#(if it wasn't for the irl scene and irl queer community where the reaction to my funky little gender is 'love that for you!' 9/10)

[nerdy-kitty-boi]

why can no one be normal about multigender people? somehow not even other people with weird and funky genders manage it. other non-binary people don't manage it. And so as always I'm left with the knowledge that part of my gender is seen as suspect, unwanted, and bad by large swaths of the community where I ironically feel the most at home and most connected. By people who probably have very similar experiences of gender and navigating the world to me even! But that one part of my gender? Nope, that part isn't wanted, isn't allowed.

#this post brought to you by me once again noticing 'men dni' on a blog that otherwise looked very cool #like hi yes i am also a he/him femme lesbian but i am also man sometimes (sort of it's complicated) #we probably have a lot in common #but y'all are just super weird about multigender people #(thank god fod irl community spaces in my city tbh) #(if it wasn't for the irl scene and irl queer community where the reaction to my funky little gender is 'love that for you!' 9/10) #(i would simply perish) #(bc the isolation of being so Weird and then going on the website of Weirdos and Freaks) #(and having people go 'ew no Not Like That' is just awful) #(even when it isn't everyone) #(bc it's just so prevelant somehow)