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psalmsofpsychosis · 4 months
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mothersvperior · 5 months
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Every time I pick up a comic centering on Jason Todd something in me whithers away and dies
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Question for people who are more knowledgeable in this subject than I am. Would you consider kissing someone on the cheek flirting at a party where everyone has been kissing each other platonically (for context it was not done in an intentionally flirty way he was leaving and it was like an "awww bye" kind of way)
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the-busy-ghost · 9 months
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Petty rant this morning- I can understand that somtimes even the nicest noises can be a nuisance, even painful, and believe me I have become cranky about all sorts of innocuous noises at the wrong time.
That being said, I have heard a surprising number of people complain about bellringers practising, when they moved into a house next to a mediaeval English church
#Oh I'm sorry we'll just move this twelfth-century bell tower somewhere that doesn't irritate you#Can it sometimes be a rather awful cacophony? Yes but they only get better if they practise#And even the worst noise of bells (from the distance of neighbouring houses not the tower) is better than car engines and drunk arguments#And bellringing is such a magnificent piece of craft and tradition; it's worth preserving even above and beyond any religious role#Though to be fair all the bellringers I've met seem to hold bellringing as their chief religion and are indifferent at best to the church#So it's not even that much of a reminder of Christianity imo#Thouhg I suppose people could disagree#Anyway church bells were one of the best things about living in the south of England#Even when they were rattling away very untidily#I miss them so much being back in Scotland where we only have a handful of towers at best#and certainly don't have the longstanding tradition of ringing in small churches#I have to get my kicks from the Tolbooth clock and let me tell you it just isn't the same as hearing an English bell tower ringing up#Let alone actually ringing the changes#It's one of the few genuinely wholesome English traditions and you want to whine about the sound of BELLS#Not because it's a sensory issue or anything just because you don't like your lie-in being interrupted#But you'd expect your neighbours to put up with your noisy barbecues#Actually never even mind disruptive events like that- in my opinion the noise of your silly car idling in the driveway is worse than bells#You trying to fit your massive SUV down the tiny streets of a small English village#Is always worse than plain hunt
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notffxiv · 2 days
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feeling this one a little too hard rn
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king0fcrows · 3 days
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musicalchaos07 · 1 year
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@jancyweek2022​ Day 6: Woven/Sweaters or Domestic Bliss
I find myself running home to your Sweet nothings
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caruliaa · 1 year
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I did something recently that hurt my mom's feelings and the world has come to a fucking halt about it. Everyone keeps reaching out to me to be like "hey you hurt your mom's feelings idk if you know" even though she and I have extensively talked about it and I've given multiple genuine apologies because she keeps going to everyone who will still talk to her in our family (not very many people) and complaining about me and I'm just like. Genuinely I am very remorseful that I hurt my mother but like. Where the fuck was all this energy when she was hurting her fucking children for 30+ years?
#i technically uninvited her to something#the situation is that i planned a whole birthday party for myself and then BECAUSE MY MOM PICKED A HUGE FIGHT WITH ALL OF HER SIBLINGS#like 75% of the people i invited (my aunts and uncles and cousins) canceled on me#so i canceled my birthday party but asked my brother sister and my brothers wife to still come over that night#they were only coming to see my apartment for the first time. our plan was to get kind of drunk and loud and do karaoke on my couch#my mom has seen my apartment dozens of times#ive invited my parents over for multiple casual dinners. they HATE driving to my area bc its too busy#my mom HATES loud chitchat and music and bad singing and staying up late.#all things we did that night!#and if i were confident i could extend a polite invitation that would have been turned down for inclusion's sake then i would have done that#but i fucking didnt invite her! because she would have said yes! and then she would have been policing the event and my behavior all night!#BECAUSE SHE IS A DIAGNOSED NARCISSIST WHO DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS TO PREVENT THIS KIND OF BEHAVIOR#and i know she can't really help it. i know her life was so fucking hard. but she made MY life hard. she STILL makes my life hard.#i just wanted one fucking night to have fun with people that love me. just one fucking night! and she tried her VERY best to ruin that#even without an invite#and tbh in some ways she really succeeded in ruining it. half the fucking time was spent talking about her and how to handle this situation#and if this is a precursor to her gettting fucking worse again and going back to inpatient#im just fucking tired of it man
