#I'm 23 and wouldn't step foot near a 15 year old that way. not even an 18 or 19 year old tbh.

[maraeffect]

not to be like that, but people reblogging this but like completely ironically kind of upsets/triggers me. i don't think he unironically deserves to be called a slur of course. but this man fully dated a 15 year old when he was in his twenties. and i see NO ONE ever bring it up. no one even trigger tags the band, which makes coming onto my dash a chore sometimes (i have great friends that rb related things and i don't want to unfollow them over one band). but you have to admit that if this was ANY other band, they'd be cancelled to hell and back.

people still enjoying their stuff after NO acknowledgement from either the band or community? it makes me feel like some of you are only performatively in support of CSA victims. it feels like a betrayal. it sucks.

#nothing against the op specifically obviously #i just thought maybe we were finally talking about It and was saddened when i realized otherwise. #I'm 23 and wouldn't step foot near a 15 year old that way. not even an 18 or 19 year old tbh. #it hurts bc I'm a csa victim and i hate that support for people like us is. conditional or selective #people are so willing to ignore it when it's their favorite singer or whatever. #chatter #csa tw