#you deserve to live your best lives

[clownsuu]

Small detour of what I usually post, but I absolutely wish (other) clown the best of luck during these confusing and almost hopeless times- nobody knows how to deal with such amount of attention in such short amount of time- a blessing and a curse to behold

#Seeing their posts absolutely shattered me #I may never be able to relate to how he’s going through rn but at least I can relate to the fear of living in absolute fear #the fear of unable to be yourself in your own home with creative and personal freedom #The fear of being terrified that the thing that gives you the most innocent happiness will be heavily demonized and threatened #The fear of getting caught doing something you love and being yourself with your found identity #The fear of destruction #I relate heavily to this and to feel you are going to be caught doing anything that isn’t a crime hurts #I wish him safety and love during these stressful days #He’s brought so much joy to my life that I must keep private irl too #Whatever he decides for the fandom I will fully support it #I will still continue posting of course unless he wishes otherwise #If he sees this (which I doubt) hey other clown lmao- you are loved and not alone #It may be scary but you are not alone- you will never be alone #There will always be people out there who love you and there will always be those who are not even worth giving time of day #The internet is both a blessing and a cruel cruel unforgiving place #I hope it doesn’t deter you from doing what you love and hold dear #I hope you have anyone you can be with online or in irl that can give you the comfort you need #You deserve peace and security #Do what you feel is best #Welcome home

[bonefall]

Question: Since the mutation that makes sphynx cats nakey (their hair is fragile and sucks) can just happen at random. How would a Clan treat a nakey cat born among them? Could they make them a coat?

I think, at first, there would be concern that it's some kind of sign. Hairlessness looks like mange, a very serious and contagious condition. This could be a terrible omen-- that mange will be brought down to us.

But it would become apparent the kitten isn't a fader, it isn't a StarClan warrior who came down to deliver the others, or a mere sign. It's pink and wrinkled, like a newborn rodent, but moves as the other kits do. Did StarClan... forget its fur?

There's another feared creature without any fur-- humans. It looks human.

I think the poor thing would have a lot of problems with the other cats its age and maybe the more superstitious members of the Clan, but a warrior of the Clan is a warrior of the Clan. Life would be harder for them, but there would still be love that exists.

They'd be capable of making them a coat, and they WOULD need it, but I can see that cat trying to go without it for fear of being made fun of. That's another thing humans do-- wear pelts all over themselves because they have no fur of their own.

Unfortunately they'd also be prone to a ton of really bad health problems. This poor guy would be in the Cleric's den a lot, and may need to retire early or focus on campbound activities.

Health problems;

Pelt is a LOT weaker; injuries from battle or even training would be a lot more severe, Cleric may recommend them not taking part in fights.

Skin becomes filthy, and needs special cleaning. There is no fur to absorb the oil that the skin naturally makes to keep the coat healthy, causing buildup.

Even with proper cleaning, the skin is super prone to rashes, lesions, and constant irritation. Wash TOO MUCH and the skin will become dry and chapped.

SUNBURN. Especially in WindClan, where the warrior might spend a lot of time on the open moor in daylight, and RiverClan, where light reflecting off the water could cause an intense burn. It would be recommended the warrior take night shifts, but this could be an issue because night is cold. (BB!Cats are crepuscular).

Additionally; such severe, uniquely-placed sunburns are something Clerics wouldn't see very often. Lack of medical experience with these sorts of injuries could prove dangerous.

Ear infections. Cats naturally have hair in their ears, which their earwax production accounts for.

Both heatstroke AND frostbite. Very bad temperature regulation leading to severe ailments. Fur helps stabilize body temperature.

So in conclusion...

Life would be very difficult for this individual. Fur isn't just full-body hair; it's almost as fundamental as a top layer of skin. This would be a serious disability for a Clan cat to have, and it may invoke the image of detested humans leading to social stigmatization.

But because they're clanborn, they are unambiguously a member of the Clan. It's likely that the Clan would make clothing for this warrior out of fur pelts, but in their struggle with internalized ableism, they might have conflicted feelings about wearing it.

The Cleric would recommend campbound activities, night shifts, and WEARING YOUR PELT, DAMN IT. They would need to take full baths every few days, not too much and not too little, plus frequent ear cleanings.