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I hate to admit how much testosterone turned me into a twink (derogatory) bc despite everyone (including me) wanting to start t to become a cute little twink, now that im on it I just wanna like...be a guy like a regular guy (appearance wise)
#its the way im a huge magnet for girls who have fag hag energy despite not knowing im a fag bc im not out at work#like what else do you call a skinny short effeminate man who has eyelash extensions and considers his mom his best friend#despite being surrounded by extremely conventionally hot women who are all lightly bisexual and very unhinged hotgirls#the amount of blonde 30 yr olds with laminated eyebrows and bodycounts in the 200s who look like influencers who have decided im their#drunk little meow meow gay boy without knowing im a gay boy is insane#i think the worst part of this is that im accidentally turning into the only other guy in philly my boyfriend has fucked#bf obviously doesnt know bc he doesnt know anything abt the guys personality but ive had a drunk bathroom girl convo with him#and follow him on instagram so i have to know#im not jealous its just weird and im not a fan#we could totally be friends though#my new bestie at work was like 'oh sorry not to imply that all gay people know each other!' and i was like sis yes we do#bc she was telling me about her poly transmasc friend who teaches shibari and i was like. bro ive literally be in his class before#yes all the gay people in philly know each other#im also screaming bc i was like 'you should peg him' about a guy she was talking to as like a joke#and she was like 'i DID thats the PROBLEM' bc now hes going crazy bc she wont dick him again shdndkfhdndn#i really hope the security cameras in the operating rooms dont have a sound feed#thats my nightmare#fired for dad jokes and telling my coworker to peg some weirdo in full earshot of anesthesia during a lap chole#we were actually just waiting for the patient. the room was set and surgery hadnt started yet btw#also give me dad jokes i need them to make the ortho attending love me
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woobifiedvillain · 7 months
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I think a large part of why I have issues writing JGYs feelings about his mom is like. How little we see of her directly or how basically everything we learn is from JGYs pov in some way. Which isn't, unique to her. It's just that. Maybe the problem is more of a personal issue I can't seperate from how I think about the possible ways to interpret their relationship.
Because on one hand I do not think MS was a bad mom or didn't love her son and I'm not trying to be like. Everything we learn should be doubted. That also doesn't make any sense because we simply do not have other canon to rely on. So what's the information we can take as truth-isk yk.
I guess the issue is actually that I can't stop being aware of how having a parent who everyone already expects the worst of influences how you'd see them. And not even in a "he's lying on purpose" way. Just. It's almost impossible for him not to see the absolute best of her in those circumstances?
Because the thing is if one of your parents is not there (and seems to be a shit person from what you know, and this is later confirmed), but more importantly, the one you have, clearly loves you. And is trying her best.
But. She fails sometimes. She fails to protect you and you don't want to tell her because it makes her sad and she's already so desperate and she has so much to deal with and she puts everything she has into keeping you safe. How can you tell her she failed.
And you want to protect her but nobody things you should be able to do that. Both because you shouldn't be allowed to fight back and because she is not seen as someone worth protecting.
And! Everyone, everyone in the world, your entire life. Is expecting her to be unreliable. To be an incompetent mother, specifically, in the sense of. What basis does she have to teach her child gentlemanly arts. What power does she have to protect or provide for someone. What right does she have. She's nothing.
Which means that to convince anyone she's anything. You have to go the complete opposite direction. She's perfect. She's the smartest, most eloquent and loving and capable mother in the world. Nobody will understand her intent if you even breathe a word of resentment, nobody will give either of you the benefit of the doubt, so if you want to keep the person you love safe, if you want any chance at the world understanding the love she had for you, that she did try - she has to be perfect.
You have to talk about her as if she was perfect. To want to dedicate everything to her. Not even a shadow of a doubt can be allowed to pass, and the most convincing lies are the ones you convince yourself of. Especially if you have to maintain them your entire life, against a world just waiting for you to slip.
If MS is to get any chance at being remembered as the woman she was, at being honored (and so a chance at a better next life) you must maintain that she was perfect. Not only perfect herself but specifically, perfect at raising you, to be the perfect gentleman.
JGYs drive to be infallible and put together and the airtight image of a perfect gentleman has as much to do with him as a living example of her work (and therefore her character, her ability to fulfill a role not allowed to her, assumed she would fail at) as it does him.
