i know how tough it is to go against everything you've been taught, and the right to seek medical intervention to reshape ourselves in a way that deepens and solidifies our connection to our bodies is and will always be important. but for your own mental health, whatever shape you take must reflect yourself first. not a cis persons. transition is about making a home out of the body you're living in, in whatever way works for you.

you deserve the mental freedom that comes with removing "passing" from your emotional radar entirely. trans bodies are good bodies.

#text tag #transgender #nonbinary #transition #gender #this is kind of a loaded take so to tack on some things #i am a trans person who's struggled with severe dysphoria for many years and was obsessed with passing as cis for a long time #there was a long time in which i would've preferred to stop living over going the rest of my life with visible surgery scars #just think about that.. idk how fucked is it that teen me thought it would be better to literally die than have one clear tell that im trans #im so much happier post surgery scars and all and like yes i fucking hate them. but i know i shouldn't and im trying to heal #also im very aware that passing as cis is OFTEN a safety issue and thats not what im speaking to here #im talking about mental health and longterm societal change and the gradual betterment of gender diverse peoples #not just from a gender standpoint but honestly from a decolonial standpoint #from a te ao māori perspective there was never an ideal of passing as “cis” for trans or takatāpui individuals #anyway yea obsession with passing wears people down into self hating wrecks and im sick of seeing that happen to our youth #and to every trans person regardless of where they're at in their journey

[the-lighthouse-files]

listen I just want whatever gender Mizu has got going on

#i don't even know what PRONOUNS to use there's no clear preference that I've seen #she's cis he's trans they're nonbinary #pronoun of Yes #gender: whatever is most likely to get me REVENGE #blue eye samurai

[saltyfryz]

I HAVE DRAWN THE CHILDREN

They're all siblings in this universe! :D

Asgore and Tori are still divorce though so they have joint custody over Azzy and Chara. Not Frisk though, as Tori adopted them after. IDK if that's how it actually works irl but I'm rolling with it.

And these bad Bois are a part of Cassie's au 👇

I still don't have a name for it, does anyone have any good ideas?😭

#frisk undertale #chara undertale #udertale au #my art #undertale #both of them are nonbinary UwU #also please ignore how murderous they look #this was originally supposed to be an genocide alternate of Cassie's frisk but i liked it so much its now the official ref 😭 #asriel #asriel au #yes DC au Azzy and Chara are emo #but they're bad at it #like they try so hard to be edgy but it never works. #DCA au #cassie au

[thunderjade]

They watched a sad movie and now kuriko is calling her brother for snack duty

#saiki kuriko #akechi touma #Teruhashi Kokomi #mera chisato #chiyo yumehara #aiura mikoto #genderfluid saiki #nonbinary akechi #What movie did they see? Who knows #Yes akechi is on the floor again #They're ok its just floor time #Saiki is DEFINITELY gonna owe Kusuke after this #Worth it for her friends #(She'll never admit it though)

[boywithbear]

randomly thinking about how the anti "transandrophobia truthers" people never think trans men ever face misogyny, especially if they're out of the closet and can pass as a man, and i'm here masculine as hell and would pass to THEM but yet my voice gets me misgendered all the time, to the point during phone calls people will refuse to believe I am who I say I am because of the masculine name not matching up with the voice and so they always automatically assume I am my own sister or mother, and my own urogynecologist fully sees me as a woman despite my FULL BEARD and my bear of a body

like yeah totally i completely have all the same exact experiences and privileges as a cis man! /s

Edit: actually lol to make the point further, I am still here with the full beard and masculine attire and so I'm probably what they'd call "cishet passing" and yet when I go out, I am misgendered ALL the time now because of the combination of my voice, my long hair, and wearing a mask that covers up a good bit of my face. I'm misgendered more than I'm gendered correctly, actually. Like really blows my mind bc I will see these ppl call ppl they dont even KNOW irl "cishet passing" based on seeing pictures of them when that doesn't = reality and also that's a fucking gross ass term.

