#and is not a drop in the fucking ocean for bi people wading through fandom all the time. we're tired cause we hear it 24/7!

[dorianpavus]

people will be like thinking about shadowheart with a man makes me violently ill. i hate going into the astarion tag because there are people who don't seem gay enough for me in there romancing him and enjoying his character and i have to see their headcanons. the characters are all actually playersexual because they can always be romanced by the main character (conveniently making it impossible for me to have to regard any bisexual love interest as such), so it's okay to say they're whatever sexuality i want and it's actually fucked up of YOU to deny me this (so i will ignore blatant mechanical and narrative evidence of their bisexuality, while also demanding that you care about my desire for representation while i deny you yours).

and if you ever call them on it, they play the victim. whether the biphobia was obvious or subtle, they will always either pretend like they're being attacked, or play the "oh no the [insert insult here] people have found this" card, because... what. they think biphobia is just when people say "i hate bisexual people," and not the myriad ways in which people scorn, condemn, deny, and express their discomfort at bisexuality?

#i laugh with my friends at headcanons too but i don't have to be like 'well unfortunately cause they are bi :(' about it lol #'if they were gay people would definitely always have headcanons i agree with' said no one ever #let people have stupid ooc headcanons in peace lmao bitch to your friends on discord like a normal person #and stop acting like the biphobic comment you made exists in a vacuum #and is not a drop in the fucking ocean for bi people wading through fandom all the time. we're tired cause we hear it 24/7! #personal spam #biphobia / #people making jokes is not that serious. i get it lol. but if the root of your joke is biphobia... make a better joke lol?