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there's an end to the loneliness, right? it ends, eventually? and i'll be finally whole inside?

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another car opinion is that they shouldn't have touch screens

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I’m not anti porn or whatever but I just want y’all to know sex is of the devil and so is the moving picture

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"redemption arcs are toxic, you shouldn't try to fix someone!"

actually it is so important to me that being in community and experiencing human connection can save people. thanks

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*Stares directly into the camera*

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the heartache of being aroace is so crushing. i was born to love fiercely and all encompassing. i want to cook for you. i want to take you on picnics. i want to take care of you when you’re sick. i want to sit in silence with you. i want to share my life with you.

but no, i don’t want to kiss you. i don’t want to have sex. i don’t even really like holding hands. i’m sorry. i know its not enough. i’m sorry i’m not more.

please let me love you anyways.

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What is going on on tumblr - banned porn - dot com

#feminism #tumblr #porn bots

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so sick of this backtracking of feminism being led by OTHER WOMEN. these (wealthy conventionally attractive white) women are sending us back to the stone ages as a ‘lifestyle trend’ because nothing is at stake for them like ok. you gave up and decided to be some sugar daddys tradwife. fine whatever. KEEP THAT SHIT TO YOURSELF. you actually loooooove makeup and shaving and cooking for your husband with ribbons in your hair and your dream has always been to be a stay at home mom who makes organic granola. nothing wrong with that fundamentally but keep it to your fucking self!!!!!!!! stop imposing it like this is a base level of womanhood stop promoting it as the ideal lifestyle for other women stop letting the patriarchy use you as an example as to why women should be and are actually happy in the stereotypical roles theyve been cornered into for centuries. fuck OFF.

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im like always resisting the urge in conversation to go "can you perceive me? are you perceiving me? do i feel like a real person to you? am i fully a person? what does it feel like to talk to me? how do you think about my place in your interpretation of the world? what do i mean to you? do i seem put together? do i seem like i know what im doing? do i seem competent? what is the version of me inside your head like?"

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Sometimes I forget that saying a character is "hot" or "sexy" implies that you want to fuck them, so please know that when I, an asexual, call a character either of those things, it is for one of two reasons:

1: Aesthetically gorgeous and makes me brain go fuzzy because ✨p r e t t y✨

2: Because it would be the funniest thing to say in the context of the situation. Comedic effect

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I love you albums. I love you songs connected by similar themes. I love you listening to songs in a specific order picked by the artist. I love you reoccurring motifs throughout the same album. I love you album covers. I love you albums with extended editions. I love you songs that reference each other.

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Of course i want aro/ace representation, sure. But even more than that i want representation of single people in their 40s/50s+ living fulfilling, happy lives full of love, that are not defined by their lack of romantic or sexual partners. I want role models that i can build my life after without feeling like i am missing out on an essential part of life. I want to feel like i have a future worth living for

#what i'm struggling with is not my lack of sexual or romantic attraction #its the thought that i one day will be that person single at 40 #and while that thought alone isn't scary to me #it's what society sees single in older singles that scares me #i don't want to be the odd one out all my life #i know i can be happy and fulfilled being on my own #but i want everyone else around me seeing that as well #mine #bandlist #personal #asexuality #aromantic #aromantism #aroace

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I loved seeing them live so so much it was such a good night however i am also a little bit disappointed bc they didn't seem to be in the best mood, matty was pretty quiet and didn't have as much energy as i saw him have on other nights and the setlist was a bit meh

I can't believe I'm seeing The 1975 live in March for the first time. I loved their music ever since i was 14 and i still do which is crazy and also the longest time i could stand any bamd ever ahhhhhh everytime i hear any of their songs now i think aaaa this is hoing to be incredible live, i'm so hyped, sorry

#i said before i won't care what they play because i love all their songs #but i did care haha #would have loved to get chocolate or girls #or you or me #or the sound #or literally anything instead of be my mistake and frail state of mind #although i do love those songs too

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Me literally anytime I go on Ao3