#and even then if the air is just shit for hair it'll frizz up anyway

[baekuras]

tfw you literally adopted a whole new hair routine just to please your coworkers to possibly define curls more and reduce frizz(it works no worries) and you get 1 frizzy day due to humid air+thunderstorms+wind+mixed weather+just bad hair day and your boss immediately comments on that(maybe) in the vaguest words possible aka "....your hair looks different than usual today-you should look after it more.....maybe just check before going to work if you are ready" bits and like

i am just

confused

this makes it sound like i rock up to work with the grace of someone who crawled out the sewers whatthefuck do you MEAN

#txts #i am mad and frustrated mostly #bc i tried multiple things #every time someone had smth to say about it #so lately i went with a more basic routine again #but the second i got more frizz apparently its over #i fucking give up #i got curls-i WILL have frizz #if i use anti frizz sprays or whatnot i get greasier hair #i'd have to get up an hour earlier to fully wash and prep my hair #and then I WILL STILL GET FUCKING FRIZZ #bc i have to use a hairdryer to dry it #which means :D mORE FRIZZ :D #and even then if the air is just shit for hair it'll frizz up anyway #if i try to get the frizz to go down i'd get greasier hair or a wet hair look-also not approved #even if my hair felt super soft and clean then but hey (: #he also commented on my grey hairs twice in what i think was meant to be a joking way #i took it that way at least #until he literally called me upstairs so he could privately tell me his 2 sentences about my...different looking hair #i just....what do you want me to do #i have been looking at so much haircare stuff for my type #and tried a lot that work for me #i am NOT going to buy 60€ worth of products for a 20 step haircare routine or smth like that #just fire me then #he LITERALLY said 'i like having you here' #if you want to be vague so i have to do a social dance turned into overthinking i am pretty sure i am about to get fired for how i dress #like yeah it's not chic but neither is anyone else or this city #only our boss wears a suit to work #i will not #just tell me if i have to do as much work just to be seen as presentable so that i can leave