#and that'd just be misogyny and homophobia but with extra steps 👀

[stupid-sloot-headcanons]

Jokes and memes aside you guys DO know that the only way to determine if someone is a top or bottom is like. Asking them right. It's not a personality trait and top =/= dominant in the same way bottom =/= submissive, that's just a cultural norm tied to misogyny and the belief that to be penetrated and submissive is feminine. And conversely the patriarchal cultural belief that to be masculine is to be dominant and thus the one penetrating

#like i get the jokes and have made them myself sometimes but...sometimes ppl actually seem to think thats the case #and that'd just be misogyny and homophobia but with extra steps 👀 #.personal #sloot bitches about things #its just a pet peeve of mine the same way the jokes about 'lesbian culture' and 'bisexual culture' became smth ppl terminally online #take SERIOUSLY #like bisexual culture isnt actually cuffing your jeans or making puns or whatever quirky internet thing #and lesbian culture isnt blushing while holding a girls hands or being bad at driving or being 'useless'