#Clan culture #Hairless cat #Disability #for the record. Im not pro-sphinx breeding. I think that's obvious but... I don't think this is ethical. #They can live full lives with extra proper care but I don't think this is just a cute trait that's ok to select for #we shouldn't intentionally breed animals that produce oil for fur we've altered out of them #And they're so prone to rashes and lesions and wax buildup... #There's WORSE breeds but that's also not okay. #they are also not hypoallergenic. Common misconception. They will still bother your allergies if you are allergic to cats. #Because the allergen is the OIL AND DANDER #Not just fur broadly #BUT an animal born this way still deserves sympathy and a full life #and Clan cats always care ferociously for their own. #So if it popped up as a mutation they would be cared for #But if they had the chance to become a kittypet... that might actually really be their best option #Or a daylight warrior even!

[ahundredtimesover]

Is it just me but when someone comments or reblogs an old fic, do emotions rush in? Like suddenly you remember what you felt while writing that story? You remember what your characters felt? How it was like when you finally shared it to the world community? And then there’s just this immense pride and joy that you got to create something that means something to another person, that it made them laugh and smile and cry and believe in love and realize something about themselves?

Just being a little sentimental about it, how I got into this rabbit hole of reading fics 4 years ago and got the courage to write a year later and now I have a collection of my own stories that I love and appreciate, with characters that are a part of me, too. Write what you want to read, they said, and I did. And I’m not one to brag about myself but I did pretty good, and I’m proud of every single story I wrote and put out, and I’ll definitely be rereading them.

Here’s to every one of you who’s ever read a story. 💕

And here’s to every one of you who writes - only you know the amount of time and energy and love you put into your work and your characters. Only you know what it feels like putting your heart into a story that you created. You did good. Be your first fan. And know you’ve made someone’s day. It doesn’t make us any better than anyone else, though; we’re all here to connect and to feel and to escape somehow. But being vulnerable and sincere takes courage, so thank you 💕

#mimi rambles #just a little emotional right now with all the love and messages like #I just wanted to write stories I wanted to read but I get so much love in return that I don’t think I fully deserve but thank you #this is also an ode to all the authors whose works have given me so much joy but are no longer active #I hope you’re living your best lives !!

[mustangs-flames]

Really love telling people about how Mark and mimic!Cesar have a silly friendship as if they don't only get there after nearly killing each other a bunch of times (mostly it's Mark trying to kill mimic!Cesar).

You aren't ready for the angst between these two :)

#hail true body #htb mark owens #htb mimic!cesar #mark experiencing the horror of being forced to live with the thing that killed your best friend and technically killed you too :) #his anger problems come out swinging hard #literally. straight into mimic!cesar's face at one point too lmao #and mimic!cesar just... takes it #because he's a monster. and he deserves it #and mark hates that he doesn't even fight back #yeah. they're a little messed up... #my ocs #my writing

[cerise-on-top]

Hiiiii how have you been love bug? (Please tell me if your uncomfortable with that term since you are non-binary and they/them I’m not sure what nicknames you are uncomfortable with it’s just what I call my friends and just a nickname I have for people in general🫶🏻🫶🏻 ) so I’d like to to request farah with a adhd reader who is hyper forgetful and sometimes has meltdowns ( as someone with adhd)🧡🧡🧡

Hey! I'm fine! Bought some more yarn for my leftover blanket today, which I'm excited to work on! And don't worry, I think love bug is really cute! I don't mind most nicknames, but thank you for being considerate, I really do appreciate it! Hope you're doing well as well ^^

I don't have ADHD, so I don't know at all what it's like for someone with it! I had to do some research on it, so I don't know if these are actually viable methods of helping, but I tried! Please do correct me with something that might help and I'll add it in this post afterwards! I hope this is enjoyable to you regardless! Thank you for the request!

Farah with a Reader with ADHD

Farah doesn’t particularly know a lot about mental illnesses. She may be traumatized, yes, but that doesn’t mean she ever had the time to research any of them. So she’s definitely not the best person to go to when it comes to things like these, but she tries, even if she can’t always understand everything that’s going on. You’re suffering, and that’s enough for her to know she should do something to help you.

