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#you know when u finish smth but it affects u so much u cant move on immediately to smth else
aandriskobold · 3 years
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nothing is physically stopping me from just rereading gideon the ninth....
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rfadaydreaming · 3 years
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Oooh! I have something. Its more of a personal thing, but u said thats cool so..
I have adhd and it can make projects/certain classes verrrry difficult sometimes, very very stressful too. And i dont handle that kind of stress well -- i freeze up and it feels like i can do nothing but procrastinate, and so while it looks like im being lazy and relaxed, im internally panicking, bordering on anxiety/panic attacks sometimes, knowing that i need to finish an assignment but also not being able to move, to start it, to do anything
However i feel saeyoung would actually be pretty good at helping out with this, at listening when i need to ramble, and providing physical comfort when i need it (aka all the time xhvsjsvsjba ok jk not really but still lolol) or verbal comfort-- maybe even advice, maybe not, but i have other sources for that so its not the end of the world. What i dont have is someone who can be there for me physically (pls someone hug me 🥺), or someone who's reliable with reward systems (which i find works pretty well for me when its someone else holding the reward; i cant yet be trusted not to alter the requirements/reward myself early lolol). And i think seven would be pretty good at sticking to those "requirements" (ex: finish two paragraphs, get a reward) and not giving the reward early (fine, okay, you did one paragraph, i'll give it to ya), even if i beg lolol, which isnt really soemthing i would do, but still. The exception is if im having a really hard time and need that smaller requirement, even if that means the reward is smaller too
And this isnt just because i like seven lolol; i really like saeran too, but i dont think he would be able to handle it as well as saeyoung, at least not for what i need. Based on Saeyoung's personality and whatnot, ive reached these assumptions :3
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omg i think i’ve seen you around on charlie’s blog hihi hello 417 !! i think you’re the same one :0 BUT YESYESYES personal comfort hcs make my brain go all sparkly i really love them hehe, like they’re just so comforting to have i feel n special!! and as a writer it’s good to see what kind of things people gravitate towards for comfort because i’m like ooh i can add that into my writing mayb!! :0
seven totally would be the best helper for you!! the kind of personality he has would be so much easier on you too i feel? like he’s just so good at making people feel so relaxed and carefree around him!! he’d help you out with your classes when you feel you just can’t focus on them or you’re running further behind than you had planned, the reward system definitely would be his strong-suit!! he’d use your favorite snacks or kisses as the rewards hehe, so like each page you finish of your assignment you get one bag of honey buddha chips or smth OOR you finish your work early and he rewards you with kisses for every minute you spared before it was actually due... imagine you get all your work done a whole hour early one day and he’s like 😳👉🏻👈🏻
yeah i agree saeran definitely would have a little bit of a harder time, i feel like he’d still be similar to seven, a little more serious about it though, but they’d both use a lot of touch as a part of the reward system omg you’d be showered with hugs and affection the second you finish your assignments n they tell you how proud they are of you 🥺💖
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