#think they just love their radfem rhetoric so much they'll do anything to ignore how complex the real life world actually is #like we are allowed to have a term for the specific experiences we go through as transmascs/trans men #and half of it is because THEY'RE the ones who want to equate it to transmisogyny and make it a competition and then blame that on US #like no YOU did that #sure some trans men who speak on transandrophobia can be transmisogynistic. EVERYONE CAN BE. what does that have to do with the term itself #the term is about OUR unique experiences. which yes we DO have and you all just love to ignore it #and there's exorsexism/enbyphobia for nonbinary people. where's your problem with that? #or do you ONLY have a problem when it comes to trans men because men bad and woman good. wonder who started that notion. huh. #and when there have been so many trans women too who have spoke about how that shit harms them too but yall don't actually care #because your hatred for men is greater than your love for women actually and it's sad. rant OVER. #transandrophobia #transphobia #z #literally with this out of nowhere bc caffeinated and also phone went to shit again so not on here much again but was having Thoughts

[turnipstewdios]

Trans healthcare is Bullsh*t

Long vent post, cause I'm mad and need to release the feelings back into their natural habitat. Had less than two weeks to go before the hysterectomy I've been trying to get for almost five years, and insurance has denied my appeal. Again. Very clearly for the last time. The rejection letter deemed the surgery "Not medically necessary" and with the context of past interactions I don't think I could have heard the "Fuck off looser" more clearly if someone had told me in person. My first appointment for this surgery was in June, and I had already been waiting for years at that point. I thought had been very careful to get everything set up, and get all my letters of referral and paperwork strait before hand. Except my insurance specifically apparently had a whole extra qualification for this surgery, that does not apply to anyone else in my state, and that no one told me about because the provider I've been going through for my care has never had anyone bring up that requirement before. That being that I needed to have been seeing a therapist specifically for my gender dysphoria for at least 12 months before hand. So. Had to cancel my appointment for that. The new surgery date I got moved things for enough out that my two letters of referral for reproductive surgery, which have to be less than a year old, expired. For the third time. But that gave me a chance to try and fudge the therapist thing. I went back to the same therapists who gave me the letters last year, exactly one year after my last appointment, and they signed off that I'd been seeing them for 12 months. So we turned that in and filed an appeal. That's where it started getting really, really obvious that my insurance was bullshitting us. I currently make just barely too much money to qualify for my state's government insurance plan. (which sucks because Oregon state insurance actually covers transgender care.) But I don't have enough money to pay for my own insurance. I've been on a family plan from my parents. In fact I specifically moved back in with my parents so I would be covered by it. But I age out on my next birthday, which is January 10th. So it's become increasingly obvious over the last few months that insurance was just stalling for time until they didn't have to deal with me anymore. After I turned in the appeal with evidence that I'd been seeing a mental health provider for 12 months, along with my new letters of referral, I didn't hear back from them. Got to within a week of surgery. Contacted surgery scheduling, and they said I hadn't been approved. Contacted my rep. Apparently, they had never received any appeal letters. That was bull crap, btw, because when we re-scheduled things again, and me, my provider, and my rep all made absolutely sure to send things through the proper channels, the exact same thing happened a second time. And at that point it was late October, and the next appointment was Dec 4th. So we re-appealed. Again. My rep sent stuff up the chain directly, and made sure it got to the people who needed to see it. I was assured that I would have an answer within the week. Three weeks ago. Yesterday, I called my rep to check on things, and she read out my final rejection letter. So. Even if I had time to reschedule again before I age out in a month and a half, it's clearly just not happening on this plan. I'd already started looking for other insurance, but even if I find one I can afford that covers trans care, it will take long enough I'll have to renew all my letters again. The thing that really makes me mad about this is the wording of the rejection. "Not medically necessary." Because I've already had top surgery.

My insurance paid for the large, expensive, invasive, purely cosmetic breast surgery with high risk of complications without throwing a single wrench in things. But a minimally invasive reproductive surgery? When I have a history of painful cramping, irregular periods every 10 to 20 days, and bleeding so heavy and so often I suffer from mild blood loss if my weight dips below 175? When I am literally choosing not to loose weight so I don't constantly pass out, and have been doing so since my mid teens? When I have a family history of cervical or uterine cancer? Oh noooo. We cant have that. It's not medically necessary.

