#we're living creatures not npcs in a video game. there will always be infinite variety. living beings don't WORK like that they aren't..

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to be honest? I've never even understood the rationale for fake-claiming in any context. There are millions of people, more dying and being born every day, and you really think we can invent enough genders, identities, disorders, words and categories to cover every possible type of human that's ever been born or will be born in the future???!! of course not, there's gonna be people who fall outside of the boxes we have because there can never be enough boxes. like there physically cannot be enough boxes.

"but they're weird and cringe that's how i know." buddy. buddy come here lean in close i have a secret for you, crazy girlie.

*whispers* everyone who isn't neurotypical, ablebodied, cishet, and fitting the beauty and societal standards for their culture, is considered weird by default. and EVEN people who ARE fitting of those standards can ALSO be weird in other ways. you can't tell me someone isn't lgbt or isn't plural or isn't autistic because they're "weird" when everyone is constantly being called weird anyway. being plural is weird to people. having NPD is weird to people. having skitzohphrenia is weird to people. Being a boy who likes girly stuff is weird to people. being a lesbian is weird to people. having no legs is weird, being fat is weird, there are always going to be people calling other people weird and cringe. you simply CANNOT use "weird" or "cringe" as a basis to judge validity. you just can't???

I literally do not get it like how does that work how do you like...think that you can tell if someone's faking something. what do we have left here, like, tone of voice and body language? autism is a thing and anxiety disorders are a thing so we already know that can vary and be untrustworthy. you literally can never tell as an outsider looking in??!

#i made a textpost #discourse #discource #anti fakeclaiming #fakeclaiming #posting this because my old intro is apparently on a systems cringe subreddit?? saw it on google images and had to do a double take. #it got me thinking about this sort of thing. #I'm from a truamagenic DID system. and I got fakeclaimed for being weird. And endogenics get fakeclaimed for not existing in the- #-boxes people already had set out. #both kinds- the “this doesn't exist” kind and the “this does but you are lying about being/having it” are ridiculous conceptually #so many people out there.....so many lives and experiences.....how are you supposed to KNOW every possibility? you...can't #and knowing that i just don't understand how people become fakeclaimers or think fakeclaiming can even work. #it just doesn't work in my head. it doesn't make sense to me. #we're living creatures not npcs in a video game. there will always be infinite variety. living beings don't WORK like that they aren't.. #..defineable #like that.