It's okay to...
Ask for help
Ask questions to gain clarity
To tell someone when they've inconvenienced you
Apologize when you've messed up
Appreciate grand gestures
Call to cancel plans you have once agreed to
Travel alone
Shop for yourself without making purchases for others
Decline offers you feel are beneath your standards
End a conversation when you're bored of it
Invite a small group of people you trust over to your sacred spaces
Observe in conversation instead of leading it every time
Respond with, "I don't know," or, "I'm not sure," when you aren't confident in an answer
Take great care of yourself before you take care of your friends and relatives
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Just saw a sonogram post from a girl I went to high school with, she’s only 19 or 20 and already “starting a family.” I don’t know this girl very well and assume she’s probably getting support from her family, and her boyfriend seems supportive, but I still feel sad knowing that her priority for the next 18-ish years will be a child she created when she was barely out of high school, instead of spending her 20s focusing on herself and her friends, studying and figuring out her life.
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I mentioned this in tags, but Sagepool got pregnant very close to the time she became a warrior.
1) Cats are typically made warriors at 12 moons, so she was about 12 or 13 moons old when she became expecting.
2) Cat pregnancies last for two moons, making her either 14 or 15 when Mosskit was born
3) Mosskit was <1 moon old when he died.
4) Sagepool likely died either two or three moons after his death.
This makes her between 17 or 18 when she died, or even still 16 if Mosskit died at a few days old, which is most likely.
Poor girl
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Find it on Etsy: https://www.etsy.com/listing/1394019172/
Happy baby, happy mommy! Vintage snapshot photo of a pretty young woman with pin curls holding a baby up on a kitchen table.
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Mommy episodes part 15. (Part 1)
Let’s talk supporting a friend who is also pregnant.
If I have to be completely honest, those friends who know about my pregnancy journey know that I was 100% honest about the experience. When I was pregnant, my emotions were switching up from being annoyed by the morning (all day) sickness, the excitement of feeling my baby kick , being sad because I was unable to sleep on my stomach, excited for scans, waiting to pop, giving birth trauma, struggling with the sleeping patterns of a newborn, in love with the feeling of breastfeeding… the list goes on
I’ve always wanted a friend I can actually “relate” to, and by that I mean having a friend who’s also a mommy. Just recently , a good friend of mine told me that she’s expecting . Honestly, I’m happy for her! Having a baby is amazing. The pro’s of having a baby conquer the cons. Let’s look at the cons:
•constant morning sickness
•being tired 24/7
•being unable to sleep on your stomach
•peeing 25/8
•Always hungry
•Too sensitive. Crying for literally everything
•my feet hurt, my back hurts, my favourite mini skirt doesn’t fit me anymore
Now, let’s look at the pros
•I have a tiny little human growing inside of me
•I get to see my baby’s growth
• baby kicks 🥰🥰🥰
•cute baby clothes
•hearing your babies heartbeat 💓
•breastfeeding connection
•cute baby faces
•seeing your baby smile for the first time
•hearing your babies first laugh
•my baby can finally sit up!
•seeing my babies different personalities
•baby tries solids for the first time
•first time trying lemon 🍋 faces
•bath time bonds
•baby walks for the first time
….the list goes on
The best thing you can do for a friend who is expecting, is to offer emotional support.
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How do you have a child that's older than you
Hanahaki anon
In a group like this, anything is possible. I also need to make it clear that you and Zuha are not related, incest is not one of the things possible in this family.
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Santa María, Madre de la Esperanza, ruega por nosotros.
Dios te salve, María. Llena eres de gracia. El Señor es contigo. Bendita tú eres entre todas las mujeres. Y bendito es el fruto de tu vientre, Jesús. Santa María, Madre de Dios, ruega por nosotros, pecadores, ahora y en la hora de nuestra muerte. Amén.
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9:44 PM EDT April 16, 2024:
Curved Air - "Young Mother"
From the album Second Album
(September 1971)
Last song scrobbled from iTunes at Last.fm
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