#ykinmkato

[coline7373]

On fanfics and all fanworks.

#star wars #fanfics #comments #fanfiction comments #fanfic writers doing the good work #they are generously sharing with you #a labour of love made over hours days weeks #for free #do NOT throw it back to their face with a side-dish of snidery #or vitriol #don't like dont read #ykinmkato #respect #the nice people ppuring their hearts out #if you can't say nice things #don't say anything #obi wan kenobi #general kenobi wants YOU to be nice or walk away #you want to go home and rethink your life #nice comments ONLY #ao3 fanfic #fanfic writers #glimmerglanger #the clone wars #sw fanart #tcw fanart #clone wars #fandom #codywan #coline7373

[scientistservant]

I think fandom reeeeally needs to bring back the good old Kink Tomato. Or, “Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That’s Okay.”

#proship #fandom #pro kink #ykinmkato

[mywitchcultblr]

#ykinmkato #fandom #fandom etiquette #fandom discourse #old fandom #fanfic #fanfic discourse #fanfic writing #ao3 #shipping #callout culture #shipcourse #fanpol #anti fanpol #fanwork #fandom disk horse

[striving-artist]

Saw a thing, got grumpy, am taking the high road and not commenting in a reblog. But.

Part of not kink shaming is not shaming someone for who they find attractive. You can’t claim you support all the kinksters and monster fuckers and deviants and furries, and then turn around and ridicule someone for wanting to fuck Generic Male Actor #5 or Airbrushed White Woman #3

That’s not how this works. Either you support people liking what they like, or you don’t. Is it SSC? Then back off. Just because you think it’s bland or boring doesn’t mean you get to mock them.

Yeah, sure, fine, you’re “””edgy””” because you want to go down on a cereal mascot while hogtied and covered in wax, I don’t care. I support you, live your best life, but I don’t care. If your fantasy is one of the Chrises spilling your coffee at the shop and you fall in love and have missionary sex under the covers with the lights out? Still don’t care. Still support it. If the ultimate fantasy is 12 hours of true crime while taste testing international snacks with your partner and updating a spreadsheet? Hell yes, you do you, bestie.

Just because you’re the one choosing what is and what is not okay to lust after from the far end of the spectrum doesn’t make you different or better than the prudish zealots claiming your fox tail plug is unacceptable.

Neither of you are sex positive.

Is everyone consenting? Is it safe, or at least RACK? Are the people who are currently doing That Thing™ enjoying themselves? That’s all you get to comment on and judge. Pass judgement on anything else, and you can shut up about being sex positive.

People demonstrate love in different ways, Susan. Kinktomato covers vanilla sex and kinky sex, Ebony Dark’ness. It’s none of your damn business, Reginald. Kink and let Kink, edgelord.

Let. People. Enjoy. Things. They. Like.

And shut the fuck up.

#sex positive #ykinmkato #love is love #seriously that post made me so mad #I do not care if someone’s crush is ‘basic’ #I do not care if their fantasy is ‘vanilla’ #fuck all the way off with that #if you get to enjoy your thing without shame? #then so the fuck do they

[arizonapoppy]

PSA

Friendly reminder based on something I saw this evening:

Don't yuck someone else's yum. It's not becoming.

#poppy's soapbox #be excellent to each other #ykinmkato

[acepalindrome]

I’m generally pretty good at accepting that there are many things some people might like in fiction that I don’t, but I cannot wrap my mind around people writing aus where a certain demographic of people are systematically denied rights. I see it most often with ABO stuff or little/caregiver stuff, and it’s always like people are biologically born a certain way and get treated like second class citizens. Why do you want this. Like what is anyone getting out of writing this. I mean, this is just real life how people with disabilities are treated, and if you wanted to explore that, then you could just write about disabled people? Why are you creating this whole world where there’s a new group of people who aren’t allowed to have jobs or own property or whatever. What is the point.

#ive been seeing more and more fics like this #and i am firmly in the dldr crowd #ykinmkato #and i can usually at least kind of get what people are getting out of certain things #but i keep seeing these fic summaries and im just bewildered #and frankly wildly uncomfortable with the concept! #which again #im generally fine with people liking stuff i don’t like #this one is just really bothering me #why do you want more oppression in the world

[prowlingthunder]

PSA, my blog is YKINMKATO + SHIP AND LET SHIP

Since it's popped up on my tumblr and gotten into my thoughts, I felt compelled to post about it and shoot a reminder at people.

YKINMKATO Your Kink Is Not My Kink And That's Okay.

This is the most important rule in here for material. People will write things you don't like. That's okay. You don't have to like everything. If someone writes a thing you don't like, do not interact with that thing.

Free Sail Shipping/Ship and Let Ship People will ship ships you don't like. That's okay. If someone writes a thing you do not like, do not read the thing. If they art a ship you don't like, don't look at it. No one in this server will be condemned for ships. No one will be condemned for not shipping ships.

"But what about--" No. Proship, antiship, these labels do not have a place here. Writing or arting or consuming a specific type of media does not in any way condone something you believe is wrong, nor does it not condone it. Condoning or not condoning a material is not for you to police.

"But--" No. If you absolutely bring your unhinged policing into a YKINMKATO space, you should consider yourself unwelcome. We will make XYZ things to spite you. Spite is one of the single most powerful motivators of my life.