You being this forgetful may be a cause of concern for her, though. It’s not every day she meets someone who forgot what they did five minutes prior. It’s especially concerning when it’s something important, though, like seeing a doctor. Although she may be worried for you potentially developing something as severe as dementia eventually, she’ll try to push her worries aside and help you to the best of her abilities. If you ever need reminders, she can help you. Farah remembers and retains things very well, she’s never had any issues with it since she had to in order to get by. If you need to remember something, she’ll remind you a few times a day. You have an appointment? Don’t forget about it tomorrow, I’ll tell you again then. However, she’s also a big fan of post its and will write down whatever it is you may need and place it somewhere she knows you’re going to see it. I know, out of sight, out of mind, but she’ll also text you and have you make reminders on your phone for important things so you don’t forget. Won’t get mad at you for forgetting your anniversary, she can see that it’s hard for you to remember things and won’t yell at you or anything either. However, she will mention that it was your anniversary, or maybe her birthday. For the most part she just wants to spend those days with you, if she can, and will thus remind you. Again, you don’t need to feel ashamed for forgetting, she’ll tell you that it’s quite alright and that you shouldn’t worry. She’s patient like that.

If you have a meltdown in front of her, she definitely would not know what to do at first. Depending on what kind of meltdown it is, she’ll react differently. If it creeps up on you, slowly making you irritated, then she’ll ask you what’s wrong. Regardless of your answer, she’ll ask you how she can help you, if you would like to be left alone or if you would like to take a small break in any way. She gets it and she’ll get you away from whatever is stressing you out so you can slowly recharge. If you really do want to be left alone for a while, she will comply, but will knock on your door to check up on you every once in a while and will bring you some food as well. Farah just wants you to be well, so she’ll take care of you how she thinks might help. Food is always good, food usually helps her, so she hopes it’ll do the same for you as well.

If it’s a sudden meltdown where you don’t know where left and right are anymore, then she’ll get you away from everyone else at first. While she can’t imagine what it’s like for you, it likely isn’t very pleasant for you to be crying and screaming in front of other people. Hoping that you trust her, she’ll try to ground you, asking you how you’re feeling, what you’re feeling and how she could help you. What happened is also another question she would ask you. Again, she won’t really know what to do on her own, but she tries her best. Farah will talk to you in a soothing tone and try to distract you at first so you can calm down a bit. Whether it be cracking a joke or asking you about your top five favorite reptiles. Even if you can’t answer her properly, she’ll just reassure you that it’s okay, that everything is just bad in this moment and that it’ll pass. She’s with you this entire time and won’t leave you unless you want her to. Asks you to breathe a bit with her. In all your time being together, she’s likely learned a breathing technique or two that might help you.

Once your meltdown is over, she’ll be very gentle with you, especially if she can see you’re beating yourself up over it. You really shouldn’t feel ashamed for something that you can’t help, it’s not your fault. If you feel especially down, she’ll give you a kiss on the forehead and get some ice cream with you. Something like a meltdown seems exhausting to her. While she doesn’t want to seem like she’s rewarding you for having a meltdown, she does want you to be kind to yourself afterwards, that’s what the ice cream is for. And if you don’t want ice cream, then some berries, fruits or a small snack will suffice as well. Either way, she’s there for you the entire time until you feel better.

#cod #cod x reader #farah karim #farah karim x reader #I didn't think anyone at all would notice or remember that I'm non binary #I don't really mention that fact as much as other things but it makes me happy that some people do pay attention! #also love bug is a really cute nickname! your friends must be very lucky to have someone like you in their lives! #again I don't have ADHD I only have schizophrenia and there doesn't seem to be too much of an overlap among them #so I really don't know what it's like to live with ADHD but I get the forgetfulness #I have so many reminders on my phone and on small paper notes it's incredible #I also journal every day so I don't forget what I did during the day. that's one of my best habits yet #but yeah I'm also the kind of person who can't remember what they did five minutes ago and it's so very frustrating #sometimes I wanna look something up on google only to forget five seconds later what it was #sometimes retracing my steps helps me remember but not always unfortunately it's very annoying #but we are just so very strong for living with our mental illnesses!! #being mentally ill is exhausting and I can't think of any positives either #I know it may seem hard at times but it's important to be patient with oneself. I learned that the hard way #so please do be kind to yourself anon! you deserve it! you seem like such a nice person!

[uncanny-tranny]

"A moment on the lips, a lifetime on the hips" being said like that's a bad thing. How beautiful is it that the memories and experiences my body has gone through will be etched into me, even if temporary, even if it isn't "flattering"? Why would I want to be alive if it meant that I am not permitted to live? And why should I avoid myself like I am a sin, like I am a curse, worse than death and pain?

I will envelop myself in layers of care and love, even if it means that I am slightly different. I will continue to do so even if I am alone. I have survived long enough. I will rest now, I will find peace.

