#if you read this goo dw we're fine im just pondering

[puppygirlkat]

Looking into aromanticism and queerplatonic relationships is a lot like idk im just vibing here kinda carefree, who needs a label for what i do anyway

#i love people but i dont really identify with like the norms of romance #so i dont know if i feel 'romantic' love in the sense that many people may mean #i dont super care for dates dont wanna get married dont care to give flowers or w/e #'love languages' shit is kind of stupid #idk im not sure a lot of my relationships super resemble most peoples relationships #maybe im just overthinking things rn #like yeah goo is my partner #idk i dont like piling responsibilities on people and the pressures of traditional relationships are not really for me #placing everything into one person and expecting them to meet all your needs idk doesnt sound like its for me #perhaps queerplatonic relationships 'solve' this in the way i feel many forms of polyamory dont #but who knows #stuff to think about #rat thots #if you read this goo dw we're fine im just pondering