my posts dont show up in the tags so im trying to stay silly | Fritz/Stamps/Persnickety/Eric/Dense | he/cat based neos/it/rec/avi | transman [+ assorted xenos] cupioromantic demisexual mlm/gay | diagnosed with depression and anxiety, self diagnosed with adhd and autism | est time zone | furry | adult? [2006] | spam liking is ok and encouraged | here's my discord if yall want it: ThatDenseIdiot#4112 | header by papier-ciseaux
Image Description: The "I bring a sort of X vibe to X that X don't really like" edited to say "I bring a sort of all these rules are made up vibe to sexuality and gender that exclusionists don't really like"
being a fan of a character is sometimes “look at how complex he is. he’s so intricate and his story is so tragic and he’s so much more complicated than people give him credit for” and sometimes it’s like “haha look at this failure of a person. I wanna throw him off a cliff and see what happens”
Sometimes you can’t do everything you want to do. Sometimes you can’t accomplish the things you want because of your disability. Sometimes this might mean not getting to follow the career path of your dreams, or maybe giving up a hobby.
Society likes to push a “you can do anything you put your mind to” message on everyone.
But the truth is, sometimes we can’t. And while I’m not saying not to try, I’m saying please go easy yourself. Give yourself some compassion and don’t be so hard on yourself when you struggle. And if you end up having to accept you can’t do something, please know this doesn’t impact your value. It doesn’t impact your worth.
And it’s okay to grieve the things you have to miss out on.
if i ever interacted with you and it was awkward just know im sorry and painfully aware that sometimes i come off like a person who is having the first conversation of their life
I'd already be pissed about getting trapped in a time loop with someone who keeps murdering me (don't like being murdered, there are movies coming out in the next few weeks that I wanna see). But I'd be MORE pissed if the murderer and I didn't get weirdly sexy with it in ANY loop