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xstarlightsupremex · 23 hours ago
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The difference between Ruhn and Rhys?
Ruhn has mad respect for women and Rhys thinks he has it.
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xstarlightsupremex · 23 hours ago
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my weird flex is that i loved nesta even before acosf😎
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xstarlightsupremex · 2 days ago
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My Problem with SJM
I’ve been reading Sarah’s books for about 7 years now. There are things I genuinely love about them. I’m not going to sit here and trash every single thing about them or shit all over her as an author. Her books have brought me a lot enjoyment and credit is due where it’s due.
However, if you asked me, point blank, “What do you think of Sarah as an author?” I’d probably sit there on the verge of an aneurysm because I genuinely don’t know how to answer this question.
As much as I enjoy reading her books and genuinely love parts of them, I’ve been growing more frustrated with them over time. This kind of all came to a head in reading ACOFAS and ACOSF. I used to think that these were mostly isolated little incidents involving random different characters. I used to think it was about Chaol, or Tamlin, or Lucien, or Nesta. I’ve come to realize that it’s really not. It’s about Sarah herself and the bizarre way she has chosen to portray her characters.
Every single one of Sarah’s characters do bad things. ALL OF THEM. There is not a single significant character she has written in any book who has not done something shady, or morally gray, or wrong, or hurtful, or whatever. I seriously challenge you to try and find me a character who has not. This is completely normal and understandable!!! No one wants to read about a perfect and utterly flawless character. It makes them uninteresting and unrelatable. ALL good books should feature nuanced characters.
The issue I have is this: while every single character in her writing does bad things, only SOME characters are DEFINED by these bad things. No matter what else they do or say, they are deemed an irredeemable piece of shit who will never deserve anything good. Even if other characters aren’t openly hostile towards them anymore, the narrative will always find a way to subtly remind us all that these are “bad” people who did bad things to others. Any criticism they receive is justified and right. It does not matter how many good and/or heroic deeds are carried out by these characters. Often times these very characters will end up expressing how awful and unworthy they are, either internally or to other characters.
At the same time, there are other characters who do equally bad things (if not worse or significantly worse!!!!!) and have every single one blatantly ignored or explained and justified by the narrative or other characters. They are treated in the exact OPPOSITE way. No matter what they do, they are right. No matter how hypocritical, cruel, or just plain wrong they are, it will never ever be acknowledged by anyone. They will never be made to hold an ounce of responsibility for any of it. Other characters, themselves, and the narrative will turn an absolute blind eye to any wrongdoing and will gush and fawn over them instead.
This would be enough to be incredibly frustrating. But it doesn’t end here!!
Not only will these special select characters have every single blatant wrongdoing ignored, they will also walk around smugly judging the characters who are less fortunate (aka less favored by the author). Despite the majorly shady acts of their own, they will walk around highlighting all the bad things others have done while self-righteously proclaiming their own moral superiority. The narrative and the thoughts and words of other characters will support this. Sarah will beat you over the head with it. An opportunity will never be lost to tell us (not necessarily SHOW us) what a morally good person they are in comparison to someone else.
It honestly makes me feel kind of insane when I’m reading it. It makes me stop and sit there and wrack my brain going, “Does Sarah know she is doing this????” Does she realize she is a giant hypocrite of a writer?? Does she know she makes giant hypocrites of her characters?? It’s honestly hilarious to me because in writing the way she does, she takes the characters who she clearly wants me to adore and favor and makes me end up hating them and makes me end up rooting for the characters who she clearly wants me to dislike. I never liked Chaol until I read Queen of Shadows, when he is irrationally blamed for every one of Aelin’s problems. I was never really that invested in Lucien until he started to get shit on by absolutely everyone in the Inner Circle. I was never a Nesta stan until I read ACOSF, where she is bullied and mistreated by her “family” and gaslighted into thinking that they are right and she is deserving of all they say and do to her. I never had any true passionate feelings about Tamlin until he became a personal punching bag for every single character in ACOTAR, despite the majorly important good things he does that everyone ignores. It blows my mind how Sarah seems to fail to realize that the people walking around with a Holier-Than-Thou Attitude toward these people have a laundry list of majorly questionable actions of their own that never gets addressed.
In short, Sarah essentially self-sabotages as an author and I don’t understand it. You wouldn’t see me and tons of other people posting essays with word counts in the thousands defending the actions of certain characters so strongly and passionately if her little favorites were made to hold even the tiniest bit of accountability over their own wrongdoings and weren’t crapping all over the less favored. It makes her faves come across as the stereotypical “favorite child” in a family who everyone secretly resents and rolls their eyes at. If you’re going to have characters who constantly judge and scorn others for their perceived wrongdoings, it would be smart to give them a spotless and crystal clear record themselves. People in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones.
