#but then again the hole isn't even centered so idk lol

[transthatfag]

me raw dogging an earring into my piercing after not putting any jewelry in it for years: once a hole always a hole.

#it literally just slipped right in like it never even closed #guess I can wear stuff in there now #but then again the hole isn't even centered so idk lol

[keratoconusgroup]

How do you deal with VERY different opinions? Feeling frustrated here

In the past year I have had so many different opinions on what to do with my eyes that I feel completely frustrated and lost. In the past year I was suggested: - Insert intracorneal rings on both eyes - CXL on both eyes - CXL on the left eye - Not doing anything - Insert intracorneal ring on the left eye and then do CXL I've moved countries in the past year so that's why I've seen so many doctors and more than the average. Back in Brazil my ophtalmogist said I should do the rings on both eyes, checked for a second and third opinions and both disagreed with him saying that I should do CXL first and asap. Didn't have enough time to do it before moving so decided to check once I got to France. Waited 5 months for a consultation in Paris and 9 months for one where I live ☠️ In Paris, was told to come back in 6 months cause they had to check the progression with their machines. Came back: "no need for operation, see you again in 12 months". Where I live, was directly scheduled in my first consultation with the interns for CXL for on left eye; 4 months for a date though. With such differing opinions, decided to desperately try to get a third opinion on one of the hospitals of National Reference Center for Keatoconus. Meanwhile, since I didn't know if I'd get a consultation on the National Center, decided to see a private doctor in Paris (both previous ones in France were in public hospitals). Terrible idea: got another different opinion - insert corneal ring on the left eye and then after it perhaps do CXL. Idk if this was him pushing me but he even told me my cornea is at the verge of being too thin for operation. Finally, managed to get the consultation on the National Center and just got the response from them. "It's best to keep your disease monitoring with only one team and close to where you live. If they told you to do CXL, then do it there." Which in my interpretation isn't "we think this is best for your eyes" but "we don't want to engage in all this mess, deal with it youself". Besides, keep the monitoring with one team? Like lol I'm not sure I'm gonna stay that much longer in this city. Has anyone gone through similar? I feel like I got myself into a rabbit hole and can't get out and make any decision cause I'm overwhelmed with all of this. submitted by /u/porraqueinferno [link] [comments] https://www.reddit.com/r/Keratoconus/comments/1b0fs4e/how_do_you_deal_with_very_different_opinions/?utm_source=dlvr.it&utm_medium=tumblr

[sugaglos]

Well said, the post wasn't about trans people, but about X person who's disgusting, shares inappropriate stuffs and behaviours, that happens to be trans. It's just gross how society is fucked up, if it was a cis person none will say a word, but if happens to be a LGBTQ+ person then everyone accuse and creates useless drama and justifications. I'm personally a LGBTQ+ member, yet I don't go parading my identity like some fucking special snowflake, it's just a small part of my identity but many other members of this community is centering all their whole personality around this only characteristic; it's so pathetic tbh. Nobody needs to know my (sexual) preferences, it should be a private thing, first of all to not expose kids to adults matters or ideologies, it's more harmful than informative. Also another point, as coping mechanisms, again I would use myself as example, I'm diagnosed with 2 personality disorders from Cluster B + other mental illness as comorbidities, following the popular troop I should be a pain the ass for other people and ruining theirs and mine life, and having uncontrollable fucked up impulses and fantasies. Meanwhile yes, it happens to have them, I keep them to myself without looking for a "community" or like-minded individuals, furthermore I don't give in this impulses nor I engage in harmful behaviours. E.g. Harmless coping mechanisms I usually engage is drinking and smoking, but I do this only at home, I don't want to promulgate my unhealthy behaviours to youth or other individuals. It's about self-control and being self-conscious. As an adult I must understand that I have the responsibility to be a model to others and the younger generation, despite my mental illness, sexuality or identity. Nowadays ppl have lost the sense of duty in regard to others, and live in the most epicurean way possible. To sum up, I totally agree with all your points and I guess that the anon is one of that special snowflakes that builds their whole personality around the LGBTQ+ characteristic(s) and has passive-aggressive behaviour whenever they sense a real or imaginary threat to their personality.

I totally agree on what you said too haha

I doesn't matter what one identifies as or what community they're are a part of, if one does stupid shit they need to be called out on it(and in this case there's actual proof of bs happening, so it's not pulled out of an ass, so no one is being accused for nothing or for just being...trans lol). Idk if the majority of the trans community think they can do/say whatever they want all the time, every time, that's not gonna happen and people will show that they can be in the wrong, like any living person. People won't be silent and that is good. No one is more special that anyone esle. Life is very hard, for everyone, and being a 'snowflake' isn't going to be benificial..for anyone.

