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part of being an ally to trans men is not being a dick to cis men for their appearance btw

#no but actually why the fuck is this so hard for some of y’all #“he’s a bad person he deserves it” fuck entirely off actually!!!!! #all you’re doing when you resort to attacking someone’s appearance over their terrible behaviour #is showing your disdain for those physical features and that’s fucking garbage!

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#raised Catholic #logically I would assume no role because Jesus was Jewish so I’m guessing the Torah predates him?

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“You deserve the love you keep trying to give everyone else.”

— Unknown

#…oh.

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We honestly just need to stop trying to make criteria for what being nonbinary is point blank. I really don't give a shit if people think this would obscure the term into uselessness because right now the concept of a nonbinary person is a skinny person who transitions into elfish androgyny, typically thought to also be white and afab by default. Which excludes, like, the vast majority of people who are nonbinary to serve some imagined ideal of a third gender

#queer as in fuck you

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#queer as in fuck you

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i'm conducting an experiment. everyone who's from an english speaking country state your country, regional area and what you call the following images. i need to see something

#aotearoa new zealand #hot chips #chips #...I can't 100% tell what those are maybe scones? #biscuits/bikkies #fizzy #lollies #smokes or cigarettes #beanie #candy floss

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gonna start asking hockey dudes on tinder if they can define goaltender interference and if they give me any answer other than “i don’t know” i’m unmatching them

#help i'm cackling

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this seems self-centered you know “stereotypical American bs” but I’m curious

#live in aotearoa #if we're just counting time properly spent there #california dc new york utah arizona #have also done like layovers in a few others lol

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Important Milestone

The song about how nobody likes you when you're 23 turns 23 today

#thanks i hate it

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just encountered a spider so big I very seriously considered downloading tinder exclusively to find a man to come over and move it outside

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I thought I needed a new laptop but nope, youtube is slowing down your PC if you have adblock on on any open tab...

#hope none of y'all are mocking your boomer families for posting those “facebook T&Cs are changing” copypastas because holy hell #exactly the same lack of critical thinking in spreading this sort of stuff

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you ever get surprised by your own recurring issues. like come on man. I thought we were past this.

#me @ me: didn’t we already repress that one?

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Considering that there’s another post going around that lands on this conclusion, I think it deserves its own succinct post:

When transmascs share instances of positivity to remind each other that the way we are treated isn’t all bad, it’s then used as proof of the whole of transmasc experiences being this way, and that transmascs are not oppressed as a whole.

When transmascs share instances of harm done to transmascs to raise awareness that transmascs are harmed directly within our societies, it’s used as proof that we are taking up too much room in conversations because the harm we face “isn’t bad enough”.

When transmascs share instances of outright murder of members of our community to show that no, transmasc issues are not somehow “lesser” because “we aren’t dying” because we are dying, it’s used as proof that we are trauma dumping and trying to make other people feel sorry for us—look at these AFABs being whiny and hysterical and trying to portray themselves as victims. Or that it isn’t specific enough to us so we should shut up and let other people speak for us.

Transmascs cannot speak about our experiences without being touted as an example of why transmascs as a whole should shut up.

This is erasure.

#queer as in fuck you

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re this us states map quiz poll — take the quiz linked below and then answer the poll based on your results

i specifically want to see if americans know anything about their neighbours. no results button because i don't have enough room xx

#other (aotearoa) 85% #better than both US and Europe despite being the only one of those I've never visited #whoops lol

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idk dog i just dont think the nonbinary people who post shit like "you don't need to transition to be trans" are the reason that terfs and evangelical christians have restricted our access to healthcare

seems to me like they are very much a target of transphobic violence and medical exclusion in their own right!

#queer as in fuck you

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poll plagiarism <3

#non american (aotearoa) 59% #apparently north-eastern Europe is one giant mystery to me lol

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🎶 Obscure song search! List three songs you think not enough people have listened to, then pass this on! 🎶

Oh gosh. Is it cheating to list all Kiwi music? Do I care?

Hine Ruhi / Slice of Heaven by Dave Dobbyn. The original version of this song (in English) is, like, The Quintessential Kiwi Song and if you haven't listened to it in a while, all you need to do is call any government department in this country because it WILL feature in their hold music. But the te reo Māori version absolutely fucking slaps, it's a bop.

Itchy Palms by Hera. I fucking LOVE Hera Hjartardóttir and the people who read my fic have definitely seen a few of her lyrics used for titles. I thought about picking a more fun, silly, horny song, but the first time I ever heard this song was live and I just remember bawling my eyes out in the middle of this random fucking bar and so it has a very special place in my heart.

Future You by Zed. Zed were the first concert I ever went to when I was like... ten. They were HUGE here in the early 2000s and reformed last year, and not enough people know that because their newer music (like this) is absolutely FANTASTIC.

#obscure song search #cha-melodius