#but it's not abt having someone who complements those bad habits--it's having them pull themselves out of that habit

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surviving on drawing/writing the barest scaffolding and filling in the rest of the blanks in my mind

#sovo art #xan x radri #torn on whether xan's marriage vows would be his classic 5 page essay or if he'd go 'you already know everything i'd say here so #let's just make this official. it's already been 3 years bc you kept accepting quests please this day was so hard to plan' #meanwhile radri only has one paragraph and she fumbles it. xan is still moved to tears however #anyway ive also been roughly altering scenes to fit radri better & feeling just slightly guilty abt it bc the way she flinches emotionally #sometimes means that xan changes to be a little gentler which may come off as ooc--but i did design her for them to go together that way... #she Is meant to change him somewhat... #her setup is perfect for jaheira not thinking that xan's the best match for her though loL #like yeah xan who defaults to silent treatment when there's an issue & radri who defaults to avoiding confrontation when there's an issue #it would appear that those issues would never get ironed out #but it's not abt having someone who complements those bad habits--it's having them pull themselves out of that habit #prompted by each other's actions--reactions--love #and they are both so scared and so brave