#dad has 5 'full' brothers and 7 half brothers so ofc you cant be best friends with everyone

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#i guess i could say my relationship w my uncles on my mothers side are better than w my uncles on my fathers side #i mean im really cool w some of my dads half brothers but his full brothers.... #dont get me wrong. i know things could be MUCH worse and its not like im not on good terms w them! but just comparing my mums brothers to #my dads brothers and how i am around each one of them is just very different. which i guess is fair? my mum only has 3 brothers while my #dad has 5 'full' brothers and 7 half brothers so ofc you cant be best friends with everyone #ANYWAY today. after the eid prayer in my dads mosque we decided to go to germany to visit my dads older brother #he (my uncle) has come to live in europe again a while back. before he used to live in afgh #anyway so they brought cake on the table but i didnt take any cuz i was playing w my little cousins. so when i sat next to my mum again (on #the couch) my uncle suddenly got up n went to the kitchen. he came back w a place and a fork and took a piece of cake. which he gave to me #i was a little surprised lol. cuz. its not always like that? usually he (or any other male relative really) would have told me to have some #cake (which would already be decent of them) or theyd tell their wife to get me a plate or something but this time my uncle himself got up #and got me cake. obv its a very small gesture but i appreciated it alot #then he asked me if i wanted some tea and started talking about how its really good tea that he got from china or india or something but i #joked that im not a tea person. i would love some coffee if he had some #and like he immediately got up again to go make me coffee #so obv i started protesting like no no i was joking you dont need to get up blah blah and he was like no! its not problem #so i asked do u have a coffee machine and he was like not i got this other thing that makes really nice coffee without much effort and he #was like let me show me so we went to the kitchen and he showed me and i thought it was really cool. i told him ive been wanting to get a #coffee machine for myself but my parents are telling me to wait and he told me i shouldnt get one bc the thing he showed me (idk the name) #is so much better and next time hes in india hes gonna get one for me aswell #and then he made coffee (which was nice) and yeah #but uh this got really long #im just trying to say that im not really used to this #to be very honest with you #i can see how close some of my cousins here are with my uncles and i do get jealous some times? a little? cuz i wanna joke w them aswell? #but its whatever #im really close to 1 uncle from my dads side but he lives in afghanistan so -_- thats not really convinient #and all of my other uncles here (or in afgh) are cool too so its all okay #aight this got way too long lmao if u still reading this................. damn..........