the simplest of phrases / actions that would make carer me melt
and realize how much i adore being a carer 𖥔 ˑ ִ ֗ ִ
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꒰ 🌲 ꒱ “thank you, bubba.” or “ ‘ove you, mama.”
꒰ 🍵 ꒱ “are ‘ou okay, bubba?” or “just checkin in, mama.”
꒰ 📚 ꒱ “ ‘ou are so nice.” or “you the best.”
꒰ 🧚♂️ ꒱ shy smiles ,, the instantly make me want to sob in a good way :’)
꒰ 🌲 ꒱ getting artwork ,, “drew this for you, bubba.”
꒰ 🍵 ꒱ them taking care of you ,, trying to be a ‘big kid’ if you don’t feel well or something >_<
꒰ 📚 ꒱ curious lil babs ,, playing with their fingers or ends of their shirt *sobs*
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phrases that would make regressed me melt and make me
realize how starved i am of emotional affection 𖥔 ˑ ִ ֗ ִ
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꒰ 🍵 ꒱ “it’s okay, little one.” or “you’re okay, sweetheart.”
꒰ 🌿 ꒱ “don’t worry, bub. i’m not mad, yeah?”
꒰ 🍓 ꒱ “you mean a lot to me.” or “i take care of you because i want to, petal.”
꒰ 🧺 ꒱ “my baby..” or “my little one.”
꒰ 🍵 ꒱ “you did so good, good job!” or “i’m so proud of you, kiddo.”
꒰ 🌿 ꒱ “i’ve got you.” or “i’m here, little one.”
꒰ 🍓 ꒱ “i know how hard you try, bub.” or “you are so much more than you think, dove.”
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| lil one has bad thoughts |
** impure regression / light intrusive thoughts
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the caregiver and little one were laying on the couch watching some shows, the little one was in their caregivers lap while slowly loosing focus in the show and turning to their-
“bubba.” they spoke softly.
the caregiver turned to the little one, they hadn’t been regressed before the show started, something must’ve made them slip.
“hm?” that say back softly, stroking the others hair.
it took the other a minute before being able to speak, they looked as if it was almost hard to speak- not a very good sign to the caregiver.
“i’s.. i’s got the bad feelings again.” the little one than whispered, looking down to play with their fingers, as if they were lost in thoughts- exactly what they were.
that happened from time to time, the bad feelings were bad thoughts that the little one couldn’t always get rid of. making them think uncomfortable things, dangerous things, all of the above. it scared the caregiver time from time, not always understanding how to deal with the situation but when their heart broke a bit hearing their baby’s voice break like that- they did what they knew.
the little one was already in their lap facing away from them so they just brought their own hands out and laid them gently on the others, just soothing the tense skin- ready to soothe any clenched fingers or fists if needed.
the caregiver didn’t make a big deal, just softly rubbing down their little ones arms and humming quietly in their ear.
“do you wanna tell bubba what the thoughts are saying?” the wonder quietlyc, sometimes it wa stood for the little one to talk about the thoughts but other times, distractions were enough.
“nuh-uh.” they shook their head miserably, not liking the mean thoughts- it broke the caregivers heart.
“okay, that’s okay. would you like bubba to keep talking or to just keep doing what we’re doing now?” the caregiver asks softly, once more. still gently rubbing the skin of their arms, settling their worried body,
the little one mumbled back, “ ‘alk?”
the caregiver hummed and took a moment to think of some things to say-
“hm, you did such a good job with helping me clean up earlier, bub. and those pictures you colored afterwards were so nice, don’t you think so?” they say gently, the other did do such a good job helping them- cleaning up even if they were a bit clumsy and unorganized.
the little one just hummed, deciding to lean their heavy feeling head down back onto their caregivers shoulder, eyes still open and focused on the tv but not really focused. just set on something.
“which one was your favorite to color, sweetheart?” the caregiver asked softly, thinking that maybe asking the little one some questions would keep their mind off of the bad thoughts they were having.
“.. ‘doggie.” their baby mumbled, making the caregivers heart swell.
