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and like. idk. the fact that the couple times me or another tme dark kink poster on here have been called out for cnc or whatever (infrequent, quiet, pretty much inevitably blows over), the conversation seems to pivot entirely around trauma and if we've experienced sexual violence and is this coping and does that make it okay and all this weird whinging and speculation about what our tortured psyches might be like -- which is invasive and odd, but which is also a sympathy that is never ever ever extended to transfems posting (usually far more innocuous) kink stuff on here, despite what we know statistically about the sexual violence which transfems experience, despite what anyone who has transfem loved ones who trust them knows personally and painfully. it's just fucking monstrous. the most vulnerable people in our community continuously subjected to sexual harassment and violence and simultaneously declared ontologically incapable of being themselves victims. the term gaslighting gets over/misused but it's difficult to think of a more apt word to describe this cycle of abuse & denial

#there is an entire subculture on here of tran masc kink dudes and we talk about fucking and killing on the daily #and ive never seen a single cannibalism blogger get NEARLY the shit trans femmes do for being into the most mundane and innocuous petplay #i have necro mutuals and not once has the discourse descended upon us #i was out here posting full on furry vore for years #i gave explicit blowjob advice #i have posts waxing poetic about eating ur partner like a wild animal in the woods #never once had issues or massive callouts or been called a predator or sexually unsafe #but god forbid a trans girl wears a collar and says nya

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what the FUCK is this supposed to mean, Spotify ??????

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i dont hate you guys i swear i just have really shitty memory

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u know someone’s about to get dragged through the mud when an academic uses the phrase ‘it’s tempting to assume’

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"you sound smart" that's because i've spent years doing academic writing to the point that it's my default cadence plus or minus the use of profanity as a tone indicator

"you sound stupid" that's because i'm dumb as fuck

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#loud

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Tuck me in please!

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there is something wrong with me but together there could be something wrong with us <3

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It’s important to have friends and situations where you can manufacture positive emotional feedback loops. Not ironically, not overly schmaltzy and fake, but just hyping each other up. You should be able to do something mundane, get gassed up by your friends, and respond in kind with that energy. It’s one of the best things in the world, I promise.

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Jesus turned his whimper into whine

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Little pianist 🎵

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Mad Magazine

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the self is a guy you made up to get mad at

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Is he... you know........... allowed to give blood?