Which makes me think. Well two things actually. One - his relationship with his mother was not necessarily as good as it initially seems, for the simple fact that if it were not we would never know. And people generally aren't as perfect as the unreachable ideal they're held to, and this doesn't mean they're secretly horrible people either.
Second, the lifelong role of not just having to prove his mother's humanity, but to be a living example of it. Especially when the chance at his father coming back (to rescue them both, their only chance at getting out) rested on him being the perfect gentleman. So good and useful and respectable that his birth would not matter (that he'd be worth saving, that his mother would be honored for raising him). That had to be a fuckton of pressure. A really stressful and mind-fucky thing to task a child with.
At the same time! I'm not saying the scenario or the preassure are MSs fault or that she was cruel to do this! But also at the same time. She had to become a manifestation of this push to be perfect. Which society and shitty circumstances caused, and necessitated. But. If she wanted her son to ever be safe, to ever have a chance at a better life. This is all she could do. This was done out of love for him. This was also, a lot to put on a child and probably gave him lifelong problems™. It wasn't her fault. She was the cause. She wasn't. She loved him. He was part of a plan. He wasn't.
But none of that nuance is ever going to matter to anyone! Everyone will only take it as proof that MS (and her son) are exactly as dirty and opportunistic and undignified as they're expected to be (which makes it okay to hurt them for it). So. JGY can never breathe a word of it. Even in his own head.
MS wasn't a perfect mother. She might not have been anything close. But. She wanted to be a good mother, and she loved her son. And if any of that was going to matter, to mean anything.
MS is a perfect mother. Because she has to be.
#the gremlin makes meta soup#anyway this is like. party meta partly me thinking about how#I did not let myself admit I had issues with either of my parents but especially my dad. wayyy later than I actually kindof knew that#because like. when everyone expects the brown guy who speaks broken English and isn't here legally. to do something bad#and theyre always assuming oh you know hes a strict dad and your whole religion and culture is so oppressive oh you poor baby#its really fucking hard to be like! yeah he has issues w paranoia and gets controlling lol#because it will only ever make everything worse and nobody will see the nuance AND they'll take it as. proof their stereotypes are correct#you know? which is like. HHHHHH#plus how ready social workers and stuff were to take us constantly. meanwhile my mom could get drunk and dissapear for days#but nobody would give her shit for anything. like. literally we would be told oh sorry you cant do this paperwork w/o further documentation#and then my mom would go and smile at them and they'd be like. oh im so sorry miss! so like. is this prove-able. not really#but do I suspect that there is some compensatory-ness going on with his need to honor his mom? yes#do I think he doesn't love her or secretly she sucks or something? NO! im saying its complicated! and if he ever had any issues#even a normal level of. hey Im sad my mom did this. he would know he can never admit it to ANYONE you know!!! which is!!! not good!!#not a way to have a healthy view of your parents as people who can be flawed and still love you and etx#and. yes I think this habit of excusing everything pre-emptively DEFINITELY feeds into. his loyalty to JGS. so like
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shoezuki · 5 months
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Earlier was playin some would u rather game with my siblings n one thing on one the would u rather cards was like 'you can only ever talk bout politics w ur family' n my brother was like. I mean we're all liberal that would weed out the weak links. N I had to be like no dude we are not liberal at this point like I'm a fucking anarchist dude we're beyond liberalism
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hella1975 · 1 year
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me and my mate are gonna try make baby guinnesses tomorrow bc we're going out for st pat's and she's so pumped bc she's like 'you've done bar work! you'll be really good at this!' how do i tell her the closest ive come to making a baby guinness is when at the end of a shift my coworker talked me through the process bc he had to make 8 shots for a hen party just for them to cancel the order as i was clocking off and he made me drink them
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mochapanda · 3 months
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today i found out that the annoying old man that pissed me off and sent me into a meltdown last week is actually like. the most infamous evil old man within the entire city
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julie-finlay · 11 months
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Finlay Friday
13x01: "Karma to Burn", script extracts. Pt. 1/3.
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ssaalexblake · 7 months
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it should be illegal for kids to learn a lesson when you're babysitting them. Things like 'will get a severe headache if you don't drink' are parent things.
now I have a headache but it's a stress one :/
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