#ALSO it hurts enough feeling like married women my age won't want to be friends with me because I'm not in The Mom Club

[isfjmel-phleg]

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#random personal stuff #back on my soapbox feel free to ignore #ALSO it hurts enough feeling like married women my age won't want to be friends with me because I'm not in The Mom Club #but to be told that married women allegedly don't want single friends because single women have designs on their husbands...ouch #I was able to establish that I Would Never and I'm sorry Grandma had one bad experience but #...yeah that hurt a lot #it can't really be true #I hope it isn't #I do have some married friends and I've never felt that they regard me as a threat #but wow thanks now I have one more thing to worry about #(the conversation tonight was a rollercoaster)

[animalkingdom-an0nymous]

Okay, since I woke up to this message from an already deactivated account, I'm going to have to respond to it here.

1.) You are ABSOLUTELY right, Chloe, this DOES involve innocent people. But not people that I've hurt, not people that I've involved. YOU stole pictures of children that weren't yours, claimed they were for 18 fucking months, and led a group of women to believe you were telling the truth.

2.) "I've done what you wanted me to do." What exactly did I want you to do? Because I never wrote to you telling you to delete and block us and fall off the face of the planet. I wanted an explanation. The 3 other girls you hurt wanted an explanation. YOU made the decision to fuck off rather than explain yourself to us. YOU made the decision to deceive and lie, not only to us, but to your following. No one bent your arm backwards and forced you into anything, Chloe. You've made it a point to talk about how grown you are, so act like it and own your shit rather than deflect and try to manipulate me into feeling sorry for a situation that you created and put yourself in.

3.) You're not anyone's mother. J belongs to your sister, E belongs to your cousin, and after a VERY interesting conversation with someone last night, I found out R ALSO belongs to your cousin, a different one this time. A cousin that was actually your boyfriend/husband/old lie.

4.) How are you getting death threats? Who is reaching out to you? You've blocked us on instagram, deleted your blogs, and erased any contact you've had here, so I would LOVE to know. You spent the last year and a half lying to me, I don't believe for a single second you're waking up to death threats. I don't believe anything you say to me.

5.) "You've made your point." But here's the thing... I haven't. I haven't made my point AT ALL. I've called you out. I've told everyone the truth. But not once have I really "made my point" in talking about the pain you caused. We talked about MOTHERHOOD, Chloe. I told you shit that I haven't told my closest friends, my fears as a parent and my fears for Mia as she grew up. I was so happy, elated, relieved etc. that I found someone I could relate to, someone to make me feel a little less alone. I thought of you like a sister, told you as much. You have my address, know some of the most personal things about me. And still, our love for you wasn't enough for you to be honest.

6.) "This involves more people than just me who are innocent and you're hurting them." No. I'm not. You hurt them. You sent pictures of their children to random people online. You claimed you were in a relationship with a guy named Neil who was actually your cousin. You claimed you were married to a guy named Rob. The only person I reached out to was your sister because she had EVERY RIGHT to know that pictures of her newborn son were being shopped around the fuckin internet by her LITTLE sister.

So now that I've called you on your shit and forced you into it you want to pull the "poor me" card? You lied about your age, your children, your marriage. Everytime you told a story about something the boys did, everytime you sent us a photo or a video, it was a lie. Everytime "Rob" jumped into the chat it was really just you. Everytime you pretended it was your oldest son messaging us when you were "in the hospital" it was really just you. It isn't even a lie at that point, it's pathological. One girl in our group, who I won't name, was physically ill last night thinking of the fact that she gave YOU access to HER medical files because you had us all believing you were a real fucking nurse.

You have no idea the pain you've caused. I have not made my point. And just so we're clear, you may have fooled me but I'm not an idiot. The only reason you're reaching out is to try and save face because you're scared I'm going to tell your family what you've been up to.