valiantlyjollynightmare
valiantlyjollynightmare
A nightmare... that is valiantly jolly :))
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“I’m your knight for tonight’s ball, Princess.”
It’s been a while since I have drawn these two! I love Marichat!
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Phineas and Ferb - Season Four - “My Sweet Ride”
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gordon ramsey: is the food good here?
underpaid server: 
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Guys this is very important
Okay so I’m sure you’ve all heard of the quiet place project. Well if not I am going to tell you because it has stopped me from doing serious damage more than once. 
So part one, you’ve got the comfort spot 
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This gem right here is where you can literally create a 100% anonymous username and just absolutely spill your guts. Then people can read it and give you advice, and it honestly is so helpful. Because the other people on it are in the same situations as you, and they understand. You can comment and give advice on other peoples posts too, and it’s just really great. 
Number 2 is the thoughts room. 
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This little beauty is similar to the comfort spot. Except instead of posting your thoughts, you type them into the box and then when you press enter they disappear and turn into stars against the blue sky. There is a whole bunch of different languages to choose from at the start, so if English is not your first language then you can probably find it here. There is the most comforting music that plays in the background as well, which is so great. 
Next we got the quiet room 
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Which is so good for panic related things because it silences all of your other tabs and when you make it full screen it talks to you very calmly and then literally forces you stop for just 30 seconds and do nothing and just breathe. 
Okay, so this is my actual favourite, it’s called the dawn room
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The dawn room is so great for stopping you from self harming. It begins by telling you that its going to be alright, then it asks you to write something about someone you love. After that messages from other people, just like you, appear on the screen, one after the other, and the background slowly become brighter and happier. This page has genuinely stopped me from hurting myself more times than I can count. I’m not suggesting that it will work for everyone, but it is an absolute gem. 
Finally, there is a page called It will be okay
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This page runs for about 5 minutes, and it is basically a typing simulator that tries to convince you that everything is going to be alright. It is very calming, and good for lonely times.
I can honestly say that this website has done me so so much good. I appreciate it with every bit of my being. 
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“it is amazing how many people view direct communication as an attack.”
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Marichat goes grocery shopping and causing a scene😃
a lil doodle. yeaaa... idk either but enjoy!
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hes not a pet😭
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Adrinette twitter doodle from way back in Feb
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 11 hours ago
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UGH there is NOTHING more frustrating than trying to research ADHD, it’s all “do you interrupt people a lot? do you find it hard to sit still?” and “boys are twice as likely to have ADHD than girls” and “here’s how to deal with your ADHD child” and there’s nothing about adults, nothing about underdiagnosis in women, nothing about RSD, dyscalculia, sensory processing, emotional regulation
i am not a little boy pretending to be an airplane in the back of the classroom. I was never allowed to be, because I was a little girl. i was a little girl who couldn’t sit still but i had to because ladies sit still while the boys shout and fidget in the background. i was a little girl who got left behind when recess ended because i was so engrossed in my small rock garden i didn’t hear the bell; i was a little girl who grew up smart enough to take precalculus, but couldn’t for the life of me remember my times tables; i was a little girl who got so angry and didn’t know how to stop it (“you can control your emotions!” my dad told me; “don’t bottle it up,” my mom said; “scream into a pillow, write it down, take deep breaths” everyone told me, and none of it helped); i was a little girl who lay awake every night terrified i’d forgotten to do something due tomorrow; i was a little girl who couldn’t make friends because socializing was hell because if i made one wrong move, received one negative response, i might as well have set myself on fire; i was a little girl who took pride in being the Weird Girl, because i had to; i was a little girl with adhd 
and now i’m an adult woman with adhd, and i know that because of people on tumblr, not because of the DSM-V. The DSM-V and the CDC tell me little boys have ADHD, not little girls. they tell me if i don’t interrupt people (don’t interrupt people, that’s rude, being rude means hurt hurt hurt because of RSD and nice young ladies aren’t rude anyway) and finish assigned tasks (don’t forget don’t forget don’t forget if you forget they’ll hate you) i don’t have the inattentive component; and they tell me if i can sit still (what kind of organs do snails have, anyway? let’s research that for four hours) and avoid butting into people’s space (don’t be rude, don’t be RUDE) i don’t have the hyperactive component; and they only ever mean to talk to parents of little ADHD boys, and there is nothing, nothing, nothing meant for me.
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 11 hours ago
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 11 hours ago
zutara fandom is such a fucking hypocrite. you all call a native woman who loves her husband, who lives happily with him a trophy wife and a breeding machine, simply because you don't like kataang, despite the fact that in the canon she is still a respected matriarch of the tribe, a healer and trained avatar and has outlawed blood bending. you came up with the trophy wife yourself, but blame it all on bryke. didnt you have a popular headcanon where she has 5 children, abandons her nation to live as the "water tribe ambassador" in the fire nation. yknow because erasing her culture sounds cool i guess
Literally what are you talking about?
Pointing out that Katara is treated, post-atla canon, as Aang’s trophy is not ‘calling a native woman who loves her husband a trophy wife’ because like, I’ve got a newsflash for you, Katara does not exist. And criticizing the way the white men who created her chose to destroy her character in post-canon materials and the sequel show is not the equivalent of being racist or misogynistic--it’s actually calling out the racism and misogyny inherent in her treatment by the show’s creators!