“the doggie? yeah, I like that one too. I can’t tell from here, did you use your crayons or colored pencils?” more meaningless but helpful questions.
“ crayons, ‘ubba.” the little one said almost sleepily.
“ah, the crayons are your favorite, aren’t they?” the caregiver smiled.
the other didn’t respond, just signed a heartbreaking breath.
this is how it would go, the caregiver would do their best to distract their baby from the mean thoughts and even if it helped- it didn’t mean the whole ordeal still didn’t tire the little one out and make them emotionally exhausted.
“ ‘don like these feelings, bubba.” the mutter, snuggling closer to their bubba.
“I know, petal. I wish I could make them go away.”
the thoughts would eventually go away, so would the sad sighs and tense skin but for now- the two were okay with the circumstances. they would ride out the annoying thoughts and eat some yummy snacks once they were calmed down.
the little one knew they were safe with their bubba, at least.
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— how to keep lil me regressed 𖥔 ˑ ִ ֗ ִ
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꒰ 🐾 ꒱ call me pet names pls ,, kiddo / bub / sweetheart / petal / little one / etc
꒰ 🥛 ꒱ make sure i don’t get distracted ,, gimme lil task to do like brushing my teeth, grabbing water, etc
꒰ ☕️ ꒱ check in! ask how i am, how tiny i’m feeling, if i need anything- if I need help, etc.
꒰ 💭 ꒱ refer to yourself in third person
꒰ 🐾 ꒱ praise me and cherish me ! even if I do something lil like brushing my teeth, praise is really nice
꒰ 🥛 ꒱ *whispers* call me kiddo >_<
꒰ ☕️ ꒱ feed me snacks ,, gimme juice
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— some things to say / to do for your lil one 𖥔 ˑ ִ ֗ ִ
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꒰ ☁️ ꒱ “i’m proud of you” ,, “good job, you did so good”
꒰ 📚 ꒱ remind them that you take care of them because you like too, remind them that you genuinely enjoy caring for them !
꒰ 🌿 ꒱ make them cute lil snacks / give them cute snack ideas ,, some lil ones find this very helpful / nice
꒰ 🕯 ꒱ do their hair / help them pick an outfit
꒰ 🧚♂️ ꒱ help them do some self care / guide them through some self care! like washing their face, brushing teeth, showering! you could give them lil instructions if you are in a ldr
꒰ 🥛 ꒱ “let me do that, kiddo / bub / etc.” or “do you need help?”
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— how to keep your carer in cg space ♡
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꒰ ☕️ ꒱ check in on them! ask them things like “you feeling okay, *cg name*?” or “just checkin’ in, *cg name.” (this is important anyway!)
꒰ 🥛 ꒱ send them cute drawings or letters / paragraphs in your type of baby talk ^^
꒰ 🗝 ꒱ ask them for help with certain things ,, like pouring juice or if you’re ldr - ask them how many sweets you should have or help reading something!
꒰ 🐾 ꒱ tell them how much they mean to you! and how much you appreciate them as your cg <3
꒰ 💭 ꒱ this is like the others but just try and keep them involved, ask for help, make them things, just talk to them- sometimes the simple actions matter much more than bigger actions!
꒰ ☕️ ꒱ introduce them to your stuffies! this one is just really cute and I’m sure your cg would love it.
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— 🧚♂️ agere spring things ˖࣪ ࣪⋆་
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꒰ 🌲 ꒱ listening to the rain while watching your favorite show, feeling so tini <3
꒰ 🍵 ꒱ cute lil sun dresses or long skirts or cute sweaters >_<
꒰ 📚 ꒱ froggie or bunny stuffies, they are needed !
꒰ 🌿 ꒱ having the best time on easter ( if you celebrate! ), painting eggs and greeting so many sweets
꒰ 🪞 ꒱ picking pretty flowers and going on walks to find fun things to collect. even if people tell you that you don’t need them >: |
꒰ 🧚♂️ ꒱ max & ruby while drinking iced tea in a sippy cup :(
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even if it snowed here yesterday >:( I wanted to make this!!
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