#but they're out here doing 10x more inner work than any of my friend's boyfriends and it's just. well. sigh

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okay side tangent but some kpop dudes be writing such emotionally intelligent, reflective, and expressive posts that they share w their fans that when a friend describes her real life boyfriend and how he wrote "the sweetest message ever" and it's literally just him being like "happy birthday ily" I'm like ???!

#where are your standards 😭😭 #like okay objectively i know the whole 'dont idolize kpop stars u don't know these people' #yeah i know #but they're out here doing 10x more inner work than any of my friend's boyfriends and it's just. well. sigh #rebecca rambles