Secondly, I’ve written extensively before about how Katara’s ‘achievements’ post-canon actually aren’t. The show pays minor lipservice to what Katara accomplished, but doesn’t actually show that she did anything worthwhile with her life other than have the Avatar’s children. She ‘outlawed bloodbending’? Sure she did, that’s why she was present at the trial for the most infamous bloodbender in history, right alongside her husband, brother, and friend..... oh wait. She ‘is still a respected matriarch of her tribe’? Sure she is, that’s why she was able to talk sense into her people when they were on the brink of civil war, that’s why people listened when she raised her voice and told them to stop being idiots, that’s why... oh, wait, none of that happened because she stayed in the healing huts the whole time. Oh, but she was ‘a healer’--not just that, but one of the greatest healers who ever lived? Sure! That’s why she was able to heal Korra’s bloodbending related injuries- hm, no, but I’m sure that’s why she was able to heal everyone else when their injuries were revealed to have been caused by bloodbending- no, wait, but I’m POSITIVE it’s why she was able to heal Korra’s injuries when she was recovering from mercury poisoning- wait, she didn’t do that either!
It’s encapsulated pretty neatly by this paragraph:
 [The problem is] that virtually none of these accomplishments matter in the context of LoK. Very little that Katara did during or after the war is so much as referenced, and even the things that are referenced matter very little. Katara never talks about her life except as it pertains to Aang, or her children. She doesn’t get to do anything during the series either, despite there being multiple things that–were it not for her entire personality being vacuumed out with almost surgical precision–she should have done if she were being kept true to character, or if she, like, cared about her family and people at all. (Things like, oh, attending her own granddaughter’s Air Master ceremony, or lifting finger one to save her family when they were in danger, or lifting finger one to step in when her people were getting thrown into a whole ass civil war...... ...)
@araeph‘s Consumed By Destiny series is also relevant here, because it goes into far greater detail about Katara’s utter lack of a character in LoK and the comics, especially as compared with her character in the original show.
As for my ‘popular headcanon’, I do indeed headcanon Zuko and Katara as having five children (though my conceptualization of their family will be different from others, everyone has their own hcs about the steam family and that’s so sexy of us), which should probably be the point where you realize that Katara having three kids with Aang is not what I have a problem with lmfao. But where the hell do you get ‘abandons her nation’ and ‘erasing her culture’ from ‘Water Tribe ambassador’???? Literally where????? The entire point of Katara being ambassador to the Fire Nation is to represent her culture in global matters of state. It’s so that she can be the voice for her people on the world stage, ensuring that their wants and needs are heard and fulfilled as the world moves forward and the nations grow together. It’s literally the complete opposite of ‘abandoning’ her nation, her people, or her culture, because everything about who they are and who she is will be everpresent in her life (and her husband’s life) because she’s thinking about them and acting for them in everything she does politically.
Just say that you hate people headcanoning Katara as having more agency in her own life and influencing global politics than canon allowed for her and go, honestly. Stop pretending you give a shit about Katara when you hold so much hatred for people envisioning something more for her than just being ‘the Avatar’s girl’ for the rest of her life.
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 15 hours ago
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Post-Hawk Moth’s defeat, post-reveal, pre-relationship. Adrien is universally disliked and distrusted for being his father’s son. 
Marinette: It just makes me so mad! You can’t help who you’re related to! It makes me want to tell the world I’m Ladybug and then marry you so people will see that Ladybug doesn’t care and they’ll all STOP IT!
Marinette: 😳 🙊 😬 😱
Adrien: 😳 😀 🤗 😘 😍 😻
Adrien: I fully support part two of your idea.
Marinette: 
Adrien: 
Marinette: GOOD. [runs away]
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 15 hours ago
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I hope adrian agreste don't mind it
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 15 hours ago
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Honestly, the girls where just iconic this episode:
Mylene "Marinette is sad, let's all whisper our secrets into this bracelet so our souls will be connected" Haprele
Alix "tf are you all smoking, lets just buy here some juice like Sane People" Kubdel
Juleka "mumble mumble look at this 4K extreme close up of my emo brother" Couffaine
Rose "oh thank you ladybug for catching me in your big strong arms let me just stare into your eyes in a Completely Straight Way" Lavillant
And of course
Alya "I will always be your friend no matter what" Cesaire
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 15 hours ago
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she has valid questions
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valiantlyjollynightmare · 15 hours ago
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so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
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In Lies, we hear Ladybug’s voicemail message and she ends by saying beep~ and that’s really cute.
In Gang of Secrets we find out that for Marinette’s voicemail she does the same thing.
Identity reveal caused by dumb voice mail message? :p
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Sometimes I just wanna doodle meaningless fluff
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Favorite story posts part 3
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So I started analyzing Ladybug's rant in the movie theater, and something struck me.
(Now this is purely speculation and I can't say for certain if this was intended by the writers. So take this with a grain of salt.)
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Right here. She goes from talking about Adrien to Luka.
So she addresses how she did give up on Adrien and 'Fell in love with Luka'
but then she says everything was " Too Simple, Too Easy' No Stammering- They just hug and kiss and SURPRISE'"
This kind of reveals something more then we think.
Marinette viewed her relationship with Luka as something simple and easy. Its almost like she ...felt like something was wrong with it even before getting to the next part. The use of the word 'Too' as in it was excessive. Her word choice (which could simply be a sub-ism so take this with a grain of salt) says a lot here.
I think part of her here felt like she didnt deserve something like that with how the previous person she was in love with went and Her dynamic with Luka was muddled more than she even realized.
It didnt help that Luka said he was okay with her still being in love with Adrien, I think she kind of resented that Luka didnt push her to move past it more.
Or she felt like her second shot at love wasn't what she expected or wanted because of how things felt. Perhaps even without the whole secret thing being an issue, this was her way of seeing that something was off about the dynamic.
I think there is a lot more to marinette's view on love and I really want to delve more into it.
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there’s just some fics... they never leave u bro. i’ll be sitting on the toilet four years later thinking about the 94k enemies to lovers fic that captured my soul
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