#anyway i'm not gonna paint myself as this genius from the first watch because I Too had wgxn goggles fucking ON and didn't even notice

[leatherbookmark]

an interesting thing abt jgy antis is like. where is the source of their, shall we say, negative opinion of jgy? like, 1. jgy is a villain, he does horrible things with no remorse, he’s willing to do everything to achieve his selfish, egotistical goals. --> 2. the source of this claim: this, this and this scene. --> 3. alright, but to me -- says someone who’s not an anti -- this reads differently. that he did all those things, and did them on purpose and without remorse, is not that obvious to me. why do you think that? --> 4. well, obviously because he’s a villain and does horrible things with no remorse.

like... he’s evil because he does bad things, and he does bad things because he’s evil. i’m interested in how antis came by those opinions, but a, unfortunately i have them all blocked, and b, even if i or someone else made a poll, it wouldn’t be authentic because no sane anti is going to say “well, people hated him and wrote all those things about him on twt, so i started hating him as well”, or “i only care about wgxn, you could sell me anything about other characters if your arguments were convincing enough because i zoned out during the parts when wgxn weren’t on screen/pages of the book”. it’s all “written in the book/shown in the show” and “logical arguments you’d agree with if only you could read”.

#thinking back to my early c/q/l days where i reblogged this dumb ass meta abt how jgy FOR SURE pushed lxc away because he WANTED HIM #to be tormented by uncertainty forever. like 'the worst person you know just saved your life; what now' kinda thing #i was like oh... THIS IS SO RIGHT... because it felt bittersweet and painful and i am Still guilty of accepting/agreeing with headcanons #or interpretations that aren't 100% what i think because i have this ingrained idea that other people are always more mature and #sophisticated and smarter than me and so they Know Better #the person (i think?) later went on to write a meta abt how jgy is a badwrong narcissist. so #(this is also the reason why i spent months praising and getting excited abt a fic where jgy was dating nmj for like a decade despite #not loving him; and why he cheated on him many times with lxc Just Because. i didn't think jgy would do something like that but everyone #else was like omg this is SOOOOO good so i was like shit i guess it is! IT'S SOOOO GOOD OMG;;;;; have i mentioned i have no brain on #my own? yea) #anyway i'm not gonna paint myself as this genius from the first watch because I Too had wgxn goggles fucking ON and didn't even notice #the box hand touch during my first watch. (have i mentioned i am not very smart or observant) and when wwx was whistling ghosts at jgy #and jgy was clearly Going Thru It in the guanyin temple i was like 'haha good for him' #but iirc i Was nonetheless drawn to him (although xy was first <3) and it was like. well he's evilbad but maybe he felt bad when he murdered #his child? --> well maybe he's not 100% evilbad... maybe... --------------> a-yao did nothing wrong and i will kill you if you even suggest #otherwise. (<-- a joke.) #anyway a whole bunch of antis seem like kindasorta stuck in that initial wgxn-centered; everyone else either has 2 personality traits Max #or is either wgxn allies (good) or wgxn Haters (we hates them forever!) just like. unwilling to accept any new viewpoints At All #and then there are Types of those jgy antis because you have people who hate him for Other Reasons and people who hate them because they. #honestly seem like they've only read moralistic books for young children where the brave kind hero is the one you're supposed to cheer for #and want to be like; and the villain has all the traits you're supposed to know are Bad (mean greedy selfish lazy etc) AND NOTHING ELSE. #its like that *man who only saw boss baby watching another movie* damn this is giving me some serious boss baby vibes ! meme #anyway. love it when the tags are 3x longer than the post. cheers #shrimp thoughts

[tamiddyinyourcity]

Guess who's depressed again? Ayyyy, party people, turn upppp. :)

So what's annoying me?

Nostalgic memories of good moments with people I can no longer be in contact with. As usual, its the classic, "Remember how in love you felt with Patrick #1? The date you had? What about your most recent ex, and your first date? Wasnt it cute the way you kissed at the end, and the way he acted before when he had liked you?" We get it, universe. Love comes and goes. It has gone, but will come again, in the shape of someone else, or myself. And I will let it happen, naturally.

My own thoughts. Since of course, when you break up with an ex, one of the first thoughts are, "Have they moved on already?" It doesn't help that on the TV show I am watching, "YOU" on Netflix, (its a cross between a show that triggers me but also makes me feel.... i dont know, soothed at times,) that the guy's girlfriend jumped into bed with the first hot guy that came back in town. (Did I do that at some point? Yes. Was it intentional, planned, or expected? Hell no. And did me and the ex, who I loved before, even get to reconnect enough that I felt comfortable with his dick reconnecting with my cervix? Absolutely not. It just made me go, "I miss Patrick", the second one, and we redated.)

Anyway, as I was saying, no one wants to be at home and thinking, "Had he already moved on? Hell, has he already found a new girl that he's gonna walk around the Lake with, and enjoy so much that he kisses on the first date?" Aaaaaaand basically being a real life version of the song Mr. Bright-Side.

But the answer is..... who the fuck even cares.

The point of blocking him on everything is so that no matter what continues or changes in his life, I won't be able to see. Or care.

And since the sound of my stomach gurgling and blood leaving my face is a sign that, YES, you dumb bitch, you are still obviously nervous....

Then, no, he has not moved on. He's at home, painting a wall, and sleeping. That's all you need to keep in mind.

Plus, he sucks at talking to girls.

Or.... most people. I worry for him occasionally, but just as he said to me a few days ago, when I was overthinking, "there's no need to worry". :)

You don't give a fuck what he's up to. Don't think about it. If it makes you feel better, just imagine him sitting criss cross applesauce in front of a wall, procrastinating on painting it, since he's too busy making really stupid tweets that no one else will understand unless he went on a TED Talk explaining his *genius*, and eating a single can of chili and cardboard/cement/carpet flavored cereal every single morning.

Aim for more in life. :)

I still am struggling to organize my bedroom. Hell, I almost had to move out, last time around because of it. (By my own choice.) Now that I've finally got the money, why not just pay to get my laundry done, then have the rest of the time just cleaning out old junk, putting in new things, seperating my cookware and all that from my bags.... I should be able to do it, itll be done in no time for me.

Really hate how my hair will go back to being an afro if I put water on it, but appreciating its health right now. I'm doing good so far anyway. Switching my hair up could feel good. It was amusing seeing the way people reacted to seeing my real hair nicely done again. Even though its nearly identical to my wig, the perk about my REAL HAIR is that I won't feel like I'm losing bloodflow to my brain from wearing a wig cap, a wig, and a hat all hella stacked ontop of eachother, like they're jenga pieces. Hell, Patrick damn near dropped his jaw over it. Not sure if it was a compliment or not, but his bewilderment of "Wait, that's how your hair looks like when it's done naturally????", was.... a little amusing. Thanks, maybe!

I did look fine as fuck, yall gotta admit that.