No one enjoys reading about hypocrites, Sarah. Gain some self awareness and start holding ALL characters to the same standards and accountability.
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house-ad · 3 days ago
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Why lava? Cuz we know a lot about podcasts but in Pocket Casts we have no clue about backgrounds.
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xstarlightsupremex · 2 days ago
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in light of the texas abortion ban here’s a reminder to stop debating what counts as a human, baby, or life with pro-lifers because that is not a debate you can win. you can not win a philosophical debate about what counts as a person, and you will not change their minds.
what can be proven is that in no situation under united states law is an individual legally obligated to lend their body or organs for the sake of another life. 
4.5 million people each year are in need of blood transfusion, the entire process of donating blood takes a little over an hour, it’s free, and a single pint of blood can save up to 3 peoples lives, but there is no legal obligation or requirement to donate blood in place. 
it is illegal to take organs from deceased peoples’ bodies without permission. CORPSES. bodily integrity is prioritized by law, even after death.
it doesn’t fucking matter whether a fetus is a person, whether a fetus is alive, whether a fetus has a soul. it literally doesn’t matter. pro-lifers set up the argument through that lens (hence their name) to evoke empathy and pity and take the focus away from the actual process of pregnancy, which changes a person’s body FOREVER. that is not an exaggeration. whether the pregnancy is complicated and high-risk or totally smooth sailing, the birthing person will physically never be the same. if they’re lucky, they’ll come out of it with weight gain, differently shaped breasts, and changes to the cervix/vagina. if they aren’t, there’s a fucking laundry list of potential complications that could arise, that may eventually fix themselves, need surgical or therapeutic intervention, or never go away, like varicose veins, separation of the abdominal muscles, incontinence, prolapse, diabetes, postpartum depression, and chronic pain, just off the top of my head. and this makes no mention of the very real possibility of income disruption, as well as the financial cost of giving birth, and the chance of fucking death, which is even higher for underserved communities like black women.
there is no basis for a governing body forcing an individual to lend their body or organs for the sake of another life. that is the argument. period the end.
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xstarlightsupremex · 2 days ago
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Which means it can be reversed just as easily
I think some people forget that the lifetime appointment of supreme court judges is a rule humans invented, not something decreed by a wizard or something
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xstarlightsupremex · 2 days ago
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May the 6 conservative justices on SCOTUS never experience another moment of happiness or peace. May they spend every single second of the rest of their lives uncomfortable, anxious, and afraid for their safety.
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xstarlightsupremex · 2 days ago
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besties I think there’s a lot going on at the moment
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xstarlightsupremex · 5 days ago
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Some days this is such a mood.
Do I block people who reblog SJM fanart on sight now or is that too petty.
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xstarlightsupremex · 5 days ago
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It could be 20 years in the future and I will still never forget the stupidity that is…
“E/riel is endgame because bread and roses”
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xstarlightsupremex · 5 days ago
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But he just sat there and let the insult slide.
Mor: Nesta would thrive in the Court of Nightmares.
How Cassian should have reacted:
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house-ad · 2 months ago
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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Do not hide away the part of yourself that’s unhappy, bothered or hurt just because you feel like doing so will make others feel more comfortable. You don’t live to make others comfortable, you live for yourself, which means you owe it to yourself to be honest about your true feelings. The only way to let an open wound heal properly is to take care of it, not to ignore it.
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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Everyday I plead to y’all to stop reminding me of canon Cassian. We don’t know him. What happened in acosf? Nothing you need to know. We blinked and now we’re here. How did Nessian happen? None of your business. 
All you need to know is that Cassian is a bi himbo simping for Nesta Archeron and Nesta Archeron is a stone-cold softie who partook in her own romance novel and saved the world again. That is fact. The rest is the novel we shredded. 
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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Favorite Winx Moments - Nabu proposes to Layla
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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Look cute together 💗
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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If I remember right, Summer was attacked because Spring fell thanks to Feyre
Yeah, I think that's what happened too. So Feyre screwed over the summer court twice. Yikes.
I don't even remember a formal apology either. From either of them. I remember Feyre watching Rhysand think about apologizing but of course, Rhysand never has to take accountability for his mistakes.
And to think, it's alluded that Tarquin would take the knee when Rhysand becomes High King.
And above all else, Rhysand still doesn't 100% trust Tarquin even though Tarquin has never given him a reason to doubt his integrity. Rhysand should hold a mirror to himself and do some serious self-reflection.
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xstarlightsupremex · 6 days ago
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Not only did Aelin not receive any apology, but SHE apologizes to HIM! Literally what?! 😭
Lol did she really??? It's been a long time since I read TOG but I wouldn't be surprised if she did. It's very on-brand for SJM, considering all of Nesta's interactions with Cassian. To think he never once apologized to her for his mistakes either.
These women could do so much better.
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house-ad · 2 months ago
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