Usually people who want to look for like-wise individuals in certain harmful behaviours, communities, they end up spiriling deeper down in a rabbit hole, even if it means "just to explore". Some things aren't mean to be explored idk best to leave alone, and like you said, have self-control, since that's the key to everything.

I'm very happy that you have this responsibility within you because you can hardly find that in others nowdays. Everyone just thinks for themselves and don't give 2flying fucks about anyone else yet expect to be treated as kings/queens, which is wrong. But what differes you from them is that you're an adult and most of these kids are jsut..kids. And we all know, whether people want to accept it or not, that kids are ran by emotions not logic. This is why these movements nowdays, especially in the US, are filled with aggression and hate towards anyone who disagrees because they're fueled by enotions and not logic..... And adults who participate in these hate-filled movements, well, they're just there for the $$$ and perhaps status. Which is very sad.

Also, anon, pls take care of yourself and stay vigilant. Thank you for your message. 🥀

#reply #that anon now is spreading lies about me to the aggressive lynchmob #the audacity tho

[jxssdxcxr-blog]

ARE WE REALLY RESPECTING OUR MOTHER?

I am an amateur photographer coming from Iloilo city, I started loving nature probably since I've been introduced to it and I still look forward to take pictures of what we don't appreciate too much because 'it's just trees and its green'. There's so much more than just trees and being GREEN. It tingled my curiousness on what is really happening to pur agriculture and our mother earth. And hey i wanna see myself in a center of a field with a farmer hat and like watching plants do plant things.

THIS IS MY STORY

>be me

>SHS days I was told to be an accountant because of family affairs.

>2years later after graduation of shs , I was transfered to cagayan de oro city, no idea how Imma get around this place. New place new environment. So hard to get used to bisaya, but I'm trying.

>confused af bc idk what to do here, i envisioned my life in Iloilo city a hell hole but city version, not in this new hell hole where id get to adjust more than half of my life

>mom wanted me to go into a christian school in balingasag, BUUUUTTT I've been to christian schools, got tired with all the rules and so my mother doesn't have any choice but do what i love which is agriculture.

>new day in agriculture I'm like hey this is gonna be EZ because hey its just planting right?WROOOONG THIS IS WHERE MY WHOLE PERSPECTIVE OF AGRICULTURE CHANGED.

This is where id had questions,

Are we really valuing Agriculture?

The food we eat, the crops, vegetables, fruits, the meat we eat, are we really thinking about where they came from or how they came to be on our tables? We thought that farming is not that hard because all you ever and should do is put seeds on the ground and wait for it to grow.

Well folks, it's not that easy, for an agriculture student who has no background on anything but accountancy. This is my view as an agriculture student. The first time i encountered the subjects i wasnt expecting something big or hard because my mentality of " hey this is going to be easy" but then there it was the memorization of plants, seeds, and insects then more of whats in the soil and the parts of everything, and its like grade school science again. but i wasn't ready for this abrupt change of learning from, leadgers to,balancing of net incomes to Farming. this was my daily dose of real life, to know whats it like to ba a farmer who sustains their own farm, to borrowing money, to produce crops enough to sell and pay debt, all of this without the help of the government. the reality we should all know, the corruption of everything because the poor are getting poorer and the rich are getting richer learning from the roots that's where all evil comes from.

This made me love what I'm doing now, Photography. One way i could show the world that our earth is the only earth we will have and this isn't going to live forever even if were trying, seems like our effort isn't enough, like how he left u because he said u weren't putting enough effort between u too, broken. Lol. Jk.

Just look at this **** scenery god damn. So lovely. This was taken in front of our house 4-5 years ago. Now i don't see too much bushes flora in front of our house, yes. We love nature but does nature love us back? This i what i'd call a summer vacation, some sort of hidden paradise, something i'd enjoy for a week and happily say good bye too. Didn't think that I WOULD BE STUCK HERE FOR THE REST OF MY COLLEGE LIFE. SAD REAX. SO STRESSFUL.

This is just beautiful as every other photos i've taken. But as the world population grows the operation for more roads connecting the city grows a well, this scenery was ruined 2 years ago. This is why i have a hate love relationship with photography and nature.

Farmers the main reason our mother is living and still is being taken care of, anyone could be a farmer, everyone lives off our mom, until the day we die, we die here, we remain here. From ashes to ashes from dust to dust, we return to how we were made. Space dust.

And like the earth, it'll go back to how it was made. A ball of space dust and uninhibitable.

(Photos by me) #grades #isthisworth2.0? #maampls #iluvursubject

To summarize, were not respecting our only inhabitable place in the milky way. Were only turning a blind eye to certain situations it doesn't mean that were not feeling it doesn't mean were not going through it. Our mother is only trying to give respect to herself she taking back whats hers.