#mental health #mental health advocacy #recovery #body shaming #body shaming tw #fatphobia tw #disordered eating tw #disordered eating mention tw #i swear i will fucking hunt whomever came up with that phrase #pleasure can be temporary without it being cast as sinful and shameful. the temporary is just as important as the permanent <3 #like... wow i kept a small frame throughout my life but at what cost. why would i torture myself with that #i will do what is best for *me* and not society actually. maybe i'm selfish when i say i wanna *live* #because i have survived without living long enough and i deserve to rest #(and you do too. you have endured and survived long enough. let your weary bones rest for once)

[bearotonin-international]

Calico and her favorite tree

#live your beast life calico #you deserve it #moon bear #we meant to tag this as #live your best life calico #but calico is also a beast #(a marvelous and beautiful beast) #so she is by nature living her beast life #oh autocorrect

[starleska]

This is so random but what about the reader accidentally got hit by a potion or something and then they suddenly have cat ears, cat tail, and can purr and act like a cat😭The neighborhood folks are all shocked and some (julie😭) thinks the reader is so cute like this. But reader is so embarrassed by this that they try to hide it from Wally. But of course Wally suddenly finds them and he of course finds out. How would he react to his reader being like that?👀👀

anon, please know i love you so much and this ask made me have a sweet little giggle-fit 😂💖 i think your catification fantasy is absolutely adorable, and you should run wild with it!! i'm afraid i won't be filling this one out, as it's not quite up my alley. however, don't be disheartened - you should be the brave soul to take up the mantle and write a Wally Darling x Cat!Reader which rocks the very foundations of self-indulgence!! thank you so much for sending this in, and for making me smile. best of luck, and i look forward to reading it 😉

#you deserve the world anon. go live your best catperson life with our favourite silly puppet man #wally darling #wally darling x reader #welcome home #welcome home arg #starleskasks

[star-scrambled]

hey this goes without saying but unironically dni if you hate paani octonauts. like actually.

#i don’t usually do things like this buuuuut the way people talk about him sometimes is. weird. and i don’t like it #i’m at least happy to know that most people who dislike him keep that stuff in private circles and not tagged in public #but honestly still. at this point i’m blocking because all of you act the same #also there’s a difference between ‘he’s not my fav personally’ and ‘i want him to die he deserves it’ #you just hate to see a silly monkey man living his best life!!!!!! #also the argument most times is that he’s a kwazii replacement #and yeah i mainly understood that because of the way A&B S1 was #but if you still believe that and blame it on him as a character and STILL like my kwazini art. I just don’t like you! #that’s all sorry for ranting I just can’t do this anymore #you can have your opinions but personally the paani hate gets gross and weird really fast and i’m sick of seeing it #yall don’t deserve my art of him if you simultaneously wish the worst on him

[startanewdream]

Sometimes I wonder if Dumbledore hired Lupin before or after finding out that Sirius had escaped out of Azkaban.

#who am i kidding #it was after #he probably played all the guilty cards to trap Remus into accepting it #in one hand Remus probably knew Sirius better than anyone else #in another hey why don't you come back to the school where you lived your best years #face the spitting image of your dead best friend that you ignored all these years #while trying to deal with the fact your other best friend is after this kid #but don't worry we are just going to post dementors around here #oh and that problem you have #don't worry someone that hates you and tried to out you before #will take care of your potion :) #it's not like he still holds a grudge or anything :) #anti-dumbledore #Remus deserves better #Remus Lupin

[thisismyshow111]

A lazy day in my life

I’m writing this not only to inspire myself to keep going but others who may need help with their routine. This is a lazy day in my life!

Wake up

Breakfast

Study

10 min Pilates and 5 min cardio

Baked matcha cookies

Lunch/ dinner

Studied some more

Free time

Read/ watch Netflix and had a cookie

Get ready for bed

Skincare + nails

Tick of day in calendar, write in diary and plan the next day

Read a chapter

Beauty sleep

Reminder to take things slow whenever you need to! I’m still 100% working on my routine to be more productive and maybe I’ll post some more!

#blair waldorf #get what you deserve #feminine energy #self esteem #sunday reset #self care routine #routine #skincare routine #tips and tricks #pink pilates princess #pintrest #loa tumblr #new year new me #glow up #level up journey #ideal self #itgirl #it girl #best version of yourself #live your own life #pink pilates girl #pink blog #affrimations #self care #dream girl #live your dreams #divine feminine #fitness blog #girlblogger #life goals

[accio-victuuri]

so many xiao zhan sightings 🥹🥹🥹🥹 gege please share some photos.

