#idk i'm not always down to be sexting someone that's not my area of expertise & it tends to make me nervous having it expected of me fast

[silkenfur]

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#this is dumb but i'm gonna talk about it. Ok #gh. i'd been talking to this person on my other blog kind of like. casually sexually & i was interested but like #idk i'm not always down to be sexting someone that's not my area of expertise & it tends to make me nervous having it expected of me fast #without really knowing anything about that other person besides that they're sexually into me #anyway for a few days i'd been like. focusing on my IRL relationships & content/self expression over personal interaction like that #& i probably came off like an asshole who was ignoring them rather than just busy & focused on myself #bc i kept spacing on my messages or starting a convo & then getting into doing smth else #but i stress that we didn't know each other that well & their interest in me was clearly almost exclusively sexually motivated #which isn't a problem but don't expect a whole bunch of time dedicated to talking if that's all you want yk??? #being online =/= a guarantee that i'm down to sext someone. i didn't mean to hurt any feelings but ghh this is why i don't do this often. #anyway they unfollowed me lol. it's fine. But it's kinda like Ok cool.