I've been gone for so long that I'll wait into tomorrow to come back officially. Hope you all had a nice christmas and happy new decade 💖🎉

Happy new yeehaw post

okay so like

i have WAY too many mutuals to genuinely post like

WAY TOO MANY

and i dont want to forget people and have them be salty at me

so imma just say

@ YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE MY BELOVED MOOTS... EVERYONE IVE TALKED TO THIS YEAR AND BEYOND (Hope you’ve only had this tumblr for a year-) I HOPE YOU HAVE A LOVELY NEW YEAR BECAUSE YOU DE S ER V E IT

and just some generic things imma say

DO WHAT YOU LOVE

CUT OUT TOXIC PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE

BE YOURSELF

LOVE YOURSELF

ALLOW ROOM TO GROW

YOU AREN’T ALONE

SOMETIMES HARD WORK DOESN’T PAY OFF AND THAT’S OKAY!!!

TAKE YOUR MEDS!!

DRINK WATER AND EAT!!!

HANG OUT WITH FRIENDS!

BATTLE YOUR INNER DEMONS LITTLE BY LITTLE, I PROMISE IT HELPS

BE CREATIVE FOR YOURSELF NOT FOR OTHERS

REMEMBER THAT THE MOST IMPORTANT PERSON TO TAKE CARE OF IS YOURSELF (but dont take this too far and become vain/self-centred please)

YOU CAN DO THIS

and also follow me and reblog my writing thats very important

okay that last one was a joke to lighten the mood but the point is i love you all and have a happy new year~~

happy early new year from your local trainwreck ♡

2019 has been a long ass year that i'd rather not relive. it's been a year of stagnation and self-imposed suffering. i've been holding myself to incredibly high standards that i was able to meet for a while, but that inevitably started breaking me up.

i'm done limiting myself. i'm done with living on autopilot. 2020 is going to be a year of freedom, a year of allowing myself to enjoy life free from rules. it's going to be a year of unfiltered self expression, a year of fuelling my mind and body with positivity. this is the year that i'm going to break my destructive ways down and build myself back up from the ground. the year that i'll work on becoming less of who i thought i should be and more of who i actually am, the year of growth, the year of self-acceptance.

2020 will be good ♡

Are we allowed to make pms-fueled depressive posts on this blessed night?

THINGS I CARED ABOUT IN 2019: 1/1 • kelli o'hara

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"If a woman has choices and she doesn't have to conform, there's power in that. Now that I'm graduating from the love interest or the 'desirable' roles, I wonder: where do I fall? I'm a woman, a friend, mother, wife. I'm a person. I fall in the space of humanity. There are so many stories to be told, and I have things to say."

[2018 | 2017 | 2016 | 2015 | 2014]

made a realization today

Tanner Pearson Mic'd Up vs. Kings (Dec. 28, 2019)

bring friends with straightgirls and listening to them talk about boys is like

the one i was yelling at bc her shitty-bordering-abusive-ex texted her like ~look how well I'm doing now and also with a new girl~ and I'm like

First Of All you shouldn't even still have his number

and SECOND: don't fucking engage with that. *don't* tell him about your own new boyfriend because he won't care that he goes to princeton for engineering. because he doesn't care about you! so there's no way to 'win' that conversation! delete his number!

and then the other girl's like 'i like this guy and i think he likes me back. I was going to see him at the game this week but my friends say i should wait until new year's but what if he forgets about me-'

If he forgets about you in a week and a half, he had the object permanence of a baby. You don't want him.

Can we discuss this for a minute?

none of this is a vague btw the timing is coincidental i promise

oded fehr don't drive into a swarm of zombies and blow urself up ur so sexy aha

It will always be weird to see an ex with a new gf.

Where’s that man, swearing with tears in his eyes, that he would never, ever love another woman again? Where’s that man who kept saying you were his last hope for his unbroken, lonely, misunderstood heart?

It takes 4 months. Only 4 months.

​Promises of love make me sick.

brie larson ma’am u have not posted an instagram cover in a while may i please have another

Quinn Hughes with little taps for Alex Edler coming onto the bench (Dec. 29, 2019)

Is there ever a day where you wake up and just think, god, I need to get laid right now? Because that’s where I’m at this morning. That’s not the point of this post, though. The main point is to let you guys know that I’m throwing a party tonight and also a New Years party. I’ll provide everything besides some of the booze and that’s where you bring your own if there’s something specific you’d like.  The party tonight though, just come. I’ll provide everything and it starts at 7.  There will  be all of the baked goods, even special ones. You’re welcome.

There were 73 Hunger Games before the first film/book. Can someone explain to me why we haven't gotten a quasi-anthology Netflix show that features one arena per season?

Song of the Day

At The Wheel by Colorblind

For fans of Picturesque