I will write horrible, filthy, awful things and I will do it to spite you. I will write things that I do not support or particularly enjoy, and I will do a good job of it just because it bothers you.

"Do not interact if xyz" is a a rule you are welcome to In Your Own Space. You are welcome to it. It's okay to have it. We do not condemn you for having it. This is not your space. This is my space. This is a YKINMKATO space. Respect it. Claiming that writing or arting or otherwise interacting with XYZ condones it is to say no one can separate reality from fiction. Such an accusation is not welcome here.

"But it hurts real people!" No. It hurts fictional people. Sometimes even fictional animals. What hurts real people is telling them they cannot do this self expression. You do not know their reasons. You are not allowed to presume you know their reasons. You are allowed to consume or not consume their media to your hearts' content.

#irl nonsense #prowlingthunder #ykinmkato #free sail shipping #Ship and let ship

[riotgere]

Daddy Jenks being the realest. If you don't like certain content, NO ONE IS FORCING YOU TO ENGAGE WITH IT. Find the things you love. Don't kink shame, ffs.

#dont kink shame #our flag means death #ofmd twitter #discourse #don't like don't read #ykinmkato

[lostcauses-noregrets]

Do you think Levi is a virgin? I mean, if you think about it, it makes sense. He is so social awkward and doesn’t like physical touch. Isayama has stated that if he ever walked in on two people having s*x, he would cry, because of his mother’s job in the underground city. It was also stated that he is always the submissive one and has never been in love. It’s pretty obvious that he most likely is one, but I still want to know what you think.

Well…there’s a couple of things to bear in mind.  First of all we’re firmly in the realm of headcanons here; there is nothing in canon to confirm one way or another whether Levi ever had sex with anyone ever. (That goes for most of the other characters too, barring those who have had children.)  I’m also pretty sure Isayama has never said anything about the matter either.  The “statements” you’ve attributed to him are just fan theories, nothing more. Secondly, virginity is a social construct (this is really important) and there’s nothing to indicate that the concept even exists in the SnK world. 

Of course you’re perfectly entitled to headcanon anything you want about Levi, and it sounds like you already have a pretty firm conviction about this, so I’m not sure why you want my opinion?  We all have different headcanons about these characters and that’s just fine. 

I know there’s been a bit of a vogue for virgin Eruris recently, @momtaku got an ask about virgin Erwin and there have been a ton of fics. Personally speaking it’s not something I’m interested in, I don’t think it’s “pretty obvious”, and it’s not the way I see these characters.  If you do want to know what I do think, might I recommend that you read Capitulation + Acceptance.

#asks #levi ackerman #your kink is not my kink #YKINMKATO #snk

[qwingfish]

✨🪐DREAMSCAPE🦄✨

Loosely themed around my moto "🌦️Reality Is For Losers🌌" 🪐DREAMSCAPE🦄 aims to foster an all inclusive space to create memories and connection!!! ~\(≧▽≦)/~ THIS DISCORD SERVER IS FOCUSED ON... IMAGINATION!!! FRIENDSHIP!!!!!! FUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

we've got all manner of fun things planned ahead! Be sure to read the tags on this post so you know what is and isn't welcome behavior in DREAMSCAPE; https://discord.gg/d8XbYCe9ex

Hope to so you soon, Dreamer!!! ☆*: .｡. o(≧▽≦)o .｡.:*☆

#discord #friendly community #ykinmkato #anime #books #cartoons #original content #discord server #friends #fandom #multifandom #proship #anti dni #self ship #comship #dead dove #darkfic #juladi speaks #juladi friends #gonna tag fandoms i like #skibidi toilet #transformers #steven universe #powerpuff girls #halo #arby n the chief #furry #feral #video games #the walking dead

[coulsonlives]

#i hate how accurate this is someone hug me #antis #censorship #fandom #ao3 #flame wars #meme #suicide ment cw #minors #purity culture #puritanism #satanic panic #sals #ship and let ship #kinktomato #ykinmkato #anti anti

[schmem14]

I got a mean comment on a post on here and for once, I IMMEDIATELY deleted it and blocked the user.

It’s been hard for me in the past not to dwell or reply back some unkind retort, or to second guess my validity.

I’m celebrating the power and freedom I have to curate a happy and safe fandom experience for me!!

If you cannot be kind, you don’t belong in my circle, and I’m not going to give you any leeway or stoop to your level.

#be kind #ykinmkato #SALS #DLDR #fandom discourse #curate your experience

[midnightwinterhawk]

Don't mind me, I'll just be over here crying salty, salty tears like a sad, angry pickle.

#the way i hit the read later button #read the tags #then scrolled right back up and unclicked #gonna be sad and angry about this for days #but hey #this is why you thoroughly tag your fics kids #I'd've been pissed if it was untagged and i read the fic #fanfic #apropos of nothing #apropos of feeing salty #YKINMKATO

[vorny8]

I draw the line at cp I'm sorry just no fuck outta my internet circle I do not want to see cub porn ever by accident or by seeing my post reblogged right next to it. There's kink and then theres the shit people explicitly tried to groom me with on Instagram when I was 12 that I only had the brains to be wary of due to being actually fucking molested and treated w/ shitty csa therapy for.

#ykinmkato #now get off my lawn #rape mention