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bye bye to this acc for reals now , it was fun :) 

#lotta memories but its time to let this one rest #cabbage.txt #mutuals msg me on discord for the new url if you want it

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made a new tumblr acc, mutuals can dm me here/on discord for the @ 

#cabbage.txt

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this isnt about like actual nazis & shit but can we normalize seeing something problematic & contacting the op about it. not every fuckup is a deliberate act of malice. sometimes people really dont realize theyre doing/drawing/saying something shitty. all the time i see people making callouts & “warning” everyone about people over one unfortunate drawing or a single poor word choice & its like. yeah its shitty and yeah being ignorant isnt an excuse but it isnt that hard to be like “hey this thing was kinda fucked up” before turning it into a public ordeal. & also like its hard to know you fucked up if nobody points it out

like im not trying to make excuses for people, we all need to put in the effort to learn and grow and do better, but some of yall are just so thirsty for drama & it straight up is not productive At All. like that shit is so performative & doesnt accomplish anything useful 

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me_irl

#the timing of this post is despicable

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sometimes in life you just gotta drop everything you were doing to draw Eijiro with a massive croc on his head, and that’s ok

Keep reading

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If you don’t experience delusions and you think it is even close to being your business to decide for delusional people whether or not to recognise their delusions as valid… die

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If you call asexual people broken than the only thing that will be broken is your spine

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Therapist Red Flags

Therapy is important and can be really helpful, but not all therapists are good at their job. Here’s a few things to look out for when you’re seeing a therapist:

Not listening to what you tell them

Ignoring confidentiality (except in emergencies)

Making you feel judged or ashamed

Ignoring or trivialising your needs

Consistently being late

Making fun of your needs / accomplishments

Being judgemental or critical of you

Not taking your feedback on sessions into account

Condescending facial expressions or body language

Ignoring what you want to do / accomplish in therapy

Talking too much about themselves

Making you feel like problems are all your fault

Being insensitive to your culture or religion

They’re making you feel bad about yourself

Using the phone or getting distracted during your sessions

Attempting to make romantic / sexual advances on you

Making you feel stupid or invalid for what you say or how you feel

Forgetting important details about you / your life

Pushing you too hard before you’re ready

You wondering if their behaviour is a red flag. If you’re looking it up then chances are you already feel uncomfortable in therapy. You should never be forced into seeing a therapist who makes you feel uneasy. There’s no shame in leaving and finding a different therapist.

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me: (posts charity)

everyone:

chair

chair

chair

chair

#bless #cabbage.txt

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Hello shut ins, she theys, kpop stans, artists, infamous kinnies, anime dating sim players, egirls, and bisexuals

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Reblog to let your followers know you are a safe person to come out to.

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Asenimo

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me for 1 week after someone tells me i smell good

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chipped

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TODAY, IN RETAIL

next time you can just keep it at “no thanks”

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grr was seing something ab this earlier but its totally valid to draw a transmasc character with a chest as long as ur not fetishizing it and its not like.. all the time. like bro i will draw a transmasc character with a chest as a coping mechanism. also if ur not transmasc its kinda sus but like,, when its all the time its no longer “woke and cool” its “you just see transmascs as this dont you”