#bastards #coincidentally I found out that the office that deals with my approvals is in a different state for some fucking reason #what state? oh yes. It's Utah. where this type of care is illegal. #golly Ghee I wonder why they're so concerned about my reproductive health. #trans #trans healthcare #transgender #trans rights #trans nb #nb #trans non binary #nonbinary #surgery #healthcare #vent post #tw vent #vent

[dykefaggotry]

I cannot think of a single time I've seen a post abt gnc people on this website and Not gone into the notes and seen a hundred people bringing up gender conforming people

do yall really hate us that much that we cannot have a Singular post about the struggles gnc people go through? just one? ever??????

For Once I'd love to see a post about gnc people where every other tag isn't "okay but actually I'm a girl who loves makeup what about me"

oh my god

#someone just left a goddamn essay in my tags abt how #they're afab nonbinary and learned to love being feminine again and women should be allowed to be feminine #I'm like that is so wonderful for you mazel tov but that's literally soooo far from the fucking point BABE #make your own fucking post jesus christ yes we all know women are allowed to be feminine I'm gonna ***** myself #discourse cw #did not mean to capitalize babe autocorrect just hates me

[redrockcanyons]

desert sun pride parade 🌈

#fnv #fallout: new vegas #fallout #fallout oc #courier oc #great khan oc #art #maddox #phoenix #.png #minors dni #transgender #nonbinary #transgender pride #nonbinary pride #one of them's a sl*t and the other has a neverending chick habit #yes of course they're fwb+ what did you expect #one week of government mandated rest left will drop more stuff around here again soon thanks for ur patience everyone

[lemonisntreal]

Any of you guys remember Judith?

if not, then that's ok because I've pretty much rewritten them entirely lol [as you can see from this lovely interaction ~_~]

I've recently fallen head over heels for what is essentially an OC at this point. Because what you knew as Judith is now gone. Judith-from-the-bank is now a 7-foot-tall enby in a peacoat and hat who will destroy you without mercy. 7'04" if you're wanting exact measurements [not including ears] I have a whole height chart thing I'll probably put out one day [Buster is 2'11" if you're curious].

In Tone Deaf, Judith controls the entire city, not just the bank. Buster is on extremely bad terms with them, and wow, look, conflict. They're stoic, sadistic, will sell you out in a heartbeat if it's to their benefit, etc. Buster refers to them as "all business and no soul" so even he's lost all hope of getting past their walls.

I love them dearly. Definitely gonna do more art with them.

#Tone Deaf #sing #sing movie #sing 2016 #sing 2021 #buster moon #comic #fan comic #fanart #digital art #furry #original character? #yeah I'll take it #judith-from-the-bank #and so the self-imposed trauma begins #they're both insane #just different flavors #nonbinary mommy o_o #did I just want a tall imposing villain character? #yes #no I won't apologize #[lady dimitrescu- but without the lady] #[or the dimitrescu] #[so just the hat and height pretty much]

[jasontoddssuper]

Not to be dramatic or anything but if you degender Alex because she's genderfluid even though it was said multiple times by him and other characters that she's trans and nonbinary in the sense of being both a boy and a girl,me and every other genderfluid Riordanverse fan should be legally allowed to smack you into another dimension

@peachyblkdemonslayer @insomniac-jay @1clown1 @jai-balayya @domeworshipper @autisticwithagun

#yes they're are plenty of genderless nonbinary people but alex is explicitly multigender!don't make jokes about him 'having no gender' #or use they/them for her!!it's not progressive it's *erasure*-and the same goes for making him transmasc because it's also canon that- #-she's transfem!!!respect who alex actually is or don't post about her at all /srs #alex fierro #alex fierro defense squad #fierrochase #t4t fierrochase #mcga #💌 #letters from summer

[void-star]

Nonbinary people are still nonbinary even when they wear clothes you think matches their agab

#nonbinary #gender #yes even when they are amab #nobody stops being nonbinary just cause you don't think they're gnc enough