In case nobody made you believe you’re special // I’m so glad that you’re still with us (special - lizzo)
If you needed to be reminded today, this is for you 💗 prints etc
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Sometimes in life we have to come to terms with the fact that not everyone we care about is able to care about us in the way that we NEED them to.
It’s okay to let go of friendships and people that make us feel bad, even if you love them.
It’s okay to feel sad that you’re losing someone you love and care about but you HAVE to put yourself first. If not you’re going to continually get hurt and live in a cycle of heartbreak.
People change. Friendships change.
Ultimately you deserve better and there will be many people throughout your life that will show you that you are able to be loved and cared for the way you deserve.
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Making life better for her..
Doing all I can to fix the past
Hoping these thoughts shoot over and pass
When I speak, I’m speaking about her too
Young me, current me, and future me
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We can’t change the past or what gets done to us, but we can learn and get better as we grow through life
Our time to change and adapt is forever as long as we live. None of us are done learning about anything, including ourselves
Take the time to reach into yourself and have a moment if you can. Reflect and set goals for yourself🌼
This is a reminder not only to myself but to anyone who may need it.. as always I may not be the best with my words, but I’m always trying my best
A human Bean ~
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I wanted to say that I just read your last Dean one-shot and it's written so good!
I wanted to thank you because, even if it seems stupid, it opened my eyes, literally.
After I've read it I went to see myself in the mirror, and I noticed one thing: I'm not my body.
I'm my mascara, I'm my favourite dress, I'm my glasses, I'm my un-matched socks, I'm my favourite book,I'm the supernatural episode I watch every night, I'm my makeup, I'm my drawings.
Not my thighs, my stomach or my skin, and it doesn't matter if my thighs touch or not, if my stomach isn't flat, if my skin isn't clear, if I have body hair.
I'm the things I like, not my looks.
So thank you, thank you, thank you because you made me realize this 💕
dude i literally just woke up and this message made me cry 🩷🩷🩷🩷 you’re absolutely right. you’re not your looks, there is so much more to a person than that. for what it’s worth, you sound so cool hahah. you’re beautiful inside and out and all those little details about yourself are worth a thousand words, all the film camera in the world. treat yourself and your body with kindness because you only get one. i love you sm anon. you’re beautiful <3 (and dean would think so too)
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for anybody who needs a reminder ❤️
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Hey. Your New Years resolutions don’t need to be huge btw. They can be “small.” You don’t need to put any pressure on yourself to achieve some huge goal. If you enjoy that, go ahead! Good for you tbh. But if you’re anything like me and the fear of disappointment and failure looms in the back of your mind 24/7 you don’t need to set a large goal. There are no rules. One of my resolutions is to take more pictures with my friends! It can be that simple! don’t be so hard on yourself. It’s okay to just exist without the crushing weight of expectations.
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One thing I realised that became a constant reoccurrence in my life was the fact that I was never chosen by anyone. That if someone had two options in front of them, I was never one of them even when I thought I was. I think that’s what messed with me the most going through therapy to find my own closure from my traumas. I thought I was an option. A choice to be made. Pick me. Pick me. I’m waiting. That should be proof enough of how much wrong people had caused towards me. I’m NEVER an option. You are NEVER an option. If someone treats you like an option when it comes to loving you, they don’t love you at all. Love is NOT a choice.
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what's so clever about Clara Bow is that when she references her own name at the end, she's not talking about the present but the future, quoting the inevitable way people are going to one day talk about her, imagining it will only be in regards to the woma(e)n who surpass her. because there will be someone who surpasses her, eventually. that's the cycle of fame, isn't it? we're simultaneously captivated by the alluring trick of the past while looking for the next big thing. we compare current stars to the lights that shined before them, "you look like taylor swift." but we're also constantly waiting for someone new and greater to take the crown and captivate us anew, "you've got edge she never did." And half the song is about acknowledging that being revered is hell on earth for the people who are in it, because you're always trapped between what came before and what will come after. you're only safe insofar as you remain shiny. But the real beauty of the song is that it never succumbs to this dichotomy, but embraces it. It's Taylor acknowledging she wouldn't be who she is were it not for the women who came before her, who shared the same dreams, and recognizing her place in the chain of the women who will come after. The future's bright, dazzling.
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