#xiao zhan #he is living his best life visiting museums in paris #take your time please cause you deserve this vacation ☺️☺️☺️ #so happy he gets to visit the louvre ~

[cbrosa-archived]

hating the girlfriend of your fave male celebrity crush won't make him love you back. never ever.

heal from your parasocial disease mindset, get your head out of your weirdo asses and unlearn your self-internalized misogyny.

#i started noticing the increasing ratio of hate liv pollock aka dacre's model girlfriend is getting #wtf #besides stunning and chill living her best life she IS minding her own business #let her make dacre happy have and cook ffs get some mental help #dacre wouldn't love you matter of fact he'd get annoyed yall #he wont date your rancid insecure asses #personal #dacre montgomery #dacre montgomery deserves better #liv pollock #bill skarsgård #alida morberg #yikes..

[todayisafridaynight]

yakuza characters who only appear in one game and then never show up again my beloveds youre too good for this franchise

#snap chats #nishitani / yayoi / kaoru / *ryuji / mine / rikiya / tanimura / shinada my beloveds #*i AM counting ryuji cause Sue Me #you were all too good for this series #i miss you all every day of my life #still pissed about antagonists dying like #i hate how the game's like 'you can always start your life over and improve yourself' and then kill mfers before they get the chance to #on the one hand i do love the tragedy but also ENOUUUGHHH PLEAASE i just wanna see them happy :(((((( #kaoru and yayoi dippin from teh franchise before theyre like. Killed Probably is for the best though #queens deserve to live their best lives doing their own thing

[keii]

Bellamy in the goblin camp is my favorite version of him so far, I love choosing options that supports him being a fucking menace LOL

#also threatened the lil goblin girl... #encouraging everyone to drink more... #also boo'd who's that guy... volo?? LMAOO I BOOED HIM OFF THE STAGE LOOL #I LOVE BEING MEAN AND DOMINATING AHHH #he's a cleric but... that man lived off the streets!!! #THAT LIL GOBLIN ASKING HOW IT FELT HAVING THE OTHER ONE KISS MY FEET??? ALL THOSE FUCKING CHOICES ARE MAKING ME SCREAM AHH #BELLAMY'S FACE MY GOD WHY IS HE GRINNING LIKE THAT #THAT FREAK!!! LOOOL #you aren't going into heaven bell... like... no matter how many prayers u send... #not me choosing the option to kick the corpse and then asking what did he do to deserve that #and then afterwards telling the kid that it's deserved that his parents are dead LMFAOOO #when lae'zel told me not grovel at the feet of that goblin... yes my queen... #i won't let him disrespect my name and your choice to follow me!!! #so far astarion likes me the best surprise surprise... bc i'm mean #but also want lae'zel to like me more AHHH #bellamy #bg3

[caffeinatedopossum]

I just heard someone say that getting married is the hardest thing they've ever done.

I'm sorry but if getting married is the hardest thing you've ever had to do, I don't think I can talk to you. That's fine, that's totally okay if that's hard for you. I just need a long moment of silence for my misjudgment of the average amount of suffering that any given human experiences.

#and obviously theres shit like forced marriage and things #however #if you are choosing who to marry of your own volition. that shit should be easy #i cant even count with all of my fingers and toes the number of things that have been harder for me than getting married #for one. the reason im not yet legally married which is that im disabled and im in a very intenese match of Do I Deserve Rights #with the government #after that weve got recovering from an ed. not sure how im managing that. plus i couldve easily died #you know from malnutrition. not only from me starving myself but also due to severe malnutrition in my entire childhood #due to neglect and abuse. its tge reason i never grew properly. i have a hole in my jaw. its also why my jaw is underdeveloped #ive got severe insomnia and anxiety to the point that i wont sleep for days without strong meds #and cant really leave my house alone #i lived through untreated hypothermia and likely heat stroke as well and those were both MUCH harder than getting married #i experienced child labor and escaped what was probably a cult given that i had to run away to an undisclosed location #cut off contact with everyone i knew from it and remain anonymous #i ran away from home because of the abuse and when the cops were called on me i had to sit thete #with a straight face and listen to social workers and authorities tell me that what i was calling abuse was ok and that i had to go back #i had to fight for an education that i never really got. same for medical care including emergency medical care #anyway point being i will be very relieved to spend the rest of my life with my favorite person after all of that #there are no regrets or uncertainties about that. my life is the best its ever been and she only makes it better