#I'm tired of feeling like my dash is a sorority like sometimes people can disagree with you. You don't always need

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literally who are any of you people to decide that one decision is "the right decision" for every woman. If you go into a discussion assuming that You alone know what is the best path to a happy, healthy life for Everybody in the world then that is hubris. Everybody talks like they are so smart and have all the answers to everything and whenever someone disagrees with you then they are sensitive and antifeminist. At the end of the day yall have nothing of value to say and get your panties in a twist over anyone expressing an opinion that you disagree with and it's so obnoxious

#It's okay I'm just unfollowing people about it tonight #I'm tired of feeling like my dash is a sorority like sometimes people can disagree with you. You don't always need #To assert your opinions as the most logical and the most feminist. In fact insisting that people who disagree are less feminist than you #Is quite unconvincing to everybody who doesn't base their opinions around having a specific identity on the internet #The way I've seen people talk about having children tonight is incredibly ignorant of women's lived experiences #and it removes all complexity of women and motherhood and focuses entirely on a specific type of woman who is married to a man #Like literally it reminds me of the way men talk about female biology as if it exists solely to serve and please men #Like I can name real live women who had babies against the will of the men who gave them sperm #And you're living in another dimension if you think women are rewarded for being single moms. #Women are Never rewarded for taking any action without permission from a man and giving birth is not an exception #But somehow wanting to have a kid in Any context is bad and antifeminist but really what these women are criticizing is heterosexual #Relationships and calling it antinatalism. And then getting mad when we talk about the cons of antinatalism #Even though we said absolutely nothing about heterosexual relationships one way or the other #??? #Like literally I see nobody ever except for homophobes defend het relationships or get mad when people criticize them #But antinatalism is not synonymous with anti piv or anti het partnerships #So its kind of ridiculous to see multiple people make a false comparison between the two concepts in less than an hour